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i'm about to have a bath and wash my hair, can you help? every time i wash my hair, i use pantene pro-vo, then i blow dry it, and it's really frizzy, even when i use all the frizz ease products on it. how can i stop the frizz? is there any particular way to wash my hair, or how to rinse it easily after putting in shampoo/conditioner? when i've got out of the bath, what should i do to my hair? i have stuff like gel spray, mousse, frizz ease, heat protection spray, hair straighteners, hair spray and stuff like that, but i'm not sure what to use and in what order, because i really need to stop the frizz tomorrow, i get really fluffy/flyaway hair and i'm getting teased because of it =(
Ok i wash my hair and then i let it air dry after that i blow dry it but i use like smoothing gel in it and then i blow dry it stright then after i use my straightiner and it usally dosent get frizzy.. if not try useing a diffrent shampoo ... and then try the same thing..
hope i helped.
ok long story short>>>i got caught shopliftin.....(my friends had nothin to do wit it)......**dont tell me anythin about the shopliftin like its bad or anythin bc i undastand everythin that happened**....but my friends mom is pissed at her bc she is the one i was stealin shit 4....but i still dont want her to take anypart of it ....and im only aloud over her house if i talk to her parents but how would i start up a convo wit her parents?
if you dont mention anything about shopliftin is bad or anythin like that ill rate high...thanx
ok im not going to tell you that its bad..and you r u takeing blame for everything?? well if you are then To start a coneversation with her parents .. Be like hi Mrs. who ever and Mr. who ever,
You know about that shopliftin deal well i kinda Had full credit for it.. I mean i know that you are thinkin i am a bad kid ... BUt im not im learning from mistakes and im takeing full blame for my not so bright mistake... I really want to be friends with your daught/son .. And im really sry for everything.. please dont get mad at her if anything get mad at me..
Ok theres some ways to start it off!!
hope it all works out :)
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Hey! If You have a favorite quote, or an inspiring something to share: please do!
I'll rate all 5's! Promice:)
-*KeLs*-
"Birdie, birdie, in the sky, why'd you do that in my eye? Looks like sugar, tastes like sap. OMG! IT'S BIRDIE CRAP!"
You tried, and you failed, so the lesson is, never try. - Homer J. Simpson.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
--Sir Winston Churchill (1874 - 1965) British Statesman, Prime Minister, Author
ok well here are some quotes that i like !!!lol
well hope i helped...
Hey um i'm in a stage that everytime i go 2 the bathroom blood comes out! i dont know what it is!!! im 18/f and i honestly dont know what it is, im really scared to ask my mom or any of my other friends, well i hope you can help! and please do it quickly so i know how to fix this problem, i hope its not an infection, because i really dont like infections, do u like infections? cuz i sure dont. well im gonna go to holy church i will pray that the devil hasnt gotten into my blood and made all this stuff happen, thankyou! bye!
ok..
well uhh its called ur period and im not saying anymore i cant help u!! sry BUT ITS NOT THE DEVIL!!
and dont ask me these kind of questions there sick!!
bye
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I asked my friend to got o the mall with me...but then she said she couldnt, that it was her sisters b-day. That night i was listening to kiss fm (106.1) and i heard them giving shoutouts to a bunch of people together, she had ditched me for her BEST friend!! I no she likes her other friend better than me and I have tried to tell her that it upset me but she always gets all prissy at me and dosent listen. What should i do???? ~plz help!!!
Ok well... I know sometimes ppl take what you have to say the wrong way . I mean if she ditched you thats not cool! But im sure she likes you. She Probaly is just in a cross between hanging out with you and hangin out with her other friend. What you should do is.. tell her face to face. That you didnt like what she did to you and that it made you feel left out when she supposly ditched you. I mean she also lied . your not trying to start somethig but i mean Come on you are friends .
and im sure that she will under stand if she is a true friend!!!!! im pretty sure she is though a true friend.
hope it all works out!!
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15/m a few days ago my friend asked me if i would mind if he asked out my ex-g/f and i said no because i didnt really care but ever since they started going out, i started to like my ex again. i dont know what to do. please help.
This is a sign of jeliousy its ok everyone does once in there life.! If you like your ex talk to your friend who is goin out with him/her. then im sure he will understand . Maybe you should talk to your friend and tell him/her how you feel and then ask if you could tell your ex. Maybe she has feelings for you just dosent want to hurt anyone! well sry if this is confuesing! lol
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OK. I'm allergic to fake earings and it really sucks. I can't get those earings with fake silver that only cost a dollar anymore. Is there any way I can were fake earrings(not clip-ons) with getting a rash on my ear?
thanx
Ok i have the same problem i cant ware fake silver or gold. So what i do is i ware them and then i take them out right before i go to bed or if they are buggin me!
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my hair is curly and i am so tired of having to deal with it.. i striaghten it and i am worried if i keep straightening it i will fry it .. i am wondering if any one has gotten a straight perm .. if you have,.. does it fry your hair? is it ok to get one if you have highlights? will is make your hair un-healthy... or softer? pleassee help!!
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Ok.. any kind of perm is very Expensive!!! And yes it will make your hair dried out.. If you want to get a straight perm you really need to deep condition it! alot!!!! it is a hassle to straighten your hair with a straightener but if you want straight hair the cheapest way is to straighten it with a straghtener.... But if you want to get a straight perm then go for it.!
Hope i helped!!
PS-It is ok to get a straight perm with highlights.
14/f i have trouble with cutting my self and i really dont kno what to do!!! any advice would be nice!
ok well..
They always say if you put a rubber band on your wrist and you pull it and let go when ever you feel the need to cut.. it will calm your habbit for cutting.. But that dosent work for everyone! so if that dosent go talk to a consuler or someone who will help you.! hope you get better! good luck
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ok i know this is really random and sounds stupid, but whenever my mom eats, she doesn't eat with her mouth closed. this really bothers me because it looks and sounds really disgusting, but none of my other family members seem to notice. how can i tell her, politely, that i think it's disgusting and she should stop (because she does it in public too!)
Well when she does it.say mom (nicely) umm ur kinda chewing with your mouth open.. umm you tend to do this alot. could you please stop. And then she will probally stop.
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Hi everyone,
OK, me and my friends had loads of stuff planned for this half term holiday but they've all cancelled on me! I always argue with my mum so I spend most of my time away from her, upstairs on the PC or in my room. Seen as my friends have cancelled on loads of stuff, I have nothing to do!
Anyone got any suggestions that don't involve going out by myself or spending time with my 'rents?
Thanks!!
Well i would go on your computer.. go to www.gotlaughs.com or www.funnyjunk.com thers alot of things to do.. Or go ask another group of friends to hang out.. and if that dosent work theres the phone call another friend .. or get on aim.. or watch movies! see theres tons of things to do.. have fun!
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Is there a medication that can be taken for worrying and feeling anxious?
its called zoloft its for feeling anxious... but it can only be used by a docters permission so go to the docter and they will tell you whats needed.
hope that works
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I know *69 works for like the house phones, but when i tried it on my cell phone it doesnt work. Is there another number thats supposed to work to find out who called you?
thanks
You dont have to do that.. just go to your control panel on your cell phone and it will say call list or missed calls or what ever yours says and then press it and it will show you all your missed calls of who called.
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ok um i dunno but i like this guy and i talk to him like "alot" and he usually flirts with me he has a girlfriend but she is really sweet and still thinks that i should go for him. i really wann tell him that i like him. when he flirts with me again, should i tell him? and how do i say it? thanx i will rate u
~shy girl
Well you do have the gfs permission i mean it dosent make sence though i mean shes goin out with him! why would you want another girl to flirt with your bf but oh well if she says you can go for him go for him!
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My best friend is really been acting weird what could it be i tryed asking she ignored the question!
help...
umm.. Maybe its really persanol , Maybe its not. But i would ask her again try not to pressure her .. !
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I've got a question about my friend. I think she may have some serious mental problems. This morning in first hour she was writing a note to someone (I didn't know she was). Well, I glanced over in her direction and she flipped the paper, turned to look at me, and said: "Stop reading my fucking note! God, are you ever going to leave me alone?!?!" So, I asked: "...what...note?" She rolled her eyes and moved to another seat. So, naturally, I was in my seat thinking "What the hell did I do?" Anyway, in third hour she sat beside me again. Again, she was writing notes and I didn't know that she was, so I turned around to talk to her. She FREAKED out and starts yelling about how I'm a nosy bitch. I was ...basically speechless. I mean, it's like she's got some mental problem with excessive paranoia. For instance, yesterday in our Study Hall my boyfriend and I were writing notes to each other. My friend wanted to look at them, and because I said no, she automatically assumed that they were about her and proceeded to call me a bitch. They weren't even remotely related to her. If I talk to anyone other than her she automatically thinks that I'm talking about her or telling them secrets about her. She spreads horrible lies about couples at our schools, including me and my boyfriend. Sometimes I wonder if I should get her some counseling to try to help her out. She's excessively paranoid. I think she may be bi-polar as well (either that or she has some SERIOUS mood swings). For example, in P.E. one morning she was on a different team than me and was so mad at ME that she rammed me up into the bleachers. After P.E. she cussed me out in the locker rooms for being a "complete asshole." Then at Lunch two periods later she acted like nothing was wrong, or that nothing had ever happened. In the hallway this afternoon, I was joking about her using her cellphone (which is strictly against the school rules) and she lost it. Is this just normal teenager behavior or does my friend need some serious help? All advice would be appreciated.
Ummm.. Well this dosent seem really that normal. I Mean if she thinks everyone is talking about her and there not . Thats not good ,So i wouldnt get her help.. Because its really her problem but if it gets out of hand i would talk to her mom or someone about it to help her .
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So I got offered this easy babysitting job from a rich family down the street, and they are going to pay me 50 dollars an hour, BUT at the same time my BFFs birthday party is going on. She said it was OK if i went to go babysit.i don't want her to think i don't care but I really need the money!!!!!!!!!!!
*Im 14 by the way and female*
Ok i would Tell her that you would make it up to her really soon.. You could take her anyplace she wants (resinable)of course!And just get her a presant and a card and make her late b-day important!
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My friend and I are starting a band, and are trying to get a record deal. The probem is she wants to be a singer. But she's really bad and I'm great{that's what everyone tells me}. And I write all the songs! How should I tell her I'm the lead singer and that I need her to play an instrument instead?
This is hard .Especially when its your friend... I would get the band together and vote who should be the singer. But if its just 2 people in the band i would sing for a few people and ask who is a beter singer. But if she knows whats best for the band.. You will be the lead singer.
Hope i helped