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ok well at my school its all about guys n girls making out.and im one of the girls that doesnthave a boyfriend so i cant make out.and there is this one guy that likes me but i dont likehim andhe like taras prude to everyone and its like embarrassing like i would makeout with someone but idoont want to do it with someone i dont like.im i wrong by saying that.plz help me wat shopuld i do.well if u help me thnkx alot...tara

Oh your not wrong. You shouldn't do anything your not comfortable with. I wouldn't want to makeout with someone I don't like. & like you would makeout too... just with the right person. That guy who likes you shouldn't be saying that your prude. & saying shit about a chick is not going to get him a girl friend. If you need anymore help you can i.m me or just askk ♥

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ok i really like this guy but he doesnt like me well actually he might how can i tell if he does or not help me plz!!!!!!!!

Balls to the walls ♥ --->
Ask him who he likess. Simple as that. He might, or might not. Hope this helps ♥

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ok so all these guys use to like my friend bc they think shes hot but they found out she was prude so nobody has asked her out in likke a couple months and she keeps asking me what happened like why arent they liking her anymore what did she do wrong and i dont know what to say to her or if i should tell her that hey dont like her bc shes prude help ?

Haha' okay...
If you don't want to be like "your prude thats why"- then just say your not sure or don't know. Maybe tell her to ask someone else...or even the guys. But theres a...
"never been kissed" prude
or a...
"never wants to do anything sexual" prude
If shes the "never been kissed" prude, try to tell the guys that she would actually do stuff(make sure she really would first). But if shes the "never wants to do anything sexual" prude, then you need to try & pop her prude bubble & get her into stuff. But if you need to tell her & don't want to lie, try & explain to her & be like... promise you won't be mad or something like that. Well if you need any more help, just ask !
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12/f
Well, Ive got so many problems in my life it is just unbelieveable. But the one that bothers me the most is, like every other 12 year old girl, about a boy.
I was totally over him during the summer - He was nobody to me. But then we get back to school, and there he is, hotter than ever, and there I am, falling for him all over again. And I really hate it. Even though I'm insecure about myself in the first place, when I'm around him, my mind starts racing and thinking about all these thoughts that I usually wouldnt give a care about, 'Does my hair look okay?' 'I wonder if he'll notice what I'm wearing?' And thats just not..me. He is just..unperectly perfect. I like him, and he knows it. And sometimes he'll act like he likes me too, and then other times he'll be a complete jackass. I just cant seem to get my mind off of him. All of my friends make fun of me for liking him, because he's not the 'smartest' or 'hottest' or the 'most popular'. But I really don't care about those things.
I know he doesnt like me, and sometimes it gets me down to an ultra low. And I honestly don't know what to do..

Ohh ♥
I'm sorry...boys are problems. I have the same problem. Well on the same level. You should ask him who he likes. It's always hard because he could be telling the truth if he says no one... or he might lie & say no one if he actually likes you or someone else(he might not want anyone else to know), but he could actually be liking someone else. & don't worry about what your friends say. Every person has a flaw... & your friends obivously like making fun of his(just think of the guys your friends like & make fun of them haha). No one is perfect...espically not guys. But if you really have confidence in him, & that maybe he'll come back to you, then you shouldn't give up. & if you love him it will
probably be hard to stop loving him too. If you want to try to stop always being down... find the things you love doing, or the people that you love being with. Do/hang out with those things/people more. My friends can always cheer me up. I'm sure yours can to. If you need anything or more advice or you don't get what i mean... just ask away

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okay this girl was my friend.key word was.We used to hang and we were seriously like best friends but now she is all snobby and always insulting me.I mean i say stuff back but I never just stop being friends with her altogether.Should I ?? Please tell me !

Well is she a friend you want to loose? If she is then forget about her. But if you still want to be friends & all... ask her whats wrong. Say you still really want to be friends. If she does then she should stop being mean to you, if she doesn't then she might keep saying crap. But you shouldn't say as much crap as she does. It seems like your geting even but your just being as bad a person she is. Hope this helps ♥

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So i've been dating this guy for a few months now n i love him to death. but like my ex who i dated for almost 2 years has been really nice lately n i really enjoy talking to him n i really do love him too. what should i do!

You should try & see who you really love more. See who you could trust your heart with more, one who you know who won't cheat on you or hurt you as much(or you can compaire by other things. Those are just if you don't want to get hurt). But, if you want your old boyfriend back... first make sure he wants you so you don't end up dumping who you're with now. Hope this helps ♥

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ok soo i like two guy kinda and we use to be like best friends in fifth grade but their best friends too and i have done stuff with them before but it didnt mean anything but everyone thinks both of them like me i am so confused and dont know what to do

I don't really understand your question. So your basically not sure if you like them both, but you used to be bestfriends (their bestfriends now), & everyone thinks they like you?
Okay ---> You might want to ask both of them who they like first so you can clear up that problem. Then, if it's you, decide who you like more, who has a "cleaner" (no cheating, lieing, etc.) history, & who you can trust with your heart(you don't have to go by those options, those are probably the best for not geting hurt in the end). Well I hope this helps.
♥ Jedi

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so, i really like this guy. but i think he likes someone else. but then again.. i think he likes me. so i guess hes kinda like going around flirting with lots of people. i love him bounches, and i dont no if i should let him go or not. help?

You should just ask him who he likes. Guys always flirt, alwaysss. If he likes you, then your inluck. But you can never really be sure unless you ask. Its up to you if you want to give up or not. If you think you have a chance, then don't. It's not easy to stop loving somone... no matter how hard you try. Hope this helps
♥ Jedi

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Umm i just starting making out with people. && ya it was good and all but i want to kno what guiys like when you actually are making out with thme lyk what should you do with your hands and stuff

Thanks Alot - Janelle

Im not a guy so I can't really help. But I've asked guys & it seems they like tounge, haha. But try & do what you think they would like, or what you think is sexy. Like rubing your hands by there waist(lower back) or puting your hands throught their hair. & no bad breathe... no one likes that =). Hope helps
♥ Jedi

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Heyy. well im friends with this guy, && i kinda like him. the thing is, he thinks one of my friends is hot but my friend doesnt like him that way.. what should i doooo?

So like you like him but he talks about how hot your friend is, & she doesnt like him? Maybe tell him that shes not intrested if he doesn't already know. Set him straight or something. Hope this helps
♥ Jedi

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ok if you liked someone and they new but they didnt like you back what would you do??plz help me

Oh i have the same problem. If you hang out with them, then thats a head start. It's a good thing to make them smile, too. But you can never force a person to like you. I would just keep talking to them & try to get even closer than what you already are. If your already friends than thats good. So just talk, or hang out like normally... be yourself. Hope this helps.
♥ Jedi

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Ok my dog ate a hole bar of chocalate and i think its gunna dye bcc it keeps having seezures - we cant afford to take it to the vet i dont kno what to do

Omg im soo sorry. I'm not quite sure what to do either. I've never had this problem before. Just keep taking care of your dog. If your parents or a friends parent or anyone knows a lot about dogs, you can ask them. Sorry this advice isn't good... I don't know what you could do. Hope this helped.
♥ Jedi

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My friends have been being me to me latley. What do do ? YOU HAVE TO HELP ME HERE !

If my friends were being mean to me I think I would ignore them, & if they really cared then they would ask whats wrong. But it might not be the best idea. So you can just ask them whats going on, or if they're mad at you or something. Just try to be open with your friends. Hope this helps

♥ Jedi

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