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Q: I am a teenage girl: 5'3, blond hair, and pale.

I just want to know which stores in malls sell clothes that teenage guys consider "hot" what type of things would I buy from the store/stores.

Ooo I'm an expert on stores and clothing! You should try going to Wet Seal or Forever 21 at the mall. They have hot sexy clothes and club clothes. Hope this helps! :)

Q: I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long!

I think you and him should have a long serious talk and you should tell him that if he isn't honest with you then you guys aren't going to work out. The longer you wait to tell him, the harder it will be. Good luck!

Q: I am going for another job interview tomorrow. I was laid off last month and things got tough so I had to come back and stay with my mom until I can get another job. Anyway, I had my outfit laid out and asked my mom what she thought of it. She said it looked very professional for the job and that I'd look great. Then she said I should take my nail polish off before the interview to look more serious about the job. My nail polish is pink right now. Is it inappropriate to have painted nails with nailpolish when showing up for an interview?

I think you should look it up online and look for how to dress up for job interviews and if you can't find anything then I think you should a red nail polish because that looks proffesional and make it shiny. I hope I helped.!

Q: What Are your Theorys, Bad & Good Of Joing the Airforce. Please dont be Shy I NEED ALL THE HELP I CAN GET! THANKS:)

I think its a great idea to join the airforce because its a great way to help people and give to your country.

Q: 15/f. Hey, so my family owns a timeshare and we can go to one of these places...which do you think would be the best for a 15 year odl gir and her friend? thank you!
-Barbados
-St. Marteen
-Aruba
-St. Croix
-Caymen Islands?

I thought we were going to st thomas but idk if we are...do you think that it is much better there? we dont just want to go to the beach. we can do that in florida haha. THANKYOU

I think you should go to Barbados beacause I heard that it is beautiful and it has a beach and it sounds fun.

Q: Recently, my friend has been talking about how "hot" he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and "jerk off" (masturbate) at any pictures of her in them. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to molest him he'd be all for it. Its kind of funny but its also kind of creepy to me. II always thought a teacher is someone you respect, not look at in that way. Is this normal

First of all, boys like any girls who is "HOT" no matter who it is. Like a mom or even a teacher. but it is normal for them because all they think about is girls.

Q: Iam a 20 year old female and I got invited to this Halloween party and I need a costume that fits the dresscode something not to skimpy becouse it's a party at the mental health center I go to.

I think you should be a nurse lol. It fits in with the whole mental health center so it should work out for you. =)

Q: My best friend hasn't been acting like a friend. She is always blaming things that I didn't do on me and even blaming them on my mom. I really don't know what to do. We had some great times together, but is it right to let that go?

If she's dragging family into it, then I think you should just talk to her about it and if she continues to do it and blame stuff on you then I think you shouldnt be her friend anymore because thats not a true friend.

Q: 17/F
Seattle, Washington

Hello, thanks for reading :) I have really liked this guy for almost a year, and I know at a time he really liked me too. I am going to be seeing him at a dance soon, and I have felt like this would be the perfect oppertunity to clarify a few things between us. Should I ask him how he feels? How should I tell him how I feel? Thanks again for the help!

I think you should pull him aside and talk to him one on one and ask him how he feels about you.But first, you should tell him how you feel about him first.LOL!And if he feels the same way then hey you guys should get together and have fun.Hope i helped!

Q: So, I have a best friend, and i love him to death he is amazing. He is the only one that truely understands me and i don't know what I'd do without him, but there is one problem. He has a girlfriend, a bad girlfriend. She had cheated on him so many times before, and it makes him so upset almost to the point where he has come to me in tears. He doesn't see that she isn't worth his time because of how bad she hurts him. He just over looks it because he loves her so much. I honestly can't stand it I have tried so many times to tell him that she isn't right for him, without being mean of course. I really don't know what to do, and i always usually do know what to do and thats why this is so hard for me, because I truely do love him and i can't see him get hurt like this. Please help me.

maybe you should yell at him over the phone and tell him to look at whats in front of him and tell him that thier are other fish in the sea.

Q: I dont want to break up with my girlfriend, because I dont want to be known as the jerk by all of her friends. To prevent this, how do I get my girlfriend to break up with me?

well if you really wanna break up with her so bad then you can try flirting with other girls and maybe even kiss one or you can try acting really abnoxious towards her and maybe she'll break up with you.Hope i helped!

Q: Can anyone tell me who originally sings Baby one more time? Thanks

Ummm...that is so easy its BRITNEY SPEARS!!! hope i helped you more than the` other people did

Q: what is it mean to "be there for someone"? and how do you be there for someone? is it considered being there for someone if your friend didnt go to you for advice but you came to them and you ask them what's wrong and they tell you whats wrong with them?

Being there for someone means that you'll always be there when they wanna talk or ask you for their advice.You can be there for someone by talking to them about their problems and helping them out when they are in need.Please write a feedback thank you and good luck!

Q: How old were you when you lost your virginity?

i never lost my virginity but i think the appropiate age to lose your virginity is 18 or 19.

Q: How can you make friends if your homeschooled and you just moved?

The best advice I can give you is to be yourself and dont try to be something you're not.If you see someone that you think is a nice person then introduce yourself to them and start a conversation.Trust me this worked for me and I know it will work for you.Hope I helped you!GOOD LUCK!!

Q: What do u do if u really like a guy but u cant make up your mind and u already broke up with them because u didnt really like them but u werent for sure and now you are?

?~?Confused?~?

well i think you should go out wit him already and stop flirting.

Q: 22, and i'm a girl.
Like its not common is it?
I find it really hard to make friends, cause i'm shy and i get paranoid...

Well i used to be like that too.But if you want to make new friends all you have to to do is get out of your shyness space and introduce yourself to people.Trust me this worked for me and I have tons of friends. And being shy isnt bad.

Q: i don't get out much, and i'm pretty anti social..
for some reason i have sexual thoughts about kids, i won't do anything about it and i hate myself 4 it...
i'm so confused cause i don't consider myself a petifile..but it can't be normal
it dosen't happen all the time, just occassionly
like i havn't thought about it 4 a while..what is wrong with me?

first of all, how old are you? second of all, try to make friends that are around your age and then you'll start forgeting about the kids in your head.

Q:

What does it mean when someone responds to something you say by saying, "Word."?

it means that the `agree with wat you are saying `or `it is the truth.In other words it means yeah.

Q: ok so ive been home schooled for 2 or 3 years but now i go to a normal high school (im 13/f) and my cousins go there to so i hang out with them and there friends but i dont like there friends and there to old for me and im to shy to make some other friends so what do i do??

i think you should ask your cousins to give you a tour of the school and to introduce to some people your age so yuo can meet and make new friends.Once you make new friends, your next 4 years in high school will get much better for you.Hope I Helped!!!