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This question may be stupid, but I'm honestly wondering - why like everyone but ME is getting a boyfriend.
I'm a girl, and i'm 15.
I just dont get why all my friend have boyfriends, and I dont? Is there something wrong wiht me? I've been told numerous times, that my time will come, but geez, i dont want to be like really old!! I want one soon, not because I just want a boyfriend to say "oh i havea bf" but because I really want to love someone & be loved in return, as corny as that sounds.
Ahhh is this normal though? To feel like this, is there anything I can do to get a boyfriend, like anything boys like in particular..?
No offense but thinking like this is unhealthy. I mean I understand exactly where you are comming from but Im sure it's not you. Going out with anyone jsut so you can say that is dumb becasue serious stuff can happen. Dont live up to other people's standers. You WILl find someone, seriously time helps. Ew i sound like a bitch and I really don't mean to its just theres no way anyone can like you if you dont like yourself. Hope I helped. Good luck.
15/F
So this year, I got to know this guy really good, and in the beginning of the year he was dating a girl. Then eventually they broke up, but I find myself having a crush on him.
I dont know if he likes me though,
I mean honestly the only way to know is to ask, but I'm scared of being rejected.
Asking is easier said than done duh.
But I think he possibly could like me because one day he randomly hugged me and was like, aghhh i missed you!! And I just thought, awwwh thats so cute. And he always says hi to me now in the hallways, and I dont know, he probably doesnt, but I'm just wondering.
Your right asking is akward and may change things in a bad way. So there are alternatives. You could have a friend talk to him for you, you could hint hint that you like him without strait foward saying I like you. Good luck and it does sound like he has something for you. xX.
so theres this guy that i have been like in love with for like 3 years. He broke my heart 2 years ago, then I though he had changed and started flirting with him again. I had these dreams a while ago that he would hurt me and go with his girl (his good firend lets call her kate) and leave me there crying. I didn't really think anything of it and started falling 4 him again. I though I had a good chance that he would ask me to this formal at the end of the year. But then a couple days ago I found out that his firend kate dump her date and now there going together just like me dream. Now im all alone sad and depresed. ugh i have no one to got to the formal with and i am just really lonley.
Aw cheer up boys aren't worth it. What you need is a good frapachino some bon bons and some chick flicks. Also sometimes it better to go single to dances that way you can dance with who ever you want without any commitment. As they say everything happens for a reason you never know you might find that you've always had someone but never thought of them in that way and now you can. Xx hope I helped tell me what happens if you can. Good luck.
My boyfriend, who is colorblind, is always talking about how he wants to re-do his apartment and stuff. I was doing to do it for him for his birthday with the help of his mom, and a few friends while he's away.
Now, when it comes to his colorblindness, he isn't a complete gray scale or anything. He mostly can't tell the different between green and red. So basically anything with those colors is what he has a hard time with. The first time he was over at my house (I still live with my parents) he was looking at the walls in our game room and said "why did you guys paint this an ugly brown color??" The walls were army green :). I still laugh about it.
Anyways, on with the problem...
He LOVES blues though (because its the color he can see distinctly). He likes any type of blue. Although, sometimes he can't tell the difference between purples and blues hehe.
So here's where I don't know what to do. Since he loves blue so much I was going to put as much blue in there as I can. But, I don't want it to bee too...blue because sometimes that doesn't look all that great. And then again, I want him to enjoy it and he might not be able to if I use other colors.
If I use other colors, he'll be able to tell that I changed everything and he would appreciate it but I don't want to run the risk of using a beautiful color that he would see as hideous.
Any ideas?
maybe you can have a theme for the room like the beach or the sky that way you can have all diffrent shades of blue and it can be creative. If this idea sounds corny and dumb maybe you can paint the walls white and have funky color funiture avoiding the colors that are hard for him to see giving the room a modern clean crisp look.Hope I helped good luck
Hi, I asked the question about my bf liking other s. We are both in 8th grade and going to different schools next year, neither of our parents know of our relationship it'll be hard to meet with him during the summer and school year, what should I do?
Well if you have no way to communicate with him the relationship probably wont work out I'm sorry to say. But since you are in the same school now maybe you can spend these ast few weeks inviting him to hangout with you on fridays with a group and such. If you are too shy to do this then ask one of your more outgoing friends to talk to him about it or your relationship with him. If this doesn't work either be creative you'll come up with something. Good luck Xx love diane.
I'm 13/f, he's 13/m.
Right, so there is this guy, and Ive known him for about half a year now, I really fancy him, when I first met him we chatted alot and were just like friends.
But then I went to this party, and we danced together for ages (i mean like, slightly dirty dancing), and ended up kissing.
When I saw him at school after that, we were back to being like friends again, he was being his usual self, chatty and funny.
He started hanging out with another group of people, and I didn't see him for ages.
Me and my friends were at a fair about a month ago, and he was there, since then we have started going out places with him at the weekend, to the cinema, shopping ....... etc. and he's always really flirty with me, putting his hand on my leg, chatting, hugging me ..... etc.
But then when I see him at school he doesn't seem to notice me.
It really annoys me. I feel like I'm being messed about. Do you know why he's like this? and what does it mean? how can i stop him from doing this?
What you need to do is say something to him first becasue guys dont't like talking first sometimes. If you already try this and it doesnt work then you should say something to him like "Yeah I saw you yesterday way to say hi." becasue maybe he doesnt know how much it bothers you. xX hope I helped if you need further help you can send me a question I'll answer asap.
ok, here's the situation: i was at a dance Friday night and i met this girl(whoo hoo!), and i got her phone number. I said that i would call her sometime.
what i was wondering is when i should call her. should i wait 2-3 days or do it right now? and when i do call her, what should i say? Should i be like "hi, remember me from friday?" or what should i say?
o0hXs0oCHIC is 110% right and you can call her when ever you feel calm doing so although dont wait too long the sooner the better. Hope I helped Xx
i really like this guy but im really shy so i dont know how i will get him to know with out actually telling him straight up. so what are some things i can do to flirt with him?
Well guys like to feel special so telling his secrets and asking him stuff may promote the idea. But also there are cirtain things you can do like laugh at his jokes and smile when he says anything. You can also hint by saying things like you're funny or you're nice or you're so sweet that will give him a clue. Hope I helped loveyou.
okay well just the other day i skipped a class and the principle or someone from the office is gonna call me down.. what do i say?
I think you shuld tell then (if you are a girl) that you got your period and spent the class in the bathroom becasue you were too embarased. Or if you are a boy you can say your girlfriend dumped you and you needed to cool off. Just make sure you explain that you know the importance of that class and it was an irresponsible mistake and wont happen again. Hope I helped Good luck Xx
i just broke up with my boyfriend because one of his close friends told me many things he's been doing behind my back and my boyfriend called me to tell me he loves me and that's all not true, his voice was so sad.. how do i know which one's telling the truth?!! ! please i need help
What I think you should do is decide who you are closer with then who lies more often. If one person if obviously a much more reliable source I would trust them only becasue you are in a sticky situation. If niether of them is very reliable but you still dont want to get back with you boyfriend don't take him back becasue of some pity phone calls. Give it some time maybe and if you decide you still like him then you should get back with him. Hope I helped xX.
ok, i have this friend. she's a girl and i'm a guy. we're really close. we kinda flirt with each other but we do it in a friendly way. but she has a bf who thinks that i'm trying to steal her from him. we(me and my friend) keep trying to tell him that we're just friends, but he won't listen. then my friend and i went to a nightclub last night without him. well, the next day he found out that i was dancing with his gf(my friend) and he calls me up and he's like "You better F****ing stop that S**t or else i'm gonna F***ing beat the S**t out of you when i see you!" what i'm wondering is what should i do?
Okay well you sound interested in her and even if you aren't you should tell her he said this so she can either talk to him aobut it or dump him. If you think of this as a serious threat like he might kill you I would inform the police but if hes just some whimpy white boy I wouldnt take him too seriously :] hope I helped xoxo good luck.
14/f My boyfriend and I love each other but recently he went away on a feild trip and started liking another . This was about a week ago. I just found out who it was. I asked him about it and he said he dosen't like her anymore that much. He dosen't have the guts or will power to lie to me so I beleive him. How can I prevent this from happening again?
People truthfully can't really control their feelings. Shit happens. But I think if you talk to him more and grow closer with him his mind wont drift too far. But never change yourself to impress him becasue thats wrong or do something you arent willing to do because that is wrose. Hope i Helped XoXo.
hey im 13/f gonna be 14 in september.i have thiss boy that i really like in skool last yr we were in the same class and we were gd friends but this yr we r not in the same section so we r not talking to each other as usual.i cant talk 2 him in private for some reasons i have but i really like him. another thing is that there is this guy who is my neighbour i really like him then i knew my mail i talked to him for a while but then we blocked each other for a reason but i really still like him and i cant stop everytime i see a couple 2gether i really get jealous cause i really cant find the right guy pllllz i really need gd advice a.s.a.p
Well someone once told me that it's not getting what you want that is the it's know what you want. Once you know the getting part is easy. Though this philosophy doesn't work in all cases I believe it works in you. I suggest you compare the two boys and try to decide which you like better. In the case that doesn't work I suggest you have someone talk to either of them for you only because if they know you are interested they may share the same feelings. xXloveyou,hope I helped.
Ok here's the deal-
There's this guy that i really really like and we've been talking online wuite a bit but we never really talk that much in school. We get along so good and we have a lot in common. He's a senior and I'ma freshman this year. Seniors get out of school in the middle of May. My question is, should i try to pursue a relationship with him if he is leaving highscool in my and going off to college in Spetember? He is only going to be at college about an hour or less away.
Thanks!
Go for it duh. haha hun, if I were you I'd be all over him; go for it no doubt.Lovee&&Luck diane delilah
im 13/f and i am confused. every guy likes me n i like them... * i mean the ones below not every one*
*not rl names*
colten- nice skater a couple inches shorter then me kinda bossy gets into fighs easily goes to a school nearby cute
ashton- lives states away from me, best friend nice sweet romaantic cute kind of into himself prep & model
connor- best friends with colten, a foot taller then me skater goes to nearby school.. not cute in looks but in personality
rylan- has a gf for the past 1 1/2 yrs nice cute my height & school preppy
kevin- my grade my school nice athletic preppy sometimes weird
i just dont know which one to focus on... i know.. wow a lot of guys.. but they all mean a lot to me in different ways.. no i m not a whore.. i promise.. .well i know you girls can all relate to me sometimes..
thanks in advance
Okay well first. Shorter Sucks no offense. I would DEFF go with conner sounds cutesttt. love&&luck cutie.
Hey everyone!
For some reason I feel like reading I would really apreciate if you people would recommend some of your favorite books and a little bit on what it is about =)
Thanks,
Okay I have two:
1.)The Truth About Forever-Sarah Dessen
This story is about a girl who just graduated and the summer of fun and romance that lies ahead. It is easy reading and an intregging novel for any teenager.
2.)The Perks Of Being A Wall Flower-Stephen Chobosky
This book was by far the best book I've ever read. It's about a freshmen who is confinding in a stranger by sending him letters. This book is the perfect comming of age book. Every molment you feel his pain. Some molments in the novel are a little strange but you'll understand in the end.
Hope i helped these are absolutly fonominal books happy hunting
I would really like a boyfriend,
just to love and be loved in return.
I'm just lonely, and everyone says,
you'll fall in love eventually.
Eventually .. huh? aghh, I'm just sick of being alone.
I mean does anyone actually get my point.. of how i wanta boyfriend, i want to be in love?
ahghh what can i do? is patience the best answer?
dont give me some mean/smartass answer please.
thanks.
Okay i've always found it easier to have a target, yah know like a goal that way I have something to work for. See if you go for one certain person three things will happen. One they will know your intrested. Two you will create a relationship much faster. Three they wont feel intimidated by other boys who are trying to get with you because they know you like them.Hope I helped peace cutie much luck&&love