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Can you swim with contacts in??? because im going swimming tomorrow.. and i really dont want to not be able to see anything.. because ill be hanging out with my friends. and i want to be abloe to see clearly. thanks in advance! (link)
Yepp. I did just a few minutes ago. Just make sure you don't open your eyes under water though. And wipe the water away from your eyes before opening them.


What is a really good brand/type of hair straighteners??

also is there any special sprays or lotions to make your hair healthier and not damaged after straightening it so much?

thanks!!!

PS: i would prefer something thats under 40$ (link)
Straightener-Conair. My favorite is the one that comes with a little brush/comb attached to the side. It's $18 at Target.


Damage Spray-Dove Intense Damage Therapy. It's in a blueish spray bottle and is sold for around 4-5 dollars at Target.


i am addcited to food...it is like drug problem bu with food...the second my family leaves the house i binge...i spend hours while they are around thinking of what i can get next...then i feel guilty... but i dont know how to stop my cravings (link)
Right before you start eating, think. Are you eating because you are hungry? angry? lonely? or tired? Then once you've figured that out, start writing in some type of journal. Write what you're feeling, and it should help you stop. Even if you write then you still eat, that's a good start. It's not so much a physical problem as it is mental.


This is a bit random but is it ok to chew gum? I dont mean instead of a meal but between meals and etc.

Im wondering because since they're sugar-free they have sucralose (sp) and aspartame in them. I have heard both good and bad things about those sweetners. Is it ok for your health to chew 1-2 pieces a day (like Orbit), they wont make you gain weight or anything?

Thanks in advanced.

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Umm Wheeler, that had nothing to do with the question.


Chewing gum is harmless, like someone else said, it's probably good for you since you won't stuff your face with junk haha. So to answer your question. No.


14/f
There is this guy thats my friends friend, and we dont know each other very well. anyway, we met once before and my friend introduced us. then, when i was leaving, i went to say bye to my friend and the guy. but when i left he asked me what my name was. no big deal i told him again. then the second time i met him i was sitting outside with my friends. he comes up and sits really close to me, a little closer than shoulder to shoulder. i turn and look at him, and he asks me my name again. i got nervous cause he was just a few inches away from me, but i answered. was he trying to flirt with me or was he just being a jerk? (link)
Ermmm I honestly don't think he was doing either. He just wants to be your friend and to be your friend, he needs to know your name :)


I know this question probaley comes up every summer but i am seriously desperate. Okay so i am a 16 year old female and i WANT alot of clothes and alot of things..but the thing is i dont have a job. I have been trying to get one since like april right wen i turned 16. I have not had any luck at all..its awful. I do have a babysitting job but he will only call me like twice this summer. I need money!! My parents just spent 1750 on my modeling career and pictures and i wont get jobs till like september (most likely) and wen i do it will go right to my bank account for college. So they wont be helping me with money. Ahh i need a way to make money..anything would be brilliant right now!! Does anyone have any ideas?? Please just tell me them..thankyou (link)
I say work at some type of clothing stores. If they have a uniform it will be some of the clothes that they sell (so make sure you like their clothes) and if you do have to pay (which I'm sure you should) you'll get a discount. You will also get a employees discount so you will probably get a lot more clothes than you ever expected. Just make sure it's a popular store with reasonable prices, because you will probably get payed more there.


where could you find black skinny jeans beside hot topic? (link)
Amercrombie, has skinny jeans but I'm not sure if they have black...maybe a really dark wash could work too.


Ok I just recently dyed my hair dark brown. And since the dramatic change I want to know what color eye shadow would look good.

Hair Color: Dark Brown
Eye Color: Hazel
Skin Color: White girl with a sun tan


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please help. (link)
We're the exact same, haha. I could possibly be tanner than you though because no one thinks I'm actually caucasion o.o Anyways to bring out your eyes use medium to light pink, light brown, and chocolately brown.


this summer i really want to make a whole new me!!

right now i have blonde/brown hair and about shoulder length, layers, and i normally part it in the middle

so yeah... i want to make a whole new me

i want-

dye my hair completely brown
let it grow out (maybe underneath my breasts length)
keep my layers
get sidebangs
part my hair to the left or the right


as for make-up, i normally wear a gold shimmery eyeshadow up until my brow bones, then blush, mascara, black eyeliner, and some lip gloss


my mom tells me i wear too much make-up... how should i make the make-up less visible but still make me pretty?

do these changes seem good to you? if not, please give me tips
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Love the hair idea. I would say part it to the left but not too much. As for the make up, only wear a leetle bit of mascara, no more blush, just powder, brown eyeliner so it's not as heavy, and no more shimmery gold eyeshadow, use muted greens, and pinks and browns and don't go above the crease because above there is a danger zone and you're risking being very cheap and trashy looking.


another wieght question
ya ive used google and some sights said im under some said im avarge but i really just want to ask people here who are mabie simalar size from personal experience

13/f 5'2 i wiegh 97lbs ,, 35 inches arround the stomch.

what do yal think? (link)
I'm almost 13, 2 inches shorter than you, and I only weight 79 lbs. If you're underweight, then I'm anorexic haha. But I'm not so you're just fine.


my friends are yelling at me alot for saying i'm fat, but i really do think i am.
they say i only weigh that much because my boobs are so big (36 c)
i was hysterically crying last night because of how i looked in the mirror.
i can't get over it.
i was even bullemic for about a month,
but then i heard that thats bad for your vocal cords, so i had to stop.
if your 5'1" is being 119 lbs gigantic or only a little big? (link)
Girl, you are NOT fat :) Enjoy life, and don't worry too much about your weight unless it becomes a serious health issue!


Okay I saw my friend wear this really pretty skirt. I can't ask her where she got it because she's the type that would say "NO! DON'T COPY ME! IT'S MINE! BLAH BLAH" so I see no point in asking.
:/

It looked similar to this :
http://www.bombayharbor.com/productImage/0206223001144133162/Skirt.jpg

but it was a light red-pink color. A bit shorter. Dark shades going to lighter shades to the bottom. I think you call it a "tiered skirt" ?
It was also a bit frayed. [That's why I want it. I like it]

Has anyone seen it? I don't go out shopping much so I don't know what store would carry that kind of style of clothing.
Websites? Or have you seen anything similar to what I described? Maybe not exact color or length.
Thanks (link)
I'm pretty sure JC Penney has a BUNCH of those. Target may have some aswell. Sorry for not giving detail, but hey I got straight to the point, right? :P


how do I hook up without messing up. i'm hanging with this guy his weekend and i think were going to.. Ive heard people in my grade msissed there lips and kissed there chin. how do you land on there lips if ur eyes are closed. how dou breath and how do u no how to get your tounge in there and move it around!!!!!!! AH HELP (link)
Ok here's my guide to kissing (even though I've never done it, myself)

1. When neither of you are talking, but you just know those emotions are flying around, that's when you kiss.

2. Lean your head to the right.

3. The first kiss shouldn't be with tongue, you could get a bad rep. so take baby steps. You have to crawl before you can walk.

4. Slowly close your eyes when goin in for the kiss, like the lights that you can dim. When your lips touch, completely close your eyes.

5. Have fun! And I wish you the best of luck.


Is it slutty for a girl and a guy (that liked each other) to publically, loudly, & obnoxiously flirt..like in class? How far would be too far?

Thanks (link)
It's not slutty it's just annoying...I'm not trying to be harsh but I mean, that's my opinion about it. Just publically flirting is no biggy but doing it obnoxiously and loudly is crossing the line.


15.f
okay so this guy likes me. I don't feel the same way about him though. He tried asking me out twice so far this year. the first time I told him I still had feelings for my ex (which was true) the second time he asked me out again I told him I had a boyfriend (which I did) and now were broken up and he asked me out again through e-mail today. I don't know how to tell him no. I just don't have feelings like that for him. What would the best way to tell him? (link)
Just say:

You're a good guy and all but I don't exactly 'Like you, like you'. I just want to be friends with you.


i say making-out is kisssing for moree than maby 10 seconds but my boyfriend said that making-out is kissing and touching each other while your kissing.he'se convinced of his side but im very sure im right i just wanna make sure. (link)
Kissing=Mouth closed, or peck on the cheek.

Making Out=Tongue, Longer than normal (but with tongue), and a leetle touchy (with tongue) haha.

So basically making out always include tongue :P


okay so i can be out in the sun all day and i dont get burnt at all..i honestly cant remember the last time i was burnt. but does this mean i should still use sun tan lotion?? because i still want to get a tan. (link)
The same thing happens to me, you need to use either SPF 4 or SPF 15 because not using at least SOME sunscreen can put you at risk for early aging (wrinkles) or skin cancer.


Does 93 pounds seem overwieght for a 12 year old female? (link)
You're just right :) ....Or atleast I think xD Well I'm pretty sure the average weight is between 80-85 so being 93 isn't bad.


well im like the luckiest girl ever because i have the cutest, funniest, sweetest boyfriend in the world and i know he really loves me. the problem is, everyone else likes him too... and he's always telling me about it. every other day he tells me "i think sarah likes me" or "john said ashley wants to go out with me". i know he's not making it up, cuz i hear those things too. and i dont really think he's saying it just to make me jealous, cuz he kinda brags about other stuff too (like how his coach says he's so good at football). i think it just makes him feel good that all these girls like him, and he likes talking about it. but it REALLY makes me mad!! i just want to tell him "i dont want to hear about which girls like you!" but on the other hand, maybe i should be glad that he's so open with me instead of keeping it a secret. should i tell him to quit bragging about his fan club, or should i be thankful he tells me things and try not to let it bug me? (link)
When he says stuff like that just smile and say "Well I know this girl, who claims to be your girlfriend, who really likes you too! Ummm I think her name isssss [enter your name here]." Just make a joke out of it, and be glad he's so open with you.


I don't personally wear abercrombie or hollister, because i know longer like it. mostly because, loser people pushed me away from it. they told me that i was being a follower, and that i should get my own taste in fashion. well, that was my taste in fashion. i actually liked it. i wasn't just following the crowd. and now, that i dont shop there. im like lost, i never know where to go. and thats not fair, that they always bugged me about it. and i even see like, on here, where people say that if you buy that stuff, then you dont know what fashion is, and your not grown up because you cant get your own opinion on things. well isnt that kinda being judgemental? i mean, not everyone is just following the crowd. i dont understand why some people make such a big deal out of it. i mean, why cant people just wear whatver they want? its just clothing? why dont those people just care about themselves? and worry whats going on with them?

i honestly, dont get that. so if your one of those people who told people that people are followers who wear abercrombie, or whatver. just someone please explain this to me. (link)
They need to GET OVER THEMSELVES. Just because Amercrombie is popular, doesn't mean you are a follower or whatevs when you wear it. I LOVE it but I don't have many clothes from there since the closest one is at least an hour away. You should say 'Go perfect your own outfit, and then you can talk about mine. Because as far as I know, your outfits ain't so perfect either.'




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