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Q: There is a formal dance coming up soon at my school. And my boyfriend already told me that he wanted me to ask him(since i'm taking him..bc he's in 11th grade and the dance is for 9 + 10). I want to ask him in a really cute/different way. Does anyone have a idea that would be really cute? Thank you so much! I rate high!!

Umm what about using a special flower or maybe hmmm a random email. or oooo theres a really nice way make one of them fortune teller things and have all possibilities ask him to go...that be really cute

Q: what games can me and my bf play over the internet? like truth or dare something for us to get horney over! thanks!

play truth. its truth or dar without the dares since you really cant see if the other person is doing the dares. or play truth or dare over the phone that can be exciting

Q: Okay so theres this kid i have a little crush on. I have a lot of friends that are friends with him but sometimes when they talk about me to him he acts like he doesnt know me but when he sees me in the hallway hes like "oh look its sarah" and people that talk to him about me that i dont really know hes like yeahh i kno her dont talk shit or w/e they happen to be saying. Whats up with him? why does he act like he doesnt know me to my friends sometimes but he does when other people talk to him that i dont know? Thanks!!

even though you claim you are not pretty he very well may like you.

Q: HOW DO I GET SKINNY??????
im 200 pounds..
please help!
dont say exersize...
please just help
i need to loose 100 pounds fast!
DONT SAY EXERSIZE I CANT DO IT.
PLEASE!!
help!! fast!
i want to be pretty..

calm down about your body weight. rushing into these things will cause you to do something rash like be bolemic or anorexic. I would suggest going to a dietrician or something to get a specially planned food plan?

Q: my hair is SOOO dry..any suggestions on how to make it soft and "lush"? lol

ooo try using garnier fructis milk lotion it works incredibly well and it helps with frizz to. did you also know that after washing your hair rinsing in cold water helps it shine?

Q: Ok so I just bought this purple eye liner but I'm not sure I know how to apply it. When I use black eyeliner I put it on that white line thing between your eyes and your eyelashes. I know that the purple wont show up if I put it there b/c its too light. Does anybody know where and how to apply purple eyeliner? thanx. I RATE HIGH.

i would do it the same way however maybe try a few layers? i use to use red and it worked the same way. Or maybe you could apply it to the bend right under the eye?

Q: Whats the difference between 'making love' and having sex?? thanks..

that would be making love. is when you trully love the person and have sex. having sex is when your horny and screw a friend or something

Q: seriously!
this one annyoying guy who likes me..
keeps talking to this other guy i like!
its my life!
hes never going to have me.
hes a idiot.
iv'e been telling him to not talk to the other guy.
and he wont stop!
I HATE HIM!
and i already said yes to going to winter formal with him.
and OMG.
13female by the way.
PLEASE HELP ME.
how am i going to break up the date with the idiot.
and how am i going to let the other guy no im single and like him.
i seriously rate 5s.
i promise!
even if your advice sucks.
kthanks.

just tell the other guy that your not liking him and dump him

Q: my friend has a lot of freckles especially on her upper lip and she looks like she has a mustache and nooo cover ups hide it is there any way to get rid of freckles?

YIKES SORRY WISH I COULD HELP I HAVE THIS PROBLEM(not as bad)..however i heard that morning dew helps yet thats supersticious so i dont know

Q: Is it weird going out with someone younger than you? I'm 13and in 8th grade. And he's a year younger than me, and in 7th grade. Is that weird if he asks me out? I kinda like him...but it just kinda freaks me out to think of it? What should I do?

no thats not weird at all GO FOR IT

Q: What's the difference between dating and "going out"?? Thanks!

dating-An instance of an action, process, or act: a gathering.
An action or process connected with a specified thing
(testing whether you want to see them more)

going out-seeing someone a lot/long time

Q: Everynight for 2 weeks straight I have had this dream, can you tell me what you think it means?

My 2 friends and me are walking up a beatan path/trail in the woods and its kinda stormy, we are headed to the top of the mountain. When we get to the top of the mountain I see my ex, so I walk over there to talk to him. . Then all of a sudden out of the woods a dark evil shadow pushes him off the cliff. I look down the side of the cliff on some rocks and he is layin there blood surrounding his head. I scream, and the proceed to climb down the side of the cliff and go over to wear his body is. I put my hand under his head and blood is all over my hand. I lean over and hold him while crying and screaming while his blood is dripping all over me. I lean over again to kiss his bloody lips. I kiss him while holding him close. I wake up screaming & crying. Whats so weird is I could swore I almost taste blood in my mouth.

To me it sounds like you still have feelings for this guy even though you dont want them to be there. Perhaps you should try talking to him?

Q: Does anyone know any good quotes. They can be from songs or just really cute ones. They can be about anything. Like love, friendship etc.. Thanks

I KNOW LOTS!
hahahah

Lets see

-Love is when he holds you in his arms and it all fits

-Every girl wants a man, that she can go to in her sweats, hair a mess, make-up running down her face, eyes red from crying, and the first thing he says to her is "baby, your b e a u t i f u l" and means it!

-To the world you may be a person but to one person you may be the world

-...***Its the way he makes me laugh when i dont even want to smile***...

-Love is not finding some one you can live with, Its finding someone you cant live without

-Bestfriends are there for a reason, the same reason is why you are there for them! its called friendship, learn it, live it, love it!

-when a friend leaves you-dont miss them and cry, but remember them and laugh

-'A friend is a single soul dwelling in two bodies.

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Q: Hi. Lately i've seen people THAT i personally became fond of on here (as friends) that quit the site. I know that they have been busy. But i'm just scared that no one will become coloumists and eventually quit this site! I really like this site and i can't help but feel soo..bad, if this site just goes down. How will i know for sure that this site will NOT go down? And what can i do to keep it up? :) I will do anything to keep this site up. I LOVE IT!! (not to sound like a kiss-up!) :) Thank you.

I WONT EVER QUIT IT SO THERE! hehe cause i love it to!

Q: ok im 13/f and usually have really good eyes.... but latly when i look up after reading and stuff every thing is all blurry! puleez help!

You sound to me like maybejust maybe you might need reading glasses. why not trying to go make an appt at the eye doctor

Q: For Thanksgiving tomorrow, we want to make Cranbery Plum Pudding, but we've lost the recipe. Does anyone here have a recipe for cranberry plum pudding? Or know where I can find one? Don't say "google it."

1/2 cup Butter
1 cup Sugar
3 Eggs
3 1/2 cups Flour
1 1/4 tablespoons Baking Powder
1/2 cup Milk
1 1/2 cups Cranberries

Cream the butter, add sugar gradually, and eggs well beaten.

Mix and sift flour and baking powder and add alternately with milk to first mixture, stir in berries previously washed, turn into buttered mould, cover and steam three hours.

Serve with thin cream, sweetened and flavored with nutmeg.

best i could find..sorry i tried

Q: So i've been with this boy on & off for about 2 years now...i think i am in love with him but idk like i still want other guys. What should i do?

Well if you want other guys you cannot be in love. Because love means never doubting that you are with that guy and wanting another. However dont break it off with him. Just try to focus more on him

Q: 15/f & 16/m (both are 16)

***THIS IS LONG!!***

I was dating this one guy named *Dustin* for about 1 year and a half. We both had sex and we were each other's first.

Well that was about 2 years ago. After we broke up, we decided to stay really good friends. But now i've been dating this one guy named *Brandon* for about 8 months. Everything is perfect, but it seems like *Dustin* is jealous. But he hasn't exactly told me. You can just tell though. And he still is ever since I started dating.

*Brandon* invited me to a family trip hes taking. And we were planning on having sex there. Somehow the word got out & *Dustin* found out and was crushed. He got soo mad at me and soo jealous! He was practically calling me a slut and a whore. I was soo sad that he said that. And of course Brandon knew what Dustin said that so he came over the same day and he was just there for me saying how it was okay and how he loved me and stuff. Brandon of course knew about me and Dustin's relationship. And I can just tell that he thought we should belong together(me and Dustin). But i made sure that Brandon knew i loved being with him.
The next day Dustin CAME OVER my house IN THE RAIN riding his retarded little bike and knocked on my door. He was saying how he was soo sorry for saying that and it just made me cry seeing him so hurt! Then *Dustin* grabbed me and started kissing me. Now remember, i was still with *Brandon*. I NEVER TOLD ANYONE WHAT HAPPENED! I didn't want anyone to find out and having it eventually getting to Brandon. So we are still going on the family trip. =\. And still planning on having sex. Dustin thought it was going to change something(the kiss), but it really hasn't. I mean, i just couldn't tell Brandon what happened because i knew it would crush him! They both are really great guys. But when i was dating Dustin, he cheated on me & that really hurted me since i put soo much trust in him. Brandon NEVER did anything to question our relationship. But Dustin just made me feel really better about myself & stuff. He always did cute little things for me.

*Problem*- The family trip is tomorrow & i just need to decide. Should i stay here with Dustin & break it off with Brandon? Or should i go with Brandon to the family trip and end up having sex?...Ah its totally freaking me out! I have the choice if we want to have sex at the trip.Brandon will totally understand since hes caring/nice like that.
I have no idea what to do! Brandon's family really likes me too and it would crush them if i broke up with Brandon. Nobody really accepted Dustin, but he's just so perfect for me. But so is Brandon. What do you guys think? Please help me. I feel soo stuck and confused! =( Thank you so much.

Wow this is a very very hard situation. The best advice I can give is:
Search deep inside your heart and think about each and every feeling you have. Decided by following your heart. Don't let your family or their families influence your decision. In the long run your just gonna hurt yourself and either Dustin or Brandon. To me it sounds more like you want Brandon but have some slight feelings for Dustin..but to me they only sound like feeelings cause you dated him once before. I would stick with the new guy. If you want more advice Im me at Mirokusbbysango or email me at Tearsintherain08@yahoo.com

Q: I was fingering myself for the first time, and inside of my vagina, like I feel bubbles. Like the vagina walls. What exactly should they feel like? Thanks.

You may just be feeling hair follicles or maybe its simply a rash. However if you are really worried about this then maybe you should go see a gyn.

Q: i need help i have a friend that i think is being mean. she would say thats she liked the same guyi did like 6 times and she copys me she doesnt beleive me and she knows all my deepest darkest secrets. she says she is my best friend. but im not so sure her name is kerrii need help someone please answer

Hmm I use to have this problem. why not talk to your friend about it. And to be honest if she keeps on acting this way I don't think you should remain her friend.

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I am a very open minded person and you can basically ask me whatever you want. I will not lie to you I will only give you the straight truth. So if you don't want the truth..simply don't ask it. Other than that FEEL FREE TO ASK ANYTHING

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-I am bisexual
-I do not support abortion (with rare exceptions)
-I do not like Bush
-I don't know much about politics
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