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Last Update: September 21, 2013
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I am a female. Me and my boyfriend have been discussing taking the next step in our relationship, and we are both ready. But I was just wondering...what do you ladies do while your man fingers you? I don't really know what I'm supposed to do as the recipient. Laying there doing nothing just seems like it would be awkward. Any pointers? (link)
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kissing him and moaning or even deep breathess. whatever you do DO NOT sit there quietlyy! it will make them feel self coinscience about themselves and make them feel like they are not pleasing you
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Im a boy, 18 years old, about to graduate high school.
for some reason, lately, everything just seems dark to me. Like i feel uninterested in everything and apathetic. I dont repond to my friends much, and dont hangout much anymore, and i always just feel like being alone and i dont wanna do anything.
Thing is, im currently trying to heal from a heartbreak, and now im missing out on prom, and HS is ending and its kinda sad and everything seems so dark around me. Do i have a problem?
And its not just high school, its everything. Im worried about EVERYTHING. My parents, my college, my money, job, etc. ANd i just feel like going to sleep forever and just lazy around.
I feel like there is nothing to look forward to anymore. What s my deal? Help? (link)
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you might just be going through depression. since your healing through a heartbreak everything might just seem glum. talk to your guy friends about it, if they know you well enough im sure they could think of something cool to get you happy. Or even go to your doctor and tell him/her that you feel like everything is dark, they might have medication for that. im personally not into that kind of thing, but i know that it has helped one of my friends extremely.
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I have a 1987 Chevy G20 with a 4 barrel 400. It just started dying when i start to come to a stop or slow down to turn. It will not usually restart for about 30 to 40 minutes after it dies, just keeps cranking! I have changed the fuel filter. I NEED HELP PLEASE!!! I have 4 children that ride in this van and dont want something to happen because I break down in an intersection or major road! PLEASE HELP!! (link)
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hey okay well for starter's you might just need to get your car in for a check up. A new battery could help because the car is over 20 years old. Check your altinator and spark plugs. If the altinator is not working correctly it can cause your car to break down when slowing down because as you hit the break your altinator starts to use less electricity so it may just stop. And spark plugs , if one snapped or something the energy is not going through. hope i helpedd.
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Approximately one month ago, I finally decided I was ready to tell the world my biggest secret: I was pansexual. I liked both sexes, and everything in between, from transgenders, to transvestites, to...well, everything! My boyfriend was supportive from the get-go, and my close friends comforted me and were always there to talk. After the first few days, I was in heaven. I was finally on the way to becoming free of being confined in the closet.
...that didn't last long.
You see, my boyfriend (to summarize) had a lot of family issues, and is currently living with his close friend. I'll call this friend Z. For easy purposes. Z is not only my boyfriend's closest friend; he is also my best friend K's boyfriend. We are all kinda connected as such. The family he is currently staying with is a steadfast, old-school Christian family. And honestly, I had no problem with that; I'm a Christian myself, and I enjoyed going to their church meetings and helping out. They seemed very open and accepting, and I felt like I wasn't being judged for who I was when I was there...
At first.
I was sitting in one of the youth group meetings they held every Wednesday, just a week or so after revealing myself to my closer friends, when the worship leader (who is Z's mother) began an oddly vicious speech which included the following:
"Trust me, I know. I had a gay best friend. And I knew from the moment he told me, he was going straight to Hell."
I admit, my reaction was a bit unnecessary, but I had to do it anyway. I slammed my chair back, stood up, and walked out of the church.
The next day, Z was relatively silent on the matter, and my boyfriend and friends were there to help me vent my frustration. However, a few days later, an annoying string of facebook comments from him sparked an anger in me I didn't know I could hold. He began criticizing me and insulting my faith, saying that I was going to burn in Hell along with all the other gays. His church friends began to join in, and eventually, so did his father, who slung so many harsh things my way, my mother was ready to slug him.
My boyfriend can't move out, even if he wanted to. His family situation is completely toxic. So now, I am constantly forced into situations where me and Z are in close quarters. We haven't spoken since the incident.
I do not know what to do. My mind tells me to confront him; my heart tells me that he's not worth it, and I had better move on and try to live with him. All I know is that if this continues, there's gonna be a point where I blow up, either at him or at myself, and it's not too far off. I have been so confident in my faith and religion lately, and I feel great about where my life is going. To have him try to take that away from me...I'm not even sure he deserves my anger at all. (link)
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it was completely rude that Z's mother had said that. Z's parents are probably influencing him in their point of view of bi-sexuals. there is nothing wrong with it at all! But if the matter does bother you why dont you try talking to Z's girlfriend , who is also your friend. Tell her that Z really hurt your feelings and still is. It is not his life, and he is not you, he has no right to critisize your sexuality. And if you do not want to talk to your friend, try talking to your boyfriend and have him talk to him about it. well...i hope i helped atleast a little bit. I am sorry for you, you probably dont deserve this.
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im 18/f and hes 19/m
so last night i was up late talking to the guy i really like. He knows how much i love cute songs, and he was playing them to me through skype. Some of the songs were so cute that i actually cried cause it felt like it was coming from him... but i know thats my wishful thinking haha >.<
but he did mention some interesting things.
one of these being him playing a song we were listening to in his car that i mentioned i liked but completely forgot what it was called and whatnot. and i was like "i think i said i liked this song" and hes like "you did. i remember alot :P" which actually surprised me seeing as i spent 10 hours with him that day, yet he still remembers what song i liked haha.
the next bit gets even more interesting and confusing....he started playing another song, and after it finished playing he says this :"this song means alot to me atm" and i was like in a good or bad way? and he's like "both. the lyrics are just a big impact. you'll find out someday =]" the song is called pulse- hit the lights. ill post the lyrics here too.
Might be the light bouncing off of your cheeks,
but tonight i've got these urges to taste you like you wouldn't believe
Could be the night with the color of your skin that excites
this isn't love, shouldn't be, I swore it never again
so tie me up, take my pulse
before i lose control
or we could get ahead
go lose it under sheets instead
Cuz we're alone and you know
that I can't wait to go home
and wake up yet again
broken, bloody in my bed
cause with you i fall apart
it's like every single time
i come unglued, don't know what to do
I can't keep up with you
I fall apart
never again is what I said
but tonight your coming over me
I got these scars with a promise to keep and it shows
But with this feeling I'll take it to wherever it goes
and It's all alright if we just take turns on taking it slow
and if it's love, we can speed it up whenever we know
so tie me up, take my pulse
before i lose control
or we could get ahead
go lose it under sheets instead
me and you, all the trouble we could get in to
if this is only but the start of it then i'm hooked
waiting for another dose of me and you(i'm addicted)
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he could deffinetly be hinting that he has interest in you. not many guys would remember something you said u liked. give it a little more time and see how things lead on =] hope all goes well.
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Okay so I have a bf, and we have been going out for 2 months. And I have a guy friend that asked me to give him a picture of me in my bra, should I? (link)
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absolutely not. 1. pictures can come back to haunt youu. you may regret or if you two get into a fight he may send it aroundd. or he may show his friends the picture and be like shh dont tell her or anyone. and boom all of a sudden the entore school knows. and 2. you have a boyfriend, sending pics to other ppl is known as cheating
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How can I stop being so clingy? I need to get over this. I don't know if it's because I can't trust guys or what. But I seem to always want attention from a guy I'm not with, a guy a like. When they give me attention I take it for granted and actually get annoyed when they talk to me all the time. I can understand myself. Women like me are confusing haha. (link)
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alot of girls are like that. Me for example i love attention from guys. But once you relize ur getting out of hand with a guy automatically slow it down. or from the beginning give yourelf a limit before things get/go to far.
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Any quotes for fake friends? (link)
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friends till the end, fakes are stakes.
fake friends rat you out, true friends will beat fake friends with a bat.
etc..
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My former best friend is a boy. He was the only one who could understand me. Now that we're not friends anymore, I'm confused. I'm jealous when he's with other girls, and I feel crumpled when he's laughing with others, not me. When I see him, my heart pounds and I feel happy. Do I love him or not? I'm so confused! (link)
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it is deffinetly possible that you could love him. or it could be you were just to used to him being around and you miss him with an incredible amount. been there done that...i'm still going through the same thing.. i know it sucks.
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How long does cherry kool aid last in your hair. (link)
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haha! i used to do that to my hair ALL THE TIME!! but it depends on how light or dark your hair is. the darker it is the longer it wll stay in, the lighter your hair is it will fade and be gone with in a shorter period of time.
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ight well me n my girlfriend are haveing problems right now people are telling her stuff bout me n now shes hangin out wit her ex no im not sayin im judgein cuz i trust her but now i find out she added him again on facebook n idk i need help i guess (link)
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hii. i would talk to her about it. say something along the lines of making her choose who she wants. tell her it makes you uncomfortable that she is hanging out with him alone,ask her how it would make her feel if you were hangingout with your ex girlfriend and started adding her on facebook. try to make her see your point of view. hope i helped.
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we've been going out for about 2 1/2 years, give or take, (we've broken up and gotten back together quite a few times). we're both 18. started seeing eachother at 15. been friends since we were 14.
anyway. we've never had any huge issues, except the times we've broken up. those mistakes have been on my part, and i've learned from the past. but this time, he's the one causing problems. he barely calls me anymore. we can only hang out on weekends right now and he never makes an effort to see me. when we're together, everything is like its always been. we're fabulous when face to face, but after i leave his house i rarely talk to him, see him on occasion, but besides that i have no idea what is going on at his house or with his friends, let alone himself. he has a job but doesn't work on weekends. i'm unemployed. he lives about 5 minutes away by car so it wouldn't be difficult to come and see me.
i've tried to mention it to him a few times that i never hear from him, but it never changes anything. like i said, when we're face to face, everything is perfectly fine. its just when we're separated. i haven't told him yet that i'm having problems with him.
i've been thinking seriously about breaking up with him. i want to, but i don't want to. i'm sick of his bullshit but i still love him. i've been wanting to marry him since we were young and i still would love to but right now, things just aren't working out. what do you think i should do? should i tell him what i've been thinking about? should i just dump him? try to stay friends? anything helps! thanks. (link)
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well honestly i think you should just try and talk to him about it. tell him that it really bothers you. you want to be able to see him more often and if not see him atleast hear from him atleast once or tweice a day if not more. couples are supposed to be in constant contact... atleast i think so...i mean not like where are you, when did you leave, when will be home...not like that just know where theyre going or what theyre doing. just talk to him abotu it and how you have been feeling about the whole situation.
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Long story short i found out im pregnant and im not sure whose it is, its driving me crazy i know there is no way well there is a way but not a safe way to find out until i deliver. I know this happens all the time so i was thinking maybe someone would be able to figure this out of have some kind of idea whose it would be. I had my last period Dec 16th - 20th. I had sex with a guy Dec 25th we had sex 3 times that night and i thought something was dripping out of me but never said anything i wasnt sure if it was from him or me so i keep quiet, also he already has a child so i know he has no problems having children, And apparently i was ovulating at this time? The second guy was Jan 1st i know that its so close in time to tell but maybe someone knows more about this then i do. Anyway when i had sex in Jan it was just once that night and i seen him pull out, Would there be more of a chance with the other guy since we had sex 3 times and im not exactly sure he pulled out everytime and he can have kids? Thanks for the help also please dont judge it was a mistake we all make them and im also not the first person this happend too. (link)
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dont worry about being judged, who ever is judging is effed up in the head. it happens...everything happens for a reason. But if you go to the doctor they MIGHT be able to take liquids from your uterus and define who's it may be. but in order to do that they might need blood samples from the two men... this is a very difficult situation. but just go to your doctor and see i there is anyway you can find out whose child it is. i hope i helped.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months. We've been friends for a while though. We are around each other almost 24 7 and if not together we are on the phone.
Sometimes I think about it. I know his likes, his dislikes, where he's from, his middle name, etc, but I feel like I do not know him enough for real. It doesn't scare me, because we have the perfect chemistry, but I want to know him more without crazy questions like a dating site!
Any tips? (link)
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if you ever are kind of bored with him ask to play 20 questions. just ask random questions that you want to know the answer too, youll secretly get to know him better and hell get to know you too. or just ask him questions. not hound him or anything do it little by little. or if you guys ever go out to dinner or anything just be like soo what is your ... ? or anythingg. hope this helpedd =]
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I had this friend and we treat each other like we're best friends but when someone asks us if we're best friends we'll say that we're best enemies. And then, because of different activities, we're rarely talk, only once a month. I really do miss him, but it's hard to talk to him because his friends always surround him, what should I do? (link)
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talk to him anyways? who cares if his friends are always around him , move them out of the way and start a conversation. or get his number and talk to him on the phonee
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i liek this guy but he is 16 and i am 13 and when we made out he told his friends ((their my friends too))and now they make fun of us and i like him a lot and he likes me im sure but i thnk he is restrained from goign out wiht me because he is embarrassed from our friends what should i do? (link)
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hii i have been in your situation many many many times. Actually i am in one right now but mine is much more complex. Just work at it, keep flirting make him stay interested (if he is) and talk to him about it, have it come up in a casual conversation on the phone or through texting (face to face can get embarressing but that if u want) start it out with like soooo....who do you like these days if he likes you he will probably say something along the lines of i cant tell you... or no one. be like there has to be someoneee. just pick at it. than when he asks you be like well....i kinda like youuu. i know it embarresing but it will probably work if he actually likes you
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I have pain in the right side of my throat and I feel a small ball were the pain is at. When i drink, eat, or even swallow the pain increases.
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you probably have strep and it just hasnt spread to the left half of your mouth. go confront your doctor with the problem theyll take care of you =]
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okay um well i had a bf named zac an we have been dating for 3 years an well like everything was going great til he got to clingy n like kept fallowing me everywhere n i kinda started liking some other guy but i still like love him and for some reason he broke up with me . till then we kinda still talk its been 2mouths and i miss him and he misses me n he told me he needs me and loves me n like he does drugs n crap so like i want him to stop doing it n he said he will do anything to get back with me,.. but i kinda told him i still need some space n he said he was going to wait for me n ah i dont know what to do if i should go back out with him (link)
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you are in a similar situation i am still in with my ex boyfriend that i have been on and off with for 3 years. only date him again if YOU are ready too! Talk to him and say listen, i dont like how you do drugs i do not want to get involved in them and i want to be with you sober. can u stop doing them because if you dont i'm not sure we will work out.--- state it nicely. and if you really are unsure make a chart with his name at the top than write pros and cons with a like down the middle, write down all of the things that are good and write all the things that are bad. hopefully that will help you decide. i highly suggest the chart it helps me all the time. i really hope i helped =] if you have anymore questins feel free to ask me =] Good Luckk!
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16/F, in pretty good shape, work out often.
Hi there. I recently just got my first job working at a local pharmacy, and they need to do a drug test on me. Yes, i've smoked in the passed month, but I don't do it everyday nor everyweek. The last time i smoked was 2 weeks ago, and I had 1 hit, thats it, and i can't remember if it was that same week, or the week before, i smoked and i only had 3-4 hits, maybe not even. I have to take my drug test tomorrow, and I can't get out of it. My friends told me to drink a whole bottle of cranberry juice so i'll pee clear and be all set for tomorrow, they think it will work since I barely smoke. Does anyone know if this is going to work? How do I know if its out of my system or not? Are there any other home remedies I can use? I really want this job and my mom would kill me if she found out I smoke. What do I tell her if i don't pass?
Thanks for everything! (link)
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okay well first of all i would drink lots and lots of fluids. try and drain ur system by tomorrow. Hopefully you will pass the test but god forbid you dont...if you can get away with a lie say you had a few poppy bagels or something. because poppy seeds can come up as pot in a drug test. i hope things work out for you! GOOD LUCK!
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i just cant take any more of this life... i have lost my wife,i.e she left me. it kills me ever time i see her when i pick up my kids.. nd when i have to take them back to her.....i love her nd my kids so much but i know its just going to kill me that day she meets someone...i know it will hurt them but in time they will be ok (link)
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Listen, i know you are going through probably one of the roughest times in your life. But stop and think, time heals pain. and everything is going to get worse before it gets better, but in the end everything is going to be okay-maybe even great. everything happens for a reason. Do not leave Earth for a mishap like that. You wouldnt want your kids to be hurting more than they already are do you? Divorces arent only stressful for the couple but lays lots of stress on the kids. for example when new people come into the house. the thought that somethings wrong. the very very last thing they need is another roll of stress to get dealt to them. Just stay calm, and remember god is with you for the best reason. he brought you on this earth for a reason- dont destroy it. you have kids who love you more than anything. Dont destroy what hope they still have.
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