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Im a really cool person who loves to talk and give advice.i love volley ball and soccer and im makin all As and Bs in school(finnaly)!!!i am currently single and supa excited to finnaly be in highschool!-anyway I am really good at writing and really want to wright a book but i know i dont have the patients for it. ive been through alot of stuff and im still here so im thankfull for that. i truelly hate people who constantly complain about the things they have because they want something better. Kids are much more fortunate than many people in other contries.they should be proud they have the freedom they enjoy and the beautiful life they live. i apprciate everybreath i have and every day that i am on this earth living the good life i live. heres some advice to people who need it now. if you have a problem always ask for help. dont think you can solve any problem on your own. youll just make the situation worse. also dont think less of yourself at all. some people dont understand that u are as powerful as the most powerfullest person in the world if you just beleive in yourself. feel free to ask a question because i will answer!!!!!!!!!!!! lots of luv ! peace!!!!!!!!!!

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sorry i dont know what category to put it in


im having a movie night tomorrow
what are some fun things we can do
we have a pool table so we're gonna play pool and stuff but any other suggestions?

truth or dare is always fun! hide in seek neva gets old to me! you could go outside and play flashlight tag at night! thats real fun! you could hav a dance contest! or maby do sum prank calls! but be carefull who you prank call(you could prank call your parents)lol!!!or there is a game where every1 sits in a circle and you make a sortof beat like(clap clap snap snap)! and u pick a category like(all the boys in your school-all the girls in your school and you could do that in alphabetical order! then you all do your beat and one by one you go around the circle saying what ever the category is and you keep goin around till sum1 takes more then 4 seconds to giv an answer!(example)--category!(boys that names start with the letter B)the first person would say---bob then the next person would say billy and then the next person would say brian ext.-- and you keep goin around until sum1 takes more then4 seconds to giv an answer! when that happnes that person is out and you keep the game goin! it doesnt matter what kinda categories you decide to choose! be creative with it and have fun! hope this helped! and i hope you have fun!!!

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Well I know what shallow is, but i wanted a real good definitions and some examples and situations of shallowness. and how shallow peopel act. Im not sure if im shallow or not. - thanks.

lacking depth of intellect or knowledge; concerned only with what is obvious; "shallow people"; "his arguments seemed shallow and tedious"===not able to think seriously or feel deeply===and now my personal definition!---when you have high standards all the time for every women you want.when you dont care about if there stuoid or smart-if there mean or nice-all you care about is there body or outer apperiance!its sort of like judging someone from the outside and not the inside! hope this helped!

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im 14 a guy and i get erections quite a lot
my penis stays hard for quite awhile is this normal?

its very normal! certain guys last longer and get harder more often then others but thats just how they function but its all normal!every1 is different in the way there body works in certain areas but just memeber that its deffinately not un-natrual!hope that helped!!

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alright so this might sound really stupid. ok well i go to this daycamp thing and there's this kid that's 11 and going into 6th grade. and im 13 and going in 8th. so he's really cute. and he likes me. and i like him. is it weird if we went out because of the age difference? and also he's short for his age, but i don't mind. thankss

absolutely not!!i jus got out of a realtionship like that!i was in the 8th and he was in the 6th!but trust me people will tease you but just ignore them cus there only jelous cus they dont have anyone for themselves!i accually am currently datin an 18 year old and im 14!lifes to short to not take chances!who knows, maby you guys will be togetrher forever!just remeber that its not always the age that matters, its the way he treats you and makes you feel that matters!i say go for it before its to late! good luck!!

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who one in the show Flavor of Love Charm School?
lol, i know, very random.

thanks

well saphyrii won but keith offered a spot in his agency for lea lean so apparently she got somethen to.she was really happy!

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I'm putting together this little notebook with meaningful quotes and sayings. I just wanted to hear what everyone's favorite quotes were. It could be about anything; love, life, death, happiness, sadness, work, friendship, etc. The quotes may or may not be from a movie.

If you have heard some kind of quote that really inspired you in some way, please share. I promise to rate! Thanks!

"it is better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all" 'socrates'
thats all i can really think of!
hope this helped!

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im not in love with him so ok??? there is this boy ok and i asked him if he likes me and he said no but he always acts like he does he looks at me all the time in class and when im alone he comes and talks with me and the other day he moved alittle closer to me while we were alone it was sooooo dreamy but if he doesn't like me why is he doing all this stuff to me????

OMG!!! the same thing is happening to me!!! and let me tell you i hate it sooo much because it confuses me. its like he says he doesnt like you but he sure does act like it!!! look over these options-1-maby hes just friendly to you because hes nice like that-2-maby hes guilty that he doesnt share the same feelings so this is his way of cheering you up(which really confuses the person!)-3-then maby he changed his mind after a while and relized he does have feelings for you. what you need to do is keep waching his actions and analize what he does around you and with the options i gave you, you should be able to make a conclusion. hope this helps!!! GOoD LUCK!!!

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How do you impress a guy you really like?? I need to know because I really like him soo much, Im falling for him. What should I do to impress him???
I need ideas anything will work, even to make him flash his sexy smile. HELP!!
♥KASSIDY

try not to be the girl in the corner that he doesnt know is in the room(if u know what i meen). always try to talk to him and make sure he knows you are listening and you care about what hes saying(give him feedback). dont be afraid to talk to him but dont hang around him every minute. any time he might glance at you give him a slight smile(a flirty smile) thats the sure way to let a guy know your interested. last thing is try not to be a stocker. know when its right to be around him and when its right to just back off a little and give him his space. GOOD LUCK!!!!! HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!

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hey gurl whats up. do you think i should go baq out with justin. i really like him and i really miss him!! so what do you think???

o well if you say that you do really like him and you do really miss him then heck yeah you should go bac with him. but only do it if these are ur true feelings 4 him and ur sure he feels the sme way about you!! good luck grl! TWEETY

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Okay, I know that just about everyone on this site (or atleast the girls) has at one point thought about what to name their kids one day, so I need your help. I need boy & girl name suggestions middle names would be helpful too. Thankyou guyss I appreciate it.

well it kinda depends on what kind of names you like. i like names with meanings and that are
unique.like-
ivora-ivory-keara-kiara-destoney-jade-crystal-eve-jewl-dimond-pearl-angel-paris-and my favorite boy name is patrick and i also like matthew

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i kinda want sex now but i want to wait till marige. and i want to not be a freakin virgin
should i have sex or wait till marrage?

well i think you should do what you think is right but what i suggest you should never do is have sex just to not be a virgin.sex is a beautiful thing that should be shared with someone special. im not saying that you shouldnt have sex befor marriage just make sure that the person is the right person for you and that your positivley ready to share with him somthing that you can never get back. just make sure your ready to make that decision because thats one of the most important decisions youll have to make in your life so make sure you choose wisely and with your heart not your hormones! well good luck!hope this helped!TWEETY

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my boyfreind recently told me he still kindof liked his ex..
and i asked him but do you like her like that?
and he said kindof
what do i do?
im balling.


i seriously think we could get married.
and hes like my soulmate..
PLEASE HELP ME!

ok heres what you need to do. ask him does he like his ex more than he likes you and if he doesnt say no than you really need to brake it off.he cant say oh well kinof or sorta a jus alittle. it has to be straight foward no. in order to have a true relationship both people have to fell the same way about each other and not have doubts about others lke their ex. if he doesnt feel the same way about you as you do about him then i deffinatley think you should brake it off before you get hurt and i jus cant stand to see any body go through that.you need to really think about whats best for both of you and the relationship.well good luck!(tell me how it goes k)hope this helps.TWEETY

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im 14 years old and a few months ago (maybe like 2) i got my period and i dont have boobs. I thought that you get them before your period? im only like a 32 A and i feel werid wearing certain shits .. when do you think ill get bigger?

many many gurls develope differently.i know a gurl who already has developed breast and im guessing might be around a high A and she still hasnt got her period. alot of gurls dont develope breast till their around maby 15 or 16. and some girls are a 32A their whole life and never get any bigger.jus try to be patient cus its deffinatley in my opinion worth the wait. good luck! hope this helps!TWEETY

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whats the point of being fingered? it seems kind of repulsive to me...i guy sticking his finger up you.

gurl i think it is jus nasty too. but i think guys do it to etheir sread the hole more so it wont hurt as much when he sticks "it" in later or to give pleasure to the gurl if she likes that or get her all horned up and ready or it also might give the man pleasure too and get him all ready.well hope this helped.TWEETY

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Aight i liked this girl and we went out a couple of times to the movies and dinner but i dont know how or if i should make a move to kiss her. We go out to the movies a lot so when would be the perfect time to make my move???? PLZ HELP!!!

ok you have to wait for her to glance at you which she should at some point and when she does just look at her and smile and leen in slowly and plant your kiss. dont wait to long cus she might turn bac around. another time that would be good is during a kissing scene or sex scene. well good luck! hope this helps!TWEETY

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Ok, the thing is I've become pretty good friends with my crush. We've hung out many times, and I've brought my friends at times too and he's met them. But now school is starting, and I'm afraid of him meeting some of my other friends, because honestly, I'm afraid he might start liking them. A lot of them are prettier and have good personalities. I know it's an insecurity of mine, but it's really bothering me. I don't know what to do, any advice will be helpful.

i know exactly what you meen. what you need to do is get closer to him. hang out with him more and try to see if he might have any feelings for you at all and if you think he does make your move!ask him out before he even has a chance to think about liking any of your other friends. good luck!hope this helps!TWEETY

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i'm usually really shy around guys and im going into my first year of high school.how can i start conversations with guys. I dont know what to say or talk about. how do i strike up a conversation. how do i know if they will want to talk back? i really could use some tips. please help

most commenly ask them what they did this summer.if there knew ask them what school did they used to go to.or what kind of music do you like to listen to. the first thing you should say is hi im (blank) whats your name? so your knew here? what school did you cme from? well how do you lke are school so far?then jus start informing him on students ad teachers because every new student lkes to be informed. this way youll make a new guy friend and hopefully later turn into something more but you hav to be patient esspicially with guys. you dont want to rush into anythng huge because its has a 90% chance of not doing very well.well hope this helps and good luck!!!and remember confedence is the key!!! TWEETY

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Usually if I had a question about a song, I would look some of the lyrics up on google to find it out .. but the problem is I can't remember this song at all. I remember the music video of a white guy driving in a car (the singer) and it flashes to a black guy who dances in front of a diner every year to try and get his lover back. He does it as a ritual because she left him or something. Anyone have any idea of the music video im talking about/know the title or artist? Thanks.

i know exackly what your talking about where the white guy is driving and stops at the stoplight and starts waching the guy dancing.then people start coming up and watch him and they start talking about how his lover who left him and he dances to the same song every day hoping his lover wuold return. i even know the beat in my head but i just dont remember what the song was called or who sings it. well sorry but goodluck!*EDIT* i jus remembered some of the words- days go by and still i think of you

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people say im really immatur and annoying.. && thats why people at my school don't like nme.. and i think another reason is becasue i act ghetto.. b/c i have black friends... so yeah i dunno what to do anymore!!! so how should i mature and not be annoying its really hard not to be!!!

what you need to do is think before u act or for u- talk. well you say thats why people dont lke you at your school but you said you have friends so dont worry about those other people. and what is this about you act "ghetto" b/c you hav black friends? let me giv you some very important advice comments lke that are reasons why according to you people call you immatur! having black friends dosent make someone "ghetto".let me educate you on something that comment rite their is pretty much insulting all black people and personally i dont appreciate it.so i think you should really take my advice into consideration and think before you speak and act because i promise that a comment lke that will get your ass beat up because some peole dont take things lke that lightly.hope this helps. TWEETY^---DOM..when it comes to the part about acting "ghetto" around black people i completley agree with tweety and i also hav to say a few words from my own personal opinion-do you even know true meaning of the word "ghetto"? if you act "ghetto" then you act like a slum section of a city or a european city that jews where are r restricted. does that really sound rite? why would you act lke a place? "ghetto" is not an adj. it a noun and if acted "ghetto" then your sayin that black people in general or at least your friends act "ghetto" which of corse cant be true. what was your deffnition of "ghetto" when you asked this question. did ghetto meen acting gangster. becaus if it did then you should have put gangster intead of "ghetto" because they are two completly different things and you shouldnt hav to act like somthing to be friends whith someone. if your BLACK friends knew what you had said then i bet you they would be pissed. from what you said i beleive that people might not lke you because you are steriotipical.jus remember to think before you say something because if you said that in the "ghetto" you might get shot or worse!!!!!! PLEASE RATE! DOM & TWEETY

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I have huge love handles and I want to get rid of them. Could someone give me some detailed exercises to do??

ok i know this sit up that you do for lovehandles. ok so you lay down lke your doing a regular situp with your legs bent then you simply turn both of your legs to eatheir the right or left but keep your back flat on the ground and you just lift up like your doing a regular situp but keep your legs bent and to the side.after your done doing how ever many you want to do you turn you legs to the other side and do the same thing. hope this helps!goodluck!!TWEETY

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