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My names Reyna.I live in a small town.I'm very outgoing,creative,crazy and honest.I enjoy things like drawing,making clothes,reading,and watching horror movies because the own my soul.I am not perfect but i try to do as much as i can to help out one day i plan on being a physiologist.My plan is to help people so try me.
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OK, so I've started "seeing" this guy that I ADORE and this weekend he was away. Anyway i went out with friends to this bar everyone goes to, and this drunk guy basically grabbed me and starts making out with me! I told him no, but he wouldnt listen, and i kinda reciprocated for a few seconds before realising it was a mistake.

I feel really guilty, and its poss he could find out as its a bar where lots of people know each other.

I dont wanna tell him what happened, what should i do? thanks (link)
even tho you don't want to tell him he rather hear it from you than from someone else. tell wat happend i am sure he will be on your side


do guys like it better when girls shave "down there?" i've tried before w/ a razor but it stung sooo bad and i got razor burn horribly! does anybody know any ways you can shave w/ out it leaving bumps everywhere or stinging? thanks in advance! i rate 5s for good answers! (link)
luk i walmart they have razors especially for that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


my homecoming dress is strapless and I am a size A in bra but I am going to wear a pretty good push up bra. My concern is my dress slipping while I'm dancing. I just want to know if anyone has been in this type of situation before and has some advice to keep the dress from slipping. thanks in advance (link)
u should buy clear straps for the dress and sew it on it will hold it in place


hey y'all..
im anorexic (if your just going to tell me how dangerous it is, don't bother ok?) and i have been for 2 years of and on. i have a wonderful boyfriend (we've been going out for 17 months) but hes always tickling me and poking me in the stomach, and im very self concious about it. he knows about my ed and how much i hate attension being drawn towards my figure..but he still does it anyway. i know he's just being playful and flirty but i dunno...it makes me uncomfortable, especially after we eat (which is usually because he always makes me eat something when we're together for obveous reasons)
is there any other way i can tell him that i don't like him poking my stomach without being rude? (link)
ok say can you pleaz stop poking me in the stomach it is really hurting me he will understand i am sure.


my friends' mother isn't the nicest person in the world, she's verbally abusive and just slapped her across the face..now my friend is considering running away and i think she's overreacting..but i really don't know. is she overreacting? what should i say to convince her to stay? ..or what? (link)
yes definetly convince her not to run away


God. You really have no idea how many times I have been blamed for something I didn't do. Like 2 weeks ago someone (not me) cut the seatbelts on the bus and threw out the airfreshener. And there comes the vice principal looking for me and he told me that I did it. Which I obviously didn't. I have done things that made me get in trouble. I did that like 5 times. And yes I did bad stuff then. But that was in 6th grade. I'm now in 8th.
So, he was talking to me and telling me how I shouldn't of done that. And hes blaming me for everything. He doesn't care about my side of the story. I've tried talking to him but he wouldn't lissten. I told him he was a liar, because it's true. He didn't care.
How should I show him i've changed from being a bad @$$ to a good person?? I'm thinking about going to my councelor and telling her about it.
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i think you should go to your councelor because that is wronge that you get blamed for that when you did not do it.


i have this pain in the back of my head, level with my ear. i have bad sinus's & i was wondering if that has anything to do with it. like my ears feel a little pressured, but it really does hurt. anyone have any ideas?

thanks! (link)
i do see the doctor if you are in that much pain.................. dah.


hope i helped


Okay so i need help with my hair. It's naturally wavy and very full. It's also EXTREMELY frizzy. Now, normally I straighten my hair, but its getting harder. You see, I am overweight and need to lose weight. And the only way to do this of course if to eat right and excersize. Well i dont like to excersize cuz when I do, I sweat..alot and working out everynight will make my hair smell by mid-week. So here's my dilema, I dont like to wash my hair, simply because of the fact that once I wash it, and it dries..its like "HOLY *****" and straightening it is WORSE! my hair always looks terrible when I straighten it for the first time since washing my hair. Is there anyway this can be helped? I'm sick of having Frizzy hair. (link)
look in the hair departmet you will find something.................... i promise.

hope i helped


I am currently attending the 3rd top private high school ($22,000 a year) in the country for the past 4 years (i'm in my freshman year, so this being my 5th..it also had a middle school + elementary school). But ever since I came here, all through the 4 years at this school, I have been miserable. Not because of the workload but because of the people. No one is friendly and it's EXTREMELY hard for me to make a few friends and its cliqie. I've tried to make more friends over & over again, but it hasn't worked. It's been like this for four years! Some people won't talk to me because of a rumor that I did something illegal and made a girl leave the school because of what I did, but it wasn't even true. They won't even believe me when I tell them it wasn't true. But the base line is that I have no friends at this school. So my problem is that my parents are having the HARDEST time deciding whether to take me out of my school or not because it's one of the best in the nation, gets ppl into ivy leagues, and yadda yadda. Also, my grades are affecting because of my loneliness at this school, I mean not that much, but still. So basically, I don't know what I should do. Move to a new school and sacrifice the benefits of the school I am currently going to, or stay here and be miserable for the rest of my high school years but most likely end up at a good college/university, or any other option that would work well. Thanks soo much, again! (link)
you might want togo some were else. that school is making you miserible you should not have to risk your feelings for the school.


hope i helped good luk


Yesterday one of the guys that lives in my appartment complex knocked on my door and asked me out. I told him that I had plans and he didn't look too happy.

First of all, I've always been told to never date a guy that lives in the same building as you because if it didnt work out it would be very awkward. Also, he's about 15 years older than me and I don't find him very attractive, he's bald with glasses and is really nerdy.

I've also heard from other people in the building that he can be a real jerk. One of my friends asked him once if the mail came and he told him to fuck off.

I've always been nice to him because I wanted everyone in the building to like me.
But now I don't know how to act.
I have no interest in him AT ALL.
The worst part is he lives only 3 appartments down the hallway from me, so we will always be running into each other.
What should I do? (link)
you should tell him that you are not intrested. if you don't you will end going out with a nasty understand. do you really want to waste your time.
pluse he is toooooooooo old for you that is gross.
hope i helped


okay theres this guy and my friend has known him for a while well one weeekend i went out with him and my friend that he was supposed to hook up with but it didnt work out so we started talking and the later on he told me he had feelings for me and i told him the same and we have cute lil names for each other and he tells my friend to tell me that he misses me and stuff well he went to some party the other night and the next day i talked to him and asked him about it and he said he didnt go with a date or anything like that and he was trying to prove to me that he did nothing well today some girl he met told me they did stuff and he did stuff with other girls so idk what to do were not together so should i care or let it go please help!!

f/16

Thanks! (link)
you need to tell him something girl dont let him off the hook just like that. he played you. you need to tell him something.embarass him he did it to you. let have it.



hope it works for the best for you.


ok my birthday is coming up but i dont no what to do any ideas and about how much it will all cost cause i wanted to go like skating but i dont know if people will get bored for skating for about 3 hours please help its for about 7 people how long should i have it for and the people that i am inviting arent really that good of friends cause i dont no much people cuz theres only about 7 in the class i rate 5s (link)
you should have the party for the max 1 hour and a half cause people get bored if they are doing the samething for a long time. it will cost 70 dollars max.


good luk i hope i helped

HawttxParadise


hey ok i want to be something like they had in the mean girls but my problem is that i dont know how to tell me mom she doesnt want me looking like that what should i do be something else or how should i ask her if i can be something like how they had in mean girls (link)
look you should ask your mom it shuld be your choice.
if she says no try to work something out with her. maybe you could be something close to mean girls but not excactly.


Good luk HawttxParadise


ok i'm 14..turning 15. Im a freshman. homecoming is next next friday and i dont have a date. i dont understand why a guy wont ask me. i am NOT ugly. i am actually really pretty. i used to model. i am NOT mean. i am a really nice person. i like this guy but i dont get why he wont ask me. any ideas? i dont think he likes anybody else. should i just ask him? is that weird? i really dont want to do that cause i think is akward. (link)
no you should totally ask him or would you rather be dateless go for it girl.


I have thought alot about suicide. Wrote suicide letters, read them over and over. Some days I want to kill myself, others I don't. I was just wondering for someone who is catholic and christian why do these thoughts occur. I believe in God so much and go to church all the time, but yet I have these evil thoughts, what would happen if I were to kill myself, would I go to hell? (link)
look you need to stop tring to kill yoursel it will not do any good and if you go to heaven or the oppisite depends on your belief.

ps pleaz don't kill your self


I move around alot, bouncing from Dad to Mom to Dad and back to my Mom ... once again I want to move back to my dad's but it is so much different this time here are some of the major reasons why:

1.My dad's Cancer, I feel so horrible not being there taknig care of him
2.My depression; Up here I thought I would be happier but I'm missing so much of my life that is going on down there my depression meds aren't working anymore becuase my depressions getting worse
3.All my friends are down there ... I can't make friends up here, I've been here for 6 months and I haven't made one friend ... I jsut don't want to becuase I only want my friends from CT I know everyone who is reading this is prolly like "If you try then you'll make friends don't give up" but I have tried and ... I just want you all and not some fucking Redsocks loving, black people hating, homophoboes that are up here

I know thats only three things but here are the reasons why I'd stay up here:

1.my mom's feelings

I just can't do things to make others happy anymore if it makes me depressed ... I'm growing up, I'll be gone off to college soon and I just rather be a happy person going off bymyself knowing I have friends right back at home then going and being depressed and not remembering social skills to make friends becuase honestly ... ever since that bastard Adam "hypnotysed" me under his spell I have lost all sense of myself and I have been trying to get it back since I broke free ... I just want to be happy

Please Help,
Gizmo (link)
luk to tell i hat redsocks{yankeelover} and you need to see a doctor so they can get you new depression med.
hope i helped


I am a Christian who doesn't go to church. I pray every night and believe that Jesus died for our sins and that God exists.
My question is that why do so many other Christians put down other ones that don't go to church? I have a relationship with God, too! Thanks. (link)
because they feel that the cristians that don't go to church don't care about god as much as they do.
does that aswer your question i hope.


I have a couple of serious questions and I would like an answer from someone who is educated and is preferably familiar with birth control pills. I've been taking them for about a month to help with my period and I just started my second pack. During first pack, I ended up skipping a couple days because I completely forgot to take them. But other than that, I've been taking them everyday around the same hour. My question is..if I take my pill a couple-few hours earlier or later than the previous day, is it still just as effective? I heard that as long as you take it within 24 hrs, AROUND the same time, it's fine. But is it really necessary to get it within the same exact hour everytime? Also, I'm about to become sexually active. (We'll be using the pill AND a condom, don't worry.) But I'd like to know how long does it take before the pill actually kicks in and starts working effectively. Remember, I missed a couple days on my last pack about a week or two ago, so should I be okay as long as I continue to take them every single day from now till then? Sorry this was so long. Thanks in advance! (link)
yes it is effective. no if you miss once and a while it won't do any bad.give an hour and a half


My dad smokes and im really worried about him. I really want him to stop, but i dont know what to say and i dont want him to get mad at me...what should i do? thanks in advance *i do rate8 (link)
tell him you are worried about his health. for hi to quit smoking he will have to see a doctor . thry will give him less nickeltine till he can do without it don't worry i no your dad can do it


Alright, after i got fingered, the next day i noticed it felt sore and itchy, i think i might have gotten an infection from it because of the bacteria on fingers and we kno how them boiz dont wash their hands lol but its red and theres yellow traces of something on the walls of my vagina and i need to know if this is an infection and what i can do to clear it up and how long the process will take (link)
see the doctor seriously




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