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hey, i was talking to my friend manny [boy] and we were talking about dancing and he was like

manny: do you shake it?


is that a good thing if i say yes or no? (link)
oh g-d he's one of those jackass boys lol umm for those kind of boys, it's good if you know how to "shake it" -..- it's just shaking your ass basically


Theres this guy i realllly like. None of my friends think he is good for me so i can't talk to them about it. i met him a few weeks ago and i think he has the best personality ever and hes super cute. Well he has girlfriend but he never mentions her in conversations i have with him. He came and saw me at work today and we sat out on the bench together then when i had to go back i stood up and hes like do i get a hug and i said of course he gave me a hug and squeezed me really tight.

I hate that he has a girlfriend he flirts with me and i like him alot. im trying to not let my feelings show alot but they problly are.

What do you guys think i should do? i don't want to stop talking to him, he's probly one of the coolest, down to earth guy i have ever met and i love being around him.

thanks. (link)
i think you should give it more time. if you guys keep on talking and the guy start liking you, maybe he realizes that his gf doesn't have what you have.... but just cuz he doesn't talk about his gf in your conversations, that doesn't mean that he doesn't love her.. so... all i'm saying is, maybe give it some time and when you can't take it anymore.. maybe you should talk to him about it or decide to move on..


Well I kinda wanna be an actress. I don't really live in a huge town where auditions and stuff happen so I was wondering if anyone knew of anything that I could try out for or something. I live in New York ... And I'd appreciate any knowledge you guys have of stuff like this. Thanks. (link)
check out this website

http://www.actornews.com/display.php?cat=5


that's the least i could get... but... maybe search for an agent. they can help you with getting auditions.


i need some guitar tabs..i'm a beg. like real beg. i can barely play happy birthday...but i'd like to star playing rythems and make my own words...any ideas..and if anyone plays guitar who can help me...i'd love some help!
thx
15/female (link)
this is a great tabs site

http://www.ultimate-guitar.com

can't really help you with rhythms online, but, maybe take a music class or something


im going to run track this year so i was wondering what all i should do to get ready for it? i know i need to run of course, but what else? thanks for the help! (link)
incrase your stamina and speed. maybe run on a treadmill and let it come. once you run longer and longer you'll get stamina. jump roping can help a little too


i want to get clearer skin, but im nto sure how i can do it where i do not spend like 100 dollars. so any tips? anything that really works well? i want no acne, blackheads, nothing! just a clean and clear face. (link)
proactiv seems to work well for lots of people. it's a 3 step thing and it's about 40 to 50 dollars but it depends on what kind of stuff and how many stuff you get. try www.proactiv.com .. it's something like that.

but when you order from there, they send you it every month and gets money out of your credit card... so... maybe go on like those tv shopping websites.. like.. hsn or w/e and they might have them there


Anyone have any tips on getting more ungrossed out with doing stuff with a guy that involves his penis? Cause its not like i dont want to do stuff with him, its just like..i dont like penises. i find them gross. so we'll dry hump and grab/touch each other but i want to do more but i dont like the thought of touching his bare penis. can someone tell me how to get over that? thanksss. ill rate high! (link)
maybe you're just not ready yet. when you're in relationship, that doesn't mean that you have to have sex and give blowjobs all the time


i cant put a tampon in. i have tried so hard. but i can not seem to know where your supposed to put it in. everyones liek the hole. but what hole? im so confused. i have tried several times. im afraid im going to put it in somewhere wrong or try to put it in and it hurts me like where something goes wrong with me. please help! i want to use one so bad! (link)
try a pad if it doesn't work out

or talk to your mom


How do you "hit on" a guy? (link)
being attractive looking tends to help a lot -..- but those kinds of guys that flirt for looks are just jackasses


she cries and does things so sweet and fights to keep me but shes always so secretive.is she a true lover? (link)
crying doesn't mean that she's a true lover. give it some time. maybe she's feeling something that she's just not ready to tell yet or something. you can't blame her for not being able to be true with somebody she loves because.... sometimes things just don't work that way.


I really like this guy but he's so hung up on his ex-girlfriend. He has her on his top people on his myspace, he still text messages her, he's so nice to her and she treats him like shit that's why they broke up. Like if we talk shit to her he like apologies to her. He's like whipped by someone he's not even with they were only together for like 3 months. I like him a lot and he flirts with me but he's still hung up and I don't wanna be with someone who still talks to there ex girlfriend. What should I do? (link)
well, since you guys aren't going out you can't really blame him for being so hung up. just tell him to move on and help him with it because the girl sounds like she definately doesn't care about him anymore. he might want another chance with her but that's when you gotta be there for him. tell him the truth: what you think about her, how you think what he's doing with his ex is a lil stupid. it's not so wrong to have their ex's on their top friends and texting them. if they broke up and became good friends, he's allowed. but i don't see how that's possible cuz you said she treats him like shit. so.. idk... maybe tell him how you feel about him and maybe if he likes you back he'll realize starting over is better than making over.


when i talk to my friends on the phone
i can like be all like crazy and stuff
and we always think of stuff to talk about
like the most random stuff
but when i talk to a guy that i like
its like blah.
i dont even think of anything to talk about
and im shy
and me and this guy text alottt
and we live kinda far away and we might start a relationship
but its gonna hurt us alot if we do
becasue its my fault casue i like dont talk
and i hate it. im just really shy to guys i like
and he always gets mad at me cause i dont talk
so any suggestions what we can talk about
like i seriosuly need help with it
because we both like eachother alottttt!
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talking online with someone you like helps a lot. you can be as random you want but you don't wanna be too random.. just so they don't think you're annoying.

to talk on the phone, maybe talk about your day or how their day was. talk out your feelings if something's wrong.. maybe suggest meeting up some day since you guys live far away from eachother.

it's really up to you to take it as far as it can get. he can't blame you for not talking, lot of girls are like that. don't stress too much... just let him understand.


i'm really really bored with all the books i have read. i'm ready for a new good one. i don't like to read books that are about life, but more like one's that tell a story. i would like to start a new series. i like the harry potter books and sisterhood of the traveling pants. i'm 15 and female. i am smart so nothing that's really easy to read but nothing that takes to much thinking either. any suggestions? (link)
The Good Earth - i think that was a good book.

it's about a chinese farmer and like he's trying to become rich and he's going through all these trust problems and land problems and then he becomes rich but then his sons betray him when he dies....

Flower for Algernon- i LOVED this book

it's about a mentally challenged guy and some scientists are doing an experiment on him whether they can make a person more intelligent. he DOES become intelligent but the people that were his friends sees him differently now. it has a really good ending.



What are some good rock songs? As well as rap?

Also, I love the CD Linkin Park did with Jay-Z are there any CDs out there similar to that?

Thanks. (link)
if you loved linkin park w/ jay-z.

try Gym Class Heroes.

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I want to get better for softball and all but no matter what i do i never get any better. i wanna make a traving team next year. so i need all the help i can get.
Allie (link)
i began playing last year and this summer i definately got better.

you need to work on your catching (air ball, grounders, just catching and throwing), batting, running (being fast can definately help), etc.

practice with experienced players can help. so, maybe if you have friends that have played softball for maybe 3 years or more, you should definately ask them to help you.


15. 5"9 160 pounds

ive been running and exercising for most of the summer for at least 1 hour each day AND i ate NOTHING but healthy foods and drank NOTHING but water, with a treat every weekend or so. but i dont feel or see the weight loss..and this week i was so frustrated with lack of results i just ate everything i saw..and then i went out and bought like 3 jumbo ice creams and ate them all..and then i went to walmart and bought and ate a lot and lot of candy (m&ms mostly, hah) and now i feel so FAT! every time i feel my thighs touch i just feel awkward and hateful of my body. (which is totally not healthy. i know)

sooo..do you think I could lose 5 pounds by the time school starts (sept 5. 3 weeks from now.)? That's about 2 pounds a week..i feel like losing 5 pounds will really up my morale to getting my weight goal of 140 pounds by the end of this year. i'll have only 15 pounds to go and 3 months to do it.

oh and what are some exercises i could do to speed up the weight loss? besides running, that is. (link)
food that involve lots of protein can help.

if you eat food that include carb (like sugar), your body's gonna wanna burn that first instead of the fat. so, eat more protein than carb.

food that involve protein are.. chicken..steak... etc (search for more lol)

and if you wanna lose weight as fast you want to, then, eat protein bars or ask a guy at a store called GMC. that's a store for athletic people or people that's trying to lose weight.


I was wondering what running shoes are best to run the track with.
I have Nike Shox, but they really hurt my legs when I run the track with them. However, they are good for running on concrete, like a bike trail. I also have other Nike shoes, but they offer no support. I've heard that asics are good to run in. Should I get them? Or should I get another brand?
Thankss. (link)
if you want comfort while you're running, i think you should buy basketball shoes... maybe like.. jordans or something. they're comfortable and they support your feet to legs.


have you ever had a friend that's told you they've kept something from you for a long time and that they're afraid of telling you what it is because they're afraid your gonna look at them differently and not be they're friends anymore..then you ask them what it was but they don't say anything.. what would you tell them, or do in this situation??? just need some advice from other people.... thankz * Skyla * (link)
i have been in this situation before. because i was the one keeping the secret =D

what you should tell them is "whatever it is, i'm still going to be your friend. trust me i'll be fine with it. even if i wasn't, we're friends, i'll work on it for me to be fine with it because that's what friends do" or something like that


I have to get up at 6:00 A.M for high school... In your opinion, is it better to shower the night before, or when you wake up? Because, I have P.E...and when I take a shower, I preferably wash my hair. So, which way do you do it? This is a really weird question LOL (link)
night before. you're gonna be sweaty once you're in pe anywayz and it always feels good to go to sleep after you take a shower xD


what is a good cheap mp3 player or a website where everything is very cheap... thanks (link)
limewire. it's free. lol but you gotta download it. i'm not sure if it's for mp3's tho




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