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My names Marissa. I have gone threw a lot in my life.So im pretty good at giving advice from my experince.I always try to answer to the best i can.So if u got a question dont be shy ask away and i will get to yuh as soon as i can.


~Marissa

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hi, 13/m
i have hair around my "butt hole". is this normal? should i shave it or something?
all fives.

it's normal,if you shave it..then it will come in more noticable each time you would shave it

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My cell phone fell into the water. And i guess i'm wanting a new one. It was a camera phone. But what are some good ones that are flip-fones and have camera and stuff.

And are Sidekicks good? What do they have?

Also. Is there any possible way to find out my contacts? Because i've tried putting my SIM card into other phones and trying to find out from there but they only give me a few.

Thank you alot. I appreciate it!

sidekick are pretty cool cell phone to have, i have one myself. Sidekicks have emailing, text, internet browsing,aim,yahoo,aol mail,calculator,of course ringtone games and such browser,games.there pretty cool and all,sidekick 2 has a camera to take pictures with and thats pretty fun to play with also,and putting your sim card into another phone you need to make sure it's still the same brand of phone like t-mobile and such. hoppe i helped

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There is this boy I have been going with for two months and his mom found a new house and is moving. When they move he will be tranferring to a new school. They keep setting these dates of when it's going to happen. Every time that date comes they don't move. When I found out he was moving I cried for two whole days. I really love him and don't want him to leave. Then he asked me if he actually does leave will we still be together. I really need some advice on if I should stay with him.

If you really love him and he really loves you the relation ship will work out just as well with just not as much seeing each other.but if you dont trust one another it wouldnt be such a great idea.so if you trust and love him 100% then your okay..and it's great you can stay with the one you love.

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Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering...should age matter in a relationship? What's your point of view on this one, like does it matter if both are close in age or far apart...by far I mean less than 5 years or so. Thanks in advance, will rate.

5 years is fine,just over dosn't seem like it would be right.but if you both love each other i guess it could work.

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well i started writing poems and songs about sucide and dieing and cutting and popping pills! im sucidal?? PLZ HELP!!
(( and plz dont tell me to go see a counslar or therpist because my family doesnt know and i dont want them to find out))

you arn't suicidal unless your actualy doing these things,now if you are i would advice you let a family member know to help.but if you don't do these then your fine and dont need a councler.

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last night I was at the movies with my boyfriend and we were making out. Then after that I noticed that he had his arm diagnal across *down there*...does that mean he had a boner and was trying to hide it?? lol thanks for the advice!!

lol he may have had a boner,or may of just laid his arm down there.

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Can a person's breasts be done growing by the age of thirteen? just curious

i'm guessing not boobs dont always grow fast so give them time they'll catch up :)

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Everyone's asking questions about cutting. Do they mean that they're literally taking knives and cutting their flesh? If not, what do they mean then? If so, why the hell would they do that? It makes no sense.

cutting is taking a sharp object it may nt even have to be that sharp and cutting there flesh.some people do this because the have depression and they feel it's the only pain they can control.some people do it because they dont like there life..other's may have gotten addicted to it from starting it because there friends did.

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what does libido mean?

1. The psychic and emotional energy associated with instinctual biological drives. 2. a. Sexual desire. b. Manifestation of the sexual drive.

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can you give me good, DETAILED directions on fingering a girl? like should i rub her stomach before i do it? i have never don it before, but my girlfriend wants me to, and i want to but i dont want to come off as really wierd and inexperienced. i want to make her comfortable, feel sexy, i want to make me comfertable and sexy, etc. so everything from A to Z on fingering (music and lighting to how many fingers!!) every single step!

thank you

i would say kiss her gentaly and message all the way down her body then once you get down there rub her clit some then once your ready slid your finger in and when comfortable add more fingers..but make sure she isnt uncomfortable with what your doing lol

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I'm just curious, how can you make yourself smell like something? Like smell like soap, and not have it wear off as soon as you dry yourself?

well they have stuff at bath and body works you can use that normally works : )

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well my boyfriend tells me im beautiful. its cute/sweet i know. but what should i say after? like can i say thanks? or something cute and unexpected. gimme ideas thnx //♥

well maybe go for the aww hun and compliment him back with something you like about him.I mean even saying thank's is good but if your going for the cuter side something like "aww thanks baby you are also" something sweet and cute like that may work

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I have had my girlfriend for 2 and a half years.... she recently had a crush on someone else who she had been spending quite alot of time with lately.... she didnt tell me about the crush, and he also happened to like her. Instead of telling me, she flirted with him, and she told him she liked him and he kissed her. She said she pushed him away and said that she couldnt kiss him because she loves me. She continued to hang around this guy hoping that situation would blow over. It didnt and he kissed her 2 more times(She kissed back a little bit before pushing him away these times) and continued to spend time with him. I didnt find this out until one of the guys friends told me about it. I confronted her and she told me the situation i had just described. She says she is really sorry and that she didnt want to hurt me and she loved me and didnt know why she kept up with this other guy. She then called him telling him that she cant ever speak with him again. I am very confused on whether or not i should break up with her because I love her so much. On the other hand im scared this could happen again. Should i break up and throw two and a half years down the drain or try and fix this up. She also seemed very sincere in her apology.....

I think maybe try to stay with her and see how it goes over.I mean two and a half years is along time to throw away,and if she really loves you like she says she wont want things to end..that or hurt you in anyway

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well i was wondering if ny1 knew any good spray/cream anything that i could use to put in my hair before or after i straighten it so its smooth. i have like black curly curly hair.or something to help it so its not so fried help! thnx //♥

maybe the anti-frizz stuff,my friend used that on her hair it worked out well and she had good looking hair with out the frizz

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How does anorexia harm you or your body? I know pukeing will stain your teeth but what else?? cuz if thats it, then whats the harm right?

Eventually you would end up dieing,your body will end up shutting down because it can't survive of whatever it's nuturing it's self off of.It isn't just your teeth being stained it's much more,being anoerxic does major harm to your body and amune system

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Hey Everyone. Well i went to someone with this same question on a different site.. but i wanted to see what others thought too.Um before i start..My name is Katie,im a girl lol, & im 14. Okay, well..My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a little over a year now. Well i have a friend we used to be like best friends, but kinda grew apart. Somewhere along the way.. my friend lets say her name isssss..um..Jane.Anyway like i was saying, somewhere along the way Jane & my boyfriend started being "best friends". Well he calls her everyday & stuff. It sorta makes me feel bad. Now i duno whats the real story behind this.. but ive asked them before if they had a little more something going on.. but they both said no. i wana believe them.. i really do. But for some reason i have a little bit of doubt.And once i even heard he asked her out when we broke up but of course we got back together. I feel like a jealous girlfriend. Am i over-reacting? Soo what do you guys think.. do they like each other & if you think so..what should i do?? im so confused.PLEASE HELP!Thanks so much!!!

Maybe you should try to figure out whats going on between them.This happend to be once before and i didn't seem to like it much.The only thing you can seem to do is figure out what they do when they talk or hang out with out you and make sure theres nothing between them.

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Im from the uk. And we all have our own slang words or buzz words for things. What does making out mean in like american terms or to anyone really! All help greatley appreciated,
thanks
anthony

making out is kissing using the tounge

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I am goin out with this kid and my friend likes him too I think I should tell her that I am goin out with him or should I not But we tell each other like every thing

I will RATED YOU HIGH
Please help mee

Always
Mee

you should tell your friend now before it gets serious because the longer you wait she will be even more mad when she find's out because she likes him and you kept it from her.

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Okay I'm 14 and My fiance is 16. We are madly in love with each other it's known, we both know it. But the thing is right now he is in houston and im in vegas we havent seen each other in over 4 months.. okay anyways im question is we fight alot what can i do to make all the fighting stop? or for it to at least calm down some. I mean we talk every day and all sorts of things but we always seem to fight about something whether it be big or small

Maybe you should calm down on the talking it seem's maybe that there's to much connection right now and your both annoyed.Maybe just take a break from talking for awhile or something till you both notice the love you have for each other and it's silly to fight.

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ok a few days ago my boyfriend was messing around down there, and he asked what these weird, almost square-like things are inside the hole. i never noticed before, but do you know what i'm talking about? kinda like ridges, but yea. i was just wondering if that's normal; i don't really know why it wouldn't be, but just incase. thanx!

This is normal..All vagina's will have ridges nothing to worry about

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