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I'm a 15 year old girl, who's confident and a sweet person. I feel really satisfied with my life.. I have decent grades, the best friends a girl could ask for, and a great home life. I have an empty feeling inside me though, because I don't have a boyfriend or even a crush. I haven't met anyone that's met up to my standards (which is basically funny, romantic, & polite) All the guys in my grade are either obnoxious and shallow jerks, or else gay. Any suggestions on where to meet guys?

just try to meet new people at your school. not everyone could be that bad. i know it mite be hard to find someone but itll happen eventually. just look around and theres always that few guys that you've never noticed before. go and say hi to them. its always worth a try! hope i helped ~jj~

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im looking for a dress for the end of the year dance, which is supposed to be some big thing. we arent supposed to like over do it.. like wear prom dresses and stuff, but we need to wear dresses and look nice. im going shopping to check them out tomorrow. any suggestions?

go to forever 21! they have really pretty dresses that arent that dressy and dont cost too much if thats also what your lookin for. hope i helped! ~jj~

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i have orangy-red hair, brown eyes and pale skin. what color eyeliner would look good on me? if you need more info just tell me! i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off.

just brown or black looks great on just about everyone so just get that. hope i helped! ~JJ~

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In your opinion, is 13 years old too young to be fingered? If you really can't get any STDs then what's the harm?

in my opinion its a little too young for a 13 year old to be fingered

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ok today I was talking to my boyfriend and he said that i dont think this relationship is gonna work out and i asked him y and he said because we dont ever do anything together and when where on the phone I never talk to him. ok this is no reason to break up with someone but i said that we cant ever go anywhere because your grounded and you dont say anything on the phone then he hung up on me wat do i do? Should i call him back should i break up with him help me out here!!!
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if you really like him and think itd be worth spending time working on your relationship then you should call him back and make it work somehow and tell him that you want to make it work. hope i helped! ~jj~

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I'm thinking of getting bangs. Like not the kind that goes all the way around and is in front. Side bangs I guess you could call them. I part my hair to the side. I have brown hair, and it's a little past my shoulders. It's straight too. Do you think that this is a good idea? I don't want them to be extremely long though or anything. Does anyone know what I'm talking about and if so does this sound like a good idea or do you think it will look good?

yea i think it would look really good on you!

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ok what are some good stores that have cheap semi-formal dresses? ive got a dance coming up and i cant find anyting! thanks!
i rate 5s for every answer that doesnt piss me off

forever 21 has nice dresses and they dont cost much at all!bhope i helped ~jj~

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ok so i have this s.s. project and we have to be certain ppl and i am stuck w/ Vasco da Gama! I don't need to wear like an over the top costume just sumthin that shows a little bit of who he was. i know this is the gayest question but plz help!
I need help on what i should wear!
plus the kid i like is in this class
plz help me
thank you so much!
~*i rate*~

just wear a cross and that hat he wears if you can find something like it(if you dont know what hat im talkin about go here: http://www.keralaeverything.com/imgs/kerala/vasco-da-gama.jpg it has the hat im talking about) hope i helped ~jj~

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When you put on eyeliner on your bottom eyelid,do you put it above or below your eyelashes? Also, what kind of eyeliner should i use? liquid or pencil? what brand?

thanks aton!

i personally like putting it below your eyelashes because it makes them look darker and its rlly rlly pretty. i prefer pencil to liquid and as brand i get jordana easyliner at drug stores that are retactable! its only 2.50 and it's easy to put on.

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I don't have a lot of money and I'm very small, so where can I get nice kids clothes. (Pant size- 10 or 12. Shirt size 10/12 or 14/16.) Thanks a lot and please don't say K-mart :/.

you can go to ross or tj max or aj wright! they have really nice slothing but isnt expensive at all usually!

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I wanna perm my hair. I have jet black hair, face is long and thin. I have shoulder length hair. I wanna perm the ends. Do you think itll look good? If not then please suggest how should i perm or where should i perm it or shoudl i perm at all. Please answer I rate high.
Thanx

yea i really think that it would look good

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you told me to drop a pic in yoou inbox.. i sorta dont want everyone to see it so if you give me your AIM address ill send it to you

ite my sn is Firehead452

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I like this one guy in my class. I talk to him alot and we get along well. The thing is, first, he is a grade older then me (sophmore) and second, we are two way different people. He's really smart and kind of nerdy, I guess you could say. Also, hes more into a real relationship and doesn't seem like a shallow,"want to get some" guy. I, on the other hand have never had a real relationship because I always end up finding a shallow guy and I give it all away. I really want a true relationship and I have never liked a guy like him before, I guess my question is, how do I get a guy like him, what's he looking for in a girl, and does every guy just look for sex?

i think he looking for a grl whos smart and doesnt ast like a dumbass when shes rlly not. i mean that he probly doesnt like grls who dumb themselves down and stuff. i hope i helped! ~jj~

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I have a very plain face. I have a brownish/blondish hair color,thick and long hair, greenish eyes, and okay lips. I hate how I look and I want to change. Im allowed to wear make up but I just cant find the right kind. Any suggestion? Just ask if you want to see a pic.

just drop ur pic in my inbox n i mite be able to help!

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hey! i really want to get highlights in my hair. but i dont know what colors to get. can anyone help me? i have dark brown hair, fair skin, and hazel eyes. thanx!

a red or orange would look awesome on u! thats what id do if i had ur hair! hope i helped ~JJ~

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how do u shrink a shirt...please help!

you put the shirt in very hot water and then the dryer. hope i helped!~JJ~

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this friday I am goin to sleep over my friends house and she has her bf sleeping over too. I dont have a bf and their probably gonna make out and other stuff. I'll probably be WICKED bored! Should i invite someone for me or just be bored?

yea invite one of ur rlly close guy friends and be like flirting with him and stuff! it would be sooo much fun. or if u like someone invite them over!

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I just bought this really cute long sleeved, navy blue, button down shirt. It's adorable... but I do not know what pants to wear with it. I was thinking jeans, but then I thought that might be too much blue/ too dark. What would be the best color pants to wear with the shirt (I don't have khaki's). Thanks!

you can wear alot of different things with it. u could wear a plaid skirt that has blue in it or a white skirt but jeans wouldint be too dark n would look great with a navy blue skirt!

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hi. someone came up to me last week, and asked me if i would give them some head....and idk what that means. can anyone tell me? im too embarrased to ask my friends. thanks

it means blow job and if you dont know what that means it means oral sex

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Well to start off.. My mother left a week before Christmas and I miss her so much.. My dad is go crazy because she left all of us.. She don't call or even write to us. I need so help to know how to help my dad through all of this pain.. Thank you if you write back... I really do need as much help as I can get.... **** Thanks Heather****

talk to him about it. talking aout it will help him feel alot better

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