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hey guys! just to let you know, i am the same person as decemberbaby but i didnt like that username, so i had to make a new one. so dont got to the other one anymore! thanks!
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Location: North Carolina
Age: 14
Member Since: March 4, 2006
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Okay so im 125 pounds, 16 years old.
I have a lott of muscle which ppl say
is most of the weight. and i dont really
mind the number. its just that i dont like
my stomach at all. i do ab stuff all the
time and run occasionally.. i try to be in
fit and eat healthy. unfortunaly i love
sweets so if i get a small snack, its
usually NOT good for me. im in cheerleading
for my high school and we tumble and do things
all the time for excercise, but i just feel
so bad about myself. all of my friends are so
flat and i want to feel comfortable. i dont
think im very overweight and the bmi thing said
i was fine. i just dont like myself and its
hard sometimes to step it up. what can i do?
and whats some advice on what to do once i get
there? thanks! (link)
go to www.am-i-fat.com AND www.mypyramid.com
it'll help!

hope i did!
kathryn


Here are the basics: 18/f, about 138lbs. (Ew).
Okay, so my diet's not too bad - Everything I eat has to be nonfat if possible, and I don't even eat that much. I also exercise, and I know the exercising I'm doing is making a difference - my body looks a little better and feels a little stronger. My goal is to lose like 20 pounds.
I do 200 crunches every other night, 40 every other night
I lift and curl and do pushups and dips, and do some cardio when I can.
But I still have like, an inch of fat on me that I'm DYING to get rid of. I'm convinced at this point that with all the work I do, if I didn't have this fat on my stomach, I would have a nice set of abs. I'm not "fat" - my BMI is normal - but I'm not happy with the way I look and feel.
I know I have to do cardio - but how much? Are there any other tricks I can use? Eating less isn't an option, as I barely eat to begin with. Lol.
Does cutting carbs really work? I thought of that, but my mother is convinced it's bull, so I dunno what to think.
I only drink water and coffee (I can't cut coffee, I neeeeeeeed it.) and I've been sleeping more lately.
That's all I can think of to say, so help me out!

I rate down for bad grammar and spelling. If I have to read your answer more than once to understand you, you're not getting a five.
Thanks in advance. =) (link)
go to www.am-i-fat.com AND www.mypyramid.com

those will tell you what you are supposed to be eating at your age

hope i helped!
kathryn


Okay so im 124-127 pounds (i change lol), 5'2, and 16 years old.

I have a lott of muscle which people say
is most of the weight. and i dont really
mind the number. its just that i dont like
my stomach at all... its so gross.. unfortunaly i love sweets so if i get even a small snack, its
usually NOT good for me, although my meals are usually really healthy. im in cheerleading
for my high school and we tumble and do things
all the time for excercise, but i just feel
so bad about myself..i work out my abs occaionaly outside of cheerleading, but i dont excerise much alone.. its just not that fun for me.. and its so hard to stick to it if i start. it hurts because all of my friends have flat tummys and look good and i just want to feel just as comfortable as they do. i dont think im very overweight and the bmi thing said i was fine.. its just the tummy area. i just dont like myself and its hard sometimes to step it up. i really want to i want to eat healthy with good snacks or no snacks, but once i do, even if ive had plentyy to eat, soon after i always end up slurging.. whether its the same day or a couple days after. i can never stick to it and it sucks. what can i do? and whats some advice on what kinds of things to do once i get there? thanks!

(link)
just to let you know that i am the same persomn as decemberbaby but i didnt like that username so i made a new profile.
anyway, go to www.am-i-fat.com, and they will tell you what you need to do.

kathryn


ok so i (16/f) really like this guy that i work with and we get along soo well!! we spent all day together at work after school and every second we spent talking and laughing about random stuff!! anyways he's kinda shy and i dont really know how he feels about me so should i make the first move? im kinda shy when it comes to guys so if anyone gives me some good flirting tips or ways to let him know that i like him i'll give 5s! (link)
dress cute, and cute makeup is all i have to say. dont pretend to be anyone else but yourself though.

good luck!
kathryn


is there anywhere in the bible were it says someone from another race or color cant marriage someone of a different race then them? i was just wonder.

any advice on how to get my parents to approve of me datin a guy of the darker skin then me? (link)
the is nothing ine The Bible that says you cant marry someone of another race. all that i know of is that it says that you cant have gay marriages. i dont really have any advice. im so sorry!

kathryn


My boyfriend sort of fingered me last night, it's not the first time. This time he wasn't going into the "hole", he was moving his finger around the top, forcefully. I don't know what he did, but it hurt, and now this morning its extremely sore. The specific part it hurts at is the top of the clit, there is something like a small ball. It hurts to touch. What did he do and is something wrong with it? What should I do? (link)
i dont know what he did, but something is probably infected or something. i would go see a gynecliologist.
kathryn


Iam 16 years old and I want to have sex so I could get pregnant becouse I feel like nobody loves me and if I have a baby iam sure my baby will love me is this normal? (link)
this is not normal. your parents love you dont they? your best friend loves you dont they? young moms like your age can die in labor because they are not strong enoug yet. wait until you absolutely KNOW you are ready. and, the person you want to have sex with must love you! but if you get pregnant, i dont know how well your parents are going to feel.

please think!
kathryn


ok there is this guy i have talked about befor and well i asked him out for my friend because we both liked him and he told me to tell her he had a girlfriend so i did then for the next few weeks he keep flirting with me then he like missed a week of school then yesterday at school he was pokeing me in my sides and like we both help the spechel kids and he told me i was comeing with him to a class with the kids so i did then i left early to take one back and he got back and he hugged me witch is weird because i have never ever seen him hug some one what is up with him (link)
i would go for it! if you really like him tell him! dont tell your friend right away. let her find out by herself. you can always make new friends!

kathryn


I really would like to make more guy friends. Guys talk to me and stuff, but how do I develop a friendship with them? I'll give all 5's. Thanks (link)
i would plan a big movie night and invite all your girl-friends and all the guys you want to develop a relationship with.

hope i helped!
kathryn


O.K so theres this really CUTE guy in my neighbor hood and today we were playing b-bal just me and him and 4 other guys. Then me and him played some 1 on 1 together I was fixing to win but he grabbed the ball and said softley I dont like you no more now, but the rest of the day he kept hangging around with me and we were on the same team together and his brother wanted to swich players and he wanted to switch me and then the guy said no keep her shes a good player.

Does he like me then?
How do I get him to like me more? (link)
drop some big hints that you like him and hopefully he'll see them and give in. you have to remember that 89% of guys want you to make the first move. this might be the case.

hope i helped!
kathryn




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