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Okay, this is going to be long and very confusing.....
so yesterday my so called "best friend" katie gave me a lecture about my boyfriend ryan that i have been going out with for a year. She told me that we, ryan and i, both need to move on. Ryan is in college and he has been for about 2 months now, i'm 16 and im a junior in high school. We both can make this long distance relationship a sucess because we see eachother every weekend. But you know, to make a relationship work and be stronger you have to fight. Well, she went off on me because i was telling her about a fight that ryan and i had. something little, meaningless, just a argument. and she went off on me saying "Laura, you need to just break up with him you guys fight way too much, the only reason why you guys are still together is because you guys are afraid you wont move on and you wont find someone new. trust me laura, i've been in the same situation". its really none of her buisness to tell me to either break up with my boyfriend or not... right?
then i went out driving with my mother and my boyfriend texted me freaking out "Laura, i make you upset all the time? you go to katie every night because you're upset? you've been mad at me ever since i left for college? Im an asshole? laura you need to talk to me, you know i'm always here for you no matter what" i couldnt answer because i was driving, i get home and i finally answer him. "Listen, i always go to katie when im upset about you either not being home or if were in an argument and i ask her how i can just get us to stop arguing... ive never called you an asshole behind your back ryan, i love you, shes bullshitting us" he replied... "then why is she telling me to break up with you?" i went apeshit. i texted her like "Really katie? you tell me to break up with my boyfriend and you didnt get your way with me then you go running to ryan telling him to break up with me? are you fucking kidding me?" and she recently cheated on her boyfriend that also goes to college (by the way katie is also a junior in highschool, 16) over the weekend. she was very drunk, but thats never an excuse. not only did she cheat once, she cheated twice in the same night, so i threatened her that i would tell her boyfriend andy that she cheated on him. she called me screaming calling me a bad friend because i promised her i wouldnt tell him or anyone. i find this not fair at all. my boyfriend got upset that someone would try to ruin our relationship and make him and i fight for the first time in a month. no relationship is perfect.
well, i ended up not telling her boyfriend, she got scared that he would hear about it before she told him so she called him explaining everything that happened. he understood and said :this better not happen ever again this is your last chance, i love you too much to let you go" so her and i were clear at that point. we were talking and videochatting like we usually do.
well around 11 at night last night, my boyfriend IMed andy (katies boyfriend) and he said "yeah well bro im sorry to tell you this but your girlfriend cheated on you saturday night with cris and justin...." and all andy said was "i know, but i didnt know about cris?" well... he called her freaking out, she only told him about justin. at about midnight i got a call from her but i ignored it, i didnt want to deal with her at the moment, i knew she was gunna scream at me for telling ryan about her cheating on andy over the weekend. well....she texted me saying "Laura, i really dont see this friendship working out, sorry, pc"
her reputation in school isnt the best, everyone hates her for no apparent reason, and everyone would tell me not to be friends with her. well now i see why...
i replied "hahaha alright katie, whatever you say, dont come running back, pc."
then she went on and on how i shouldnt of told ryan and how it was my fault that ryan went to andy and told him about the other guy and everything when i had little to no control over ryan talking to andy.
can you tell me if i was being the better person in this situation or not? this girl was my best friend and i miss her to bits and pieces but im reallly mad at her for trying to destroy my relationship with ryan.. .can you tell me why she would try to do that? maybe she was scared if andy found out if she would be single and she wanted her best friend to be single too? ahhh help me outt please.
thank you for reading and thank you in advance if you answer :)
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I just read until you said "to make a relationship work and be stronger you have to fight."
what the f&@! is that? I never heard of that.
the f*&! de fu&* the fuc* what the fuck.
thats all I got to say.
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So I did something to make my husband not trust me (FYI, I have been married for 10 years and am having a significant b-day soon; perhaps I am in mid-life crisis mode). Actually more than one thing, two things. (1) I had two flirtations on FACEBOOK; strictly 2-dimensional, but definitely behaviour inappropriate for a married woman. Got caught, with one, fessed up to the other in an effor to be truthful. Deactivated my FACEBOOK; that was 3 1/2 months ago. (2) I sent an e-mail to an ex of mine admitting some unresolved feelings and wondering if we ever could have made it together; my husband found this e-mail {yes, by poking thru my personal stuff}. I maintain that ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS, and that these were thoughts conveyed in the e-mail with no interest in acting on these thoughts. He maintains that I had an 'emotional affair', (yes from one e-mail) and says he wants to forgive me but needs to takl about it 5x a week. What should I do? (link)
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Do you know how bad that hurts your insides? and yet you pounce around like its no big deal.
you get angry because he ask so much? maybe you made him feel worthless and servery corrupted his emotions.
In your mind its all swell but in his mind hes thinking your thinking of wild things to do with other men
best thing to do is to show him how much you love him, let him know that hes your only interest, do extra things for him etc, good luck with the trust part though
Thats the only guess I got.
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So like i'm sorta new at this and i've given my bf a hj but like when he...ahem...finishes it kinda goes everywhere, i've talked to him about how to avoid such a mess but he just shrugs and says theres no real way to avoid it, so like what can i do to like contain this cause i've already had to like wash my sheets and his clothes a few times (link)
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haha, I love sillyrobs Advice, hes a pro
and im serious about that, no joke.
Mouth is a good idea btw.
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I really need a guy to lean on right now, short term or long term relationship would be good for me :(
But I will probably never find a guy for years because I'm 15 and pregnant, what kind of guy wants to date a girl thats having a kid?
Guys please answer. Be completely honest. (link)
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Im guessing you need a man that you can trust, so you can fall back on him and rely in hard situations so he can comfort you and tell you everything is going to be okay
Instead of being alone you can have someone to make you feel protected and loved.
I would have to say that there is only 1 to 2 of those kinda guys in a school of a few thousand
I wouldn't search for him though, just get the baby over with first, then find a man and make sure not to produce another offspring otherwise your in for it
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so, i wanna give my boyfriend a blowjob sometime soon - i get the basics, but i really actually dont know what to do :P so what do i do to give a good bj? (link)
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Start by going slow, and make sure in the mist of it you give eye contact with him
imo I love when im girlfriend looks up on me while she does it, but not to much, just every so often
mm lick too ? shouldn't be all that hard ( hah )
either way hes going to enjoy it
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Me and my boyfriend were "trying out" sex, as we were both virgins and we've talked about it for awhile. I went on top and he went in about half an inch and then pulled out because I was scared. We tried again today, except he went just a SMIDGEN further, and it felt like something was breaking, so I told him to stop, so he did. I felt fine after that up until an hour ago when I peed and it started to hurt. Now it's totally fine, but it hurt a lot when I peed.
Also, we did that without condoms and I missed a pill three days ago, but took it the next day with my other one. I could be pregnant right?
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Well firstly it sounds as if he broke your hymen, did you bleed ?
and if you didn't use a condom and missed the pill for any amount of days then yes you could/can be pregnant.
I suggest don't have sex yet, and wait. but of course your not gonna listen to me, so.
Next time kiss first (foreplay and get "in the mood" so you loosen alittle, then use a condom and make sure you've been on the pill everyday
blah bah.. etc. good luck. :)
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i'm very interested in december 21, 2012 (122112), the supposed apocalypse.
i was curious. some people, who are SO convinced that 122112 will bring nothing claim that december 21, 2012 is simply the end of a cycle and the start of a new one.
well, for all you people, WHY ISN'T THERE A 14TH CYCLE?
also can someone make an organized list of things that might happen on 122112?
i have...
1.) magnetic pole shift
2.) ice age
3.) global warming causing inhabitable conditions
4.) solar storms
5.) increases in flooding, droughts, tornadoes, tsunamis, ETC ETC ETC
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These things never happened before like this - NEVER happened at least all at once like this.
I swear in the past month we have had at least 3-4 maybe even more im not sure earthquakes, minor ones but still. ( one was a 5.6 )
california
Im not into this "on 2012" the world ends but i do believe that something else greater is happening
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the things that are happening right in front of people and they just ignore it and go on with there lives, like me for ex. - they pretend nothing is happening and everything is ok, and they'll say anything for excuses
and no matter what you do can't change there minds, well some you can, because their so set on what isn't from what is.
the closest this seems to relate to is the bible
( not the 2012 part just the things happening)
im not a bible thumper but holy hell its all there
seriously
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15/f
So, just a few questions.
Where are places I can go to meet guys, other than school?
How do I go about approaching them in different situations?
What can I do to make hot, single guys more likely to approach me?
How can I attract older guys?
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Try.. The beach? A fair? The Mall? populated Parks? fun centers...
I would have to say give a nice smile to them that gives them a hint, I think when a girl smiles it is the cutest thing imo for me, well if there smiling at me :S.
and/or
make efforts to talk to him.
you might think its weird but hes not...
Im not sure on the older guy thing, um.. Act mature?
I find a lot of respect for a girl who act mature.. but not in a bitchy way. Bitches are turn offs.
if you act sleezy it will only attract the weirdo older creeps.
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what do u guys think is prettier being tan or pale? (link)
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Truthfully I like pale, I don't know why, But im into it, I don't mind girls who are tan, but again I pefer pale.. thats just me and my opinion
By the way im not talking about the sick looking pale...
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I know your sick of this question but please answer it!! Yeah ok I do like a guy and I heard he likes me but I'm afraid to tell him I like him or ask him out to the school's dance. What should I do? (link)
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Maybe next time you see him you should say "Hey you should totally come to the dance, it would be fun"
and if he went there that night, you go and meet him and whilist there you ask him for a dance,
believe it or not the way my girlfriend got me into her hands was she invited me to a carwash, then while at the car she she spent the entire time with me, and gave me a totally obivisly hint that she was into me without her asking
not sure if this even helped. but its something
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