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Hey everyone! I have a question, well, O have a Xanga, and i was wondering where i could get a URL for the song "Lovers and Friends by Lil Jon, Ludacris, and Usher" and I cant seem a URL for it. Well, even if you can't find the URL for that song, could you please give me a website where I can get URL's for songs?? Thanks

www.Starlightmks.com

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err!! my friends and i are constantly fighting now and they act like they dont want me around... we saw white noise last week and we talked about a sleepover afterwards and they dropped me off first and decided to go on with the sleepover without me and they somehow they always team up against me and the one makes fun of me all the time and people ask me why were still friends and i dont mind ending our friendship but they dont understand that, thism isnt how friends should be. what should i do?

You tell them how it is. Tell them that if they're real friends than you should be included in the activities too. Think of it this way, If they cared about you and the friendship you have with them, than they would do anything to hang out with you.

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how do become more happy and try to make my life less boring.. i feel like i do the same thing every single day .??

Go out with friends, go to new places, meet new people, Find a boyfriend/girlfriend. Etc...

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I have really hairy arms and its embaressing i dont know what to do about it. I cant shave because it will grow back darker and my stomach pluss back is hairy too . does anybody know what i can do?

Waxing really works well for arms and back. The stomach, you might want to shave.

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i dont know how to dance. can someone pleas tell me some moves on just how to dance, like a dance for a school dance. please dont delete

Dancing is actually a way to let your body move freely, however. So, you can dance, Just practice.

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Okay I got a diamond promise ring from my boyfriend of Christmas! One question though, what is the whole point. Like what are you promising or whatever? Thanks a bunch!

A promise ring is a ring that shows that you're going to be loyal, faithful, honest.. All that good stuff, too him.

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i need to know stuff about having boobs. i'm 15 years old and i need to know stuff. like should i wear one at night? what kinds of bras are right? and they hurt sometimes, so what can i do?

Well. I don't wear one at night, it can get uncomfortable. Any kinds of bras are alright as long as they are comfortable for you. If some bras hurt you, you might want to try a different kind.

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ok im a girl and i get turned on very easily i guess because anytime i guy touches me in the right way or kisses me or sometimes holds my hand i get really wet "down there".. is that normal for girls to get really wet at the smallest things an to even get wet?!

Ofcourse. It's totally normal.

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what should i do to get abs? i mean, im very skinny, but i just want to tone my stomach. what is the quickest and most effective way for me to accomplish this? please be specific. thanks

Crunches would probably work best. But people say that different excercises make you lose different amount of weight in different parts of the body, I did find out that wasn't true. So any excercises can tone your stomach, So you might want to try any excercise.I would think pull ups, crunches,twisting..etc, would tone your stomach.

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My heart has been broken by my best male friend
but i still love him...should i still be friends with him or wat?

Ofcourse, Friends can last forever. No matter how much he hurts you now, you're going to need a good friend that's a male in the long run.

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I think about sex all the time.....but i know if it came down to doing it i wouldnt do it...I dont want to have sex but i think about it all tha time....im plannin on waitin until marriage...but wat do these thoughts mean?

It just means that you are wondering how it will be on your first chance. I used to always think about it before I had it, now since I am no longer a virgin, I regret it. You're just wondering, which is totally normal.

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I am 19 years old and have been seeing a girl for 2 and a half years. We recently broke up over christmas but have still been seeing each other because we get on really well as friends. I put my cards on the table so to speak and told her how i feel that i still love her and i want her back. She replied im still in love with you but i dont want to be in a relationship at the moment. When we see each other i keep on saying to her that i will get her back and she agrees with me she says we need time apart. Which i am willing to do if it means i get another chance becasue i really do care about her so much. The only thing i am scared of is there is another lad on the scene whos she assures me they are not seeing each other and just friends which i beleve, but im scared that when we are having our time apart she ends up having feelings for this lad and i wont get her back at all. What is the best way to go about trying to get her back? We went to the pictures lastight and it was goin brilliant then her phone went off and it was a text msg off this lad and her attitude towards me totally changed!

Well, You just have to trust her, but ask her how she feels about him, although it may not be a true answer, you may be able to find out by her reactions. Just the best thing to do is tell her that you're scared you might lose her. I also thought, that maybe she just wants some time along to meet new people, not like find another boyfriend, but just go out and have some fun with people. I'm sorry if it's not the best advice, I tried. If you need anymore though, feel free to leave one in my inbox.

- CaitLynn

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theres this girl i wanna have sex with so much how do i get to have sex with her or have her wanna have sex with me?

You cannot get or make her to want to have sex with you. She is going to have to want to.

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ok, if this makes any sense, plz help. what are the levels in a relationship? i know there's like friends, dating, kissing, french kissing, etc, but what's after that?

Feeling up, rubbing, sex..Etc. I don't really know what you mean by levels though.

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I am so in love with this boy.. that i have been lets say more than friends with.. ne wayz... I'm so confused now.. I don't know what to do I don't know if I SHOULD GO FOR HIM OR WHAT.. I really like him and he likes me well i would hope so.. becasue he kisses me and we act like a couple but i dont wanna be turned down if i ask him out what should I do help!! plz ill rate 5's

Well, First of all..I've had that happen to me and I found out he just wanted my sex, Be careful..Find out the real him before you ask him out. I think it's just puppy love. But I hope everything works out. Good luck!

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ok i like the scruncy hair look !!! but i havent found a scrunching gel that i really like !! do u have any suggestions??? thanx

Tresseme.. Or else I use "Hairball" it works really good.

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i feel so lonley without a boyfriend. i miss having some one here to always talk to and stuff, is that wrong?

That's totally normal. Everyone wants someone there once in a while. But, don't forget..you will find that special someone,he'll come to you when the time is right.

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my friend wants to get extentions.. how do i tell her that uhm.. no.

Well extentions aren't that bad. They look very good on some girls. So I would just let her try them out.

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Hi my name is sylvie im 17 years old and im a lesbian. Why is it that my girlfriend and I always get in fight i try to fx them but i can't please someonme tell me why.

You're not mean't to be a lesbian.Problem solved.

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Okay well I've had sex and done the works or whatever, but i had never had an orgasm. So I tried, for the first time ever, masturbation. Well to my surprise it was wonderful!! But it started to feel so good that I had to stop myself. I felt like i couldn't keep going or something... so i just stopped. Is this normal? Or should I just try to keep going through or what? lol I know i must sound stupid but i'd never felt like that before so its weird!!

That is totally normal. If you felt like you had to stop, that's when you should stop.

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