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Age: 17
Member Since: August 14, 2004
Answers: 51
Last Update: July 20, 2005
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hey okay well i have been going out with my boyfriend for only about a month...well he has only been my like 3rd realy relationship and the only guy outta them 3 that i really really like. in my past ive always been known not to be the girlfriend type just someone to hook up with or do whatever with because everytime i see someone i like or they like me i just wanna hook up with them or do anything else. Im really scared that im gonna cheat on him and i don't want to because im actually starting to fall in love with him! what should i do? (link)
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If this is the only guy out of those three you really really like, like you said, then you probably won't want to hook up with another guy. Those other 2 guys I am guessing you didn't like them that much? Which probably made you want to go out with someone else. I think if you really really like this guy, the difference is you won't be interested in anyone else!
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okay... i have dark brown hair. it's about down to the middle of my back like where the back of my bra is, my hair is also EXTREAMLY thick and it gets frizzy really easily. i was thinking about cutting my hair to a little past my shoulders... like maybe taking about 2 inches or so off and getting lost of layers and long bangs to my cheekbone. the thing is i'm not sure what will happen to my hair like if it will friz up and get really poofy when it's humid outside. does anyone have any ideas on how to keep my hair from not frizzing up?
ps- i blowdry and straighten my own hair (link)
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Go to the beauty parlor. Tell them exactly what you said here. They'll know what to do more than we do probably! :-)
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Ok well theres a fair in town.ive been goin every nite. Well Neways. Theres this really hot guy that works at the ferris wheel. Whenever im theres hes always staring at me n smiling and talkin to me does he like me?. I wanna tell him that i like him n stuff but i dont wanna sound stupid. Thing is hes also older i heard him talking to his friends and he said he doesnt mind dating younger girls. What should i Do?
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If he's staring at you and smiling at you, it most likely means he likes you. You should get one of your friends to ask him what he thinks about you. If he says he likes you, well then go talk to him girl! But if he says he's not interested, then he's been sending you mixed signals, and you don't have to feel stupid because you don't have to see him anymore.
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the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :( (link)
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No!!! NO NO NO NO NO. Do NOT fall for this. This guy is a jerk, and only using you for sex. Please do not fall for this. It is not worth it. How respectable can he be if he says "I'll only go out with you if you have sex with me"? You need somebody who likes you for YOU. He obviously wants to see if you'll have sex with him because he wants to have sex with you all the time. He doesn't want his time to be wasted with a girl who won't have sex with him. And YOU don't need your time wasted by a jerk. Find a guy who respects you. Because YOU deserve it.
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How do you de-stress?? I have been having the worst stressful days and I have been having horrible headaches as a result. I need to destress.
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Here are many ways to destress...
IF YOU HAVE 10 MINUTES:
Take a walk around the block. Focus all your attention on little details , like the flowers. It'll help you forget your worries. Plus, the fresh air and scenery will give you a new perspective.
Another way is to dab a fragrance like vanilla or lavender on your kneck, becasue they're calming scents. Then, breathe deeply 10 times. Inhale through your nose for 2 counts and exhale for 4. Conscious breathing turns your thoughts inward, so you'll become more in tune with your body or mind.
Dance where no one's watching. Turn on your favourite CD and go nuts! This releases tons of energy. :-)
IF YOU HAVE A HALF HOUR:
Draw a picture that expresses how you're feeling right now. You may not be able to describe your emotions with words, but using colours, shapes, textures, and images can help you figure them out.
3 steps...first, take 5 minutes for complete silence. Don't talk or move. Then, take 10 minutes to examine your life. Ask yourself "What's going right? What can I improve upon? How will I change? Then, take 10 or 15 minutes to write in a journal, to get things off your chest. Putting thoughts oon paper gets them out of your head.
Give yourself a makeover or facial (If you're a girl of course! lol!) This will make your whole body relax.
IF YOU HAVE A HALF DAY:
Clean out your closet and get rid of all the clutter that's making you crazy! Throw everything on your bed, then put only the clothes that you've worn in the last year back in the closet. Give everything else away.
Go to a movie by yourself. See whatever you want, and sit wherever you want! Laugh, cry, and eat popcorn. This will make you feel brave and show you how it can be to do things on your own.
Cook a meal or dessert for your family. This will focus your energy on something fun. (Unless you hate cooking, then don't do this)
IF YOU HAVE ALL DAY:
All day, do EXACTLY what you want to do WHEN YOU WANT TO DO IT. Let your body tell you when to get out of bed, eat, take a nap, run, skip, sit, read, whatever!
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Well im 16 and i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are both gonna be senior's this year. I know its weird cause im only 16 but i skipped a grade. We are both very popular. He is the best football play and im the captain of the cheerleading squad and the whole nine yards. Well we had sex for the second time a week or two ago. I was suppose to start my period two days ago and I took a test and im pregnant. I am so scared. I dont know how to tell him or my parents and i dont know if i want to keep it. Someon please help (link)
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Well, you need to start with something like this:
"Mom, Dad, I'm telling you this because I love and respect you and I hope you would understand and I trust you will treat me with respect and not yell at me for this, because only God is perfect, and I'm asking for advice from the two people in this world I trust most but..."
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ok well my friend Christine says stuff about me and my other friend behind our backs and we hate it so we asked her why and now she says she didn't say anything when tones of pplz tell us she said stuff what should I say to her to make her spill out the truth or should I stop being friends with her?? (link)
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This is what I do: Don't believe anything unless you HEAR it come out of her mouth. Rumours are rumours! I heard someone was talking about me once, but it seems it was just a nasty prank, and she wasn't talking about me at all. Don't jump to conclusions. It very well may be that Christine didn't say anything at all. Never believe rumours. They're only a snippet of the truth.
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ima 14/f, this guy *Nathan i liked smokes weed.. he didnt really notice me, so i started smokin weed with all the people he hung around with. Now, im kinda like addicted to weed. I got Nathan, and im in love with him... but he wants to have sex, im scared that if i dont he'll break up with me. but i can't tell my dad any of this, so he can help me cuz he would like flip out on me. what should i doo, please im really scared, and i really wanna stop smokin and go back to the old me, but than nathan wont like me!! just please someone help me!!
signed, scared n wants to stop! (link)
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Hunny, I know a lot of people are gonna say this to you, and this is the answer you probably expected, but you don't need to please any guy by doing something you don't wanna do. If he doesn't like you for quitting weed and staying abstinent, then he probably doesn't like you at all! You need someone who will respect YOU for YOU. You can quit weed, and if he has a problem with it, well, do you really want to keep a relationship with a guy just to please him? If you want to stop smoking, don't let some guy who doesn't respect you get in your way. He should have no control over you.
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i have this grl in my class n i really hate her but i dnt kno wut i should do about it plz help me (link)
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Well, why do you hate her? Do you hate her for no reason? If so, maybe you should just try to be nice to her. Get to know her. You two could turn out to be friends!
If that's not the reason you hate her, maybe you hate her because she's mean to you? Then what you should do is kill her with kindness. Maybe then she'll stop being mean. I need to know the reason you hate her if you need help. :-)
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i was dating this guy for about 3 months and things got pretty serious. we spent every day together and he would stay and my house and vice versa. his ex girlfriend called one night and he broke up with me to see if things would work with her and they didnt. he called about a month after we broke up and said that he made a huge mistake for breaking up with me cause i was the best thing that had ever happened to him. we got back together and things were great, actually better than ever or so i thought. one day when she called again he started getting weird again and told me that he once again needed time. i took all of my stuff from his house and said that i wasnt playing second best anymore. i gave him all i had and thought that this was it. that he was the one. and unfortunately im a mess over him. i know he treats me horrible in this situation but ive never been so inlove with someone before. and i dont know what to do. someone just help. please. (link)
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Eh. This on'e a hard one. It seems as though he's using you! (Wow I'm the master of the obvious, aren't I?)You might have really liked him, but he was using you! Find a guy you like just as much, that will treat you right. Maybe if you still can't get this guy out of your head, offer to be friends with him. So you wouldn't beak up a relationship with a good guy.
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I am 13 years old, and I'm going to a new school. I really wanna be happy, because the last school I went to, people made fun of me and teased me because they knew I was sensitive. How do I make a good impression? What if someone teases me? How do I handle it? Btw, my school starts in a week! (link)
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Hi! I don't know if I'm supposed to answer this question, and I hope it gets no one mad, but In just HAD to help you with this one! I went to a new schhol, and at my old school, people made fun of me too! You need to go into this school and be funny! People love to be around people that will make them laugh. And it will make you lots of friends. Also, to show people you're confident, you need to walk into that school with your head held up high, and smile at anyone who looks at you. If someone makes fun of you for some reason, you need to look at them, smile, and say something like "I didn't know you needed to make fun of other people to make yourself feel better". And say it loud enough for people to hear! If they see they can't walk all over you, they won't mess with you.
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