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i have ALWAYS wore my hair really long, like down my whole back, and i really want a change so i was thinking of cutting it short, like at my shoulders

does short hair make you look younger though?
i hatee when people say i look younger then i am so i dont wanna look like a little girl, does it depend on the person?

I think it depends on the person. I mean some people look older then they are so short hair would look good on them.
This website will really help you decide what to do;
http://free-beauty-tips.glam.com/hairdos.html

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My face will start to blush or turn really red and sweat a little at the most random times. Its usually when I give a presentation or ask a question in class or even if any attention is called to me. It also happens just out of no where for no reason I can think of. How can I prevent this and get rid of it? Its very embaressing and have no idea to tell when it happens unless someone brings it up or if I feel it. Please I really really need help with this. I have a few presentations coming up at school next week so help me out. The crap about "believing in yourself" and confidence doesn't help at all so please dont say that. If anyone has any advice at all please tell me.

thanks

When I feel embarrassed I think of humiliating things that happened to other people to cool myself down. You might want to stick to things that aren't funny because you might start laughing :[ but if you stick to things that happened to other people, then it should be fine.

Try to act as if you are just practicing at home. Pretend that there is no one there and if you begin to sweat, its okay. It happens to everyone.

I recommend, incase my tips do not work for you, to bring a napkin and fold it and just lightly tap your head. Its nothing to be embarrassed about.

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Does anyone know the song playing in the background of this video?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=uiFM4acUSZo

I tried googling, but I can't find them. Sorry!

The Greatest Story Ever Told by Oliver James

Thank you for this moment
I've gotta say how beautiful you are
Of all the hopes and dreams I could have prayed for
Here you are
If I could have one dance forever
I would take you by the hand
Tonight it's you and I together
I'm so glad I'm your man
And if I lived a thousand years
You know I never could explain
The way I lost my heart to you
that day
but if destiny decided I should look the other way
then the world would never know
the greatest story ever told
and did I tell you that I love you
tonight
I don't hear the music
When I'm looking in your eyes
But I feel the rhythm of your body
Close to mine
It's the way we touch, it soothes me
It's the way we'll always be
your kiss your pretty smile
you know i'd die for
oh baby
you're all i need
And if I lived a thousand years
You know I never could explain
The way I lost my heart to you
that day
but if destiny decided I should look the other way
then the world would never know
the greatest story ever told
and did I tell you that I love you
just how much i really need you
did I tell you that I love you
tonight
tonight
And if I lived a thousand years
You know I never could explain
The way I lost my heart to you
that day
but if destiny decided I should look the other way
then the world would never know
the greatest story ever told
and did I tell you that I love you
just how much I really need you
did I tell you that I love you tonight

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Hiya, my ipod is stuck on pause no matter what I do I only got it yesterday its the new apple classic and its stuck on pause. Ive tried restarting it pushing the middle button but nothings happening?
What should I do?
xx

The same thing happened to me. What you should do is just leave your iPod alone until it is shut off because it ran out of power. Then plug it into your computer and wait for it to charge. For me, after that everything was fine. Worst comes to worst, you bring it to the store and ask for help:]

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I have a crush on a boy that live in my nieghtbor hood his 12 and I'm 13 help

There is nothing wrong with that. See the thing is most girls feel the need that guys must be older but it doesn't need to be that way. Go for it:]

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I started Middle school this fall. I made a lot of friends this year. My best friend and I are in the same lunch and she keeps giving off this vibe that she is angry with me. Z (my bff) and I haven't fought at all this year and I didn't spread any rumors or snub her or anything, but she seems mad at me. Neither of us are part of the "in" crowd, though we have friends in it. We sit at the same lunch table, but she barely speaks to me. We used to be really close. Sorry for the length, but any advice would be greatly appreciated!

I think you need to tell Z how you feel and ask her if she is mad. I think any sort of relationship is built on honesty, communication, and love. So if Z is your true friend she will communicate with you and be honest in a nice way. Worst comes to worst you two do not talk.

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i'm look'n for a dress that is either black and or green/emerald....
i REALLY want this one..but its to expensive...

http://www.promgirl.com/shop/dresses/viewitem-FA226898

or something that looks like this one...

http://www.debshops.com/Fashion/ViewDetail.asp?page=4&CatID=144&CENID=2956
except i want black and or emerald/green

but i cant go over 80$....

i know i've tried ALOT of websites but if you have any specific URL's or anything, that'd be awsome.
THX

Some of the dresses on here look very similar;
http://www.nextag.com/chiffon-dress/search-html

Here they have cute emerald dresses just for more ideas;
http://www.nextag.com/emerald-green-dress/search-html

This is a nice color green;
http://cgi.ebay.com/NEW-SeXY-LiME-FoRMaL-DReSS-PRoM-BRiDESMAiD-6_W0QQitemZ160196539819QQihZ006QQcategoryZ63861QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem

This will be a BIG help;
http://clothing.listings.ebay.com/Bridesmaids-Dresses_Green_W0QQsacatZ105526QQsocmdZListingItemList

Just more suggestions;
http://www.nextag.com/bcbg-dress-green/search-html

Very sophisticated;
http://www.nextag.com/dress-green-halter/search-html

A great dress that is under your budget;
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=279124&CategoryID=27228&LinkType=EverGreen

Just a little over budget;
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=270001&CategoryID=27228

Really cute;
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=245698&CategoryID=18109&LinkType=EverGreen

The spearmint color is really cute.
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=290835&CategoryID=21542&LinkType=EverGreen

Under budget:]
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=245698&CategoryID=26682

The green looks cool;
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=257147&CategoryID=26682


GOOD LUCK:]

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I recently found out that my baby is going to be a girl. I was just wondering what everyone thought of naming her Gracie Mae. Please be honest!

I think that that is so cute. I can imagine myself saying Gracie why are you so gray-gray. hehe.

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I'm a lesbian, and as a big prank for my first college bout I cut my hair to look like a boy and I plan on going to campus monday as a male. I searched the web to find some good sites on advice to look more like a man but came up with nothing but stuff for men to look like women.
Can you guys offer any tips? Like what to do about these things on my chest? Or how to walk, sound, and dress like a man?

Well, maybe if you once and a while compliment girls, it could totally help your cover. A movie that could help you is She's The Man. It's about a girl who pretends to be a boy for soccer.
Try to remember to keep your legs open and always act like a slob. I'd suggest wearing loose tee shirts to hide your chest. If someone asks about your chest say you have been working on your abs:]
Good Luck "Dude" :]

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well earlier today, my friend came up and whispered into my ear emily has a muffintop its sick. And i was just like ewww. And then she asked me if i knew what a muffin top was, so i just said yeah so i didn't look stupid. So could you tell me what it is?

thanks

Its basically when you wear pants that are too tight and it makes your fat hang out from the side.

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ok i want to kno if getting ur belly button peirced hurts, and if so how much???
is it relle hard to take care of and too much of a hastle? thanx

When I got mine pierced it didn't hurt. It just startled me when the man clamped my belly but after I got really sore. The soreness really hurt but the actual piercing was decent.

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when is the peoples choice awards?

Its at 9PM EST

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ok does it hurt to get done up the butt?
or does it feel good?
please help!!! thanx

All my friends say it hurts a lot but the guy loves it.

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What are some morals you live by?
Not ones deriving from religion...just those that are usually left "unsaid".
For example, one would be:
don't speak badly of anyone.
Can someone provide me with more?

Treat Others The Way You Would Want To Be Treated.
[The Golden Rule]



Jesus is in everyone so love everyone like they are Jesus

God says let's meet at my house on Sunday before the game.

If we were to have a religion class, would you pass?

If God had a wallet, your picture would be in it.

If you don't feel close to God, guess who moved?

Yesterday was the Past. Today will be forgotten tomorrow. Live in the present because it is your gift.

What part of thou shall not don't you understand?

Why worry. God has it under control

Bible means Basic instruction before leaving Earth.

God's gifts are never loans, they are deposits.

Good Luck:]

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15f and i get really dizzy alot lately...i do get car sick, but i dont know if that matters. its like when i am dancing for even 5 minutes...I feel really lightheaded and my stomach feels sick. when i play a sport...and we have to run alot, my stomach feels upset (location: the like part where your ribs start to curve down and there is stomach) even if i twirl around like twice it makes me sick...is this normal? what do i do??? PLEASE HELP!!!! thanks!

It may be because you haven't eat enough or you need more of a certain food group in your body. I recommend you see a doctor.
Good Luck.

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what are some songs to get you "pumped up" for a game of sports? 15f
for some examples of ones i already have:
~dont stop the music-Rihana
~shake-ying yang twins
~stronger-kanye west
things with a high beat like that...
thanks!!!

Low by Flo Rida
What Hurts The Most by Cascada
Piece of Me by Britney Spears
Heaven by DJ Sammy
See You Again by Miley Cyrus
Give It Up To Me by Sean Paul
1985 by Bowling For Soup
High School Never Ends by Bowling For Soup
U and UR hand by Pink
Pump It by The Black Eyed Peas
Move It by Reel 2 Real
Thats All I Can Think Of. Good Luck:]

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I love Mayday Parade, Sherwood, October Fall, and Cute is what we aim for...does anybody know any other bands that have that type of music without any screaming and heavy meatal and song names would be fantabulouss :) thanks guyss.

Songs;
Heels Over Head - Boys Like Girls
Paramore - Crushcrushcrush
Paralyzer - Finger Eleven


Bands;
Between The Trees
New Found Glory
Boys Like Girls
Paramore
The Academy Is...
Gym Class Heros.

My Sources; http://www.fueledbyramen.com/

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http://i167.photobucket.com/albums/u140/bumarse/eyeliner.jpg

The Pic above...
How can I do my eyeliner like that girl has...
I mean I'm not a stupid 10 year old asking how to USE eyeliner..
I've just been trying but can't achieve those eyes :(

So generally...just how to do that :)

Thanks.

It seems to me that girl just put on a thin layer of eye liner around her eye and darkened it[not too much] on the sides away from her nose.
Good Luck.

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ok my friend told me today that chris brown and channing tatum are gayy is that truee?

Channing Tatum is bi but I am not sure about Chris Brown but he sings about girls so I highly doubt that he is gay

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hey guys, this is lindsay from SWEETXLOVE and i was just wondering if it was possible to put more pictures on my profile; thank you!

What I do if I want more pictures is I make a collage. Go on to paint first. Open your picture. Then use your mouse to make the picture bigger. After that click paste from then click on another picture that you like and paste it next to the other one. Repeat if pleased. After you are finished save it and either go to tinypic.com or photobucket.com and get the URL.
Good Luck:]

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