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OKay...My best friend can be like such a bitch, but she is also my closest friend out of everyone else. It gets so annoying because she would like do anything for a boyfriend, and she thinks every guy likes her. Its gets on everyone's nerves, but no one knows how to confront her without being bitchy about it. SHould I say anything?
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I have been in this position many times..and it's hard because she's your best friend. You don't want her to end up mad at you. I just randomly bring up "Is something wrong?" she will most likely say 'no, why?' then you can be like "i don't know, you've just seemed kinda bitchy lately." If she asks how, then say "You've just been weird lately, and I'm not the only one who thinks so." If she says who else thinks this? then be honest..Name a few people who agree with you about her being a bitch. Who cares if they get mad at you for it, they shouldn't have said it if they don't want her to find out about it.
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ofcourse you should.you have to confront her and not talk bout her behind her back.how would you feel if she was talkin bout you or didnt like somethin bout you and didnt tell you.well i used to be lil bit like ur friend here and my friends came and told me it annoys them.i stopped.start off by asking if theres anything she hates about you and what she likes about you.then tell her what you like and dont like bout her.
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I believe the simple asnwer is yes. I personally believe in being open and honest with my friends at all times.
Ignoring the problem will only lead to it festering up inside of you, until one day you explode in a fit of rage. And more often then not when this happens, things get said that we quite often regret, maybe stuff we can't take back.
A good friend will understand your concern. You need to show her that you are looking out for the best interest of your friendship, for the short term and the long term.
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