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I was just wondering for girls gymnastics in the Olympics..do the girls wear anything under the uniforms like underwear or anything? It seems like they dont because I'd imagine they would show? Just curious ! (link)
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They dont wear underwear. You see the Leotard is somewhat like a bathingsuit. They wear just a sports bra and leotard:)
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I'm about to turn 17 and i've been dealing with an extreme case of depression and several eating disorders I was prescribe medication but my siblings see it as ridiculous and think I'm attention seeking and have currently stopped treatment do to persistence from my family but I'm terrified of how I've been feeling and think I'm eating worse but no one will listen. How do i get them to believe me before it gets to late! (link)
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If they dont get a counsler. Parents can see some stuff ridiculuse and i know! I get blackouts sometimes while im concioues and my dad thinks im lying. :( hope this helps and im sorry for your depression and eating disorders! And if all else fails find jesus or go to a church :)
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14/f
This year, our band at school has had problems with many people quitting. We were lucky to have one specific member of our section stay. He is really talented and he brings a lot of fun to our section. Earlier, he found out that his last main friend in band has quit so now he's really depressed. I really want to cheer him up because I hate seeing him so sad. Some friends of mine and I are planning a surprise party for him on Saturday. Does anybody have any ideas for that or anything else we could do cheer him up. I really appreciate all answers (link)
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1st of all who are you talkinv about? The teacher? If so then yes throw him a suprise party IF he is fun. And nice and chill. Dont if hes strict as hell. Im 13/f and i understand :) btw why the heck are you in band? Has your school started? Ik still in summer! Lol okay well just have some ballons and a little cake, appropriate music with some chips and dip. Maybe a bug card the whole band can sign an presto! If he is uptight then just make a card. And if he has a favorite food ask him. He will never suspect his small class throwing him a suprise party! Hoped this helped! Bye
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14/f my parents are divorced. to list a few why hes a narc here it goes: first he didnt want to see me and my little brother on saturdays because that was his nap day, mhmmm like thats not fucked up. then he wanted me and my brother who are very active and passionate about our sports, he wanted us to quit our sports. and my mom and the mediator were like are you outta your fucken mind. like fuck no there not quitting sports so they can wait around for you on sunday for you to take them out to lunch. yes, we dont sleepover, never had becasue he only has a studio apartment and i dont think its even allowed by the court because theres not enough room, not that i'd even want to stay. even though i made it clear he should just move in with his gf who owns a house so everything would be easier, not saying i would sleep over bc i barely know the chick. but it would make things more comfortable. anyway so for three years, when i was 11, thats when they separated, he made me go back and forth back and forth. he didnt want to talk to my mom at all even though he was ordered countless times that he needs to directly speak to my mom not through me or my little brother, then he suggested that he go through one of my 2 older brothers, but the judge ruled that crazy shit out. and now i finally get it, that its all about him. when i dont answer his texts, it like answer me, and he just acts crazy. i told my mom how i feel about all this and she totally gets it because she was married to him. my therapist said get it all off your chest and tell him how you FEEL not dad i hate you you've done a,b,c,d things to me blahh blahh because ive done that before it didnt work. so i said to my therapist but hes for sure not gonna listen or get it i know for a fact i know him. and she just said ok but it doesnt matter you still need to tell him how you feel and how his bad behavior has affected you so even if he doesnt "hear" you or get it, at least you get it off your chest. so im going to sit down and talk to him one on one. im kinda anxious i dont know exactly what hes gonna say but it would a million percent surprise me if he said sorry or showed any sympathy. im not asking for anything unusual, i just want him to be there for me, and if he cant then i guess he cant and ill cross that bridge when i get there. im going to remind myslef not to lose my temper, because if i did it would be horrible. hes hurt me so bad, and made me feel like shit, etc. can anyone tell me why that i might feel a little bad for confronting him (which i have no problem with doing with anyone or him) and why i still care about him. and dont just say because hes your dad because you obviously dont know what the fuck your talking about becasue my sister never had a relationship with him and hates him. plus i have my friends dad, who is a great male figure. hes like the dad i never had. im really blessed i have him. i feel closer to him than my real dad. so why am i still holding on to my real dad if i know this relationship is doomed becasue trust me ive trieddddddd sooo many times to make it work, but everyone knows you cant compromise with a narc and if he expects me to be accompanied by his excessive attention wanting needs then im done. i dont need this shit. but for now can anyone give some advice on some tips on what to say and how to control my anger towards while talking to him? i dont want to explode unless he says some mean cruel shit because if he wants to go there i can go back at him 10x harder, i doubt he'll try me but i told my therapist and mom that im prettyyyy damn sure he'll be like well thats not how i see it, and you gotta look how i was feeling (i dont give a flying fuck what you were going through, listen to your kid god damnit, because i guarentee i WAS going through worse shit)< thats exactly what i dont want to end up saying but i fear he'll end up pushing me in that direction. any advice is helpful. thankyouuu:) ps i figure i gotta face this right? i mean 3 years in is long enough.. (link)
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Wow long story. I skipped to the end lol. If your question is how to make him care and stop being a doushebag then talk to a councler or your mother. Tell them how you feel about this and explain everything. Im 13/f and my best frands parents are divorced! But, know that he is sorta depressed or lazy. Love him, he is your father after all.
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my dad bought me netbook like a year and a half ago. my older brother bought a cell phone for my younger brother on my dad and his plan, and he said he could see anything that my lil bro texted or did. does this apply to a netbook? i mean that'd kinda be little creepy if my dad can monitor everything i do. so is this what happens with netbook/laptops or just cell phones? thanks (link)
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Yes. Its not creepy its for your own saftey! Plus you shouldnt see porn or anything. Im 13 and i have an ipod he can follow through with what i do.
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16/m when i first started masturbating at 11 i would do it once every couple of days now i do it Bout 5-10 times day and my right arm gets really sore and achy and the muscle in my right arm are much bigger than my left. Any ideas on how i could cut down from this ? (link)
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Its normal to for your hormones. Just try with your left arm.
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20/F
I'm single and my roommates all have boyfriends. It makes me feel worse about myself being single! Especially when they all have them over and i'm just the 5th wheel!
I always try to leave the house when I know they will be over, but I can't always do that.
What should I do? How can I cope without seeming rude? I really love my roommates and their boyfriends, I just feel so out of place. (link)
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Im 13 and i dont date that much. I have tons of friends and most of them have boyfriends. The way i cope with it when im single is to be nice. Just smile and act pretty. Play with your phone or maybe cook for them to just be away from them. And the best solution is to GET A BOYFRIEND. Maybe ho onto christiain mingle or whatever its called. Im christian too so i can mostly relate you besides the fact im about 7 years younger than you. :) hope this helps good luck!
And when all else fails tell your friends. They should understand i mean they have been single before
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how to make him love me more and get attracted to me ? (link)
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I'm 13 and I use this method all the time, make him jealous! Make yourself pretty and nice and and invite him to a dinner or something or somewhere and have another dude flirt with you or something. Also be hard to get but not too too hard. Always be prepared to be seen by him meaning look your prettiest anywhere. And the #1 rule is be yourself. If he is your friend he hangs with you cuz your you. Bye :)
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At my church they do this thing where they send 500 dozen cookies to a local jail for the holidays, to inmates. At first I used to be like.. why are they giving homemade cookies to bad guys? Until I asked someone today at church and they said its so that they can be guided into Christianity hopefully for a better life. So that makes sense to me, and I'd feel good knowing that I could have impacted someone's life like that. I'm only making 2 dozen of them, though. I'm Roman Catholic.. so what religious phrases could I put on the cookies? Idk what to use to write on them, too... like frosting I guess? Anyone with other creative ideas please tell. and please tell me like several quotes I can use to inspire people that like it can get better and everything and they will always be accepted in the church and they can repent and all that.. thanks so much! (: I'm 15, so nothing TOO complicated too haha. (link)
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Something simple and plain like God love you. :)
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I have this very pesky situation at home.My sister is friends with a girl who I cannot stand.I just don't like her and I cannot help i.She's not a bad person,though,but she's coming home every f.. day and sometimes she spends the whole day staying home using the bathroom,having breakfast,dinner and doing everything just like our house was hers as well.She's soooooooo annoying and to make matters even worse,my mum likes her and so does my brother.She's become like my boogeyman my nightmare because I think that she's being really disrepectful and obnoxious.I don't know what to do;I want my house to be respected but I don't have the support of anybody.I need help,I need to know how to deal with this situation.I won't let this girl do what she likes,but I don't know how to proceed.Would anyone guide me?Thanks! (link)
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In my opinion talk to the source! Don't be a woos! I'm 13 and I deal with it 24/7 in school. Talk to the girl and tell her nicly she's being a real annoying girl. If she's smirky with your or mean to you then tell your parents.
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I'm 19 male and looking for a gf. I know there's dating sites out there but it seems like only older people use them. Are there any dating websites that younger people tend to use that are around 20 and under? Thanks (link)
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I'm 13 an I suggest face to face. Go out into the beautiful world GOD made us and find a girl. Also before you go out make a list of qualitys you want so if you meet someone that charms you, have a couple of dates and see if they make the list. Seems harsh but it's smart. And please no sex until at least you have met her parents and you truly know shes right. It's not just hook up and break up now. Your not in highschcool your in Life. I mean I don't think hooking up befor marriage is good but whatever. Just take it slow. And if your looking for a hoe to mess with. Your better off with your dating sites or a strip club. Don't break a girls heart. Goodluck :)
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I am turning 18 in 2 days and i want to sleep over at my boyfriends house. I don't know how to tell my parents about this they are extremely strict. All we are going to do is watch a series on tv all night. What do i tell my parents? (link)
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If your 18 it's your life. Tell them in a mature and kind way that you are going over to your buoy friends house to sleep over, if your 18 you have the option of doing whatever. If they still won't let you don't push. It, because also that your 18 now you don't have to live under there roof. They could kick you out if they are that strict. Bye :)
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yesterday i am with my boyfriend on bike my brother best friend caught us and told my brother everything.then my whole family member tourcher me to leave my boyfriend.I know we can't live together in future as i am mangle girl but we love each other and i want to be with him because we can't leave without each other.I am die without him. (link)
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How old are you? You don't know what love is until your like I don't know living a life, working a job or out of the parents house. If you really think he's the one. Marry him! Oh wait, you still live with your parents. It's harsh truth but face it. If he loves you then he will wait till you have finished collage and you have a stable foundation. I'm 13 and love is a very special things. And if your out of the house and they just don't approve then tell them it's your life (KINDLY) and say that you feel this is the appropriate desicion your making and that they just need to accept that you have found you versions of 'him' and if you are out if the house and really love him remember. Don't have. Sex unless he is me.right and GOD loves you :)
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14/f
ive had a prob with cutin asked yall. Yall told me about a rubberband and i waz remembered something today used the rubberband but didnt work i wanted 2 cut more even so please give me another method that will work.
Please any advise will be very thankful (link)
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1st of all not trying to be mean but, you have serious issues if you have the guts to cut yourself. I don't need all the 'oh my life's so hard' yeah? Well what about those kids in Africa? They have a hard life and they don't cut themselves. Let me just tell you that you need serious help if your cutting yourself. That just means your willing to kill yourself. I know, I know, 'I would never' or maybe 'I have tried' your crazy! Just go get help from doctors. Keep sharp objects away from you. And if it's that bad, find Jesus man!
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My 5 year old son has AdHd, Seperation Anxiety and Aspergers. They think bipolar but it hasnt been diagnosed. He is in preschool he started medicine this year because he was having trouble in school. He is doing great but his anger is unbelievable. He is constantly yelling and screaming at my husband and I. He says you just want to kill me you hate me which we of course have never said to him. His step brother told him to kill him self that was the last time they were allowed to play in a room together. If he doesnt want to do something its NO and hell scream that at you over and over again or when you talking to someone he will interrupt and stand there repeating him self getting louder and louder. We have tried time out. grounding. I dont spank. I smack his had sometimes. I just do not know what to do with him I am becoming irritable towards him. ( No he isnt in any harm. I would never hurt my child just frustrated) Any suggestions? (link)
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I don't believe in bipolar being a 'sickness' of any kind, first of all. If I was in your position I would spank him. It's not abuse just don't leave a bruse on him. It's wil SERIOUSLY HELP! It will show him not to do any more of that yelling because he needs to show you a great deal of respect.
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I was really good friends with this girl, and one day my mom almost found out that I smoke weed, so I asked my friend to babysit my bong and bowl for a week or so until my mom's suspicions cooled down. Since then our friendship has turned into mostly bickering and it's been about 4 weeks yet she still hasn't returned my things. I've tried numerous times to set up a day and time for me to swing by and pick them up, no questions asked and just be on my way. But she always has an excuse...she's out, she's busy, her parents are home. But I can tell they're all just excuses. The past few days she has just completely ignored me.
What I want to know is if it would be considered harassment for me to knock on her door and ask for my things? And if her parents answer and she's not there, I tell them she has something for me in her room?
By the way, I'm 19 years old and a sophomore in college so I am old enough to be making my own decisions. If you're even going to criticize my marijuana use, please don't bother responding. Your opinion will not make a difference in my choice. Thank you! (link)
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If she isn't your friend and you don't want to be her friend. If she has no dirty secrets, lies, or anything else you don't want the world to know on you. Then I would just sneak to her bedroom window when she's not there maybe get inside look around see if she has the bowl with weed in it leave it and call the cops on her :) bet ya $20 bucks she won't keep your stuff.
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i've just put in a tampon for the first time about 2 hours ago . i tried to take it out , but it hurt to pull at the string . is this normal , and could this be because my tampon is still dry ? if not , how do i yank it out without it hurting ? (link)
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Me too. I'm trying to get it out and its been in for about 4 hours. I tried pulling the string but it hurts! Its normal if it hurts though. Mine has been in longer than yours. Yours is probably dry. I just got it out! Pull at the string with toilet paper in your hand, it should feel big uncomfortable but keep pulling (slowly) and it should fall out and then catch it with toilet paper roll it up and throw it away. Another tip is to pee to soften it and then pull slowly again. I recommend doing so above a toilet. This is answered from experience scine I JUST GOT IT OUT FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER IN MY LIFE WHILE WRITING THIS. Feel special. I made an account to answer your question ;) bye
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