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i am ten years old i want to have SEX! CAN I GET PREGNANT (link)
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If you have gotten your period you can get pregnant but please don't this your are only ten and having sex at 10 years old will mess up your life forever it will also your reputation the kids at school will call you names can you handle that ? what if you had to tell your parents your pregnant How will they react to it? There is also the possibility of getting an std not just getting pregnant please don't do this.
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i cut myself, arms, wrist, legs. & i want to stop but idk how. i've tried the rubber band trick but i doesnt work it makes me want to do it more. :/ & everytime my friends confiscate my scissors, blades, etc. i get really mad and i do it even more. Help? :/ (link)
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If you haven't already you need to talk to a parent or an adult that you trust so they can help you get counseling.
you need to get rid of all the thing in your house that you can use to cut your self with. Try to keep your mind busy to keep your mind off of wanting to cut your self by doing something that you enjoy like
reading,listening to music, taking a warm shower or bath might also help. you can also write in a journal. you can try talking to friends about your feelings.
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Please, a direct answer to question, What is a painless way to committ suicide? Please no advise on help groups and please do not respond with reasons I should continue living. (link)
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I refuse to help you kill your self please seek help from a counselor or other mental health professional.
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Lately I've been thinking a lot about myself and it seems as if I can genuinely feel emotion. I'm straying farther and farther away from my feelings and I don't know why or how to fix it. I can laugh and joke and things but I don't feel genuinely happy. But, I'm not sad, angry, upset, or content either. I just feel slightly apathetic all the time. (link)
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If you try to keep busy it might help you stop daydreaming.
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Hi my name is Sarah. I am really clever at school but now i have just started high school and i failed one of my tests so i took 20 ttablets but it did nothing and it created more problems for me. So i am thinking of taking tablets again shoud i.
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no
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i want to move out with my boyfriend will i be able to and im 17? (link)
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It depends on the state you live in
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Well, I should start by saying I'm an 18 white British girl who grew up in a very middle class background.
Anyway, I have never had a boyfriend before and have been seeing this guy for about 5 months, I only see him on weekends because he lives in the rougher city area and I am in the country side (I should also point out in England countryside is 95% white while inner cities are more 40-50%). He's from the Caribbean originally and came to England a few years ago, so obviously, he is black. He loves me and his family love me too but my family is against whites and blacks being together, my Nana said people see a slut when they see me now.
Is it honestly so bad to see white and black people together? (link)
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you can't help who you fall in love with it just happens and personally I don't see anythhing wrong with it but of course my boyfriend and my stepdad is black and my niece and nephew are mixed so I was raised on my mom's side that there's nothing wrong with it but my dad's side of the family is very racist it eat's me up inside. I think people who are racist have very shallow personalities. If you are happy with your boyfriend I wouldn't care about what other people think.
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what age can you start working at mc donnalds
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you can start working at mcdonalds at 16
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I just got my period yesterday and i am really nervous and embaressed to tell my mom. Any ideas of how i can tell my mom? please help... (link)
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getting your period is totally normal for a teenage girl everygirl has one unless their going through menopose and most women don't go through menopose untill they reach their 40's or 50's or had a hysterectmy so your mom will understand so don't feel nervous it's a normal bodily function.
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OK so I have had my period since September 22 2009, and through out itI have never missed a period. It hasnt completely evened out but all of a sudden I missed march and I havent gotten mine for April. I am seriously FREAKING OUT! I am still a virgin and never even had a boyfriend so I dont think I am pregnant. BUt i dont knos whatrs going on. PLEASE CAN ANYONE HELP!? (link)
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my periods have always been like that it's just that some girls periods are irregular talk to your female doctor if you have one about getting on birth control to reulate them it's perfectily normal don't worry and sometimes if you have been stressing over something you can miss a period don't worry if your a virgin you can't be pregnant hope i've helped.
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my boyfriend asked me "babe , can i have some porn pics of you? :\ "
do you think i should do it? and what exactly do i take a photo of?
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no. Don't do it it's wrong an inmoral plus he will probally show them to all of his friends.
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There's a guy at my work who only really talks to me. He seems he likes me but I can't tell. He talks about exes all the time and sometimes other girls. Do guys do talk about that stuff to girls they like or do u think he just thinks of me as a friend? (link)
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my ex boyfriend use to talk about his ex wife all the time and it got on my nerves I don't know why guys do that but it's something that they just like to talk about for some reason.
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Hi I'm Bailee and I'm a cutter, I am 14. I have cut for..two years and I have recently stopped. I, for the longest time, cut heavily. My arms so badly scared that I can barley fine any unscared skin. I want to know if there is a way to get rid of them so I can wear short sleeved shirts. I do realize that I'm gonna have to live with them for the for the rest of my life. I don't want any bad talk or put downs.
Bailee~ (link)
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To heal a cut you cover the cut with a band aid put pressure on the cut and message the cut once the skin grows.
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I'm not really sure if i put this in the correct category, but anyways. I am 16 years old and ever since i was about 11 i used cutting as a way to take control of stuff that is happening in my life. It has been used from the death of loved ones,boyfriend issues, friendship issues, school problems, cancer of my youngest brother and even sometimes when i get too happy. I always hide the cuts, and usually cut over scars that i already have made. A close friend of mine was recently sent to a special hospital for cutting and that made me realize that i have a BIG problem. I just didn't know what else to do so PLEASE help me! (link)
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you need to be aware of what situations make you want to cut yourself. This time make a commitment not to cut yourself do some different instead.
Tell someone and ask for help admit what you have been doing is wrong which you've already don't by coming to advicenators for advice and iam very proud of you for taking that first big step to recover. you neeed to get rid of blades,razors and all sharp objects you could use to cut with.
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I'm currently 17 years old, I've been seeing a psychologist for about a year now. My psychologist has diagnosed me with depresson and a small social anxiety disorder. I was prescribed Lexapro as an anti-depressant, which I was going to start taking (this was about...7 months ago) but I never did because I was too worried about side effects and such (I can be verrry paranoid), so I just told my doctor I wanted to try to work it out on my own. But anyway, that's just a little background.
Lately I've been wondering if there's more that's wrong with me, though. For example, I don't necessarily fight a lot, but when I do get angry I can get reeally angry. Sometimes I just get random bursts of this almost uncontrollable anger where I just feel like I can't control. I don't ever hit or throw anything really, but boy do I feel like it. I tend to get irritated very easily; even the smallest, slightest thing that someone is doing or saying can just really irritate me and put me in a bad mood. It's like I have no patience. I also tend to over analyze a lot. For example, I can spend hours analyzing and thinking about the way someone responded to a question I asked, or a statement they said. It's insane! Not only is it a waste of time, it distracts me doing important tasks and also causes me to overcomplicate relationships and such. I can go for a really long time without eating, but then when I do eat it's almost like I can't stop. Even if I'm extremely full, I could just continue eating and eating for no reason. My moods go up and down like a roller coaster, also. I can get extremely depressed for a couple hours, and then after a while and I can like a really strong high and do crazy things. I can go from being unstoppable and extremely confident to extremely deppressed and suicidal in no time.
Sorry that was so long, I'm just sort of confused about all of this. My psychologist never really says anything about any of it other than depression, so I was just wondering? Thanks for any advice, input, etc. !
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It sounds like bipolar I have polar and I have all of that symptoms talk to your doctor about bipoalr.
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ok so i have this cousin and everytime i ask him to hang out with me he says no w/o even considering it but when my other cousin asks him to hang out with her he says yes right away. im not jealous but it bothers me in a way. should i tell him this or keep it to myself and avoid conflict? also is it ok for me feel this way or am i overreacting? please help=) (link)
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I think you should talk to your cousin and tell him how you feel otherwise things will never get better.
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Well im 13 (female) and my mom lets me babysit my two youger sisters (4 and 2) On Friday im babysitting them in the morning 8 to 9 but then later that night im babysitting them from maybe 8 to 11. They go to bed at 9 30 and take a bath at 8 30. What are some things i can do with them so they wont be bored? And is it okay to go to sleep after they do, or should i wait until my mom gets home? (link)
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They could watch cartoons on tv or watch a movie on video. you could listen to music and they can dance why not dance with them. you could let them do an art project. you could read them a book. you could let them cut out pictures from old magazines and let them make a collage. you could also play card games with them. easter is coming up you could have a little easter egg hunt with them. you could always play dress up.
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what are things i should write on my babysitting fyler?
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you need to tell them what times that you are able to work and how much you are going to charge.
you also need to put on the flier how old you are.
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my mom just told me i was acting like a b**** while she was screaming at me and i said 'well i could say the same for you' and she goes 'but you wont cause ill kick your a** if you do. im the adult and you are the kid so you might wanna keep your f***ing mouth shut.' do u think its fair that moms can trash talk their kid all they want cause they think they are all high and mighty but when their kid tries 2 stand up for themself, the adult can flip out on them and be like 'dont talk back to me or ill smack you b****!'? i mean seriously i want to know your opinion on that. also, i want 2 know if any of your parents are like that too. thanx! (link)
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I know excatly how you feel my mom dose the same thing to me all the time whenever she says I did something I din't do and I say mom I didn't do she calls me a damn liar no I don't think parents should trash talk there kids but kids shouldn't talk back to their parents either.
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hey guyssss.. Okay, I've always been really pale, not like freaky pale.. but not tan, at all. How can I make being white pretty? What color hair looks better with pale skin? I can't tan in the tanning bed bc of new medicine I'm on for my acne. What color eye shadow ect?.. Thanks! (link)
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I have a friend that uses this spray on tanning lotion to get a tan. I've never used it so I don't know the name of it or how good it works but it is always worth a try. I also have pale skin so for the eye shadow I can help you with I normally use pinks and browns when I put on eyeshadow which is hardly ever. I think the best color hair for pale skinned people would probally be brown or blonde.
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