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The names Maeghan. Yeap, I spell it weird.

I'll admit it; I'm young, inexpirenced, and I make mistakes pretty much everyday. But I learn quickly and try to not to put myself in the same positions the next time around.

Though, I'm a terrible speller and that will never change.

I'm single and actually very happy with it. I've gained independance and a sense of being my own person because of being single and getting out of a bad relationship.

Ask my about anything & I'll try to help as much as I can! :)

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okey, so I've been e-mailing back and forth with a crush, and I finally told him how I feel, so I've been waiting nervously to see what he asnwers..and today I found out, I cant!! Someone's hacked into my hotmail and changed all my info. Does anyone know how I can get it back? Or hack into mine just like this person did? I fear if I get hotmail-staff involved they'll take away ALL the emails before I get it back, because they did that last time someone stole my hotmail (an other one) so what do I do? Does anyone know how to hackk? I REALLY NEED TO GET MY HOTMAIL BACK! and like I've saved all his emails, just as a memory, so I dont want to lose those..
Any advice?
Thank you bunches.

Theres really nothing you can do except tell the hotmail staff. My best bet would be to stop using hotmail and use another email service (Yahoo maybe) since its been causing you problems. Make sure you get your crushes email and tell him what happened (in case the person who hakced you sent him something) Sorry, but its really the only thing you can do :[

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hi i'm 13 years old, almost 14..and i've never been kissed before in my life. not on the cheeks or lips or ANYWHERE! and i've never even had a boyfriend in my life either. but i want one SO badly! i dont care if my first kiss isnt "real" or whatever..i just want puppy love! i dont care! i just want it to happen..i dream about it so much everynight. and i feel like such a loser because it feels as if every other 13-14 year old girl in the world has been kissed except me. even some of my more unattractive friends have...idk. i dont think i'm hideous or fat or mean or any of hte above...but i dont know ..something about me must turn guys off..just please help idk what to do. and if i'm ever going to get my first kiss soon

Don't worry about it, I was in the same situation. Throw a party, or go to a party where they're playing spin the bottle and put yourself out there. Bring it up when your with your friends and just go with the flow. Usually its not that guys find anything thats a turn off, they just dont know that you want to kiss, hooked up, etc. Show them that side of you :]

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I've never made out before and ive kissed just on the lips loads of times but how do you know when he's going to start using his tongue, and how do you know what to do when he starts to do it and how do you know he is going to do it? And where do you put your hands?

Thanks for all the help!

Usually most guys go right into making out. Most arent into just kisses on the lips or anything. You'll feel his tounge, and everything will fall into place. Really, I asked questions like this to my friends too about what you do and all they told me is you'll know what to do when it happens; Which is completly true. Usually you keep your hands around his waist. Never use teeth, period. Making out is for your lips and tounge lol, keep it that way. - Meg

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one of my best guy friends constantly smokes. he is only about 13 or 14, which really makes me sad for him. he said he quit, but he hasn't. i really care about him and am concerned, i've tried getting rid of the cigarette while he was using it, and trying to explain to him that i care, but he is not emotional at all (he doesn't cry over relationships, and not even when his brother died). i would appreciate suggestions on how to get him to quit completely. thanks!

Werid enough, smoking makes you feel good. Its not just to look cool or because you're addicted to it. Smoking can be his way of dealing with issues he has (death of his brother maybe?) Its very addictive, and trying to get him just to quit instanty wont work. You need to just let him go his own way. Yes, its hard and I've seen friends of mine choose cigarettes and other drugs trying to fit in and deal with stress. Maybe its what made him start thats holding him back from stopping? Ask him about it. Sorry if I wasnt any help, but its his decision :/ - Meg

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Hey, I was wondering if anyone had make-up tips for someone with hazel eyes? Well, hah, I have hazel eyes, fair-medium skin, and darkish hair thats shoulder length, sometimes I side part it sometimes I don't. Any help would be nice, thanks.

I have hazel eyes too, the best thing to do is to not over do it. Hazel eyes are pretty enough, and piling on makeup can make them seem less attractive.(aka using tons of mascara) Using a fairy good eyeliner that isnt too dark with light green eyeshadow can really bring them out. Light pink lipgloss gives you that classic look and goes well with dark hair. If that doesnt workout for you, just go nuts and try new things when you're at home, take pics and get feedback from friends and guys. Or just wear it out and public and see if anything changes. - Meg

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I need help. My fish, Snowflake looks hurt and stuff. I think another fish might've damaged him, but that doesn't matter, becuase I think he is dieing. He sits at the top of the fish bowl, not dead, but almost as if he was. He has small darkish red stains at the top of his scales, as if he was bleeding, and a very small part of his top fin looks somewhat like it was bitten or something. I went to Neopets for help, and a nice girl was nice enough to help me. She said that he might have a type of illness called "Ick", but I want to know if it is true. She said that there is also a medicine for it, but I just want to make sure that it is "Ick", so that I won't waste my money on something worthless. Please help me.

Usually ick starts to appear as white spots, not red. He was probably getting attacked by the other fish (It depends what type of fish he is) Best choice is to remove him from the tank if thats whats happeneing. If you wanna futher cheak the symptoms of ick just go to google and type "Ick" in, im sure you'll get many results.

- Meg

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i met this girl on a school trip to another city. well we hung out a bit n danced a little n i think shes cute. well when i got back to my city all i knew about her was her name and that she went to a school near where i went to, cuz i forgot to ask for a number. well i asked a friend that goes to that school about her and turns out she lives down the street from him, so iono should i go visit? would that be stalkin? cuz i didnt mean to find out where she lived, i juss asked about her. would it be weird?


if it is weird wat else could i try, she dont have mysapce n other stuff

honestly, any girl would love that.
bring the friend along if you feel werid, but make sure he knows when to leave so you two can be alone, and make sure to get her number this time lol
- Meg

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On here I just read that guys have their first kiss before girls. Ive had my first kiss but only for a dare though (that sounds sad but it was with a really hot guy i'm into so its ok really) . I just wondered why guys have their first kisses before girls?

well think of it as this way ..
How is that possible that they get kissed first when a guy needs a girl to kiss with? (Unless their gay) Neither sex gets kisses first or last or whatever.

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Do you use pads or tampons?

pads at night, (since its really unsafe to wear tampons for more than 8 hours) and tampons during the day since they're cofortable/you forget you have your period.

- Meg xo

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hi i need a job and well lets just say im kind of bad with money lol i need a job that i can do over the summer that i dont need like be a cashier lol i know theres not alot but i would just like some ideas.

be a caddy at a local golf course, if you work there during a tournament you can make $700 in one day. The downside is the bags are heavy and its hot in the summer, but pay is great.

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OK i think this guy that I have been bffs with forever likes me. I wicked like him too. Only problem is, i could be wrong cus like, im fat. Hes cute too. I guess my question is .. does weight matter to everyone. And im a really big tomboy, i dont wear cute preppy clothes like all of my friends because i dont like things w/ a tight fit, im like a DD. Just please help !

true fact: guys love girls with a little "meat" I couldnt believe how my old ex liked me, but I relized its your personality thats draws them in. Screw other girls. He likes you, not them. Dont put yourself down, build up confidence and talk to him about your feelings :)

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hi, my name is sarah and im 13 i finally have my very first b/f and we have been going out now for about 14 days and last monday at religion i wanted to kiss him but i had a huge cut on my face that looked like a zit and my older brother who is 14 was acting like a 2 year old stabbing me with a pencil and trowing my shoe across the room that kind of stuff and then he ruined the part where i was sopposed to kiss him so tomorrow i want to go and kiss him not a peck and not to long and i want to know if i should just do it in front of everyone or go on the stairs at the end of religion and kiss him long or short? and he is kinda shorter than me so i want to know lik what to do so he doesnt have to reach if u know what i mean? and how do i get my brother to stay away from me at religion so i can hold my b/f 's hand and not be bored in class!?

Take it from me; kissing in class is not a good thing. Wait until you're out of class or somewhere a bit more private since your classmates (and brother) will not let you live it down. A quick kiss can’t really hurt, but if you’re looking for a longer kiss (like hooking up) don’t make it public. As for the height problem, sitting down is the best as you can lean back and he can become "taller" so everything equals out. Do little things to keep yourself entertained during class like sending him text messages (or real notes), maybe touching his arm and holding hands underneath a table so your brother won’t see.

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Does anyone kno any good names for an all girl band?I rate 5's!

If its a rock band -
Cunts Whore's
Silence Above the Music
Sick Black Listick
Martini Glasses & Empty Bottles
Mixed Tapes
Collided Cars

For a preppyish band name -
Killer Queens
Hard Plastic
Pink High Heels



lol all these names arent exactly appropiate.

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I'm 14/f
I think im fat and I wanna lose weight. I don't eat breakfast or lunch and barely dinner. All my friends are worried about me and try to get me to eat but I just say i'm not hungry. My question is, is this that serious and that unhealthy? Thanks!

I'm not usually hungry either since I wake up so late. Not eatting wont help you lose weight, it actually makes you gain it. It could possibly be a sign of having a disease or soemthing but I highly dought it, but that doesnt mean you shouldnt look into it. Ask your doctor is the best advice I can give. - Meg

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well i got certain dri on tuesday,it worked amazing,but on friday i started to use it everyother day.then on saturday i used it again and on sunday i used it again.but it seems to be not working.is there something wrong.please help.thanks

I use it too, and weridly enough it seems you can slow down the rate of which you use it otherwise you do sweat more. I know it seems werid. You dont have to use it everyday in fact ive gotten by a whole week without using it, your body just needs to get used to it. Bathing I think might affect it even though it says it doesnt.

Meg `

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