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I am 5'2 I have long blond hair. I'm tan and I love the beach. I work at abercrombie and fitch in savannah georgia. I love to help people with their problems. So if you need advice just ask me!
I AM A BIG PARTY GIRL..... I love guys...well i should say my boyfriend. we have been together for six years now. and everything that comes along with that....anywho...If y'all have msn add me....I love my sports to death. I love hangin around with my friends when i have time and I love going to school. I know its weird but i dont have to do much work so its all good.

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what are some really good ways to change my look for school so the guys will notice me?

Well get up earlier for school and always fix your hair never just put it up if you do put it up make sure you have a ribbion and what not in there. Always wear fashionable clothes. Make them as sexy as you possibly can but not to were you would get in to any trouble. Always wear shoes that match. No baggy jeans they need to be tight. NO TSHIRTS. Unless its like shcool t shirts or shirts that are not that big and still show your figure. Dont look the same everyday. Dont wear tennis shoes everyday either. Do not wear hills to school unless u have to for it to go with your outfit but im not a fan of dresses or skirts to school cause they have to be to ur knee but anyway. I get most of my clothes from abercrombie and fitch. wet seal, american eagle, hollister, pac sun, express, rave, gap, old navy, kisses if you have one, cato, its fashion, the limited(not limited too) thats all i can really think of right now. Anyway I hope I helped. Good luck

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i like my boyfriend a lot but i have started to like my guy mate. he kinda likes me back and knows i like him but i don't want to ruin our friendship or hurt my bf cause i like him alot still. what do i do?

I think that you should tell your friend that you like him, but you have a boyfriend. I think that you should tell your boyfriend what had been going on just in case he finds out from someone else and breaks up with you but you may feel different. Tell the other guy that you do want a relationship with him but after you and your boyfriend break up. Hope I helped a little.

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Both of my great grandma's just died. I went out shopping with my best friend all day yesterday after going to a doctors appointment with her dad. I feel terrible about not helping my dad with the funeral stuff... Should I feel bad?

First of all I just want to say im so sorry. I don't think you should feel bad. If your dad really needed you to help with anything I am sure that he would ask. But just in case ask him if you can help with anything. Going shopping with your friends and doing other stuff is a good way to feel better about your grandmothers deaths. I am so sorry and I hope I helped. If you need me you know were to find me.

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i like several guys. one of them being a guy named steven. we are really good friends and just yesterday he asked me about one of my friends erica. he was like is she single? i told him yes but i am now wishing i told him no. He is a redneck (my type)and we have a lot in common. too bad he likes erica. i dont really think erica would be very good for him b/c she likes bad boyz and that he is not. how to i get the point across to him that erica is not his type and that i am better for him??

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Tell your friend that you like him, but he likes her. Then explain to him that you really like him but you dont think erica is his type because she likes the "BAD BOYS" and that she wouldnt be good for him. Tell him that you like his personality and that you really want to get closer to him. And maybe even have a relationship. Good Luck

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ahh!! ok, soo I've been playing the piano for about 5 years. when I first started my mom literally had to drag me there because I didn't want to do it. then I was lying to her saying I enjoyed it. I thought, hey if I did something for my mom, maybe she wouldn't hate me. But anyways, I have been telling her I dont want to do it anymore for about a year. She said to me today "I dont want to listen to this. you dont want to do anything but sit on your lazy ass" OMG, I can't stand this! I hate the piano! My mom tells me she loves me but those are just words. she doesn't actually mean it. Whenever I try to talk her her she's like "I'm not going to listen to this! You're a very ungrateful spoiled brat" Oh, and she was on the phone and said "she always complains school is very hard for her, but why would she graduate number 2 out of 360?" OMG, I have to study about 5 hours a day, and spend about 3 hours on homework!! Please help! She does take me to the barn every day and does help me but I think thats only because horseback riding is my sport and she wants to get me "off my lazy ass"

Your mom does love you. She always will no matter what. I think that you should talk to your mom about it. Sit her down one night and explain to her how you feel. If she says she doesnt want to listen then write her a letter explaining how you feel about this. It is very wrong for her to say the things that she is saying. Hope I helped a little. GOOD LUCK!

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Wat duz it mean when a guy pops a girls cherry???


?Curious?

When you have your first sexual intercourse they guys dick and it hits something(cant remember the name) and you bleed. Sometimes u wont it depends if u pop it with something else such as a tampon or fingers or the doctor could.

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what is the right age to have sex and what are some good things to do?

Well now that I am not a virgin I honestly wish I would have waited untill I was married. I thought I was ready but I wasnt. You cant really ask ppl when the rigt time is cause you are the only one that can answer that. Good Luck with your question.

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i like this guy alec alot.. ive went out with him in december, and then i dumped him for another guy. and then i liked him till about the end of may/ beg of june. (but he didnt know that, until i told him) and so i told him that.. and then we went out for like 5 days. and then he said i hurt him all the way back in dec. and that he doesnt wanna get hurt again, but i still like him =/ but he doesnt know that. and im afarid too tell him.. so should i tell him? or forget about him =/ cause i really dont know what to do. I miss him and i want to be with him really bad, but i do not know how to tell him. like i tried to be with other guys, but then i end up liking him again. and want to be with him.

thanks

Well u should tell him that you still really like him and that u are sorry that you hurt him and that you will not do it again on purpose. Tell him that you have tried to go out with other guys but he just keep thinkin about him and how much u like him.
Good luck

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Okay im gonna give you two guys and you decide which you like best okay? PEYTON:sweet,kinda best friend,hot,kinda talk to,wants 2 keep relationship secret,football playa,beatiful eyes, charming,shy,can protect me,and sweet! ADAM best friend, hot, always, talk 2, sensitive,wants to tell every1 about relationship,baseball playa charming,and sweet! Plz answer as soon as possible!! .

Adam....The other guy seems like he is ashamed of u

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my best friend..
i went out with my boy friend for 9 months and now my best friend wants to go out with him and she talks about him 24/7 its not even funny should i not be friends with her please help and answer my question fast!!!

Of course you should be friends with her. But tell her how u feel. Tell her that u dont want her to talk about him and that u dont want her to go out with him.

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My life is full of sadness,hatred,and sorrow.
My life is full of lonleyness and pain.
It's full of people who care and love me.
It's full of people who hate and despise me.
They pick on me cause of my
skin,hair,personality,figure,and how i carry my-self.
They don't like me cause im diffrent.
I have no true friends.
I have no one who is there for me.
I don't know what true love feels like.
I don't know how it feels to really care for someone.
I don't know how some one can care for me.
When all i do is bring people hatred,and stress.
I don't know what my purpose of being here really is.
Is it to bring people pain.
Or am i just here to take up space.

ok I like it but it is much like the other one that was just on here like 5 mins ago. unless it is the same one.

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Sometimes I wish I wasn't born mixed I like having diffrent cultures. But I get sick and tired of people always judging me by my color. or say i am a certain race because of how i act. I hate it when i have no friends in school cause they think i act fake. I hate it when people say i am a certain person when they know NOTHING about me. I hate that everytime i get into a serious relationship with someone i care about. it get's flushed down the drain. Just cause they want to believe something about me they heard from someone els instead of trying to get to know me.

ok well here is my opinion.
I like it but you need to put it into a format like a poem. Change the words and make it sound more like a poem.

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okay well my frend was sleepin ova one nite last week and we kinda snuck out at like 1am to go see my frend lets call him adam ok well we walked to adams house nd its like 1 nd he came to his window nd was like go to the back yard so we met him in the back yard and he came out nd i guess we were talkin too loud cuz his bro woke up nd flipped out nd yelled for his parents nd everythin so me nd my frend ran like hell to get away from there wit out them noticing so we ran nd idk wut my frend said but i think wen she was yellin for me tryin to find me in the dark she mita sed my name, but we got home nd now its been a week and i just found out that adam got sent to christian camp because of it nd his bro knos it was me nd told my other frends bro who was askin my other frend y i was over there that late and my other frend thinks he couldve told her parents who will tell my parents sooo idk wut to do.. should i just like wait for my parents to find out or should i tell them myself oh ya nd by the way before we snuck out my mom specifically told us not to leave the house nd go walkin round the neighborhood or to adams house... so yea im kinda screwed help out!!! and soon please im kinda freakin out!!!

Ok Well you should tell your parents so u wont get into too much trouble. In the future when u do this. If your gonna go to someones house when u sneak out make sure they know about it so they can already be outside somewhere where no one will hear yall talking. Hope I helped

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how do u change ur password>?

you can go to edit setting under the thing that says welcome so and so. And then it will let u change it

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As my mind and my body grows tired,
I find that my soul still remains strong,
Though I have come to the point to realize my fate,
To accept death as it slowly creeps up on me,
To accept the fact I will always be lonley,
To accept my life as it truly is,
And to accept the way things are

I like the other one better but this one is good too!

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im not really aloud to wear thongz but i reall wunna ask my mom but she thinks there really painful n how girls can wear em. also i think she thinks their for hoes n slutz etc. i dont she does. lol. well how do i ask her in a way she might say yes? i already have one but i have to wash it wen shez not home. i kno itz weird but i use it alot. lol. but i wash it! cuz i dont really like wearing regualr underwear that much n i wunna buy thongz n throw away them grnnyz. lol. oh my goodness. lol. okay this is a little embarassing but i dont really wear big underwear like underwear thats even a little losse i call grnnyz. wellz plz help!

WoW. Well just sit down with your mom and explain to her what u just explained to me. Tell her that you feel more comfortable with a thong on then u do granny panies.(I know how u feel) Anyway just tell her what u told me.

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OK. So I had a dentist appointment this morning and my mom, dad, and brother were all working. So, my dad called my neighbor 'Don' to ask if he could take me to the dentist. He said it was fine and he was happy to do the favor. I could have rode my brothers bike there if I absolutely HAD to...but I wasn't thrilled when my mom suggested the idea. My mom just called and said she was embaressed when she found out that 'Don' had driven me there and back. I don't like it when people are mad at me and now I feel guilty and my happy mood just went to bad. Am I being selfish or is my mom over reacting?

Your mom was kinda doing you a favor. I dont think she is over acting and I dont think that you were being selfish. You were embarassed cause u had to have someone else take u to the dentist and u didnt want it to be ur neighbor. Just tell ur mom ur sorry.

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I am 14 and i just started going out with this guy 2 1/2 weeks ago.. he lives like 30 mins away and hes a total jock so we don't really get to hang out much... so when I have him over I want him to enjoy it with me do u think 14 is to young to be giving head? some of my friend think it is but I don't..

Hell yeah its too young. And you just started going out with him 2 1/2 weeks ago thats even worse. If you do that everytime he comes over its like thats all he wants to come over there for. There are other ways to have fun when he is over besides doing that. Its nasty too! Anyway good luck with your relationship

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My life is full of sadness,hatred,and sorrow.
My life is full of lonleyness and pain.
It's full of people who care and love me.
It's full of people who hate and despise me.
They pick on me cause of my
skin,hair,personality,figure,and how i carry my-self.
They don't like me cause im diffrent.
I have no true friends.
I have no one who is there for me.
I don't know what true love feels like.
I don't know how it feels to really care for someone.
I don't know how some one can care for me.
When all i do is bring people hatred,and stress.
I don't know what my purpose of being here really is.
Is it to bring people pain.
Or am i just here to take up space.

That is awsome I love it. Keep the good work up!!!

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hey girl.. i need help right now well i love my bf... but its like my best friend likes me well i took him today dat i only like him as a friend and nothing else.. but i hurt him really bad.. but he just cant get OVER ME!!!!!!!!!!! and i want him 2.. bc i dont look @ him like dat.. bc my bf iz da one 4 me and i love him 2 death... can you tell me what 2 do?
plz..

I had the same problem. except for I had just broke up with my boyfriend and this was his best friend. I kinda lead him on which was way wrong and hurt him really bad. He almost killed himself. Well all you can really do is be a friend to him. If you have already told him that you dont like him like that then thats pretty much all you can do. I probably didnt help you much but GOOD LUCK!

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