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Hey i really want to change the colour of my writing on my column.can soemone give me the code to do it?
ill rate high

Hey change the color of your text is pretty simple
1) you go to your profile settings scroll down to the bars where you pick colors.
2) go to this site for codes http://webmonkey.wired.com/webmonkey/reference/color_codes/
3)then pick a color copy the code beside it and paste it in the page text bar back on profile settings
hope i helped

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do you realy think true love still exist?And do trust for guys do?

It can in many ways true love isnt really something all people belive in its more like a well an opinon everyone thinks diffrently about it
hope i helped
Sarah

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how do you put music into your advice column? i have websites to go to, i just need to know how to put them in here. thanks in advance!

well if u have the url link then you just paste it right in ur profile settings and heres a good site that would help to Starlights.com you just go there and go under music and copy the thing and put it in your profile settings
hope i helped
sarah

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Ok, my girlfriend is pregnant and she's really worried about it. We're both 19 and this wasn't planned or anything. We talked about it for a long time and we both agreed that we want to keep it. Her parents disowned her when she was 18 becasue she started to see me, because she was raised catholic and I'm not catholic. I felt that was rediculous because I have nothing against catholics and I was willing to join the church if it meant I could be with her but she decided that she didn't want that...anyway her parents won't be helping us with her pregnancy and with the baby so we're on our own. (my mother is dead and I've never met my father) I know that she's going to be going through a lot with her pregnancy and I was wondering if anyone knew how I could help her get through with a little more ease. I'm working two jobs one full time and the other part time so I'm not around that much. But is there anything that I can do to be of any help to her or is there anything that I should look out for? I was also wondering about taking care of baby. If anyone has any tips about taking care of baby that would be a big help as well. Thank you for the advice and I will rate a five for any help.

Tim

Hey your right this does sound very confusing and i know this must be hard for you but to my it sounds like you are almost ready to be a parent because atleast your not running away from her and not helping her. there is this on site it looks like a pretty good site to help out but im not totally sure if its really good its: http://quidbaby.com/parentingtips/ I hope you get thought this all tother
Good luck
SArah

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hey all i asked a question about my arm before and i don't know what to do about when i try to turn my shoudler hurts and my arm is shaking thanks :(

Oh that sounds pretty bad... go to a doctor.. you really need to check it out
hope i helped
Sarah

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Im 14/f and have never frenched anyone. I know its a little pathetic but the only offers I have ever gotten have been dares and I dont wanna waste my first real kiss on a dare, that doesnt mean anything. So now I really like this guy (lets call him "Jon")...and as far as I know he likes me. Jon was going to ask me out so his friend asked if I liked Jon and I said no cuz I didn't want everone to know that I liked him. But it turns out that was his test to see if he should ask me out. So now were friends with benifits and I want to french him but how can I without making it too weird or random?

Aww. thats cute well actully last night be and my boyfriend went to the movies and he gave me my first kiss and it was French. So if you are going to french kiss him and its your first kiss i suggest you maybe just stick to kissing for the first time dont rush into it. you will regret it. but in the other hand if you still want to do it then plan a trip to the movies.
Hope i helped
Sarah

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I'm moving to a new school, in a different state this summer. The teacher who had most influence on me, was my chorus teacher. Would it be gay to get him a thank you card, and tell him how great of a teacher he was?

NO!! of course not i dont think so it would be very nice and. he would apercaite it too.
hope i helped
Sarah

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i really need help. I want to break up with my boyfriend cuz im tired of him hurting me and feeling like he doesnt care about me. but... I dont want him to hurt himself / commit suicide. Im talking to him on AIM now and he says i should see all the blood and that it hurts and he doesnt want to live. I havent even told him that i want to break up with him but i think he figured it out.

i want to break up with him but i dont want him to hurt himself. But i think he already has =\. What can i do? I know i should tell somebody about him hurting himself, but i dont really know what to tell them...?? please help me!

well i think that he is just therating you beacause he dosent want you to break up with him i dont think he will commit to suicide.
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OK.. well usually my period is.. well i dont really know how to put it.. thinck i guess. and dark. But this month it seems a lot thinner and lighter. Is this normal? Or should I see a doctor or something?

Nah its normal it want always be the same dont worry
Hope i helped
Sarah

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ohk well im sick of people hating me because im a "slut, hoe, whore, or skank" the thing is dat im really not any of that ... how can i make people see who i really am, or just get da image of being a hoe out of my life?


i rate high so please help

Hunni dont worry everyone thats really pretty just gets called a slut hor hoe ect.. your just prettier than everyone else and there jeslous. Because you can get an guy you want but if you still really want to change your image then try to cover up more with clothes thats the best thing i can think of
Good Luck
Sarah

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What should i do, i like a person but i don't know if they like me back?

hm.. well
A( you could ask
B( you could pass a note
C( you could ask a friend to ask him.
D(Or ask one of his brother or sisees to ask for you
Good luck
Sarah

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I love denim skirts and flouncy skirts from abercrombie! ..the problem is..They are too expensive! Do you guys know anywhere I can get a bargain skirt?..don't say ebay! Thanks!

hmm well thats kinda hard id say target goody's um thats it oh maybe ross
god luck
Sarah

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I'm 16 F and I've never had a boyfriend. I know some of you might say, "Don't worry! When the time comes, it comes.." The problem is that I hang out with a bunch of preps..and all my friends have already had boyfriends..:-( I'm the only one out of that group that's never had a close relationship with guys! It's kinda sad..if you ask me! The question is..how can I get guys to notice me..what can i do to make myself look prettier (I'm pretty ugly compared to the other girls)..How can I start convos with guys..it's already hard enough to talk to girls! Thanks

Lol dont worry your not alone well if your hanging out with preps im sure u look fine but if you wan to stand out thats what im here to tell you to do. Ok make-up is a huge part you need to wear mascara eye showdow lip gloss eye line that helps the face stand out and now the rest of your body your cloths should only come from Abercombie Gap ect.. those type of stores hope i helped !
Sarah

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I am trying to get a fashion style. I like like long flowing skirts and jean jackets but I also like sweatbands and spikes and stuff like that. I wanted to know where I could get some cool rocker clothes and some good but cute femine clothes for important events such as school trips, concerts, and such. I know I am going multi-personality right now...but im just 15 and am trying to find out who I am so cut me some slack. Do you know any cool stores that would be a lot of help to me?...Their websites would be best if you know them..ThAnK-YoU BuNcHeS
I RaTe HiGh!!
*~*mAdDiE*~*

Hmm well commnig from a preppy person i do know alot about fashion from my friend shes just like you she punk she gets alot of her clothes from hot topic heres the website : http://www.hottopic.com/
hope i helped
Sarah

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My girlfriend is a quite beautiful girl. And I know she knows she's beautiful. She's also pretty damn confident. But, for some reason it seems like she's insecure around me. Every time we're intimate and I try to slid my hand down her stomach she sucks it in. I guess she doesn't think I notice but, I do. She has a fine, flat tummy so why she feels the need to suck it in is beyond me. I also don't understand if I did anything to make her feel insecure. I tell her that I think she's beautiful every chance I get. I don't know what to do here.

Aw thats the sweetest thing i ve heard a boy say. anyways the point is maybe she is unsurce with you maybe you should talk to her and maybe shes unsucure with her sell she might need to hear the words "BAby you know your beautiful and i love you so much" maybe tell her that
Good luck
Sarah
ps. if you want to tell or talk about this anymore email me at leagallybrunette@bellsouth.net

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I don't usually cut myself, but something really bad happened, and I did it again. I know it's wrong, but I was going through a rough time, and I don't plan on doing it again, but anyways, I have to attend a pool party, but how do I cover up the marks, from my wrist up to high up the arm. theres a few of them. please help me cover them up. I don't wanna hear you should tell someone, because I go to a therepist. PLEASE HELP ME. rating high.
xoxo.

Hmm well you could 1. Wear a long sleve shirt
2. get neosporin and band-aid for healing and for scars you should get a scar healing medicne like Medrmia that works well.
and 3.DONT CUTTT!!!!!! just dont hurt yourself i know i sound stupid but alot people care about you and cutting is like failing it dosnet slove anything
hope i helped
Sarah

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HELP!....i am a skinny girl(not anorexic) but tons of people think i am, what should i do? PLease help me!

Ok your so lucky i've always wanted to gain wait lol unfounaly im trying to lose it. Anyways heres what you do.
You need to eat Dounuts and there fatting and also you need protien and calories just eat fattings foods with protien and calories
Hope i helped
Sarah

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I have a dance comming up friday. Its a Carribean dance so i have the beach theam plotted out. I am goign to wear my pink/orange skirt and a pink/orange spaggeti straps. Then wear a light white jacket over it because i cant where spaggetie straps at the dance. Then i was thinking to wear my pink laie around my neck and maybe my hair up with a flower in it.Girls is there anything nice to wear with this offit that will just look nice?
Heres when the guys come in. What are some places guys like girls to have stand out. Like eyes, lips, and other places lol. Well please let me know i want to look nice. I have some what of a figure it that helps im 13 too so dont say anything sluttish and i weigh 120 pounds and i am 5'3!!!!!!

sounds likea really cute outfitt also use something to make your eyes stick out
Sarah

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it is my 16 birthday and i dont know what to do so if anyone can help i relli need it thanks verry much. i rate high

Ok well one night you could go out with your family too a resturant for a family b-day party then the next day you can throw a party at you house with all your friends and just make it like a big party in your back yard with music and friends with drinks and food
hope i helped
Sarah

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I have:
Blue eyes,
Puffy lips,
Tropical yet slightly tanned skin,
And multi coloured hair with colours of: ginger, blonde, black and light brown my hair is feathered.
Help me and give me some clothes and make- up tips.
13/f

Chloe

Oh.. hm.. well you would look great in a flirty pink skirt and a cute white top hm.. and make up wise hm.. lip gloss would look good on you. and light eye shawdow.
Hope i heled
Sarah

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