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K I really need girl help. I changed schools a few weeks ago because I was doing really bad at my old on. THere was this girl there that I really liked. I went to the homecoming dance with her and we talked on AIM a lot. After I left I told her how much I loved her and she was all "aw that's the sweetest thing ever" and stuff like that. We've been TXTing a lot and she even called me on my birhtday last week. I was even suppost to see Harry Potter with her and some of her friends but then I got sick. I'm falling even more in love with her every day even though I don't get to see her because we go to different schools now. I really wanna ask her to go out with me but I have two problems.
1. I have no idea how to do it.
2. Is it weird to go out with a girl from a prep school when you're going to a public school.
I really need help! x.x
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That's not weird at all. And it sounds like you really like this girl. It's never easy to ask someone out. First off, I would start by asking her if she likes you. Text or IM her one time and say, "can you call me in a little bit? I'd like to talk to you about something." Then when she calls you say "I really like you..I just want you to know that." then see what she says, if she doesn't say she likes you back then ask her if she does. If she says yes she does like you, then ask her to be your girlfriend.
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When I get really upset I sometimes tend to cut myself.....on my rist. Lately I have been really sad and have been crying myself to sleep almost every night. I cut myself and I don't know why. Its like it takes away the pain of everything else and replaces it with the pain of cutting my rist. Its not like i'm trying to kill myself or anything, it just seems to kind of.....calm me down. My friends can't stand it when I do that, but its like I can't stop. I know I need to though. Is there any way you can help me? (link)
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Throw away everything that you use to cut yourself with. Whenever you begin to cry, tell yourself to suck it up. I know that sounds mean, lol..but that's what I do when I'm really upset. It always helps me. Try to fix whatever problems are occuring. Instead of cutting yourself, listen to music. It calms me down. And gets my thoughts off of everything.
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I am so ashamed of my Dad! He is SOO Gross Acting! I want to have a friend over (Amber) for a mini sleepover but I am imbarrassed of him! He makes these Hawking Noises! (lol) and it is SOOO Gross! I Don't Know What She Would Think! He Is Fat and Ugly and I don't even like to be around him! So What Do I Do About This HUGE Problem!!? (link)
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lol, wow. Maybe you should talk to your dad about the way he acts. Tell him you'd appreciate it if he'd not make those noises or do whatever it is he does to annoy or embaress you. Although it may make him upset, it should help your problem. As far as his looks go, there's nothing you can do with that..and you shouldn't be embaressed by that. Hope i helped.
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I AM IN MY LATE TEENS. NOW I CANT REMEMBER IF I PUT A TAMPON IN OR NOT. THEIR IS NO STRING. I HAVE HAD INTERCOURSE SINCE. is it true that a salt water bath will just make it slide out. i cannot check myself as my nails are long!!!! (link)
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wow, that's not a good situation. I've never heard of the salt water bath, and I would think that'd burn? If you have had sex since then, I'd say there's no tampon..and if there is, then it's deep in there and you should probably see a doctor in order to get it out. I'd definetly make an appointment, although it may be very embaressing.
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Okay well i have acne and i don't like it.I was woundering what are the best products to get it to go away fast. cause having acne can be pretty embarassing and i don't really like it. so i was woundering if anyone knew any good products to use (link)
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I had bad acne before too. I went to the doctor about it a few times and he finally gave me a prescription medicine. It's helped a whole lot. Also, wash your face daily..though it may get old and annoying, it helps.
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My ex and i havent been together now for a year.
Him and his gf of a year have broken up now for the 100th time. This is the longest break tho. He has never told me when theyve broken up in the past, except for this time.
We had been talking to each other way before they broke up this last time.
He said that he was surprised that i havent been into his place of employment yet. He always would come into mine with his gf.(never knew why tho)anyways, i did the next night with my gf.
He was joking around with me and saying to my friend, "hey rachel, call me sometime." Then hed give me this stupid grin.
Well, days went on and 1 night while talking to him online, he wanted to hang out with me, then asked me to call him. I did and we talked for 2 hrs. The next night he called me and told me to come into his work. I did and his other ex came in(cant seem to leave him alone) he got mad at her and they argued in front of me. He told her he was taking her back home(after she walked there). I gave him this look, and left. 1 and a half hrs later he called me up saying he didnt want to be with her. So he picked me up and we went to his house. We talked, wrestled, and i gave him a backrub(like i used to do) We cuddled, and he started making out with me. He asked me if he could put it inside me. I said no, and he asked me like 4 more times after that. I kept saying no. After he told me that he still loves me. 2 of his friends kept calling, and i told him to go out with them. He told 1 that he was just gonna go to bed. I told him to hang out with the other 1 and he said ok.
The next day he called and i took him out for lunch (i owed him as a favor a yr ago)an hr later he took me home.(that was saturday)
Sunday night we talked online, but i didnt bring up anything that happened friday night. We always used to talk about that after.
I knew he had a party to go to on saturday night, and i asked him how that went, and he said it was gay. He told me he left at like midnight and went to his "recent" exs to "talk", and then he fell asleep. He said he couldnt even keep his eyes open anymore. He said he woke up at 3am and then went home. I was really hurt inside, but didnt say anything.
I didnt hear from him for 4 days and thats when i called him to wish him a happy thanksgiving. He was invited over to "her" house. He was there again the next night because it was her bday. I called him the following night, and he called me back later saying that i made him realize how much he loves "her".
What a kick in the pants was that?
All i need is every1s opinion. See if it matches up with mine!!!
Thanks!(heartbroken again)
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wow. Guys sure have a knack to hurt girls. To me, it seemed like (while i was reading) that he was falling in love with YOU again, not HER. which is weird. But it kinda seems like maybe something happened at her house that changed his mind. Maybe she was playing "hard to get" with him, guys always like that. It makes them want something even more. And he could have been using you to get her back for the break up, since he DID ask you to have sex with him. It seems like he can't make up his mind, and he doesn't know what he wants. I don't know what his problem is, but I hope things work out the best for you.
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My boyfriend was fingering me last night for the first time, and today i feel quite sore down there, it all feels quite irritated and sensitive. Is this normal? What does it mean? Am i gonna feel uncomfortable afterwards like this every time? (link)
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It can be like that the first time. It's obviously gonna hurt sticking fingers up there if you aren't used to it. Don't worry about it, it won't be like this every time. You just have to get used to it..After a couple times, he'll loosen you up and it will actually feel good instead of painful.
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OKay...My best friend can be like such a bitch, but she is also my closest friend out of everyone else. It gets so annoying because she would like do anything for a boyfriend, and she thinks every guy likes her. Its gets on everyone's nerves, but no one knows how to confront her without being bitchy about it. SHould I say anything? (link)
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I have been in this position many times..and it's hard because she's your best friend. You don't want her to end up mad at you. I just randomly bring up "Is something wrong?" she will most likely say 'no, why?' then you can be like "i don't know, you've just seemed kinda bitchy lately." If she asks how, then say "You've just been weird lately, and I'm not the only one who thinks so." If she says who else thinks this? then be honest..Name a few people who agree with you about her being a bitch. Who cares if they get mad at you for it, they shouldn't have said it if they don't want her to find out about it.
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14/f. my friends and i are throwing a party for a few friends. we wanna play truth or dare. our dares used to be the hottest dares ever, but now they're old and played out.
so are there any good ideas for dares, or even truths?
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lmao, SuperManLover's is hilarious.
I would say for truths "what's the most you have done with the opposite sex?", "who would you rather have sex with (then name two people)?". Dares..something like making out, fingering/handjob, flashing someone in the room, kiss the same sex. Those are all fun for truth or dare games. Hope this helps.
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ok, im 13 and he is 13 or 14 and he kind of good looking but not really but he is really funny and smartand kind ect. anyway he goes to my religion class and we used to have it every monday but it is over until the winter or spring. he told me to chosse winter and we could be in the same class so I said "ok I will" on the last day he asked me my sn but I dont have one yet so he gave me his and wrote (4 when u do ) and a smile face, my step brother told me that he likes me so he asked him on line and he said no I like this girl named Liz. But when I left to go somewhere he said he wanted to talk to me and tell me something but I havent been on line yet so I wasr wondering if he does like me, and if I should ask him myself if he wants to go Ice skating with me? should I or not? (link)
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Sounds to me like he likes you. I don't know why else he'd give you his screen name even though you didn't have one yet. Maybe he's telling your brother that cause he thinks it might be weird, since he IS your brother. You should ask him to go ice skating with you. Make every effort you can to hang out with him, and then he should eventually grow to like you more and more. And remember, looks don't matter if he has a great personality.
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First of all, that's my dog. It's a red dacshund and I need some good names for HIM (link)
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aw, he's ADORABLE. I'd name him Max or Sam.
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After discussing this many times with friends, I still am not straight on what the 3 bases are.
Anyone care to give their opinion? (link)
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Everyone has their own oppinoin on what the bases are, but..
1st - making out
2nd - fingering/handjob
3rd - head/eat out
4th - sex
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So my bestfriend is turning 17 Dec. 17th and I was planning on throwing him a suprise party. I already have everything all planned out and I already invited everyone! So everything is basically ready.
Well, last night his mom called me and told me that she didn't want me to throw him a party because she didn't want to pay for it. His parents are buying him a new car for his birthday since he had to get his older brothers car when he had first got his license. Since they were gettign the car, they don't want to speand any more money.
I told her that it wasn't a problem because I was going to pay for everything and she didn't have to worry about it. I was never even planning on asking then to pay for it.
Food isn't a problem because my mom already agreed to buy the food for us. Neither is alcohol becuase everyone always chips in to pay for that. And we already have decorations and stuff left over from past parites. And itisn't liek we have to pay for music.
I told her all of this and she still said she didn't want me to throw one becuase she'd fell like she was supposed to pay for it. How can I convince her that she doesn't and to let me throw him a party?? (link)
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Tell her about how you already told everyone about it, and that your mom already got some of the food and drinks and stuff. Tell her the decorations have already been payed for, and there's really nothing you can do about cancelling now.
Yes i did read that part, but I'm saying..tell her you've already purchased them, and you can't return anything. sorry?
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For the past few weeks my best friend has been acting a lot different towards me. It seems like she doesn't want to be my friend anymore. We used to hang out all the time, now when I ask her to come over she ignores me or tells me her mom doesn't feel good. She once told me her mom was putting up Christmas decorations. I went there two days later since we were going to church and her mom was putting up decorations then & didn't seem to care I was there. At school if I'm talking to her and our friend Dan (changed the name) says something, she tunes me out and starts listening to him. Last night we went to the beauty pagent thing our school was doing, and she told me "you know, maybe we shouldn't go places together anymore." That gave me the notion that apparently she doesn't want to hang out with me anymore. One other thing is the other day she told me I couldn't come over because her mom was mad at her for something. I have a friend who's friends with her brother and he told me that her little brother had a friend spending the night. So what do you guys think is going on? Oh, and I've talked to her about her ignoring me when she talks to Dan but she just continues to do it. Any ideas or suggestions on what else I should say to her? Thanks. (link)
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hm, I think I would probably mention something to her. Just ask her why she hasn't been wanting to hang out with you lately. Ask her if she's mad about something. That sounds like a weird situation though if there's nothing you've done to her.
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I have a question about my friend. Well I guess you could say she is one of my best friends.
Well we had made plans tonight to rent and movie and then watch it at her appartment. She told me to arrive by 8 o clock. Well she phoned me at 5 and I wasnt dressed or anything yet. She asked me if I could do her a favour. I said "sure" before I knew what I was in for. Well it turned out she had put an add in the paper to sell two of her cats (she has 5). She told me that the girl buying the cats needed a ride home and could I do it because she (my friend) doesnt have a car. I was a little annoyed because I wasnt ready and she needed me there right away. Well being the loyal friend I was I showed up and one of the cats had escaped from its carrier, and then my friend made me chase around the house for the cat instead of her doing it! We finally caught her and then I had to load up my car with both the cats and their toys. Now heres the kicker: After I loaded up my car with all the cats and toys, I said to my friend "your'e coming with me right"? After all I didnt want to drive a complete stranger somewhere in my car all by myself, I would want my friend to come with me. Also, we still needed to rent the movie. Then she says "no, I'm not coming! So I had to drive this person to her house (who was extremely rude to me by the way). Then I had to rent the movie by myself!! When I finally got back to my friends by around 6 and all she could talk about was how sad she was that she had to give up her cats!!! She finally noticed that I looked upset and asked me what was wrong. I told her the girl I had to drive home was rude (but didnt mention I was more angry at her).
My question is, I am overeacting, or was that a really shitty thing that my "friend" did to me? (link)
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I would be a little upset. But I wouldn't tell your friend about it, it might sound kind of childish to her. You might want to say something like "I wish I had money but I spent it on last night." It'd make her feel bad, and maybe she'd offer you some money to make up for that night.
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There's this girl who I used to really care about, but am no longer close to. She calls me out of the blue, after LSU lost to Georgia so I'm already pissed. She tells me that her baby sister who was just a few months old died of SIDS. Even though I really don't like this girl anymore(ok I hate her), I still feel awful for her family. Her family never did me wrong and I was wondering how I should go about the situation. A card? Flowers? I really don't know,b/c I haven't been around death that much. (link)
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Go for both. Send a card and flowers. It shows that you care, whether you honestly do or not. lol. ;]
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i set my two friends up and now they are in love with each other. neither of them can find anything wrong with the other. the problem is that now i think i am starting to like my friend. i know it is wrong and i know i can't do anything about it. but i really really think i like him and i don't know what to do. someone please give me advice on how to get over him and not focus on him. or what i can do i just don't know. should i tell someone? do you think they will ever break up? they really are in love. please help (link)
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You do NOT want to break your friends up. You need to do whatever possible to stop liking this kid. Try not to think about him. Find a new guy to like, and focus on him. Moving your feelings onto someone else is normally the only way to get over someone.
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I used to use bearshare to download music but lately it hasnt been working. Does anyone know of a good website to download from or a certain program? (link)
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Limewire.
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Why are guys so goddamn shallow?! Not saying girls aren't but I know I lowered my standards a bit because the guy I like right now is hott to me but I know the majority of girls would disagree. It's just..the boobs, tall, blonde hair..can't guys see past that to other people with more substance?! Do similar interests mean anything? How can you tell if they're flirting or not or just pretending to lead you on then burn you, or even just being "friends"? Please help, I'm so sick of being a loner. Thanks. (link)
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The only way I can ever tell if a guy likes me, is if he comes straight out and tells me. If he ever says "you're beautiful", randomly. Or "you look nice". Or, "i really like you." Or "I've been thinking about you." then he definetly likes you, and isn't trying to lead you on or hurt you.
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what do you think of meeting people off the internet...
im 16 and hes 17 weve talked online and he is totaly cool and sweet. asked me if we could sit and meet in person..
bad or good idea?
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Bad idea.
There's some people you can trust on the internet, but I would never risk my chances. If you REALLY want to meet him, then begin talking with him on the phone. This might help to trust him a little better.
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