about

My name is Kayla!!!
i love to give advice but not alot of ppls no that! so ask me n e thing i dont care i will answer u @ my own cost! say ur name or not u can always leave it annoymus! I love to play sports i am on the basketball team and i was on the softball team and i am goin to be on the track team! I do alot of different things! i do so uch things and sports it isnt funny bt i love givin advie!
o0o ya i suck @ spellin so dont count that!


advice

hey gurlz,
how can i make time to change my tampon at school? i never have time in between classes, and i dont like to leave the class w/ my purse b/c everbody would know. i usually don't put stuff in mypurse b/c all my friends go through it. i usually ut stuff in my lunch box, and change during lunch. can any of u give me advice on how to manage it?
i will rate high

buy tampax compact that is wut i use i am 13 and in 8th grade and it works well cuause it is small and it fits in ur pocket hope i helped
kla

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ok well i realli hate skool.....nd it brings my hole life down......i am alwayz in a bad mood....nd people r alwayz calling meh bitch....nd i alwayz hear ppl talkin shit bout meh.....i jus feel like no 1 iz on mi side.....mi best friend she didnt understand meh ne more.....nd like i have been cryin 1nce a dai.....nd i ussally didnt cry for weekz @ a time....wtf iz wrong with meh.....

p.s. i go to freedom.....i jus graduated frum ops

meh

sry this took so long i have been really busy with sports latley and a big project and test!so ya sorry

umm i would say that maybe try a different look on life/ skool and maybe u will get my happy for the brings u life down part also u should join a club there.

try finding new friends if u do htat maybe more ppls will lyk u more nad will stop calling u a bitch and also just think about this 4 ever person that talks about u it just mean that they lyk u.
quote:
"For all of you who talk about me, thanks for making me the center of your world!"
just rember that someone is at least thinking about u. Lots of ppls r on ur side even when u dont think that they r.

TRY TO LOOK FORWARD TO SOMEHTING AT THE END OF UR DAY!
-kla i hope i helped
if u need n e thing else im me @ zsoftballchickax

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Why does your advice column suck so hard?I mean your obsesd with ducks girl get help!

lilshanshan

well u no wut i lyk rubber ducks and if u ever talk to n e of ym friends they will tell u that i love them and also i didnt designie my page my friend candace did so i give props to her but 4 u i think that u r a person that lyks to put ppls down and they u r really misarible inside
-kla
ps. u suck 2

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i was borne in wilmar,minnesota and i live in california and like i was wondering if anyone new of a sight that gave you your birth records

*needed baby records*

u can always call the hospital that u were born @ r call the states capitol which is sacomento! i live in cali and my dad had the same problem when he needed to get a pass port so we had to call the state and they will send u a new one in ylk 1 week

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I have a scrapbook that I'm making for my Junior/Senior year..I'm really into decorating..but I was just wondering if anyone has any cute ideas for me to add to it..or maybe some stores where I could go to find some cute things..besides Walmart..and Joanne fabrics..are there any other places? thanks!

scrap that idea that is a good store to buy stuff if u have one by u!
-kla

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my belly button is red and has like pus stuff coming out of it sometimes..it scares me..anyone know what this is or how to treat it? ive been putting Lubriderm Aloe Vera Body Lotion on it

it is most likely infected adn u sould go to the doctors to get it checked out and i dont no how u got htta but ya i sounds bad so it must look bad ask ur parents and tell them and ask if u can go to hte doctor to get it checked out

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ok theres this teacher at my school lets call him mr maning well neways one day at school he asked me to stay after to do some make up work which i didnt no i had ne make up work!!

so anyways we went into his classroom and sat at a table and he sat next to me. he started scooting his chair closer to me and then started rubbing my leg and dumb old me i wore a mini skirt with a thong on that day

so THEN he easily took off my bottoms and started fingering me!! he goes do u like it? and i said ya bc i didnt no what to do! plus it felt kinda good then we got on the table and i started givin him head and HE had an orgasm!!

then he took out a condom THANKFULLY and slipped it on and started effin me!!!! and i was on my period that day!!!! earlier he took out my tampon newayz then the condom snappen in half and he kept on goin!!!

he took my virginity and maybe even gotten me pregnant and it was at school with a 26 year old teacher who i have to face everyday!!!!! what shud i do?

PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND I RATE REAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALY HIGH!!!!! thx a bunch!!!!!!!!!!

signed,
future mom??

im very sorry that this happened to u but it was hafe ur falt because u let him do that to u andya first of all tell an adult it doesnt hafe to be ur mom but a trusted adult then i would go get tested fro aids and hiv and that stuff you should go to the gyno and take the one day after pill and it will get read of n e sign of haveing a baby!
- kayla
IT IS UR FALT THAT THIS HAPPENED

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Hey, I heard that if you were born after 1990, you can't get your temporary lisence until you are 16. Is this true?

i agree with kayla even tho she has my name she is still smarter than me lol umm well check @ ur local DMV and also ask ur parent cause i live in cali and that law hasnt passed yet or i dont think it has but ya just ask around
-kayla if u need n e thing else im me @ zsoftballchickax

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Is it true that if u get your hair thinner at a salon then the next time it gets even thicker? or what happens..n how much does it cost. ty

ya ti grows back twice as thick i have superthick hair and my hairdresser told me never to do it cause i will hate it even more so ya i wouldnt get it done if u have superthick hair

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ok...i realli like this guy...i have b4 but i brushed it off as no biggie...so ne way*z...we r to TOTALLY different ppl....i am kinda preppy....good girl....((even tho i dont act like 1))....all that stuff...but he iz a stoner....ur in that group @ least.....i swore to mi self i never date sum 1 like that....but the thing iz i think he like*z meh 2!....nd i was bout to tell him todai....but i had to have ur advice.....PLEEZ help....

DuNkEr

just go uo to him with a friend that u totly no and would trust ur life on and will give u a shoulder to dry on!( if he says no) sry but ya it does happen!
just go and tell him he will be happy to here and he will think about u so much more than he did! so ya just go and tell him! hell understand!

-kla

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Ok Lately I've Been getting these really annoying phone call's And i dont know who it is the caller ID says Private Call... and no number... When I answer I eather get a silence or someone says Hey im like who's this their like im jeff ( I dont know any jeffs!!) Im like I dont know a Jeff their like ok so whats up?... I mean i hang up on them told them not to call anymore i dont know them and they WONT get the hint to leave me alone... My parents havnt called the phone company yet and I cant get them to do it anytime soon! but these calls come anytime except for school hours... as early as 5:30 in the morning to as late as 1:30 a.m. I leave my pc online at night so I wont get woken up... any advice on how to handle my situation? Its really tireing me out and makin my b/f mad cause im getting these calls from a guy I dont know... Help! Sry Its so long

TnkZ

i had that happen to me @ 9pm ya its early but i have a baby brother and i answered it 3 times and on the fourth time i gave it to my dad and told him wut happened and he yelled @ them and told them that he was goin to call the cops on them and it stoped!

u jus ask ur dad to answer the phone and yell @ them! it works really well havent had a prank call senice
-kla

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i really need help see i can't get in front of people to present a project in front of my class i start sweating and feel like throwing up and i can't breath and everytime i go up to present a project everybody could see that i am nervous because the way my voice sounds if anybody could give me good advice i really really need it or i will be stuck like this forever. i rate high help a person that is in need PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!

i do that to i get nervous that i am goin to froget eut i am spose to say!
JUST MEMORIZE IT! trust me it is really more easer cause then u can move around and all i did that when i was in dare that drug program and i had to read my speach in front of everyine jusein a mic and on stage it was really nervewracking and ya just dont look @ some one that will make u laugh!
-kla hope i helped!

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My hair right now is a little past my shoulders and for me, it's long. I was thinking about growing it out longer to about the middle of my back and then cut it to a little past my chin and donate my hair to Locks of love. My question is, what is the minimum in inches of hair you can donate? Thanks for the help!

that is really nice it has to be 10 inches! that is wut i heard my neighbor just had sugry on her head and they had to shave her head so i hope she gets a donation from locks of love cause hse had long hair it was sad!

Ya 10in. is the mim.

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ok people at my school make fun of me and call me fat cuz im a size 3 n not a 1 like them. this makes me upset cuz i dont think im fat n people liek make me cry cuz their so mean to me. what shud i do?

tell them to deal with it size three isnot fat im serious! I no that cause i and a size 1 but my mom is a size three and she is hella skiny lky me and ya i can sometimes fit in to her ants and stuff and ya it isnt fat tell them that they need to be nicer and if they wont ingor them u can always tell someone in the office and they will take care of it!

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does anyone know how to fade freckles?
.:~*I rate 5's*~:.

put some lemon juce on a q tip and put it on were ur freckles r and also they go away with age i have a lot of them and that is wut i do!
-kla

they go away with age trust me my mom had them and now u cant c them n e more lol!

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i have problems sleeping at night...i always imagine that somethings in my room or someones trying to break in and i feel really uncomfortable. also, when i blow dry my hair, sometimes i freak out because i think of someone on the news that went missing or was murdered and i feel like theyre standing right behind me haunting me..also at midnight, or late, when im walking down the hall, i always run just in case someone is follwing me...whats wrong with me and what should i do

i do that to so i dont no i always do that i am also afarid that someone is following me if u get the answer plz tell me im sry but i cant help so ya sry!

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Dear Kayla-

ok welll i like this guy, whose name is Frankie. Frankie is a total skater dude, and i'm well... kinda preppy. The only reason i've really talked to him is cause he sat by me in a couple of my classes. When i talked to him he was really nice.. and sweet. I finally realized i liked him. I really dont kno if he likes me cuz he's so different from guys i normally like.. and soo different from me. Anyways we had this little inside joke thing where we always like wave to each other outside of this one class we have 2gether... and ya.. he always smilies and waves when he sees me and he is sooooo nice. I mean from what i can tell i barely kno him tho... it really stinks. Yesterday he switched some classes and now i have no classes with him... i'm really upset. It ruint my whole day yesterday anyways.. i really wanna talk to him and just get to know him better. but there are some problems... i'm pretty outgoing but i can be really shy around guys and stuff.... Frankie is totally different from me, and a skater dude...... most of his friends totally hate me.... and most of my friends dont realli kno him (and i wont tell them who he is)..... and i have no classes with him. He still waves to me tho. i need advice on how to like talk to frankie and like realli have a converstaion with him or just play around. i'm pretty creative, but with all the problems i dunno wut 2 do.... and i'm just not very bold when it comes to guys... plz help me find a way to talk to frankie!!!! (PS.. in case it helps, I'm 13)

well if u want to be able to talk to him just do it! i am also 13 and i just finaly got up the nevre to ask this guy that i have lyked sence 6th grade out! you just need some morol spport lyk have a friend go with u! Senci u said that u wont tell neone jsut tell ur bestest friend (that wasnt a word but o0o well)the one that you trust the most and make her promis that she wont tell n e one. Try to do it when he is alone it may be easyer and you never no what he will say and if u jused to talk to him lky in between classes it will be kinda easer. you can always try and skateboard it realy isnt that hard. that can be ur ? you can ask him to help u out with skateboarding. iF you need more help or if it didnt make sence jsut tell me or ask another ? im sry i am just out of it so if it doent make senice sry!
-kayla

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KK, I am running for treasurer of my school and I havta make stickers. I can't think of any good lines to put on it (for example Vote Alexis for treasurer it makes cents). Please Help!! I'll rate!! thanx... xoxo

trust alexis with ur money!

that is wut my friend did last year! hope i helped!
-kla

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I'm kind of talking to this guy friend of mine, but when we get on the phone with each other, we dont say much, and its the same thing in person. Does anyone have any good topics to talk about with each other?

candy sports money

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Theres this girl. We were dating for a year( i know thats preety sad) Now i want to break up with her. How do i brake up with someone without hurting their feelings?

move to candna w/out telling here and then call her on the phone or u can do it in a public place

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