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Hey...Im sabrina.
Im 18, I may be young, but i have been through many things i thought would never in a lifetime happen to me! I try to give the best advice i can, so feel free to ask me anything!
*Bri*

advice

when people ask me to play 20 questions sex version, i can't really think of anything good.
i'm a girl. guys ask me. just to get that out there.
and stuff more than, have you jacked off, watched porn, came.
you know.
i'm just not good at this game. but i have a very sick mind, so i don't know why i can't think of anything good.

ask stuff like favorit sex positions..
craziest place they've had sex...
worst experience...
funniext experience....
:)

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18 years old female
i would like to know if you think he is joking or not, please dont judge me or tell me what or what not to do.

here's a little background, you must know.
i have a best friend. he is 17. we've known each other for about 3 years. he has a girlfriend of two years. i've always liked him, and im sure he knows that. this was his first girlfriend. they do everything together and i mean EVERYTHING (if you know what i mean) well im still a virgin, never done anything except madeout with two guys. me and my best friend drifted after he started going out with his girlfriend, and it really depressed me. we didnt talk or see each other for two months straight. i know im in love with this kid, and well tonight i got a text from him saying "wanna fuck" and he never randomly texts me saying that so i was like who is this! and he was like wow really, this is nick! and i was like no it's not. we havent talked for two months and you randomly text me saying that? and so i found out it really was him, i think he was kidding. but then we got on the subject of boys and i was like "i never get any action, or i havent gotten any in awhile" and he was like ha because i havent been giving any to you. and i was like i know nick why cant you give it to me and he was like i asked if you wanted to fuck and i was like hell yeah i want to fuck you. and he was like ok lets do it and i was like you wouldnt be able to handle me and he was like yeah right why not. and i was like i have a side to me you have never seen ;) and i was like im NOTHING like your girlfriend. and he was like why cant i see this side of you then and i was like oh you will, and i was like i will be better than your girlfriend ever will be and he was like ha ok!!! and then i was like ahhh i love you best friend and he was like love you tooo! and then that was it.

keep in mind that he tried fingering me and getting down my pants a few months ago but i just couldnt let him do that, because i KNOW he is not a player. but the bad thing is i have a really reallly strong feeling he isnt joking about the sex thing, and im not either. i would do it with him if he was being serious. i know its wrong, he has a girlfriend. but seriously ive waited for two years, im fed up. he is the ONLY guy i can ever see myself doing anything with.

what do you guys think?

This is tough, but i dont think you should go for it...i know its not what you want to hear. but if you know he is a player, and that he is doing this behind his girlfriends back...isnt the best idea.
The fact that he has a girlfriend, and is like this towards you, makes me think he would'nt hesitate to turn around and do it to you...
i know you really like him, so its truly up to you, but i honestly think he just wants to have sex with you..thats it...
im sorry...
hope i helped at all
*Bri*

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okay so heres the deal. I have this bestfriend whose been my bestfriend for a few years. He's 19 im 17/f. Well he just got out of a relationship a while ago and has been joking around about having sex. He did this before when he had a girlfriend. Well today he asked me and he's like im serious. And he's been so persistent all day. Hes been asking where and when and everything. And i think i may like him a lot, i dont know if i love him seeing as ive never been in love. But ive wanted this for a long time. Do you think he's just doing this because he's trying to get over his past relationship? I dont know im so confused. He wants me to sneak out with him tonight, hes staying at my house so idk. Any advice or comments would be nice

I know how your feeling, and you probably dont want to hear this, but he probably is just using you for sex, i mean it would'nt be like a hit it and quit it situation because you are such good friends...but just think, do you think something will come of it if you do have sex? like a relationship...or is it just a night of sex...?
its truly up to you...but just think about it a lil...
:)
*bri*

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im planning on having sex for the first time in a couple weeks, of course with my boyfriend of a year who i love very much. anyways i have my bellybutton pierced and i was just wondering if i should take it out while having sex? like could it interfere with anything, get caught on something? is there also anything else i should know other than it's going to hurt!! :|

I have my bellybutton pierced, and when i had sex with my ring (a dangly one), it was perfectly fine...and my guy thought it was really hot...
i say keep it in :)

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I want to do a little more with my bf of 5 months, but I don't want to actually have sex, right now all we do is make out and kiss and stuff. But I want to do more sexual stuff but I don't know how to initiate it or anything because I am kinda shy... any advice?

well..
when you guys are making out, and getting really into it, like rub his inner thigh, or put your hands in his shirt and rub his back...and lead it to like a hand job, or fingering...
maybe?
hope it helps.

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17/f

i want a boyfriend... even wen it come close and i think a guy like me it always turns out that they dont. its not far like=[

like just recently i had was hangin out with friends and stuff and one of my guy friends kept flirting with me and he even gave me a hikkie [long story] but he said he doesnt like me.

wat kind of wrong signals is that? i dnt get it.. maybe im just not girlfriend material. this always happens.

help??? i have no idea wats wrong with me.

ha, thats exactly how i was...!
so your not alone...
but honestly, you just need to be confident with who you are and let it shine through you!
have fun, flirt, party, just enjoy right now, eventually, when you least expect, you'll find what your looking for :)

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15\F
i want something cool to do with my friends we don't have cars but were able to get around i have two guy friends n a girl we've been bowling n to the movies but what other things can we do?

haha this may seem wierd, but ice blocking!
its where you find like a grassy hill...and get huge blocks of ice and ya sit on them and race down the hill..lol i know its nerdy but so much fun!

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how soon can you take a pregnancy test. im really getting scared now. i had sex last week friday. i had my boyfriend put it in without a condom for about 5 strokes and i just read this thing about "precum"??
anyway is it too soon to tel????
thanx

theres a slight chance that your boyfriend even pre-cummed, but even if he did theres only a small chance you could get pregnant...and if you stress about it you'll miss your period.
which will make you stress more, so dont think about it too much or stress about it and you should be fine, but if you really want to take one wait until your about a week late...

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okay so on august 20th me and my boyfriend almost had unprotected sex, my first time. i was about to stick it in, and it kinda just got the tip in. then i took it out because we had no protection. it was not in the whole way, and was hardly in at all, like maybe 1/4 of the tip was in. i'm 9 days late for my period and i'm so scared i'm pregnant. i'm 14 years old and i can't have a baby right now. my period is usually late but has never been this late before. it wasn't sex, and he's not even sure if he pre cumed or not. i read online that if you masturbated and then pee'd there is little sperm in your pre cum. he masturbated that morning and peed before it happened. what is the possibility that i can be pregnant. i haven't had morning sickness or anything, i feel normal exept for my breasts hurt but they always do before i'm getting my period. could i have an infection or something? on October 5th i lost my virginity but we used protection and it only lasted like 30 seconds because it hurt so bad, and he didn't finish, and the condom didn't break. is it usual that my periods this late? help me i really need advice and answers!
thank you so much!

You most likely are not pregnant.
your just stressing!
and this ia causeing you to be late, its happened to me to, but i was 3 weeks late.
the only thing to really do is try not to think about it...
:)

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WARNING:long sorry just wanted to give full story or most of it
ok so im pretty much 14(my bday nov 9)
im not attracted to guys around my age i dont knw i just think older guys are cute and are more mature.well there are these three guys one well call d he is 18 or 19 and the other well call is x but i dont knw how old he is and lastly well call him j and he is 16 or 17.at first me and d werent like friends like we hugged and said hi but ya knw.he just kinda messed with me like put his arm around me and sang to me cause he knew i liked him haha just who he is.well now he flirts with me and kissed me on the cheek twice and he knws my name and one day my friend was like why do you kiss b and he was like have i ever kissed you and i was like only on the cheek and he said see i only kissed on the cheek i havent kissed her yet and kinda smiled at me and all my friends think he likes me.now x he is kinda new haha the first time i saw him me and a friend were waiting at the place cause it opened at 8 and he was alreasy there and he kept looking at me and finally he was like ya im lookin at you and i gave him a look like me? and he was like ya you(i knw kinda weird)but when his bro(i only knw it was his bro cuz he told us) got there they started whispering and lookin at me well then they left and he was like watch my stuff please so i did.that whole night he kept smiling at me and yesterday we had our second hug.we talk and flirt and he always looks at me.all my friends think he is mad sexy and are kinda jealous and they all think he likes me but im not sure cause he dont really knw me and he flirts with other girls.then finally the last on j.he used to always flirt with me and stuff then he ended up breaking up with his girl and i saw him lookin kinda bored so i went to talk to him and he was like how old are you and i asked him the same but he was like i asked you first so i told him and he was like damn i cant mess with you and told me how old he was and then the next week he was dating his ex now he doesnt really talk to me or whatever and its seems he flirts with his girl around me but looks at me to ya knw like see if im watching or w/e.and i saw him in the hall last thursday(i go to his school for math) and he walked next to me but didnt say anything but smiled and kept walking and called his friend and kinda looked back at me so i guess you can say im totally confused so i need major help!thank you

well honestly hun, im not gonna lie..you dont need to be messin with older guys at your age.
you could get into SOOOO much trouble, dumb i know.
but ya older guys are more mature and everything, but pretty much all of them are only out for one thing. sex!
so just be careful, and honeslty i would wait a few years before you start messin with older guys like that...just lettin you know from experience.
*Bri*

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okay so im a sophomore in high school, and i play soccer and basketball. I don't really hang out with the "popular" crowd, but i have quite a few friends. Everyone says that high school is the funnest years of your life, but so far I haven't had much fun. I don't drink or smoke or do drugs or anything like that, and i've never been to an actual like 'party'. i just want to make the most out of high school and have a lot of fun! How and what should i do to fulfill that goal?
Anything helps!! =]

Alright...well im a senior
now, and im not gonna lie i used to go to parties and drink...and they were amazingly fun.
And i also have played soccer all 4 years..
High school is honestly what you make it.
Ive had so many bad, good, stupid, and amazing times...but dont feel pressured to do things "the other kids" are doing...if you have amazing friends that will stick by your side your gonna have a great time, just take it one day at a time!
Good luck!!!!

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I really didn't know where to put this so I'm sorry if this in the wrong category! I'm just wondering how effective self tanning lotions are and which kinds work the best. Only the cheap over the counter stuff please. =]

Ya it works but be careful cause it cause an orange tone...or if your into sports it can sweat off leaving streaks =/

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ANYONE WHO ANSWER'S WILL RECIEVE A 5 because i thank you for reading my long situation!

im 18 years old and a female.
i have or USE to have a male best friend, whose now almost 17. we hung out alot and i secretly liked him but never told him and i think he secretly liked me too but then he got a girlfriend about three years ago and there STILL going out, without ever breaking up and they RARELY ever fight and are together pretty much 24/7 when either one doesnt have sports. recently or starting about a year ago, i go without seeing or talking to him months at a time. it kills me, but i feel like i shouldn't text him because if he missed me too he would text me right? keep in mind a few months ago he tried getting with me and i really wanted to do stuff with him, but i said i couldn't because it was so wrong but he's not like a player at all which shocked me. last time i saw him we were talking and he was like what happened to us? i was just like alot i guess..and he's like we're not like we use to be and i was like i know..and he was like i was always the one texting you asking what you were doing and i just smiled and he was like you know its true and i knew it was but i really dont see the point in texting him when he's always with his girlfriend... then my cousins and him we're gonna go back to their house and he was like i'll give you a piggy back ride :) then i was leaving my cousins and i see him outside his house waiting for me so i roll down my window and i was like.. what? and he gave me a hug and i was like i missed you... and then we just talked for like 20 min. and sometimes there were awkward silences and he just looked at me and smiled and i was like what are you thinking about...and he was like just random stuff :) and i was like, like what? and he just said ahh nothing. that night he looked at me like he wanted to kiss me and keep in mind we havent done ANYTHING physical, not even kiss. i havent talked to him since that and it's been about a month and i miss him SO much. but my friends feel it's best if i dont text him and try to keep my distance but he was my best friend... i dont want him out of my life forever but i still love him and wish every single night he could be mine. everyone in my family loves hiim and my friends do too and they're all like when is he going to break up with him girlfriend and go out with you? and i always say idk..never :(

i dont know what to do, i think about him 24/7 and its not an exaggeration. i think he knows im attracted to him and like him but he doesnt do anything about it. i dont think he would ever break up with his girlfriend because he's scared and also cuz she "gives it up" to him. any suggestions? i've tried moving on to other guys but NONE compare to him. they're nothing like him and i can't move on, i just cant.

Alright hun, this is tricky, and really hard i know!
But i honestly think you need to tell him these things.
Because ive been in a similar-ish situatuion, but did'nt tell him and its something i regret SO MUCH!!!!!
and it still hurts, but the difference is that i lost mine....
but you have a chance to see if its for real...so i say go for it girl get your man!
*Bri*
Keep me posted!!!!!!

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16/f
Alright, well i like this guy and we talk every night for an hour or 2 on the phone. This has been going on for about 2 weeks now. Well whenever my friends ask him about me and stuff, he tells them different things. Like, one day he told one friend that we are about to date, and then yesterday he told a dif. friend that he dosen't know. Also, today i was walking out of school and i looked out of the corner of my eye and he was right behind me. He dosen't know that i saw him, he was only like 5 inches away and he didn't even say hi and i am pretty sure he could see me!! i am so confused, he talks to me on the phone but at school, he dosen't, he has before but not much. I don't get it! i am so confused! His name is steven and mine is cassie!

well...when you guys talk on the phone sometime...just ask him.
and if he's gonna be immature about it and kinda blow off the subject...then he's not worth your time.
but i say go for it and just ask him how he feels.
:)

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15f

i have one friend and we're inseparable. except she's not really friends with the clique i'm in with these three other girls, with whom i'm going trick-or-treating with because our costumes match.

i am, in fact, pretty much closer with that girl than the three other girls, but since they invited me to do the costume-matching with them, and i didn't have any prior plans, i said i'd do it with them.

i don't want my other friend to ask me what my plans are for halloween in case she expects me to do something with her. i'd feel really badly because i would rather hang out with her for the night or go trick-or-treating with her. i can't bail out on my three friends, either. and i'm not even sure whether my other friend has other plans with other people. (if she does, then there's no problem cause she can go with her friends and i can go with mine).

so what i'm asking is, i don't want my friend to be mad at me and feel as though i'm "replacing" her because i would feel that way if she said that to me. i have to match costumes with those three girls and go trick-or-treating with them, otherwise it would look weird.

if my other friend does ask me if i have plans, what should i say? i don't think this is a big deal at all, and i don't want it to become a big deal (which it might if she gets mad at me). i know i should be honest and tell her the truth, but how can i make it upto her? i don't think it would make her feel better if i said "but next year we can do something" because neither of us will remember, even if we stay friends.

would it be possible to do the costume-matching with them but go trick-or-treating with her? i KNOW i'd have more fun going with her as opposed to those girls, and then THOSE girls might feel like i let them down, especially since we matched costumes and all.

i didn't intend for this to become a big deal, but it might be unless i explain to my friend that they wanted to do it and i chose to go along with it. those girls pretty much assumed that i'd do it with them since we always hang out and such.

what do you think i should do?

(please don't lecture me about how my friend is not a real friend because she may get mad at me. she is my real friend and i would get mad at her too if she did that to me. she may not get as mad if i explain to her the situation before she even asks if i have halloween plans)

options:
(a) match with my three other friends and go trick-or-treating with them, making a separate compromise to my other friend.

(b) match with my three other friends and go trick-or-treating with my other friend, hoping that my other three friends would understand. (my other friends are, in my eyes, a little bit more understanding than my other friend, although they would be a little hurt if i bailed out on trick-or-treating with them)

(c) explain to my friend the situation before she even asks me if i have halloween plans so that she does not feel as though i was trying to ignore her from finding out.

(d) other.

I agree with the other answer...
Go with your friend...You'll fell so much more comfortable and have more fun...! and you know you can trust her so things would'nt be awkward for ya...
:)

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A year ago i was in eigth grade and a new boy from the seventh grade moved from minnesota to iowa. he hated it here and people would make fun of him just because he was new. I kinda thought he was a little attractive. So one day i say hi. and the next thing you know we always make jokes around each other. Then girls start thinking hes really hot and start hanging with him. So we kinda talk but not as much. Then my friends start to make fun of him while i dont talk. so then he'd ignore me on myspace. the last time he ever said anything to me is on the last day of school. Now im in 9th grade and he goes to another school thats 15 miles away. I've sent him messages on myspace like hey how have you been....jw... or.......wats up.....and hes respond to everybody elses comments other than mine. now i feel like im annoying him and he thinks i probaly like him or obsessive with him or something. How can i get back to the way we were?

well ask yourself...is it really worth all this trouble?
Maybe your better off just letting it go?
But honestly if you want to talk to him so bad then just kinda stop for a little while and maybe text him or message him a little hey...or an old joke you guys used to tell each other...
~Bri~

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okay so i'm in college & i've seen this kid matt around school who lives in my building around campus and i think he is soo attractive. well, he was at a party that i was at tonight and i played pong against him..how wouldn't it be weird to add him as a friend on facebook & start talking to him? i need help asap!!! thanks :)

Go for it!!!
but i also think you should try talking to him in person...like if you see him around say something like nice pong skills or something to start a conversation lol
:)

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what are good sex techniques for the first time?

Honestly i think for the first time you should just do missionary( guy on top).
Unless you are completely comfortable with being on top Because you can control how deep it goes in, and the speed...
:)

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I like this guy alot, and I think he likes me back.
He flirts with me like play footies, smiles at me, stares at me, and is always near me and almost hugged me on accident like three times!
But I just dont get it, he never actually told me he likes me but my friends think he does.
They catch him looking at me and stuff like that.
A gave him a note saying Hi and he never gave it back to me he said it is at home.
What do I do? I want to ask him out and make sure he likes me because or else it might be too late!

well dont be too upfront cause you dont want to push him away...but i def. think you should go for it!
Just ask him things like...so, who do you like these days.
and give him hints that you do have feelings for him :)
hope things work!!!!!
keep me updated!

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Sorry 'bout the length. Ok, so there is this boy I've known for a long time, but we've barely talked to each other. So, this year, we got assigned seats next to each other in math in the back of the room. And he is HILARIOUS, and he is always talking to me, and I love being around him. But our math teacher DOES NOT like the two of us, and she is always mad at him. So, I've been noticing for the past couple weeks that he's been showing signs of liking me... he's always writing on my binder with hearts and "U Luv Willimo" (His nickname) all over it, and he is always saying we should give each other hugs to make my friends jealous, making me laugh all the time, and, you know, that type of stuff. He is SO cute, too! But, my STUPID, STUPID frigging math teacher MOVED ME TO THE FRONT OF THE ROOM! So now, I always see him looking at me, and I always want to talk to him, but I don't really know how, even though we're pretty good friends. =( I need help, because I think I might like him back...

Alright...
i think you should just plain go for it.
and start asking him things like..so who do you like these days...
or tell him you guys should hang out during lunch...
or get his celly number and start texting...thats my favorite thing.
well hope things work out :)
keep me updated!!!!!

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