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There is this guy I like, and its like taking over my life.. all the sudden thats all i think about, its crazy! I can't conentrate anymore, even when I'm with my friends.. i dont pay any attention to them. I haven't told anybody that I like him. But how can I stop thinking at him ALL the time? -- Love *Melissa* (link)
Umm...hm...


Aight... There is this girl that i am extremely attracted to... We have similar intrests, we go to the same school....But i dont think she is interested as i am.. I mean i know she is cool with me and im cool with her i just want to Up it... What the hell shall i do? (link)
If she likes you as a friend then she's obviosly interested atleast a tad. Show her you like her, and god just ask the chick out.


my boy friend has been ubducted by the new game halo 2...he is obsessed! how can i get him back??? (link)
Leave it alone. He probably doesn't really want you playing it with him if you're not very good bc that's just not fun for him. Give it some time he'll eventually only play it for 5 hours a day.


Okay about a week ago I started going out with one of the most hottest guys you will ever meet and I have liked him for a long time. Well on Tuesday he broke up with me but told my friends all over the school to tell me that it was over. So I was hecka mad and started crying when I got home. But then on Wednesday I was better and was laughing and saw him and he said he wanted to talk to me. I asked him y he broke up with me and he said because i was cheating on him andI really wasnt and I hecka like him and want to go back out with him. Wut should I do? I am a 13 year old female! (link)
Tell him u like him and that u didn't cheat on him, if he doesn't believe you he isn't worth it. No guy is worth ur tears!! Just ask the kid back out.


ok i have a rash on my back, it has little red bumps going all down my spine.. its really ichy and really red! im really scared because i dont know what it is!! PLEASE HELP ME IM SO SCARED!!!!!!
Thanks so much for all y'all who can help!
*mar* (link)
Ask the mom.


Ok... so there is this guy, he is a senior. I am a freshman. He came over to my house this afternoon and at first we sat across the room from eachother and then he threw a pillow at me and the we got in a pillow fight and then my dad came downstairs and told me to behave so "adam" says yea sit down and behave and pointed to the seat next to him, so I say down, then he put his arm around me and we just flirted around for and hour. Do you think he likes me?
Thnkz
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Muhbe.. but usually seniors don't like freshman for a girlfriend, they just want to get in bed with you. And usually the seniors that go out with the freshman don't have a chance with anyone in the sophomore, junior or senior class.


13/f

Hi,
I am doing a play with a kiss scene. And the person that I happen to be kissing is my guy friend. So its really akward. I really try to make it non-akward after but somehow it just is. And I was going to do the "theatre illusion" of kissing someone but the drama teach says it looks to obvious (putting your thumbs over the person's mouth and kissing your thumbs). Is there any other way to make it illusion? so its not all akward. We already kissed for once and for real. Boy, I was mad. All my friends are like aw, you should go out with him. I mean for heaven's sake! It was a staged kiss!
Any adice?
Por Favor :)
xo0x Pucker Upp (link)
after awhile it won't be wierd. You're friends will get over it. But do u like him? If you didn't it wouldn't be as wierd as u say it is.


I have a sister who is almost 18, and I am 16 and she treats me pretty badly. Now, I know that is typical for two sisters to do while both in high school. She doesn't have a lot of friends and not many people like her because she is rude to everyone and talks down to people a lot. I started high school this year, at a new school, and a lot of new people. Now, the people I have been going to school with for the past 6 or so years treated me horribly in Elementary school, so I left and went to another school. There I was treated bad to, so I decided to go back to the junior high everyone I knew was going to. My 9th grade year, I did alright, I became friends with people I never thought I would, but this year, because of my sisters reputation people are talking trash about me, and telling me I'm not worth there time. I don't really have any friends, I sit in the library at lunch, and most of the time I don't really talk to anyone. I was wondering if there was a way to meet new people, or some way to not let them judge me for who my sister is? It hurts to be left out, and forgotten by people because of someone else. Thank you. (link)
I'm sorry. Maybe try joining 'clubs' and stuff. Be yourself around people and i dunno just be nice. But if you're to up in someone's face they'll just get annoyed. Hmm i don't know how to put this but just be open to anyone, if someone is talking trash about you they obviosly wouldn't be a good friend neways.


So I have been hooking up with this guy for a few monthes... lets call him josh. So josh is really cute and i do like hooking up with him. the only problem is, he is dating my ex-best friend. I havent hooked up with him while they have been dating, but i really want too, and im sure i could hook up with him if i wanted too. I go to a differant school then my ex-best friend but the same school as josh, only he is a grade older. I really wanna hook up with him again, but i dont know if I should because of his current girlfriend. Please help me. I don't want to be a slut for doing this, i just have liked him way before my ex-best friend has ever known him! (she basically stole him from me too)thanks for the help... i really appreciate all your responses!
- Katherine (link)
Hmm okay. Sounds like Josh didn't really like you or he would've gone out with you. Find some other guy.. it's the same thing if all you want to do is hook up with him.


I pull out pieces of my hair when i get stressed out angry or bored...i dont know why i do this i guess because i need some way to show my feelings...and i couldn't ever cut myself... i dont know what to do or why i do this... can someone help me!? (link)
Haha it must hurt. Try not pulling ur hair out and see how it goes. Or buy a wig and pull those hairs out.


i need some advice please!! on thursday there isnt any school, so me and my boyfriend are planning to go out for a movie, and then over 2 his place. its just going to be us to, and of course we will be doing something! we both are ready to loose it, its just that:

1. im scared i COULD get pregnant
2. im just a lil nervous cause i dont know what to do
3. im sorta of on my period, im bleeding just a tiny, and what if i smell bad?! (link)
don't have sex during ur period.. ew.
You should be..use a condom but u stil might get pregnant.


okay there is this totally cute guy that I have liked for about a year or more.Last weekend I was at his house I kissed him and he kissed me back. I know there was something there, but we got caught by my dad. My dad didnt know that I had liked him for that long.Now both my parents dont6 want me to see him so I feel trapped and dont know what to do. I have cried over this guy many times and never knew he liked me.He knows how I feel about him and he says he doesnt want a girlfriend right now which is totally fine but now things are weird between us. How do I ask him out without getting hurt.PLZ HELP!!!! (link)
You'll get hurt. He doesn't want a girlfriend, basically he's 'not that into you'.


1. I want to go to a tanning bed, BUT, i heard it causes skin cancer, Does it really? Alos, I want to get a tan and I know its fall/winter almost. Would it look stupid? And how much do they usually cost? And do you have to be skinny to go to one? (link)
It does cause skin cancer. Did u no tknow that? It won't look stupid, most people are naturally tan. And it does cost some money..that's why richer people usually have it done and no u dont have to be skinny? Don't do the mist on.. it sometimes looks strange depending on what color u are naturally.


Why is it that whenever i try to view someone's advice column this message appears on the web page rather than the column...
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Your knowledge would be appreciated.. (link)
Ha i dunno.


What do I do when everything is way too much for me and I'm so angry that I'm afraid I'll hurt my friends, I never get this angry, it's driving me nuts, I have always been so calm and sweet, now I'm some bitch that goes with the crowd. What do I do now? (link)
Umm I'm not really sure what you're talking about. Maybe you're just stressed from school?


The other day I asked you about my brothers friend Seth and if he likes me, and yes he is definetely mean to me when my brother is around and when he is not he is wicked nice to me. Is that a sign of flirting?
Please help out.
Jess (link)
I'm sorda going through the same thing and I'm not completely sure. I think he does like you but he wants to seem cool infront of your brother. Sorda two faced? Maybe try waiting it out but going for it at the same time. Bc i do think he likes you.


I am taking mid terms tomorrow. (I know it's early for mid terms but my school does a different schedule.) I have Theatre Arts first period and 20% of our grade for the exam is a performance. My teacher has given me a script to memorize with a partner, it's basically a conversation. It's very short but I'm so nervous about my other tests I can't think straight and I can't memorize this! I've been able to memorize a 2 page monologue in the past and I don't understand why I can't memorize 16 stupid lines. Does anyone have any tips on ways to memorize my lines? I've already tried reading them. Yeah... it's not working. Thanks if you can help! (link)
TAke a line at a time. Then keep adding lines! Good luck! Hope i'm not to late!


what is a good black eyeliner? im useing mac right now and in school im in swim class and even when im not wet it seems 2 run down my face.. Does ne one know a good black eyeliner that does not run when i get wet or ne thing.. THANKS (link)
marykay


I really like my brother's friend, Seth. Everyone says he likes me too, but sometimes he can be rude in front of me. I don't know if guys do that asa flirting sign or what. I mean we are perfect for each other, we are both christians and we are waiting to have sex until we're married. How perfect would that be to be together for the first time when we're married. I just like him so much and I need help getting him to notice me and I need to know signs that guys give for hints that they like me. Please help!
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I think he likes you but when he's rude is it when you're brother is around? He might be uncomfortable.


I've liked this one guy, Bob, for a while now. And he said he likes me and all, but he also likes a couple other girls. He told me this maybe a month or two ago, so I'm starting to think that he just likes being liked (because a lot of girls like him). And I'm starting to think that he doesnt really like me, even if he does act like it.

Anyway, I met this other guy, Bill, and I'm starting to really like him. and i heard that he wants to ask me out. but i still like Bob a little bit. even though im getting over him pretty fast.

should i go out with Bill even though I still kind of like Bob? or should i wait until I'm fully over Bob to go out with Bill?

thanks so much (link)
Lol Bill and Bob. Go for Bill.




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