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If you really like a person who is a different age than you are and you are older, what would be considered a "BIG" age difference? Is two to four years a big age difference? (link)
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it depends... in high school ages arent to far apart. as u get older age is a lot less of a differance. however if your like 13 and the other person is like 10... well there is a bigg differance there. but like the same age ratio would be completely different if older. like if you were 17 and the other person was 14. i dont think that is to much of a big deal. and then like 20 and 23 is nothing at all.
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The guy I REALLY like, loves to drink :-/ He gets drunk all the time except NOT when I'm around because I hate it! Should I still like this guy or move on? It's really hard to move on though... =( (link)
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well its nice that he doesnt do it around you. but alchohol can make you do stupid stuff. so im not sure id trust him going out and drinking all the time w/out you. i can understand that it would be hard to move on especially if you get to see the good side of him and never the stupid drunken side. but honestly this guy is gonna end up getting in trouble with all the drinking he does. id talk to him about it and maybe... well tell him you dont like him doing it at all really and u want him to cut down or something :-/ otherwise yeah, you gotta find someone else.
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I had a b/f for 9 months. We broke up b/c he wanted to go to drugs and I didn't want to be with someone like that. I told him at the beginning of our relationship if he wanted to do drugs I'm not stopping him but he won't be with me. So he chose drugs...week later he wants me back. I finally stood up for something I believe in, and I know I won't take him back...but what do I say to him? (link)
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tell him that you are going to stand by what you said and you will continue to stand by what you said because if you give in your just going to disapoint yourself. no guy is worth that. and if he decided to choose drugs over you at all then he definitly doesnt deserve you. just tell him you are not going to be w/ someone who would for minute choose drugs over you and that as long as hes doing the drugs you cannot take him back. and maybe u might never take him back, thats your desicion.
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How modestly do you think people should dress? How do you determine what is modest or not? (link)
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this is kind of like beauty is in the eye of the beholder or to each his own because it all depends on the person and the place and such. like if ur in church modesty is something that doesnt offend or show clevage or w/e but like in the mall or something no one really cares. so it all depends
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Sometimes I feel as if I'm living a double life. At school, I cuss a little, wear makeup and more expensive clothes; at at church I'm all "love everybody" and pretty much a model Christian-youth prez and ultra-volunteer. Please help! (link)
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theres notihng really wrong w/ that but u should keep true to urself. so which ever lifestyle is more like u then u should really try to stick to it and not pretend to be... w/e it is ur not
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Okay hi its barb(ara) agian.I go 2 a cathcloic school n i dunt mean 2 sound like i dunt belive in god but i do.I mean still we are beliving in a ghost thats over 4000 years old.But it seems like GOd Is forcing us 2 belive in him n make him seem LIKE HE IS POWERFUL only HE is great.Its like yu nver write the word Bob in capitals just cuz he has a cool name.I mean y should god be all powerful n y should we honer him he seems like an electrain trying 2 burn out the light.I have nothing agaisnt god but what am i beling in?I have no clue about it.Our school forces us 2 be more cathcloic and it seems the more they do that the worse the kids become.Kids in 2nd grade at my cathcloic school is cursing.We r starting fights.It seems the more they take it away the more we do it.Y kant they just leave us alone????-Catholic and Unfaithful (link)
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religion... its something that has been fought over and debated since the begining of time. i personally feel the same way u r feeling. whats the point? why r we being forced upon such things when we're supposed to be free? who the hell does this god guy think he is?? i mean i totally agree w/ u, god is supposed to be perfect and all powerful as well as forgiving... and yet if u doubt him u go to hell?! wtf is up w/ that?? i dont know honestly. and as closed minded as it sounds... seeing is believing in this case for me. if he isnt gonna prove himself then how am i supposed to know hes there. look at all the crap that has happened that he supposedly could've prevented and hasnt. if anything i think this god dude is one selfish arrogent motha fucka. and who's to say who is right about god. i mean u got the christians and the catholics and the mormons and all that so which religious group is the right one!? no one knows because as humans we're all egotistical maniacs who believe no matter what we must be right. so there is no way to tell. which is why im really almost to the point of atheism. except that even that is restricting. i dont want to be restricted by anything or anyone that i have proof of that is even there! there is no point! people say well if u live by gods rules ull be abetter person...BULL SHIT! sorry but i am a fine person and i dont believe in god as a person. i do believe there is some great force that made everything obviously but that it has any control over us and our minds and what happens to us... no.. bull shit... we screw ourselves over... we fix ourselves up.
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hey, i play lots of sports. i weigh as much as 1 of my friends but shes 4 inches taller. is that bad? my mom says its because i have muscle that i weigh so much and that i look fine..what should i do? (link)
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yeah id definitly say that its because you have muscle. i kno a lot of people who r that way... muscle can definitly weigh you down but its not a bad thing its healthy... i really wouldnt worry about it. if u play sports ur proly in shape and thats all u need to be.
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Okay..me and my two friends crack and smack have a band crack played the drums but then he decided he wanted to play the guitar so he got into it. so we found a new guy, sven, that was into the drums so we got him..he didnt even know how to play..he bought a really expensive drumset and that was a while ago and he's still not good. Well anyways we just originally wanted the band to be me, crack and smack. so crack went back to drums..we've had band practice with just us three and sven just doesnt ever bother getting better with the drums. so we hadnt heard from him in forever so we pretty much figured he was out of the band...but just recently he keeps calling up and telling us his thoughts on how OUR band should be doing..and he think hes still in it..what should we tell him????we dont want him in the band!!! (link)
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well...what was ur name? oh u didnt say well im going to call u swan..anyways swan if u dont want him in the band then i really suggest u tell him straight up he cant be in it. and if hes not good then hes not good. so u gotta tell him its for the better of the band.. eventually he'll understand and get over it. but then again if u kick him out whos gonna play the drums?? well im sure u can figure that out but in any case it was ur guys' band in the first place and if hes just slowing u down and giving u a hard time then u have to tell him he cant be in the band... just be nice about it but tell him that u guys just need someone w/ more talent and stuff...dont let him walk all over u... if he puts up a fight, fight back
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ok ive only had sex with 2 guys but im always doin stuff with guys. like with the guys that havnt gotten hand jobs or fingered girls, stuff like that. ive only done this like with 6 or 7 guys.. am i a slut? (link)
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hmm well thats kinda hard cause i have some friends who do that but i wouldnt consider them sluts cuz they r awesome people. now the ones who do it and do it just cause they dont give a fuck or w/e well thats kinda slutty. so cause i dont know u i wouldnt know how to judge it. try asking like ur best friend or soemone really honest they will kno if ur a slut or not
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Hey! my name is soulsista. I need some good advice on this situation.you see, my friend is going to junior high as a seventh grader. She has only dated twice.Once from kindergarten to 1st grade and another in about 4th or 5th grade.
she really needs to know if she should start dating again or just stay single for now. (link)
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uh yeah... i maan if she likes someone she should so go for it. i mean if she doesnt then no she doesnt have to go looking for soemone but she shouldnt not date anyone just to not date anyone theres no point in that. dating is fun lol
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how far do ya'll think is the best to go in a relationship of 5 months. (link)
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well... depends on how far uve already gone... i think there is a 3 month rule on anything other than kissing... in other words dont do anything more than kissing until after 3 months. but ur past 3 months so i say w/e is most comfortable for both of u. as long as neither of u r getting pressured into anything its all good
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my mom let my sister stay in MI with my grand parents for a year and now my sister is saying stuff like i will hate you if you go back to TN so now i am con. about if we are going back to TN.my dad is at home and i love him alot i talk to him alot every time i talk to him i start to cry bc i miss him and i do not know if i will ever see him agin 12/f (link)
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well i think ur sister will eventually forgive you but u wont forgive urself later if u just stay because of her. u miss ur dad so go back to him. like i said ur sister will eventually forgive u and ur dad is a big part of ur life
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One of my best guy friends, Rob, is being really stupid and immature for lame reasons. Every time I start liking another guy and think of maybe dating him, Rob starts getting really distant and annoyed even if I don't do anything or talk about the other guy. If I so much as have a conversation with a guy that doesn't really hang out with our group much, he starts avoiding me and giving me the silent treatment. I'm 15 and a really independent girl so I normally don't put up with this crap typically but apart from his jealousy, he's extrememly fun to hang out with. But this is getting really old. Can you give me some advice on what I can do……or if I should do anything? (link)
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talk to him... definitly talk to him. ask him whats up and why it bothers him so much u might learn something. maybe he has a logical explination for his jealousy. he proly cares about u a lot so just talk to him and be understanding but tell him how u feel
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Hi Im Shelly and im 14 years old. Me and my best friends Kim and roxie seem to fall out alot and its putting me down. We have been friends for 3 years and we still are falling out over stupid things. Its starting to get me down and im worried that we will be like this all of our school lives. I just want to stop faling out. We have all tried really hard and im wondering whether to give up. Of course i don't want to but its not fair on any of us if we are falling out 24/7. We are a 3 best mate group by the way which makes it even harder because when we go in pairs one is always left out and it always seems to be Kim. This isn't fair what shall i do? plz help me
Luv Shelly
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getting in fights and such is completely normal in a friendship and in any relationship. but i can understand when u feel enough is enough. this advice is actually something my brother told me. him and his friends used to have a day where they would all meet and just trash each other and basically get it out of their systems and they would talk things thro and be as honest as humanly possible. i think this is a good idea especially since there is only 3 of u so it'll be easier to talk and get things off ur chest. and then talk them out civily. make sure everyone is expressing themselves fully. and make sure u all understand that the most important thing is that u all get ur voice heard about how u feel then u can decide how to fix things. i hope this helped
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what does ppl mean (link)
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people
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Okay I put poems on here....and you guys said be careful putting them on here or someone will steal them...how do I make it so no one can steal them?? (link)
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well thats kinda impossible unless u get a patent for them but i have no idea how to do that w/out spending quite a bit of money and such.
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i just got a pet..its a goldfish..what should i name him? (link)
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sparky
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I had a boyfriend and we were together for 9 months..we had sex and I don't think I was ready. I was one of those girls who wanted to stay a virgen until I was married...and now its gone....should I regret it? B/c I feel like I do, but I know there isn't anything I can do about it now... (link)
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well ur right u cant do anything about it now. but regreting it and thinking about it isnt gonna get u anywhere either. if u keep having sex however its definitly not gonna go away. so if u wanna basically start over and clean ur slate so u can "stay a virgin" until ur married then stick to ur morals and make ur goal. yes u have already kinda ruined it but if u feel that strongly about it no one is making u have sex so dont.
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does anyone know anything i can do?..14/m!AAHHHHH i'm going crazy (link)
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find someone to make out w/ its fun ;)
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I got pushed off this hill of woodchips n landed right on my back... I didn't notice at the time but i broke 2 of my ribs... Yes it hurt extremely bad but I wanted to be tough n finished school the rest of the day and actually attended basketball n played it. The physical trainer at my school made me lay on the gym floor and do streches to strech it out.She wouldn't listen to me because i told her i couldn't do that. She told me i had to do 100 times of the streches n now i suffer pain from that. Is there anyway to fix it? I went to the chiropractor. But that didn't work! HELP!! (link)
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well u have to go to the doctor and have them put like a brace around ur ribs that way u can stay out of strenuous activities too. and take lots of pain killer. but dont just continue doing ur normal things w/out the consult of a doctor or w/e ull end up hurting urself worse
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