Hey all u guys & girls! Everyone has their opinions, and i have no trouble voicing mine! You never have to worry cuz I'll always tell it 2 u straight. Hope i can help! Love in Christ, Emily
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13-female & i rate high
my mom and her fiance have just decided that they would like to move in together B4 they get married. (which is sometime at the end of this year.) the lease on our apartment is up at the end of may, and my mom wants us (me, her and my lil' bro) to move in with them (him and his two kids). she says that she doesn't want to renew our lease on our house, b/c at the end of the year she would have to buy out of it b/c she will have to break the lease. his house is not big enough for all six of us to live in, so they have been doing some house hunting in his neighborhood. i have two problems with this:
#1. i am not comfortable with moving in with them right now. i don't really know hime or his kids that well.
#2. i don't want to move to his neighborhood, b/c then i would have to change school districts and leave all of my friends behind.
i have went to dinner with him and his kids. (his daughter is the same age as me.) and we try to do something "together" every weekend or every other weekend, but i feel like this is still not enough to make me comfortable with them. how do i tell my mom how i feel w/o hurting her feelings? i know that she deserves someone in her life that makes her happy, but at the same time i think i should have a say-so too. how do i convince her not to move? (link)
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Sorry, but there is no convincing a parent. I know you don't want to leve your friends, trust me I know (I had an amazing opportunity to go 2 a better school and i turned it down). You need to tell your mom, "I know you wouldn't do anything you would think would hurt me, but mom, I need more time. Can we rent a place or move-in with Grandma? Because right now, I'm not comfortable with these people and these 'dates' with his daughter don't work." I'm sorry about your situation.
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hey i was wondering if there is any way that you guys know of to make a pimple go away in a very very short amount of time, like overnight. not acne, but just one pimple. please. i will rate. (link)
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Unfortunately, not in one night, but you can reduce redness by putting an ice cube on it. I think it's Clean & Clear that sells overnight patches that I find help very much. Try it and good luck!
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14/f
OK well theres this kid at my school. (Hes in 10th im in 9th) Well we always got along because we have alot of the same friends and do one sport together. But I never really liked him that much untill we both started spending alot of time together. I really started to like him and he even kissed me once. Well after that we kinda stoped talking, but then one night we talked again and i started to like him again. He even asked to go to the movies. But I was talking to one of his friends and he said "well hes not looking for a relationship" but im confused because i was messing around with the kid and i said "What if I was like I love you and can't live without you will you go out with me" and his response was "i would proally be a little shocked but then prabably say yes" Help im so confused! (link)
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Okay, it's obvious! He likes you a whole lot, or is a man hoe. I'm guessing he like you. Take the inititive and ask him out. He'll say yes! There's a guy I like, but all his friends say he doesn't want a relationship. I've liked him for 5 yrs. If there wasn't any chemistry or a chance for me, don't you think I would've given up? Girls have instincts, go with yours!
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My name is Amy Bussel and I am 21 years old, my fiance and I have just seperated, because I cuss to much at him. Although this is not the first time that this has happened and every other time he has came home to me this time my hope is very low. I have never done anyhting that would hurt him and have always gone out of my way to make sure that he is happy. He has always came first in my life. When he leaves like this it is usually for a few days and even without a phone call. Can you tell me do you think that he will come back home to me this time?? (link)
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There is no way for anyone to tell. People do get fed up with other's crap very fast though. Not to be rude, but, stop cussing at him and everyone will be happy.
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im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something... (link)
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Laugh out loud. No, I didn't get my first kiss until I was 14, and my sister until she was 15. Trust me, you have nothing to worry about! ;-)
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ok my sister's 16 birthday is coming up! i want to get her something special beacuse ...u know its her 16! but i dont no wut to get her!
any suggestions!
i rate high!
thanks! (link)
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My sister is 18 now, but for her 16th, I wanted to save up and get her something special as well. I saved $70 and bought her a charm braclet, each charm indicating what I knew was a hobbie or priority in her life. A cross (Christian), music note (choir) and a letter N, for her name. The chain was $18 and the charms were $18-22 each. My purchase was expensive because I went to Agmew's Jewlers. If your budget won't allow you to splurge, go to Target and but charms there. They are about $7.00 for sterling silver (a good deal!).
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I have this job, it's pretty stupid, but I hold a sign that says "Hot-N-Ready $5" for a pizza place. Anyways, I'm starting to think that the people I work with don't really respect me enough.
For example, on Good Friday, I get a phonecall from them asking me if I can work from 4-6. I say okay, and I change my easter dinner plans with my family. Well, fifteen minutes before my shift starts, I got a phonecall from them telling me I don't need to come in. The fact that they don't respect me enough to let me know earlier or to just let me come in and work the two stupid hours like I planned really pissed me off.
I had been looking for reasons to quit, because after working there for two months, I was still always working outside, and I had expected to be working inside with more hours. So, the other day, I went in, and asked if my manager would be coming in today, and the other lady was like "No, why?" and I just said "well, I need to talk to her." The other woman kept on insisting that I tell her what I need to talk to her about, so I did, and I told her I was really pissed off, and so was my family. So, she went ahead and told me all this crap about how they love me there and think I'm a "great team member". So, I didn't end up quitting, and I'm waiting until my manager comes back. They kind of go through workers pretty quickly, but I've had it.
Do you think I should quit or what? Should I just forget about it and move on and hope things get better? (link)
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Jobs are hard to find noadays. You may want to stick with this one and hope for a promotion. Seriously though, next time they change your schedule on such sort notice, go in anyway and tell them you already had those hours. If they won't let you work, just order a pizza and chill until your shift is over. They'll get the picture you don't like to be taken advantage of and start treating you with more respect.
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Ok this is a really stupid question...but please bare with me. I can't apply eyeliner! Whenever I do, it looks very fake, and it looks like I just drew a line around my eyes. How do you apply it properly so that it blens and looks my natural?
I rate 5's!!!!
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Okay, I have a cousin that has the same problem. All you have to do is go over your bottom eyelashes (not under) and make sure you go on the inside also. TIPS: For a smokey look, blend/stroke your line with a make-up sponge. For your top, just follow your top lashes. Just remember, too thick looks trashy. You may want to ask a relative to deminstriaght this tecnique to you if I didn't help, but I hope I did.
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okay well my friend who's been like my best friend since i was 6 ((im 13 now)) and it just feels like were drifting appart. i dont know what to do. i dont want to tell him because he might get mad at me. he isnt like that but he might. he's always getting mad at me because he says im a player and i never stay with one guy, but we just joke about it. but i dont know what to do. please dont tell me to tell him, because i dont want to, i think i could have thought about that myself. (link)
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He may like you, but thats a whole different advice letter..
Just talk to him, make group plans, something! If something does come between you guys it will drift over. Just try to hang out more. That's the only way to stop your realationship from going to the dumps.
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Okay my b/f like never calls me and when I dont call him on the weekends *which i do but he is never there* he goes off *not really but yeah* and i really REALLy like him but i dont know what to do
On top of all that in one day all i get is one maybe two *but not likly* hugs and i well want more hugs so yeah
HELP!! (link)
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Hug him then. Guys like to make the first move, but it gets old. Maybe it's time you called him on the weekends. My point: If you like him, don't let him be the only one in your relationship.
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okay so this is the same person about the girl with the bulimia friend. okay i told her parents but they are like on drugs..so they really didn`t care.. i told my parents & i thik they might help.once they get there butts off the sofa..but like yea my friends is really really really mad at mee for telling on her but atleast she won`t die..right?
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Right!!! Years (yes, unfortunately years) from now she/they will understand that you were only trying to help.
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ok well you see i have this friend and well he flirts with me all the time i mean really flirts and him and my brothers are friends and he says he cant do anything witch means he cant have a relationship but then again he asked all these sexual questions and well bascially he wants to have sex and well im still a virgin in every way and i dont want to but hes very persusve and well i tell him no but he still asks and if theres no relationship i cant do that im mean im16 not stupid and i dont beleive in fwbif so what should i do give in or stand my ground. (link)
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Stand your ground girl! If a guy presures you to have ANY sexual intercourse, please, feel free to slap the crap out of him until he gets that you are smart and doesn't surcome to peer presure easily. If he doesn't respect your wishes then forget about him. A guy will come along who will respect you for who you are, and not how much you got!
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I like this boy who likes someone else I used to talk to him all the time but i dont anymore hes never online and i dont see him in school anymore. Should i still talk to him and see if maybe i could get himto like me, i was thinking that maybe he might think im weird or somethign for randomly iming him when he comes online or talking to him...also he used to like me but i hurt him so it might not be that easy. (link)
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In my experiance, it isn't in a guys nature to forgive people. If he likes someone else, that decreases your chances even more! Most important though, how will you ever get to know him or vise versa if u don't just say hey? Give it a shot though, you'll never know how he feels about you until you actually talk to him.
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ok, see, there's this guy at my school that I like ALOT. I know this is kinda a typical question, sorry, but, how do I find out if he likes me as much as I like him? I never talk to him, but I see him in the halls everyday and we always glance at each other, but we're both too shy to say anything. I don't know what to do, because I never talk to him, so I don't wanna make a fool of myself by just all of the sudden talking to him out of the blue, you know what I mean? (Also, we had these little valentine cards at our school that you could send your crush for v-day, and I sent him one. So, he knows that somebody likes him, and I think that he might kinda know that it's me, but I don't know)Anyway, srry so long!!! Please help me though!!!
Thank you so much!!-
*potentially in love*
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OK, so you've liked this boy for what, about 5 years? You use to talk 2 him and then...you grew apart since you no longer have any classes together. I can so understand that more than you would ever know!!! I also know how you would want to ease into talking 2 him. Maybe you should start by smilieing at him when you past him in the hallway, then ease into saying an occaisional, "hey!". Whatever you do do, just dont go and ask him out, because it would be awful if he asked u who u were, i mean, we all change!
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I havent been eating lately, not because im anorexic, im just depressed. My parents think i am anorexic and their really worried. i try to tell them im not but, they dont believe me. What should i do? (link)
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Tell your parents you think you may be depressed. Your mom will take you to the doctor or a phyciatrist. If you really are suffering from depression he/she will diagnose you and give you medication: Zoloft, Prozac, etc. I most likely will be hard for you to tell your mom about your problems, but you will be better off in the end!
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i want to go farther with my boyfriend but there are things that i dont like about my body and thats whats stopping me from doing anything with him cause i dont want him to think im a freak or anything and not talk to me or anythin... pease help! (link)
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OK, this is a very touchy subject for me because I do not believe in pre-marridle sex. But, I want to ask you how do you know he isnt using you just so he can get into your pants? Also, why do you want do something that can get you pregnant or give you a S.T.D.? If you two really love each other, ya'll can wait till marriage. If you have your mind on giving yourself up to him though, try showing him what you're embarrassed of before the lights go out. But please dont do anything you might regret!!!
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okay i have windows XP and i want ta get the program where you can download music.. but i dont kno where to go?? does any one know a program i can download that has like a bunch of songs i can copy and put to a cd? (link)
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If you are willing to pay about $.99 a file you can go anywhere. Otherwise it is illegal and I wouldn't recomend it. Try Kazaa or doing a google search for "music file downloads". Hope I helped, and remember if you're not paying it's illegal and you can go to jail.
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Ok I have this friend "s" who is a male. Anyway he loves my female friend "k". I keep trying to help s because k is one of my best friends who I talk to all the time. S really does love k he does all these things for her and online s always tells me how much he likes k. I just really want to help him because I feel really sorry because he always tells me how sad he is because he feels k will necer love him. What should I do? (link)
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Well do you know how S. feels about K.? Maybe she likes him to. He sounds nice and thats what every girl looks for in a guy. If she doesn't have feelings for him try going to the movies with both of them and see if sparks fly!
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well em i have thjis caruck...half car half truck and i'm supposed 2 be fixing it up but i'm not and everytime i talk about it my mom gets upset so can u plz tell me wht 2 do thank you
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timothy (link)
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Well stanger, I guess you should fix it up! Make a lady happy and spend a little more time sprucing up your caruck! What could it hurt?
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