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Q: ok ya*ll i have this big crisis i went out with this guy for a month and a half and it was the best time of my life but now all the sudden its over and then i found out a guy from another school likes me and i think i like him too but im not too sure b.c. deep down i still have tons of feelings for my ex and i have no idea what to do now b.c. i still feel empty without him and i would give anything to have him bak but then the other day i found out he liked me stil a lil bit too but then he started ignoring me and he dosent answer my calls and i think i like this guy from the other school too HeLp MEE!!!!~MaNdIE~

Well if your ex doesn't talk to you then he is not good for you. You shouldn't date the other guy if you dont know him. If you do I would just hang around with him to see how he acts around his friends. Then if he asts good then asked about you too. Chances are if you too already know each other then your love life will go great!

Q: i wanted to know if i should switch schools...cuz i have like 4 friends in my school now...n i dont wanna leave em...but i reli hate this school soo much..n its not like i am moving further away...id juss b switching schools...but idk what to do...cuz i love my 4 friends but lifes hectic in that skool n makes me wanna do serious stuff to myself...plz help me
-Jenn-

I would just leave. also you should talk to someone about it. You might end up with some sort of disorder, I also could be bad. And your friends could see you after school all the time. Also you should check out the other school before you switch. just to make sure it is not like your other school!

Q: i really really love this guy but hes might best friend. im not sure if he likes me so i dont want to tell him how i feel. what should i say?

Well first you should ask him how he feels about you like if he thinks of you as a sister or as a friend. If he thinks of you as a friend you should tell him how you feel and ask if he feels the same way. If he has another girl friend just tell HIM and only him how you feel but dont ask to date.

Q: I am going through a break up because my boyfriend just wants to give up on our relationship all of a sudden. Now this is a big deal because a child is involved. We have worked through everything for years and now all of a sudden when we have a family started he wants to run and give up? I am extremely hurt and I wish I could just be calm and move on with my life and say well, he's just stupid. But I am so angry and I just want to scream at him so bad but I know that could make things worse. How do I be a calm, cool, and collected person so that there is a chance that he may want to work through this? I don't want to be that angry girl with sarcastic comments comming out of my mouth every five minutes...it's really hard to control guys, I am so mad at him for giving up at the worst time. I wish I could do something as simple as smack some sense into him, but I know I can't. He doesn't understand that he's messing up a chance for our child to create family childhood memories and everything. How should I be throughout all of this? I really need advice I am so lost, I have crazy mixed emotions and my anger is so huge. Please please please help!! We can't afford couples counseling either. thanks.

Well first you should sit down and talk to him. Ask him if he does leave what would happin to the baby. Also you should have him stay at a family members house and ask him how much he missed the baby. once he notices how much that might make him stay. Also you should show him what you wrote because some guys just think the girl might not be ready, But once he sees your Question he will know how you feel. You said you couldn't afford couples counseling; You should save up for it once he decides to stay!

Q: aarrrgg!! okay i kno this is wrong but it makes me sooo mad! okay so i am an only shild and everyone thinks that yea i am spoild but im not! my parents work soo hard to make shua im not spoild that i barley get anything! i mean they give me the basics you knoe clothes shelter and food. well i always have to save up my own money for anything that i want. like last summer i wanted a trampoline so i worked really hard and i save up money and bought my trampoline. well my best friend saw that i got one so she asked her parents to get her one and they did! well yea i was disappointed cuz i worked really hard and she just had to ask for it. this went on when i saved up for my cell phone and this really cute sweat shirt and with designer bags and everything!! aarrgg!!! why is everyone soo spoild! idk i prolly sound like a brat but i feel like im being cheated! and she always get the sam exact thing as me the very next week!
help me please

Well this person you are talking about is probable going to end up getting everything she wont but when she becomes older she wont get all that. But you work hard and you get the job done. You will be able to get anything you wont because youcan work. She cant work because she never has worked at anything before. People will look up to you because you get the job done. You should just feel good that you got it for yourself.

Q: Hi, i went to skewl at a catholic skewl, but we lived with my grandmom so we moved away, far away. I like my neew house and all but now i live really far away from my best friends. I miss them a lot and i call them a lot. But i keep getting scared thinking that in like 1 month we wont be friends anymore. Its a scary thought and we probably wont be friends 4ever. But i'm 13 yrs old and it would be great if we could be friends till we get our licenses (driving). Does any1 kno how we can be friends that long?

Well.... There is not realy a lot to say exept call a lot. And when you go back to viset make sure you get too see yout friends. Also make sure you remember B-days and stuff like that. send the letters and kewl card. then when you are able to drive you can drive to see them

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Q: There's this friend I have and her name is Kellen. She's really sweet, quiet, a good friend, and she's 15. And she has this boyfriend who is 18 and his name is Nick. He's fun, loud, and likes to mess around with everybody while Kellen is usually the girl in the back (I mean the girl who doesn't say anything unless she definetley has to answer). And last Sunday, Kellen, Nick, and I were hanging out at the mall. Kellen went to get ice cream for all of us and I stayed with Nick at the table. And Nick said "Well, you're getting more and more beautiful day by day. One of these days you'll be mine." I didn't say anything because I was embarrassed (and because I'm only 14). And Kellen came back and I pretended nothing happened because I also felt bad for Kellen. What should I do? Should I tell Kellen? Or should I leave it alone?

Well usually If you just let something go like that it ebds up getting worst when she realy finds out. so I would just tell her. Also he might not only be doing it to you he could be toing it to tons of other girls.if ou find yourself were you cant tell I would go tell someone else fist the they might tell Kellen.

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