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How do you download games from computer into nintendo ds?


you can download nintendo ds games at
http://www.rom-freaks.net/


Step1
Turn off all Nintendo DS systems.
Step2
Insert a game card into the host system.
Step3
Turn on each Nintendo DS system.
Step4
Start the game on the host system. Tap the game title on the touch screen with the stylus.
Step5
On the client systems, tap the "DS Download Play" on the DS Menu Screen.
Step6
On the next screen, select the game to download.
Step7
Tap “Yes” to confirm.
Step8
Wait for the download to complete and the game to start.

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Does anyone know of good flirting tips?
I really need help.

Some good flirting techniques are:

playing with your hair, be positive, smile a lot, touch his arm, eye contact is good too!

When talking to them, make sure you are interested in whatever they have to say...but dont overkill it and be too obvious.

Make cute remarks, joke around with him, ect.

Look into his eyes

Hold the gaze

Drop your gaze to the lips.

Back up to the eyes.

Repeat, occasionally.

Subtle, but, oh, so effective!

Whisper. This usually gets their attention. Avoid shouting. Check your voice; it may sound like a grill.

Make sure you dont come off as easy, at first you just want to come off as sweet :]

Don't stay in a group. No guyy can bear a rejection in front of a herd. Also, he may feel that he can't approach you because of your friends.


If you need anymore just msg me :]

Good luck

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Ok im a 17year old guy I really really like this girl who is in my school and I think that she likes me though i cant be sure but the problem is that she is 3 years younger than me.I was wondering if i asked her out would people think that im a wierdo because im going out with 14year old girl?.
Im still going to ask her out but im just curious.

Of course people are going to think it is strange, but who cares what they think. Considering she probably is in 8th grade, and your probably in 11th. So, yeah just be aware to defend your relationship with her. :]

Personally, i think age is just a number and if the feelings are there, then that is great!

Good luck

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My mom is pregnant with a boy (her first boy). She's 36 weeks pregnant now. She's having some really hard problems today and I thought I'd post it on Advicenators to see if someone could help her cope or tell her what is going on.

She says that her vagina hurts a lot and almost feels like it's on fire. This pain is causing her to be unable to pee on her own. My mom said it hurts so much that she feels like she just can't let go of the muscles to go pee. She simply cannot relax.

The more she tries to go, the more it hurts. She says it's not like a UTI (Urinary Tract Infection) as she's had them before. There isn't anything to cause the burning like a UTI because she cannot even start.

The only way she has been able to go pee is by filling the bathtub up with warm to hot water, sitting it it, and then going. She says that the warm-hot water takes away the pain.

She doesn't know if this is normal since she's pregnant with a boy this time around or if it's pain associated with her age (late 30s). She's 36 weeks pregnant, her doctor is out of town, and it's Saturday so she cannot just head over to the doctor's office since they're closed for the day.

I am trying to convince her to go to the ER (Emergency Room) but she is afraid that this might be normal and she'll rack up medical bills for nothing.

Can anyone shed some light on what is happening? If this is as serious as I would take it, could someone please tell me how to convince her to seek emergency care?

If she cant, she needs medical attention right away. Something may be blocked, and not being able to urinate on a regular basis will cause harm to your mother and the fetus.

It is a sign that something is wrong.

I hope your mom is okay :]

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I have a Maine Coon cat that I recently took to the veterinarian for a check-up, really. I just wanted to make sure my Maine Coon cat was healthy. :)

The Vet looked at my Maine Coon cat and did a few swabs and such. They told me that my Maine Coon cat had worms! It was okay though because they gave me some cat dewormer, and enough cat dewormer in case this happened again.

I was wondering something very strange though. Can I get worms from my Maine Coon cat? The cat has obviously had these more than just today so do I need to find some sort of dewormer for me to use too?

Roundworms and hookworms can be transmitted from pets to humans. Thousands of people in the U.S. become infected with roundworms and hookworms every year.

Humans become infected with roundworms when they ingest infective eggs from the soil or from their hands or another object. Large numbers of the eggs can accumulate in the soil where dogs and cats are allowed to defecate. The eggs are sticky, and can collect on the hands and under the fingernails of people. Children, and others who may not have good hygiene, are most prone to becoming infected.

People become infected with hookworms when the hookworm larvae in the ground penetrate through the skin. Persons who have contact with the ground, especially for long periods of time, such as plumbers or electricians, and sunbathers, especially those lying on wet sand or ground, are at increased risk.

Roundworm eggs and hookworms eggs and larvae need to be in the environment approximately two weeks, before becoming infective, so direct contact with an infected animal generally does not result in transmission. However, young puppies may continually contaminate their entire litter area. Adults and children who handle the ***** or puppies or who clean the area may be especially at risk.

If a human ingests roundworm eggs, the subsequent larvae can migrate through the person's tissues (this condition is called "visceral larva migrans") or eye ("ocular larva migrans"). Hookworm larvae migrate through the skin and cause a disease known as "cutaneous larval migrans."

To prevent human infection, good hygiene is extremely important. Teach children, especially, to wash their hands after playing and before eating. Do not let children play in areas where dogs or cats may have defecated. Do not allow cats to use sandboxes or the garden as litter boxes. Worm your pets as recommended, keep the environment clean, and control rodent populations

GOOOD LUCK!

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this is embarasing.... so me and my bf were dry humping he had on boxers and i had underwear and capries he ejaculated on my upper thigh when i went to change my clothes i could feel wetness from me in my underwear then a dry area then wetness from him on my capreis so our discharge did not touch. could i get pregnent? im freaking out please please help me

No, its not possible. you are fine :]

And the person below is wrong, hot water and soap cant get rid of sperm.

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Okay so my friend Anna moved away a few years ago. While she was here she had a best friend Stephanie. Right before Ana Left her and Stephanie got in a huge fight and never talked again. Im stil best friends with Anna but have recently been hanging out with Stephanie a lot and were becoming good friends. I tell Anna everthingg but im really scared to tell her That im hanging out with Stephanie. Do you think its wrong im hanging out with Stephanie even though her and Anna are complete enemies. Or should i just tell Anna the truth.

I would just be honest with anna. The reason i think this is because like the person said below, if she finds out from somebody else, it will be a much worse situation. You can either start the convo out with, anna i really need to tell you something because you are my good friend. Or you can just bring it up in a subtle manner.

Either way, if anna gets mad and doesnt talk to you, then she isnt a real friend.

Friends arent supposed to tell you who you can or cannot be friends with. That is your choice.

I dont think it is wrong, people mature and stephanie probably matured from a few years ago. Therefore, she probably let the whole argument between you three go.

Good luckk!

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I have a lisp like the one Stacey has from Zoey 101. How can I get rid of it because people laugh at me when I talk and I think i'm normal but people don't like me only because of how I talk. How do I get rid of it????????And if I can't will guys still want to go out with me no matter how I talk?Thanks.

Yes, you can get rid of it. You have to attend speech therapy though. Your school might even have special speech classes that can help you. Talk to your nurse about that.

My friend used to have a lisp, and she went to speech therapy.

However, she always had boyfriends. They thought her lisp was adorable, so it depends on the guy. Guys will want to go out with you no matter how you talk, some are just jerks and suck at life :]

Good luck

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In History we have to write letters as if we're the soliders writing home and I want to make my letter seem old but I forgot how.

The only thing that was on my mind was coffee but I dont drink coffee and I know that there are so many different ways that people have their coffee. =/

I should handwrite it myself right? And..with a pencil?

A couple years ago, i had to do the same thing.

I actually handwrote the letter with a pen, and then got wet tea bags, and rubbed them all over it for the old look.

Then, (you might need a parent to use a lighter) I burnt holes in the paper and made it look old that way too :]

rip some holes around it, and all of that together will do the trick!

GOOD LUCK

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is there a website you can get free tmobile ringtones from and they send it to your phone?

yes, i use

www.myxertones.

its amazing


but i use to use

www.phonezoo.com


in my opinion the first one is better, but you can decided! :]

just make an account :]

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There is this guy at school that I sort of like. I'm not sure whether I really like him or not. I hope you guys can help me know if I truly like him.

Thanks, with love
~!MysteriousGirl!~

If you are questioning whether you like him are not, chances are you dont.

Here are a couple signs that means you DO like him:

-if you think about him a lot
-if he makes you laugh and smile
-if you enjoy his company
-if his happiness means something to you
-when you see him, you get butterflies
-your heart will beat faster when you are around him

Basically, just listen to your heart...and go with your gut feeling :]

Good luck!

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so i've been wanting to use tampons for a very long time.
but i just could never find the right hole.
a couple weeks ago i just tried and stayed relaxed and it was going in.
then it just kind of like hit something, then all of a sudden, it went in really easily.
and now i can take them in and out with not really a problem.
(except on the way out, it kind of hurts. but i know that's natural)
well i was wondering, do you think i broke my hymen maybe?

I am almost positive you broke your hymen. The same thing happened to my friend. Tampons can easily break your hymen. The reason she knew it was broke is because when she went to have sex, it didnt hurt much and it went in pretty easily, nor did she bleed

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okay i i asked the question about gyno and what to do,


will she tell your parents if youre sexually active?

No, everything you tell them is confidental. The only way they can tell is if what you are doing is harmful to you..

Make sure you also tell her not to say anything :]

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for the first time. and i was wondering should you completely shave or trim or what before you go.?

what did you do? and is it as bad as it sounds. i'm going so i can go get on the pill.

I just went the first time about three days ago.
It honestly wasnt as bad as everyone said it is.
Although, i didnt get a pap smear.

I shaved all the way, but i always do that. I would just do whatever you are comfortable with.

I also went because i wanted to get on birth control.

This is what happens...

You have to fill out paper work, since its your first time.

You also have to bring a sample of your pee, they prefer when you first wake up since it is the strongest.

The nurse didnt really ask me much, we just were talking about different things.

Then the doctor came in, she asked if i was sexually active. She asked how many partners, and if i use protection everytime. She asked when the last time i had sex, and she asked if i ever had any stds.

She also asked me how many people i am currently having sex with.

After that, she will pull out this silver looking thing. Its so she can see your cervix and she talks you through it and tells you what she is doing. She might give you a pap smear, i am not sure.

But that basically sums it all up :]

GOODLUCK!

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how do you tell someone that theyre your first kiss and first boyfriend ? it juss seems awkward. should you tell them before you kiss them that you havnt kissed anyone or afterwards?

I agree with the person below. I wouldnt tell him, and i didnt tell my first person either. Besides, if you tell them you will feel more pressure :]

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okay me and my boyfriend made 5months this monday, and its been pretty qood, like monday he and i was happy that it's been 5months and at the end of the day at school monday he was like "5months baby" and all over me, but our relationship is kinda weird, like i love him and he loves me, but there's days where our love is strong and there's days our love isn't strong and i kinda hate it, because it hurts mee alot, like i dont know what to do, i try to be all over him, but no pushy thouqh, but its whatever too him. And when we have days like these i hate it, and it really hurts me, can you hellp please because i have no idea what to do.

Thanks for writing in my inbox. :]

Well first off, love cant sometimes be strong and sometimes not be. That just doesnt make sense, i am just trying to clarify that.

Also, I think you should just ask him and tell him how you feel. You and i can have 567865456 guesses and maybe still not know what is bothering him.

Basically, there isnt much else you can do but talk to him. You guys have been dating for five months (congrats!) so you should be able to be pretty upfront with him about certain situations, and this is one of them :]

Also, you can TRY to do the same thing back to him. To show him how it feels, but i wouldnt really recommend that. I wouldnt because, it is somewhat childish but just an idea :]

Good luckk

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I have medium length, thick and wavy blond hair. I was wondering how you get scrunched hair that keeps its shape and that looks like wet curls. I love hair like that and I can never get mine to stay. I bought Herbal Essences curl scrunching gel and it doesn't do what I want it to do. Any help would be wonderful.

Aussie sprunch is amazing!

What i usually do is get a shower, let it towel dry for about 10 minutes or so. Then i blow dry it a bit, but i DONT fully dry it. then, when my bangs are dry and when its not TOTALLY wet then i usually use sprunch by aussie and scrunch it, and go upside down spray it, and scrunch more until i think it looks okay :]

I also use hairspray by sprunch to get it even more curly, you can do that too if you wish

Good luck

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im 18/f and a virgin-i believe in no sex until after marriage. so dont worry about your advice, im not a little 13 year old about to have sex.

so ive been with this guy for a long time, and i was thinking that i want to have sex with him for my first time. i was just wondering if it would hurt? and will there be blood?

It is different for everyone, but usually the first time does hurt. Even the 2nd, 3rd and 4th may hurt.

There may not be blood the first or second or even the third time you have sex. I know i didnt bleed until about the 5th time i had sex. It just depends on when your hymen breaks.

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What are some really good flirting techniques? wether it be physical or verbal. And for a teenage girl.

Some good flirting techniques are:

playing with your hair, be positive, smile a lot, touch his arm, eye contact is good too!

When talking to them, make sure you are interested in whatever they have to say...but dont overkill it and be too obvious.

Make cute remarks, joke around with him, ect.

Look into his eyes

Hold the gaze

Drop your gaze to the lips.

Back up to the eyes.

Repeat, occasionally.

Subtle, but, oh, so effective!

Whisper. This usually gets their attention. Avoid shouting. Check your voice; it may sound like a grill.

Make sure you dont come off as easy, at first you just want to come off as sweet :]

Don't stay in a group. No guyy can bear a rejection in front of a herd. Also, he may feel that he can't approach you because of your friends.


If you need anymore just msg me :]

Good luck

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Someone told me I could download ringtones to my phone because of my charger being a motorola one that fits into the computer is this true?

I dont think thats true.

However, if you want great FREE ringtones you can go to

www.myxertones.com

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