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hay im adina and im a cheerleader at lewisville high school. i love giving advice so ask me anything!!
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Okay.. let's see- I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. We are both around 16. Hes not to desperate to do anymore than we have.. He's went down my pants but thats the furthest we've got. We both talked about doing more, and we both want to. The only thing is i'm kind of nervous. Like everyone says giving handjobs/blowjobs come natural how to do it. but i dont think it's going to for me. or like him eating me out? Won't that just be weird. will i just lay there? I'm really ready to do this, but i just want to make sure i do everything right for him...
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to me, it sounds like you aren't ready. if you are you wouldn't hesitate to do it. i mean, you will get nervous, but don't force yourself to do it if you aren't ready or don't feel comfortable doing it. don't listen to what others say about that stuff, because everyone is different. it might not come all too natural for you, but that shouldn't matter if you really love and trust your boy..
Hiya,
I've had three boyfriends, all of whom were MAJOR crushes of mine. I was mad about them for ages (months and sometimes years) and took all my courage, told them how I felt and asked them out (one at a time obviously!). They all liked me back which was great but...once we started dating, with every single one of them, I just lost all feelings towards them and felt trapped. What do you think is going on? Am I in love with the idea of unrequited love? Or am I just not ready for a relationship...or what?
Ta!
it really doesn't mean anything, everyone is like that at some point. it isn't love, obviously, it's probably just lust. maybe you aren't ready for a real serious relationship, which is okay because your still young. you'll eventually find one that makes you want to keep him for a LONG time.
Okay I have this friend who is 12 and she is wanting to save up some money but for being as young as she is she is having trouble earning money so if any of you have any good ways she could earn money then plese help as soon as possible!!!
she should baby sit! girls a whole lot younger than that baby sit and get paid good money. you can also mow lawns if your tough like that, or look for a family member or friend who has a job and needs help with tiny stuff. for me, since i couldn't get a job, i helped my dad out with his job and he paid me alot of money. just little stuff like that can get you started.
Okay my friend is driving me crazy because she likes someone in her class.She is way to shy to tell him that she likes him before she knows if he likes her back.I have told her to just go for it but she is like really really shy.So my question is how can she find out if he likes her without him finding out she likes him before he says he likes her?I will rate anyone who helps a perfect five for effort whether or not I liked their answer!!!
be a good friend and ask the guy yourself! try not to make it too obvious though, and go with the flow. i'm sorry your friend is driving you crazy, but your her friend so be there for her. i'm sure you've drove her crazy before.. lol
i need suggestions for the use of self tanner. like, my face and neck, should i do those? i mean... if i dont it will l;ook weird and if i screw up it will look weird, u know? my mom got me this spray gun thing i dono how to use it! o man, i need help right now! please. : )
you do tan your face and neck, but listen. you shouldn't get a tan period, it's really bad for your skin! it's so easy to get skin cancer from tanning, and trust me, skin cancer is NOT cute at all! it's digusting and painful. it'll make your skin look old too. PLEASE don't do it.. it'll only harm your skin. if you really want to see some pictures of how skin cancer looks, IM me. beware though! lol
Hi i met this guy on a website and he keeps talking to me and sending me love smilies. Does he like me, i mean i don't even know him (i dont think so u cant ask who they are). I've only been talking to him for a day (not even) and apparently he plays football. I dont know anything about him i dont even know if hes a guy. I want to get his screenname but he wont go into the chat rooms. Someone please help me!
you shouldn't get involved with this "guy" because you never know if he could be a girl, or a stalker. it's really dangerous to meet people online, because people have been killed over it! don't trust him, and don't talk to him. is there anyway you can block him?
I'm in a relationship at the moment, and im really happy. Yet at the same time i kinda wish i wasnt. It's not like i dont like him or anything it's just I'm only 14 and i dont really feel like i need a bf. I was just wondering what do YOU think is the rite time to start dateing, and why. ane Please help me decided what to do. Thanks.
there isn't a right time to start dating, everyone is different. if you really don't feel you are ready for a relationship, don't force yourself to have one, because it won't be fun at all! just let him know how you feel, and he will understand you. just don't wait too long, because it'll be harder!
i really need to stop cutting but i dont want to tell anyone about my problem and i cant go to the counseler because the can tell your parents everything but what are some things i can do to stop?? i've quit for a while but it all just built up and i had to do it again. what can i do?
thanks for helping. . . if you can
cutting yourself isn't going to do you any good. it may make you feel better at the moment, but afterwards and usually just makes things worse! let your emotions out in a different way then cutting yourself. let your emotions out in ways that won't hurt you like writing poems about how you are feeling, boxing with a punching bag, and stuff like that! those usually help me when i'm really upset and want to let my emotions out! it isn't bad to let them out, because you can't keep them inside of you because it'll just built up and make them worse. if that doesn't stop you, you will probably have to tell your family and a counselor because they will help you stop.
I like this guy at school but i dont know him. I'm a sophomore and hes a senior... How can i tell if he likes me? I've been meaning to talk to him but i dont know if he will like me back... Is there any signs?
it's different for every guy.. but some examples are flirting, staring straight at you when you talk, when he touches you alot, always look at you, buys you things, makes fun of you, etc. i'm not that sure, i asked some guys about ways to tell they like a girl. hope we helped. lol
My boyfriend & I have been trying to have a baby for the past 4 months! & I can not get pregnant! We know that his sperm is good because he has 2 kids from a previous relationship. Could you not get pregnant because you have a disease? What kind of diseases? How do you know if you are in fertile? What causes you to be in fertile? WE REALLY WANT TO HAVE A BABY :0(
aww!! i can't wait to have kids when i'm older.. well to find out if you are infertile you should go to a doctor to get checked, because that's the only way to find out! it may be harder to get pregnant if you are still going through puberty.. that is if you are! there could be a disease that can be stopping you from getting pregant, but most likely not. get checked by a doctor!
my friend is really mad and ive tried talking to him because he shouldnt even be mad at me because its a RUMOR and its NOT TRUE but he just wont listen and i dont want to lose him as a friend because he is one of my BEST friends but he wont even talk to me! everytime i pull him aside to talk he just stares at me and walks away he has made me feel like such a horrible person.he has made alot of people not talk to me..because of a rumor and right now i feel like i have no friends no one will talk to me.i just dont want to lose him as a friend but i dont know how to make him not mad at me or even talk to me..i dont understand why people start rumors its immature and DUMB.please help me i dont know how to make him talk to me
omg i so agree!! rumors are pathetic. i went through the same thing a couple of times, and just remember, rumors only last a few days! they will get old and people will forget about it and MATURE. they may effect your reputation, but those who truly care will be there for you. that's when you know who your true friends are. if your friends continue doing that to you, then they must not be very good friends! i promise you will find a better friend even if it takes time. i know there is atleast one person who will still be there.
Ok, so there's this kid at my school that is obsessed with me, and we talk on the phone and internet and hes asked me out several times already, everytime i said i wasn't sure, what my question is is that do you think it would be smart to get to know him better, or is it "bad" to have an obsessive boyfriend? I don't really "like" him yet, but hes one of the sweetest kids i've ever met. Okay.. sorry it was long thanks
ashley
don't keep leading him on! it's either yes, or no. you need to choose quick, before you really hurt the guy! it isn't bad to have an obsessive boyfriend even thought it can make you feel uncomfortable if you aren't used to those kinds of things. there's nothing wrong with it, he just likes you alot! you should really give him a chance, and if things don't work out, i'm sure he will understand. atleast you gave him a chance.
There's this guy I like I mean a lot he sits next to me in all the classes we have together (which is most of them 2) and were like really good friends And I asked him out he said yes!But he likes this other girl on and off! But what i've heard is he likes me more and now he hates her! But they still talk (like friends)and when i'm around him it feels like were just friends! How do I make him mine, and make him like my real bf?
aw give him trust! i'm sure he likes you and no one else.. you just have to get yourself to believe that. you won't be happy just thinking about what your boyfriend could be doing with other girls and what he could be thinking! it's jealousy, and i know you can't help yourself.. i do it too! if he really liked the other girl, he wouldn't be going out with you now would he?
Well there is this problem!well its not a problem actuly! some ppl say it is but i dont think and im sure you wont think either! well see theres this girl rite i have known her oh so well for a while now and i love her with all my heart and see i have had a few realitionships and i though i loved them buti dont now knowing what love is! well see "problem" is that i can not ever stop thinking about her! some of my friends think that is bad but i dont think so well Adina i love you sweetie!
aww caseyy!! i love you too.. gosh i have that problem too! i don't know what to tell you! just keep thinken about her.. =)
Most of my friends dads look at porn! My friend told me almost every dad does it! But I thought my dad would never do it but one day i saved my paper I wrote for school and went into my dads documents and I saw all these things like adults only! Then I was going to savethemusic.com and when i typed in s i saw like sexmania.com or somehting like that! So is my dad looking at these things? Well duh but how do I deal with this situation? I wanna tell my mom but what?
don't tell your mom, in fact, don't tell anyone! it's your dads personal life and no one needs to know about it. he's only human, he can't help but look at those kinds of things! he's a curious man! haha i'm sure every male has looked at porn atleast once in their life! so don't worry about it!
ok theres this guy at my school but he isnt in any of my classes but i went to my algebra after school one day to make up a test and he was there and i was talking to the teacher and he kept starring at me and stuff and he always walk with my friend (shes like his best friend) and on myspace i sent him a friend request and we dont talk or nething but he approved it and now whenever i pass him in the halls he stares at me and hes soooo hott and he ALWAYS looks at me im too scared to talk to him though he has a gf but she lives 3 hours away and they BARELY see eachother!! help
just because he stares at you doesn't mean he likes you. many guys do that! but he could, however, have some feelings for you.. which is no good because he has a gf already. don't interfer with his relationship with her, so just back off and do your usual thing. he'll probably be single sometime, and you will be the first on his list. =) lol
im 13. i dont no why but i like wonder about girls that r naked. i like wonder wat my friends look like naked. i dont look at naked pictures or any thing i just wonder. i do like guys, i have a crush on sumone. im worried that im becoming a lesbian. please help!
lol it doesn't mean you are becoming a lesbian! you are just curious and it's normal to wonder about those kind of things. it's part of puberty..
I have a major problem. I'm best friends with this guy. The only problem is I have a crush on him. Do I tell him and risk losing our friendship or do I not tell him at all? Please Help!
you should definately tell him! if your friendship with him is really strong, nothing should be able to break it up! everyone eventually gets a crush on their best GUY friend. it's impossible not to. he probably feels the same, since your close, so you should be the one to break the ice!
I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we havent done anything more than hold hands and hug. THe reason why i am affraid to go any further is because i am affraid that he is going to judge me because i have never made out with any body or anything, and he has. I am just scared i am not going to be able to do it right. What should i do?
aw since ya'll have been going out for six months i would think that you'd be able to trust him enough to know he won't judge you over that! i'm sure he loves you and wouldn't care if you aren't an expert at making out! let him know and he can help you if he's really sweet like that!
i liked this guy and i think he liked me too. He acted like an idiot so, now i dont like him. My friend started liking him and then he asked her out. I feel jealous but, why?, i dont like him. it hurts so bad to think of them. why?
you are probably just jealous of the fact that he asked her out instead of you back then when ya'll liked each other. which is ok, i don't blame you! you will feel that way even if you don't have any feelings for him. i know because i've been through that! you will eventually get over those feelings..