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im ashley, most of my friends call me ash. im 18 years old & a senior in highschool. im a very outgoing person, im always smiling and laughing :)i try to always be positive about things. feel free to ask me anything!

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What is the best way to lose baby belly weight? I had a baby 9 months ago and still have a lot of belly hanging and just alot of weight on my stomach. any ideas??

try running every other day.

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is an HIV test result pretty much conclusive after 3 months of possible exposure?

no, 6 months.

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Does anyone here take Yasmin? The generic version is Ocella. It is a 28 tablets birth control. I am just wondering if anyone has any information on it from personal experience. In example, side effects, when to get your period and how heavy it will be and how long it will last generally, any problems with it.

I got information online but would like personal experiences.

I take Yasmin, and i loveee it! i normally get my period on wednesdays and it ends late saturday. its nice! i don't get acne anymore nor do i get cramps.

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How many stamps would you need to put on a regular sized envelope that's being delivered to Chicago? Oh, and how long exactly does it take to be delivered from Pittsburgh to Chicago, and vice versa? Thanks!

hey! im from pittsburgh too, lol


like 40 miles away, lol i don't know the answer, sorry

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ive got yet another music question "......tell me that youre sorry did not think youd turn around....... its too late to apoligize, its too late....." dos anyone redconize this song???

yes, theres a few versions of that song.

apologize by one republic ft. timberland
apologize(remix) by lil wayne(this one is the best)
apologize by one republic

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are stride gum wrappers edible?

i heard they were if you eat the wrapper with the gum.
is this true, like are they meant to be chewed,
i would think they would advertise the wrappers being edible and stuff, but idk, is it true?

i just tried it now, and yes they are edible. lol

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I need help finding cute tops. I like Abercrombie and Hollister and what not but I don't have a lot of clothes from there and would like more. The thing is I can't find anything without thinking about it first. Can anyone list links from clothing store websites that have cute tops? I like Hollister, Abercrombie, Aeropostale? And any other stores with cute clothes such as urban behaviour (sometimes now and then theres a cute top but not often)

Pretty much any URLS from popular stores for TOPS since thats what I am looking for. (I dont mean send me the section of the site with all the tops because what I am looking for are links to different tops that you think are cute so I might buy them) Any stores that are popular, just not american eagle because their clothes dont fit me that well, the mediums are too big but the smalls are too small. THANKS SO MUCH!

hmm..these are my favorite tops from hollister, enjoy!

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_373194_-1_12597_12552

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_372667_-1_12594_12552

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10251&catalogId=10201&productId=337372&langId=-1&categoryId=12622&parentCategoryId=12552&colorSequence=10

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i lived in nc for a long time then i moved to pa. i recently came back down and all my friend told me how much weight i had lost. i thought it was really strange because i thought i had gained alot of weight. is it just in my head that i project myself as being heavier like when anorexic people look in the mirror and they see someone who's like 100 pounds heavier than they actually are?

hey, i live in pa too :]

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For the past few days I've been having brown discharge with a little bit of blood in it. I'm not expecting my period for about a week and I was just wondering if that sounds normal. Thanks! (:

its normal.

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i am a c 36. which i consider "bigger" than most, considering a lot of my friends and a's or b's. anyways, like my breasts look quite big in t shirts but in low cut shirts i barely have a lot of cleavage..idk its confusing. but they dont look as big as my size actually is. and its not just one bra, a few of mine are that size. anyways, is that like weird at all..normal..what the heck? 15.f. thanks.

this question has no point to it.
you got big boobs, end of story.

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my boyfriend used to be the one to care more and like me more and everything so he used to tell me to care more and now im the one who is overcaring and telling him i love him..he used to tell me he loves me and now doesnt anymore because he says i take it too seriously..how do i get him to do nice things for me again and show me again that he DOES care..please help me im so hurt. =[

talk to him about your feelings.

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How can someone go from being very popular to totally unpopular, to the point where people don't talk about them anymore ? What do you have to do to become very unpopular?

who cares if your "popular". like seriously? nobody really cares about how much money your daddy makes.

and by becoming 'unpopular' you probably did something wrong, or people got sick of you.

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has anyone dyed their hair with kool-aid before? did it work? if you have any suggestions with how not to screw up on the process please tell me. thank you.

p.s. i currently sport black hair. so i may need to bleach it? i dunno.

its pointless, so just buy wash out dye or something.

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My birthday is coming up soon, i am turning 13 adn am having 30 some girls sleep over at the local sports complex..it should be a balst but there is this one friend who is nice but she ditched me and my other firneds for more popular ones we had this huge fight for 2 years now were finally made up but then last night we kinda you know butted heades again but now were cool.....do you think i should invite her to my birthday party? shes really controlling but is SO nice, but sometimes we just dont get along and its definitly not like old timeswe dont sit with eachother at lunch or anything. should i invite her?

yeah, invite her. you shouldn't hold grudges.

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well i am an overweight kid but not really overweight im about 35-40 pounds overweight for my height and age. I want to lose this weight by the time we go on vacation in february but i want to lose it healthy. over the summer i lost 20 pounds of it and was doing really well but i unfortunatley gained it back. i lost those pounds in the summer by eating healthy and doing the eliptical about once or twice a day and i would sometiems do sprints or stuff. does anyone have any tips or helpful ideas to help me lose my weight??

excerise.

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14/f
There is something wrong with my breast.
But I dont know what it is.

My right breast started hurting really bad on Thanksgiving day,but I didnt really think anything of it.
Well Friday and until today it was hurting really really bad.like barely poke it and i wanted to cry.
I was looking at it today and on the inner side (the side furtherest from my right arm pit of my breast.) is pinkish. and really hardish. it doesnt feel like it my left breast which feels perfectly fine.

What could it be?
Should I tell my and get her to make me a doctors appointment?

Thanks in advance.

uhh. go to the doctors a.s.a.p!

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Ok, please hear me out, and give your honest opinion.

I am a male in high school and am a straight guy. But there is this one kid that I can't get off my mind.

He is a very good looking guy and he's not mean or anything, I just feel like I want to talk to him all the time and be with him. But every time that we talk I feel like I'm the one that keeps starting conversations and he never starts them..

I don't think I 'like' him, I'm not sure.

Like for example, he's a trouble maker but not a bad one, and every time he does something stupid, I'm always the one to look at his gorgeous eyes and smile and his smile is so awesome I can't even describe it. And the way he smiles at me I feel like there's something more.. but I'm not sure. :(

So as I said, I'm not gay, but I just want to bring up this relationship as friends and see where that goes.

How can I get him to talk to me more?
We talk on AIM, Facebook, MySpace, but we end up just running out of things to talk about..

ALSO! How can I get him to talk about his life? Like what can I say to him that will get him talking about himself personally.

Thanks!
-AJ

PS: I'm 15 and he's 14, we're both in the same grade.

uhmm well.
i don't think that you 'like' him, i just think that you admire him. there is always a possibility that you look up to this guy as a role model, perhaps.

or

there is always a slight chance that your a bisexual, but only you can decide that. i think you might have a slight crush on him because you described his eyes as "gorgeous".

and

for him to open up about his personal life you have to open up about yours first.

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Ok well im 14/f and i kind of want to ask about birth control but i dont want it to be awkward. my period tends to be long like 7 days while my moms is only 5 and i havent even had it for a year but i really dont like it. I've started getting some pain because of it just mild cramping and lower back pain but im also kind of more tired i think and i got it in the beginning of nov. and now i just got it again! its only like 20 days in between and sum of those birth controls sound so cool like only having your period for 4 days every other month or w/e. for sum reason i just really dont like my period! i dont know why i just don't. it doesnt really hurt or anything it just makes things more difficult i guess. anyway am i too young to think of asking for birth control? i have an abstinence ring and def. am not going to have sex so would my mom still want to say no or what? thanks!

don't get birth control. it makes you gain weight and its a waste. nobody likes their period, so just suck it up.

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why do i always fall in love with the emo/gothic guys, it doesnt matter who they are or what they look like, i mean he could be the ugliest and fattest guy in the world and i will still fall for him. can anyone tell me why im in lvoe wiht all the emo/gothic guys?!?

because thats the type of guys you like, everyone has a different taste.

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where do you all work? (i am looking for suggestions just seeing where everyone else is)

work @ your local grocery store, or pizza places? you could try places like mcdonalds, or you can be a waitress. lol there are soo many options.

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