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I am 13 and even I have no bf.I heard that a girl get pregnant if she intercourse.I never do sex.The tension that kills me is that I have an older brother,I am afraid that if he touch his semen and then he dries his hand and touch my pen and I touch my pen an touch my vagina,is there any chance of getting pregnant.I am very afraid.Plssss help me!!! (link)
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No you cannot get pregnant that way. It actually has to enter you by the guy. Your fine. :)
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Hey im 14 and had a thing going on with this girl..we were probably going to date.basically she kissed another guy so i broke it off.a few days later im considering taking her back because she apologised and everyone makes mistakes..not sure what to do because i cant really trust her (link)
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You know the old saying if you love something let it go if it comes back to you its yours but if it doesent it never was? In this case she came back to you so... as the old saying says shes yours. But its totally up to you.
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It is difficult to write this, I'm feeling angry as I do but anyway here goes.
I'm 16 and live with my mum.
My mum is always saying that she has no money and that were moving house as a result of this but she is always buying herself new clothes, shoes and even films. I haven't had a new item of clothing in a while and every time I ask her for some she always says the same thing! "I have no money" its so annoying and gets me do angry. The other day I showed her the state my shoes were in and I had to throw them away because the bottom was hanging off, she just sort of changed the subject. Today she came back with a brand new pair of shoes for herself saying her old ones were ruined, all that was wrong with them was that they just lost their colour a little bit. I just went upstairs and listened to music.
Another thing she does is whenever I pick something up that she doesn't want me to (bearing in mind she's never told me she doesn't want me to) she doesn't say "could you put that down please" she just yells "LEAVE THAT ALONE" its so frustrating! She always blames me for everything and when I do get fed up and say "no, it wasn't me, stop saying everything is my fault!" she just laughs it off and says "someone's got to be blamed " like it's some sort of joke.
This is her nice side, believe it or not.
When her boyfriend/partner comes round she acts even worse and always takes his side.
It's not that I don't like him, because I do. Whenever he's round she never takes my side, she always takes his and whenever he says something that annoys me and I'm about to say something she gives me that 'shut the hell up' look.
I've put up with it for so long and I'm just fed up with it now. I've tried to confront her about it but I'm never right :\
I just don't know what to do.
And no, I'm not one of those people who says they want to kill themselves. Nothing will make me want to do that.
Answer with your opinions on my situation and any solutions of things I can do?
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It sounds to me like her boyfriend is controlling her. I know because thats happened to me before with my aunt. What you needto do is not get so mad at your mom, its probably not her fault. I would look closer into this guy if i were you. And make sure hes not takeing abuseive power of her. Try to spend more time with your mom too, if that makes him mad then he just doesent like you.
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I'm 15 and i've been dating this really amazing guy for a month. Whenever i see him i get really shy. We both want to kiss but i'm too shy... What do i do? (link)
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I know it sounds crazy but this is what you do. You say "I love you" and then you ask him to see if theres something in your eye and he will look on your eye then kiss you, TRUST ME THIS WORKS!!!
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A week ago I went to Florida to visit my boyfriend. It's a long distance relationship and we engaged in sexual activity for the first time.
He fingered me, and I gave him blow jobs a few times, swallowing. Half way through the trip my clitoris became a bit sore and when I got home I went to the doctor. She said it was most likely just a fungal infection and gave me an antibiotic. After that, the pain went away quickly.
However, now I'm really worried. I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone about going on birth control before our next visit and I discovered that he had not gotten STD tested after his last girlfriend who he had sex with, because she was a virgin prior.
But I don't trust his ex-girlfriend and I know people lie or you can get STDs from oral sex as well.
Should I get tested for STDs, and if so, which ones?
Am I wrong to ask my boyfriend to get tested as well, even if his ex was a virgin?
He thinks I'm being paranoid. (link)
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YES, you should always get checked for an STD after sex! But in your case you should still get checked, if you have one they can fix it with meds depending on what kind it is. But dont worry Gods there. :)
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Hi im a 13f
sry if its long!
Ok so theres this guy that ive had a crush on for about.... 4 months. He is really funny and sweet. :)
but ya he had a girl friend for a while (when i still liked him) and they FINALLY broke up because he found out she was cheating on him.
we would play around and tease each other and talk and stuff even when he had a girl friend.
but now its kinda like he is a little more nervous to talk to me. i can see out of the corner of my eye that he seems to be starring at me more. (i have all my classes except connections with him)
and today is what really got me thinking if he likes me or not...
so we went to the library in out last class today, and he said "hey shinney can i take a picture of you?" and i said "why?" ( stupid me ik, im shy soo... :\) and then he said " beacuse my mom wants to know what you look like" and then he said "you know my mom" and i was like ya and ive seen her before i think, and then i said why does she need a picture of me, if she already knows what i look like? and then when we were in line to check out our books, he came up right behind me and was like REALLY close which kinda made me uncomfortable (like i said im the shy type) and he was messing around and smelling me and my hair and all haha :)
so my question is...
does he like me?
P.S. reminder im asking guys thanks!!!!! :P
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Likes ya, totally!!!!!!
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Hey, I'm 16, a Junior in High School. I've never had what has even come close to a relationship in my life. Honestly, I dont know what my problem is. Im about 6 foot and, I mean, Im slightly heavy but really its not noticeable when I have a shirt on. I dress casually but nicely, all my clothes fit me well, I don't smell, and I dont harbor disgusting habits (minus biting my nails, but thats not too terrible).
On the personality side of things, I talk to a wide variety of people. Nerdy, sporty, drama-y, and of both genders. However, I've only ever had very few close friends, and those I talk to I strictly make small talk to at school, nothing further, no texting or calling or anything.
I'm a pretty happy guy in general, I crack jokes every once in a while. I carry myself confidently, even though on the inside I'm super insecure. I make good eye contact and smile when I do it, and regularly compliment the girls I usually talk to (I have a crush on one of them).
What's my problem? I think it might be something along the lines of the fact that I might have some kind of crippling fear of rejection, which might be why I never move my relationships past casual aquiantances.
Also I'm a male. (link)
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It sounds to me like you just dont want a girlfriend right now, and thats totally up to you. Theres nothing wrong with you. But listen if you like someone you should tell them before you lose your chance. :)
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So, it's been 6 years since i talked to the girl i grew up with. We were best friends dreaming about going to high school together (which as fate would have it we did yet still don't talk)and when we grew up we would live next to eachother and always be friends, best friends! I know I was completely aware that I was the one to ruin what we had, you see just as these new kids moved in on the block I wanted to get to know them but my friends mom didnt want her hanging out with the new boys on the street. So I went on my own. And ever since we just drifted or I just found a new exstacy with my new friends and forgot the important one. Basically I need you to empathise with me, do you think there is anything you can say to help me clear my concience? Or just tell me what i already know.. I'm Horrible. (link)
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Your not horrible, it sounds to me like your just stressed out about your friend. Maybe you should try calling her and expressing to her whats on your mind. :)
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Hi!
So in a few days I have a uni interview.
I was wondering if anyone had any tips of how I should act...like body language tips, speaking tips etc.
Also, I'm a girl and I am planning to wear a work type dress to make me look older-is this appropriate or is there something better to wear for uni interviews?
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My advice is just be yourself. I mean you shouldent act like somebody your not. I mean they accepted your application right, that means they like you for who you are, so just be yourself. :)
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