ergh well my name is amanda, but everyone calls me mandy...im known to laugh alot, at almost any situation. i almost always have a smile on my face.Basically i rele like to have fun, and stuff. people think im a quiet chick, wel most of the time i am, but i can be rele crazy if ur a good friend of mine.im very perverted so ya, lol thats about it, and i love to read
E-mail: mandy_moo_moo_rocks@hotmail.com
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Location: missouri
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Age: 13
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ok well ive liked this gurl ever since iv known her, 4th grade, and i used to try an make her laugh to like me, well now were older, im 13 adn so is she, so yah i mean at this age we have alot of emotions and dk about things, but we went out over the summer adn had our first kiss.. but she left me the next week for a guy she supposably 'loved' but now thinks is a fag, and well then after a while we both saw other people, my g/f broke up with me a few months ago, for total confusin, and the gurl ive known since 4th grade , just broke up wiht her b/f lets say a wekk or so ago i dk soon lol, wel before she broke up wiht her b/f she said she had feelings for me, and she couldnt choose who, and then she told me she had ben lying baout her b/f to me for months, and it was rele a kid from my class, but any way so i had thot i liked this other gurl, but then like i went over to hmm lets call her sarah(gurl since 4th grade)s house last night, we watched movies in her basment , and soon enough we wer makin out on her couch, like for what seemed like hours, and i truely love her so much, i rele care about her, shes my life(im not a stalker just care about her ok) and well today i talked to her, adn well she sais she just wants to be freinds wit benifets.... and i mean im ok wiht htat kissin her and stuff, but i rele rele want her, i want to go out wiht her , i want to be with her, but she sais that shes scared to go out with me, because shes scared she'l hurt me like she did in the summer , so i just said, oh ok yah thats cool, so now the gurl who i had a crush on before might ask me out , or somthn i dont know, but i dk what to do, 'sarah' sais if an opportunity comes for a g/f that i had to promise to go for it, because she thinks that i need somone better for me, but i cant, i wont , no1 is better for me, i mean we have so much chemistry, and were closer than anyone ive ever ben wiht , no lie, we are like so close we know we care about eachother even as freinds, but i know what i want, and i think that she might be scared , scared of hurting me, scared of gettin close, to close to fal in love wit somone, so yah, i mean, idk im just gonna wait, theres nothin i can do, so thats y i came here
-waht can i do to show her not to be affraid but to take a chance, shes different than she was in the summer, and to take a chance and be able to be happy, because i know shes not, she knows shes not, but i thinnk she was happy last night , ..so was i... wel i rele love her, adn i wanna know some tips on what to do to go overboard for her and i need somthin to get her, to make her need me like i need her, ill rate huge for even an answer at all! (link)
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well maybe you should make a move on her and see how she reacts.. and if shes scared to fall in love, or get close to someone, you should just give her time and see waht happens. if you two are really meant to be then you will be together. i hope i helped and i hope everything goes good for you.. mandy
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me and my boyfriend have been goin out three months today we have been fightin alot in the past 2 weeks do u think thats bad? (link)
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well it really doesnt mean its bad, it could be bad..if the fights are about something stupid then its not bad..when you think you are about to get into a fight maybe you should stop and say to yourself "why are we fighting?" and then just stop the fight from happening
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me and my boyfirend have been goin out for three months today he got me a ring for christmas do u think that is to early to be gettin somethin like that? (link)
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if you are serious about the relationship then its not to early.. i think its a really nice gift, it shows that he really likes you..
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Theres this guy that i thought i liked. I liked him to. Well Today we had an arguement.Becuase i had told one of his friends that i didnt want to talk to him anymore. Well my friend told him, so then he knew. Ok. so today he calls me and ask why i dont want to talk to him anymore? i actually thought like, wow he cares enough to call me and ask. that must mean something right? i dont know, but anyways so i tell him why because he doesnt call me or take the time to IM me or anything. so he tells me why, and the reasons kind of personal, but trust me it was a good reason. so of course i let it go. so then he tells me. well i love you, and stupid me i said it back. ok so it seems like everythings good and all right? but wrong. later today we decided to hang out with my friends shawn and derek, well shawn and derek have been my friends since ever. their some of my really really good friends.so when im around them, i dont know its just crazy . so we were hanging out at my house and stuff. me shawn derek and the guy im in love with {kyle}. so kyle i guess isnt very good at trying to fit in the conversations i guess. i mean you really cant especially since me shawn and derek like nonstop crazineess. but anyways so we were hanging out, and to kyle i guess he saw it as me flirting with them bc we were laughing over stupid things and talking about some peverted stuff. i thought it was funny, well kyle i guess didnt like it so much. cause he didnt talk the entire time. neither did he laugh. so what am i suppose to do? im not going to be like beggin him to join in the conversation. so w/e. so kyle decided to go upstairs and hang with my brothers. well since me and shawn and derek are practically drunk, we werent drinking though we were just laughing at the stupidest things, bc we havent gotten together this whole entire break yet so there was alot to talk abot. but w/e. so were laughin like really retarded. and kyle tells my brother that i have the most annoying laugh, and the gayest laugh ever. and hearing this i was like wtcrap?? like i mean its something completely stupid. but since i care so much about him, it reallyhurts even though its something totally dumb. im just really hurt, bc at first he said that he loved me then he was just talking behind my back? i dont know but im really depressed right now. i know its kinda my fault bc i wasnt giving him attention and stuff, but thier my friends im not going to just dump them.but it really hurts to hear something like this from him. what should i do? (link)
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well if kyle doesnt have the respect to let you have a good time with your friends then you dont need him.
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ok i know it seems weird soem girls just talk about how horribel it is to have small boobs but i feel insecure about myself becasue i have realy big boobs adn i am only 13 i have a size D cup and i here guys talk about girls who have big boobs liei soem of my friends and say how big boobs are hard to work with and that big boobs are good to a point i dont knwo if i shoudl try to reduce the size of my chest or keep it normal i need help thanxs so much and no stupid remarks pleezzz (link)
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well if you dont like the size of your chest maybe you should reduce them. but if you like them you should keep them..well a big chest can be good, but it can also be bad, becuase you can draw unwanted attention to yourself. and some guys would want to date you because of your big chest. but really if you dont like them get them reduced.
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So here's the facts thus far:
1. 2 weeks ago, I meet a girl who I had known just as a passing acquaitence, and I became closer friends.
2. She reveals to me that she really likes me, however, she has a boyfriend, but that boyfriend has been in the Phillipines for the last 1.5 months.
3. This boyfriend and she had been going out since about early August, but he "moved" in right before his trip b/c his apt lease was over and didn't want to resign until he got back.
4. He got back on Tuesday morning. She's called me a couple of times since then about how she's really uncomfortable about him being there, but he's still not getting the idea that she wants him to move and that she doesn't feel the same way as she did before he left for the trip.
5. However, since Tuesday morning they've had romantic "relations"- and she feels about that. (yes, denial i know).
So what do I do? Do I try to forget this girl or not? Is she serious about leaving him? My mind and heart is troubled. What do you think I should do about this situation? (link)
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you should give it time..if she has feelings for you then she will leave him. but maybe at the time shes unsure about who she wants, she could have feelings for both of you...good luck
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Theres this guy that i met like 3 weeks ago. Hes 16 turning 17 real soon. I'm 14..Anyways we have became rly close like we will stay on the phone somtimes intil 5 in the morning and i can practically talk to him about anything..i think im starting to fall for him and im not sure if he likes me..We have this "thing" were like im his fiance and hes mine..its a joking thing im rly confused and dont know what to do. Hes always nice to me and sometimes he flirts with me too, he even told me that before he met me he was in love with his ex girlfriend, but he aint anymore since he met me..ill take any advice..i rate high too!
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well maybe you should tell this guy how you feel..but i dont know if your parents would approve of you dating a 17 year old. so maybe you should talk to your parents first..hope i helped
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Ok so i have this really close friend she is probably my best friend. And she is like alittle pudgie but in a cute way (not fat at all!) And we try new wacky diets all the time just for fun; like eat something every three hrs. we never stick with it but its just fun. anyway so her parent kept on saying that she's not eating enough and she's throwing it up or whatever, more as like a joke not serious and she would joke it off too. but yesterday she told me that she really was throwing it up, but she siad she did research and found out you can die and whatnot she she claims to have stopped (for 3 days) and she made me promise not to tell anyone. but im so scared for her and i have no clue what to do, and the scaring part is all the signs people say to look for if someone does have an eating disortor arent there. what should i do? and i know people say you should tell someone, but it isnt as easy as it looks (link)
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well you should jsut have a conversation with your friend about this.
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ok well i have FINALLY narrowed it down to 3 songs to sing for my musical audition. my options are "At Last" (by Etta James) "Killing Me Softly With his song", or "A Dream Is A Wish Your Heart Makes," from Cinderella. Which do you think would be the best song choice? please let me know! I really want to do good on this and get a good part! thank you very much and i rate! (link)
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you should do "a dream is a wish you heart makes" because its a well known song, and people would know it
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ok so i just got in a fight with my friend alyssa..and it was stupid.. it was because she was suppose to sleep over tonight and she told me she could yeseterday and i asked her today and she said she couldnt because she just slept over our friend gab's house but that night she slept there she had already said she would sleep here..and i know its stupid but its not just that.. im sick of all her lieing and her treating me like a piece of shit..and we got in the fight because i tried to tell her how i felt and she just got all mad..idk what to do.. left a message on her fone apologizing even though i feel like i shouldnt of and she should have apologized to me.. what do i do? (link)
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well if you guys are always getting into stupid fights maybe you shouldnt be friends. and if shes always lying to you, you definetly shouldnt be her friend. thats not how friends treat each other.
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Okay, my b/f and I have been going out for almost 4 months now. Before we went out we were really good friends. I like him a lot and I know that he likes me a lot too. But I feel like I'm always looking and flirting with other guys. I'm kind of getting bored with our relationship I guess. What I'm asking is if I should stay in the relationship .. and if anyone has any suggestions for what I should do ? I don't want to hurt him or our friendship.
Thanks for any help ! (link)
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well you should sit him down and tell him taht you are getting bored wit the relationship and that maybe you guys would be better off friends. but when you say " i dont want to ruin our friendship" you have to mean it. he has to tell that in your voice you seriously stil want to be friends.
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okay all my friends always say knock on wood or i guess im going to have to knock on wood. and i never know quite what they mean. so could someone tell me what it means??
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well the sayin "knock on wood" is supposed to stop you from gettin jinx. like if i said "oh i havent been sick in years" then most likey i wud prolly get sick.. but if i knocked on wood, its supposed to keep me from jinxing myself and getting sick....its more like a superstition thing
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well i get depressed alot and i also like depressing songs and ive had suicidal thots before and sometimes i cant trust myself like i get into deep thots about how easily i can kill someone or even myself and i sometimes want to be dying, dead, or seriously hurt just to see the effect ive had on people or who is even my true friend. I think theres something rong with me but can someone tell me whats rong with me and how can i make myself better. (link)
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tahts like me, but wat i normally do is talk to a really close friend of mine, so maybe you should talk to a really close friend that wont tell anyone, maybe they will talk you out of doing/having thoughts about this stuff.
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Ok so i tired to get into my hotamil account. But every time I put in my password, its like locked out you have or someone else has tried too many times to log in as you. And it has a recover password button, but it sends it to my email account, which i cant getinto. AAAAAAAAAAUUUUUUUUGGGHHHH help its so annoying that i just want to blow something up. (link)
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dont blow anything up
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