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Recently my friend just broke up with his girlfriend. Before, i wasn't really sure how i felt about him and i started to lean toward the not really liking him more than a friend choice, but now that he broke up with her, my feelings are starting to change because he's single now. She was my friend but it looks like a mutual breakup because they still talk a lot. It seems like he's starting to flirt with me again but then he told me about this girl that i hate that flirts with him a lot. It kinda freaked me out. I told him that his x-gf thought that i liked him but he was like cool. Obviously he doesn't care or he wants to sound like he doesn't care. I don't know.
if he talks about other girls that flirt w/ him, expecially if he knows that you don't like them, it's prob. because he wants to get you jealous, so then you'll flirt with him more. also he flirts with you too? so that could maybe be a sign that he likes you too. and the whole not caring thing...thats prolly just part of him playing hard to get. good luck!
now that its summer and really hot out. i sweat a lot, especially on my face. does anyone know what i can do to prevent my make-up from smearing or any good cover-ups/foundation/concealers that will out-last the humidity and weather? thanks. i will rate you good. =)
i'm not sure what kind of make up, but use the powder and not liquid, you'll have a less chance that it will run. good luck!
I have a 12 yr old cuzin who i'm really beginning to get worried about. The thing is, she's starting to get into this whole emo look by dressing up in all black and stuff and the worst part is that she even told me that she's started cutting herself. I really don't understand why she would do this because my aunt and uncle treat her with kindness and respect. The problem is that she's always so negative towards everyone and my aunt tells me that she doesn't have a single friend at school. I try to help her but she simply brushes me off and i don't know what to do before this case gets seriously worse. Please help!
there could be a ton of reasons why she's cutting herself, she could be having problems at school with other kids. like not having any friends and ppl might pick on her. Or she might not get along very well w/ her parents. talk to her about it, and ask her whats been going on at school, and try to hang out with her more to let her know that you're there for her. and for the cutting, you should prob. tell her parents about it b4 it gets worse. she might hate you for it at first, but after she gets help, she'll understand why you did what you did. good luck
I have been dating a girl for awhile, about 1/4 of a year and I want to do. I am scared to ask her because she might think all I want is sex. I am still a virgin but I am anxious to experiance this milestone with her. I'm not sure if I love her, but I do know I want to express my love for her with having sex with her. If I do ask her and she thinks all I want is sex, what do I do? How do I make her sure that I like her for her and not just sex. Also, I need tips on trying to seduce her, the things I do aren't enough.
Thank You, Happy-Go-Lucky Guy
you shouldn't be afraid to ask her about it. if she loves you and vice versa, she'll understand that you aren't just gonna try and use her for sex. i know you want to experience what it's like but she might not be ready for anything like that yet, and let her know that you understand that. seducing her prolly won't do anything if she's not ready for it yet, first just try talkin to her about it to see how she feels about it. if you 2 do have sex, make sure you take responsibility for it, like using condoms or birth control. good luck!
im 13 and a male and some girls pick on me at school what should i do?
it's prob. b/c they like you! plain and simple, b/c girls don't USUALLY pick on guys for no reason, it's usually b/c they like you
Okay so I'm thirteen years old and I just got my period yesterday. I was at a pool party that day and my friends gave me a tampon, instructions, and locked me in a bathroom trying to get me to put the damn thing in. It was ''regular'' size (Tampex with the yellow code or w/e) and it hurt soooooooooooooooo much! I had the tip in and then after that it hurt soo much, it wouldn't go in. I just bought Playtex ''Lites Junior'' or something and I'm too afraid to put it in. Help!
aww, i know how you feel! that was my prob. too when i first got mine! it's b/c its your first time having your period, i would suggest that u just use pads for a little while, for like a couple of months, then try the regular size tampex again. but if u do want to try the lites junior, becareful when you try to put it in, go slow, and if it still really hurts don't do it! good luck!
i have a friend who i really seriously think i love.i've never felt quite this way about any other guy before.he's my best friend and he says he doesnt like me that way but sometimes it seems like he does.we flirt and talk all the time and he's always there for me.i just dont understand.he got hurt really bad because some girl broke his heart.this happened about a year or so ago and he never sees her anymore because she goes to another school.i think he's just afraid of going out with me because he doesnt want us to have something happen and break up and then never be the same friends we were before we started going out.im not sure tho.please help me out with what i should do.thank u.
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well, saying and acting are 2 different things, guys like to flirt alot even if they don't like you. But if he does like you and is afraid that it will ruin your friendship, take it slow, so you figure out if the relationship will work out or not, so then it doesn't ruin your friendship...good luck w/ him!
well this guy that i like says he wouldnt go out with me because i was prude but im not soo he said if i wasnt prude then i have to have sex with him to prove him but now i think about it i dont want to cause i just isnt right at my age (15) and i dont what to say to him that i dont want to have sex with him just to show him im not prude!! everytime i talk to him he always says are u ready to have sex but i always say yes because if u dont then he might spread rumors about me which he is really good at!!! soo i dont know what to do at this point!!! HELP!!!!
wow, this guy is a total jerk, he should know that you're not ready to have sex yet, and if he doesn't understand that the first time then he deff. doesn't deserve you. but if you are afraid to say no b/c of the rumors, don't be, other ppl don't matter in this situation, and i assure you that if the rumors do start, it will pass in no time, just keep telling yourself and others that they aren't true, and you'll feel better in the end...hope i helped!
well i really really like my boyfriend an he knows that and well i dont think that he is really into me he kisses me nad everthing well all of his friends know how much i like him and all and i keep asking them for advice but they dont really know but i really want to know if he likes me and of course he will say he does but it dont seem like it what do i do???
there's no real way to find out if i guy likes you or not, you just need to ask him if he does. also, notice how he acts when you 2 are alone together, like if he really listens to you and pays attention to you, AND notice how he acts around other girls too, like if he flirts w/ them. good luck!
My friend keeps flirting with my boyfriend and that's why he keeps dumping me. She's in Special Education. She's not really a friend but I associate her because she's in my group of friends.
If he keeps dumping you for another girl, it seems like he doesn't really care for you. and if u keep taking him back, it's not gonna make him stop, you should talk to him, AND her about it, maybe she doesn't relize that she's doing it.
hope i helped *Lins
i told my boyfreind if he is not going to be there for this second child then get out i already have a two year old boy with him and my feeling for him have changed i care for him i am starting ti think i don't love him any more is that a normal thing to go through while you are pregnanat
it is normal, while you're pregnant, you go through major mood swings, but if you truely feel that you don't love him anymore then like u said let him go, but talk to him to see if he's going to be there for this child, that will play a major factor in your decision. i wish you the best of luck! hope i helped
there is a guy that i have liked for 2 monthes now and every night he asks me to sneak out with him.....to make out and crap like that and i talk to his friends and i found out that he never liked me but he asked me out 2 weeks ago but the only time he will hang out with me is at night when we sneak out!!!! sometimes i say no but he always says he has a surprise for me which always works but im tired of just talking to him at night i want to hang out with him and talk during the day as well but he wont!!! so i no i should break up with him but i dk!!! please help me!!!
you're completely right, if he just wants to hang out with you at night, he could have another g/f, or is just trying to get some action from you b/c he knows that you like him. you should really have a long talk with him about hanging out during the day and if he completely ignores you about that, then you should ditch him, he seems like a jerk, i hope it works out for you!!