Gender: Female
Location: California
Age: 16
Member Since: April 24, 2011
Answers: 47
Last Update: April 27, 2011
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me and my bestfriend have decided we like eachother in a way that most people thinks wrong. we're both girls, i'm fifteen and she's sixteen, and we've ended up making out and doing little things when we're really drunk but we don't know what else you can do? we're going to try doing something sober to see if it's for us, but we don't know what to do, as we're both slightly uncomfertable with going down on eachother as its just a bit weird, and like, i don't know. we just need something to do but we're unsure of what girls can do with eachother. suggestions welcome! thankyou(: xxx (link)
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Please wait to drink. But back to the advice! If you guys are interested in becoming lesbians or bi-sexual's they're many ways to please each other. You guys do not have to have oral sex, but maybe one can fondle( play ) with the other's vagina. You can always use sex toys, like dildo's, vibrator's, sex oil. Kissing on ea. other body's and playing with ea. other sexually can turn one another on. If this doesn't work maybe it mean this isn't meant to be so don't force it. Good Luck!
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Okay well I am a 15 year old girl. I have always been taught to wait until marriage to have sex but I feel like I am always having to masturbate and watch "porn" I really want to have sex(with my boyfriend and i know he wants to also) but I am afraid that my mom will be ashamed if I try to explain that I want to have sex and I want birth control to prevent any unwanted pregnancy! and I dont think vaginal sex will hirt to bad but does anal sex hurt? HELP PLEASE! (link)
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Although you might not want to hear this but you are kind of young to want to have sex. But since you have decided to i will help you with some advice.
Tell you're mom you're decision about wanting to have sex. If you have another adult that you love and trust bring them along to help break the news. You're mom might be devastated and upset from hearing the news, but she should appreciate that you told her and in control of your sexual life. I'm glad you understand the safeness of having sex which is condemns and birth control. Just have a talk with you're mom and let her know that you have thought about having sex and you want her to be their and support you rather then be angry. Good Luck!
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i lost my viginity at 13, and since then i havent been able to stop, im now 15 and have sucked over 50 differnt boys, and i have had sex with over 30 differnt guys, i also done anal with 10 differnt guys. i really cant stop even though i feel so ashamed its like a thing that im so used to it feels very normal , im only 15 and all the guys have been 16 -35 years old... iv done threesums and all sorts, am i addicted or just a dirty slut?
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You're not a slut you just have a addiction. Addiction's are hard to break and if you feel that you can't break this addiction by yourself you need help. Don't get scared or upset when i say "help" i mean simply talking to a counselor or a adult you trust. The path that you are going down is very un-healthy for a 15 year girl and dangerous. The reason you are also having sex may also be deeper than an addiction. You could be trying to fill a void that you feel that you are missing. If something in you're life isn't going right or you are having problems maybe you are using SEX to escape the pain and problems? Not too sure but just my opinion. You should defiantly stick to only one sex partner because their are so many disease's and ST D's going around you DO NOT one to be a statistic. Have more respect for yourself and want better for yourself you're lowering your dignity and pride and that's never good. I'm sure you're beautiful and have many things going for you but if you don't stop you will ruin you're life because something will end up going wrong, pregnancy scares, std's or even worse. So slow down and talk to someone. Good Luck!
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There is this new kid this year I like. I found out I cannot stop thinking about him. I can tell he doesn't like me, but when I am in the same class as him, I feel like flying. Today he got hurt in P.E. and I hurt and felt like bawling. Is it love? If so, please tell me how to get him to like me. (link)
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No you're not in love haha you are just infatuated with him. This is typical for girls I'm pretty sure every girl has went through this stage. If you truly want to find out if he likes you , you can ask him personally to be for sure. If he doesn't like you just move on don't force anyone to like you either he will or he won't. Plus, I'm pretty sure it's many more guys that feel the same way about you, and you just don't know it yet. So don't miss your chances with them by letting a guy who might not be interested get you all caught up in la la land. Good Luck
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can i have sex
? i am nine years old.
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You can only be a virgin once. Honestly once it's gone there is no turning back. You're too young to be thinking about sex! I'm almost 17 and i am still a proud virgin and it's by choice. There is a lot of pressure for us kids now-a-days but cherish your virginity like no other. It's something precious and it should feel good to say " I am a virgin" it's only about 3 out of 5 girls that would be a virgin and you should want to be one of those 3. Have respect for your body to wait and get developed mentally and emotionally before you jump into that stage. Stay young as you can don't grow up to fast. REMEMBER: SEX will always be there but once you loose your virginity it is forever gone.
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Hi my boyfriend wants to have sex but i keep telling him no we are to young and he says if i dont he will break up with me and i love him what do i do? (link)
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I agree with some of these posts. If he cares about you the same way you care about him he wouldn't pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. So you lay down your rules NOW. It's never to late to put someone in their place. Let him know that you're not going to have sex until YOU ARE READY. If he doesn't understand or appreciate that then he has no RESPECT for you so MOVE ON. It's plenty of guys that will cherish your wishes and a few tears a night is worth walking away with your dignity and pride. Do what's right for you not what someone else wants. Good Luck!
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so i have been dating this guy almost four months. and i found out about the time we started dating that i can never have children. i feel like im keeping this big secret from him but also we are still early in our relationship. but then again i dont want him to find out later and think i have been lying to him this whole time and being dishonest. im one of those people who are very big on honesty. i hate liars. and thats why this is so heavy on my heart. i just don't know what to do. this guy is great. he is the best guy i have ever gone out with. he's sweet romantic. amazing. help please? (link)
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Although you might think it's too early to tell your boyfriend about your situation ... it's better now that later. If you tell him now then he will have a option [ rather stay or leave ] I doubt if he would leave because you two seem to have a strong relationship. Just let him know as soon as you are comfortable to tell him just don't wait until it's too late. You don't want to let him start talking about having kids and other things so before that comes along tell him. Good luck!
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