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Bassically I joined advicenators to help people. My names Sheridan♥. Most of my friends call me Sherri though. I have a boyfriend who I love very much♥ We just recently got back together again =]. So, feel free to ask about ANYTHING and I'll do my best to try and help you
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i hav this frend who thinks shez betta than evry1 else shes constantly talking about herself and nevr cares bout what any1 else haz 2 say shez obsessed wit boys and im sick of her ways. i want to stil b frendz but shes just too much and im getting REALLY sik of her. pleez help thanx
Let her cool off for a while. Show her that she's not better then everyone else and when she starts to talk about herself change the topic. Talk to her and tell her that people are getting annoyed including you. Try to do it in the nicest possible way because she might get ticked off from the way shes been acting. Or you could try ignoring her untill she gets the point. But i highly just suggest talking to her
♥_Sheridan
alright, well hopefully you can help me out with this one.. i have this friend who likes my boyfriend, but i dont want to break up with him because of her. What should i do? I dont want to lose my friendship with her but i dont want to lose what i have with my boyfriend. I am really confused and i need help with this! Please help me!!!!
xo ;;; sanddy
Well, first you could talk to your boyfriend and tell him about your friend if he doesnt already know. You shouldn't have to lose what you have with your boyfriend if you liked him and was goin out with him first. Talk to her and if it really bothers her that you guys are going out. Try not to talk about him around her as much and don't all 3 of you hang out at the same time. Things can be pretty confusing when your friend likes your boy friend. Just make sure to talk to them so you don't lose either one.
Hope I helped =] good luck
♥_Sheridan
my names sherry too.
go us.
but i love your real name, sheridan is such a pretty name!
=)
aw thank you =]
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Hello,
I am a 13 year old girl. I have a Best Friend of 8 years. I love her to death, but she gets mad at me for no reason sometimes. She'll get mad at me, and make me upset in the beginning of the day, and then will talk to other girls about me during the day, then the next morning will act like she didnt do anything to me. Although I am soo hurt inside, and I feel like crumbling up and dieing. She does this constantly. I always try to tell her how I feel about all this but she always yells at me and gets more angry at me. She doesn't know how to except my feelings. She always talks about herself too. Every word from her mouth is about HER HER HER! Everytime I bring something about me, and my life, she immediately changes the subject.
How can I fix this problem, without loosing one of my BEST FRIENDS?
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sam
This really isn't a fixable problem. You said that shes 8 years? well thats just how 8 year olds are. my sister just turned 9 and my brother just turned 8. 8 year olds need everything to be about them. She doesnt mean to hurt your feelings she doesnt know she is. You have your friends and 5 years is an age difference.. she might think that if your hangin out with all your older friends she doesnt have as much attention from you as from when you were both yonger so she does anything she can to get your attention. She'll grow out of it sooner or later its just a phase most 8 year olds go through.. you most likely did the same thing =]
♥_Sheridan
There is a guy I really like (who also has the slight potential of liking me back). He's very funny and actually very polite and nice. However, he doesn't seem to be a very devout Christian, because he cusses. Even though I cuss sometimes, I feel like he may have a bad influence on me in that way, and I know from Bible study that I'm supposed to surround myself with people who share my beliefs and are going to be a good influence. But there seems to be something wrong with that, because if I cuss now and then, I may be a kind of bad influence on others too, and they wouldn't want to be around ME either. I guess what I'm trying to ask is...would it be okay to continue to flirt with this guy and (if it works out right) date him? Sorry, this was kind of long and confusing... btw, I'm almost 16, if that helps any.
I'm also christian. My fathers more on the religiouse side then my mom and he would always talk about this stuff to me. I had a boyfriend who wasn't chrstian at all and swears all the time. I told my dad about it and he said if I like him to go for it. My dad just got remarried to someone who isn't even a christian. So I'm pretty sure it wouldnt matter if you went out with him.
♥_Sheridan
Hey coudl you help? my friends are always talking about parties and drinking and i feel kind of let out.. its making me almost want to start drinking. like i will fit in better. i know its like peer pressure but i dont know what to do anymore. I always feel like im being left out of something. And like almost all the friends i hang out with drink, and the ones i dont hang out with dont. Also they are always sorta -making fun of me. They say," OMG! can you picture her ( her meaning me ) at the party last night! and laugh.. i want to prove them wrong that i can do the stuff they do.. but im just not sure if i want to start drinking :(
If you dont want to drink you shouldnt have to. It seems as though your hanging out with the wrong people. You shouldnt have to drink or smoke or anything just to impress them. You could go to the partys and just choose not to drink that way you wont feel as left out and if people pressure you about it just tell them no and call someone to come get you. You could also talk to your friends about it. If they were really your friends they wouldnt care wether you drank or not.
I hope I've helped at least a little =]
♥_Sheridan
alright, so this kid who i like kind of asked me out, but i said no becasue i like another guy. He did sooo many things for me though, and he is sooo nice. i feel really bad about saying no though becasue i kind of lead him on. I told him i liked him and he even broke up with his girlfriend for me. i have nooo idea what to do.
okay, my first question is why did you say no? from the way you described this it seems like you like him. if you told him you liked him and he broke up with his girlfriend for you it seems like you have a better chance with this kid then the other. and if you do like him why not take a chance.. theres always another time to go out with this other person you like. Take a chance and if things dont work out tell him that youd just like to be friends and maybe some other time.
I'm not sure exactly if i helped you much but i hope I hope i did
♥_Sheridan
ok well i have this friend and i feel like she kind of uses me. like I'm always giving her rides and money and she never offers me anything. also, lately she's been really boy crazy and thats like all shell talk about.
I feel that there should be more to our friendship than just boys.
should I stay friends with her, should I talk to her about this?
What should I do?
HELP!
DON'T not be friends with her! Talk to her about how you feel about it and that its bothering you. Never let a boy come between your friendship. I don't think shes intending to use you. maybe you should ask her for rides or to borrow money or anything else you would like to borrow. The boy crazy thing is also just a phase. She'll get over it soon and you'll get your friend back =]. Make sure to talk to her though. if she doesnt know how you feel then she'll never know not to. she probably thinks you like talkin to boys. If you need anymore help im here to talk to =]
I hope I helped
♥_Sheridan
kay well i've asked questions on here before
*previous* http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=418941
* and this is kinda long but plesae and thank you for your time*
well im only 14 and like i've heard people say b4 there is no way you are depressed! well i am! at school i hide it! i smile i laugh i do whatever not to make myself upset!!* my friends have no idea what i go through and have gone through* most of them think im some happy teen whos life is pretty good** anywayssss
the teacher i talk to about this(call him coach)well i no he cares but you know how when you talk to someone about something and you know that there probably gettin annoyed by it! well thats how i feel sometimes when i talk to him! he says he doesnt and that he wants to help! okay well my main question or w.e well just recently i've been thinkin about suiced..I DONT THINK I EVER WOULD but im always upset when im not around people and i used to cut myself! i wanna tell coach but i dont want him thinking im a freak or a loser or i have some serious MENTEL ISSUES! i promise that i would never go as far as killin myself but i think about it alot! i might cut myself again but i dono sooo should i tell him or should i just keep it to myself or what??
First of all, don't cut or kill yourself that wont solve anything. I used to have some of the same problems as you do only I never went as far as cutting myself. If you think coach is getting annoyed by it then maybe you should also talk to someone else, like comming here asking people for advice is a start. Keep going to coach and talking to him. Also let him know about your cutting and suicidal thoughts. It's probably not the first time hes heard about it. Alot of people have thought about it.. or have done it. I really don't know what else to say right now about it but, if you need to talk to someone you can IM me on Oxo xxRAWRxx oxO or e-mail me at OxoxxRAWRxxoxO@aim.com. I really hope I helped
♥_Sheridan
one friend(1) said i shouldnt talk to another one of my friends(2). and so i didnt talk to friend(2) and now friend(1) is talking to them again. and now its akward talking to friend (2). what should i do?
from: NONAME
You should probably talk to friends. It may be akward talking to friend (2) but talking to them more will make things better. Try not to hang out with both of them at the same for a while because that might make things weird for you. If friend (1) tells you not to talk to friend(2) again I wouldn't listen. If there really your friend you should be able to talk to whoever you want even if there in a fight with that person. Don't get in the middle of things and when they decide to have a conflict again it might be best to just ignor there fight and when ever one brings up the topic of what side your on or to not talk to the other friend change the subjec.
ok, so i'm not really sure of myself right now. i'm not sure who i like, im getting into sooo many fights with my parents, and im doing horrible in school. i have no idea what to do becasue i've tried a million thingss.
First of all, take it easy. Don't worrie about who you like right now. Take it step by step. Talk to you parents about whats bothering you and ask them for help with your school stuff. Or you could go to friends for help. The reason your getting into fights with your parents so much is because of stress.. maybe because of friends, school, or trying to figure out who you like. Like i said before though, try and solve your school and parents problem don't worrie about who you like. It's not all about being in a relationship all the time. Stay single for a while it will take so much more stress off of you.
I hope I helped :)