about

hello, my name is jacqueline; although i go by jackie.
my answers to you will be %1o0 honest, & some will
be from past experience. If you decide to leave me..
something hateful then i am sure not to reply,or pay
any mind. i am open 2' anyone who comes to me for
suggestions, help,or`anythin of that matter.My page
is not on a particular topic. feel free 2' bring anythin
up. =D



I'm in love, I have been for the longest time.
We both have been, but various events have,
kept us apartt. We're finally together though
(: So yes,
i do have a boyfriend, his name is Matt ... I
love him with every bit of my heart left and
I'm so lucky to have him in my life. 10/7/06




and if you look down.. you
see where the questions n
advice start =) love -jakkk.

advice

ok so i have a friend named jackie baker, she used to be my good friend and she acted like who she was, but now she has a faggit poser-goth boyfriend so she tries to be like him and changes her whole look, style, and life for him... what can i do to get the old jackie back. the one who was fun to hang out with and be herself around anyone.... i know love does some crazy things but i dont wanna lose a good friend

your right, it does do some crazy things... im sure your friend understands and see`s the problem. sometimes "change" is even harder for the person than the people around him/her. meaning, your friend is probably just trying to find out who he/she is... you are most likely not the only one who is noticing these things and she/he is probably loosing plenty of [other] people around him/her. im sure that person misses being friends and i think the best thing would be to talk to him/her. ask questions. tell them what you see is wrong. i hope things work out in the end for you `xx.

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What's a really good brand for Curling Irons and where are they sold? I want 1 that makes really pretty wavy hair.

revlon, you can get them at a mall, k mart, mall mart ... stores like thatttt =] you should get your beautiful wavy hair in noo time.

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ok well .. i have a boyfriend and i like him alot .... but uh ..... yu know i been having some mixed feelings becase theres this boy that likes me and i have been tlking to him alot like as friends and than like idk i am starting to like him and idk what to do i am so confused these mixed feelings urgghh ... please help me !! oh yeah i dont want to break up with mah boyfriend but urggghhh .... help me !!!

hmm. well, hearts are hard to figure out in ALL cases. i think maybe you should spend some time with your boyfriend, and then hang out with the friend. maybe compare and contrast bewteen the two and take it easy. these kind of things are very uberly hard to just throw together if you want the outcome to be right. maybe deep inside your longing for something new ... you like your boy a lot but maybe you want another chance with the newcomer. so maybe just spend some time and see who would [(really)] treat you right in the end. hope i helped, let me know

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I really need to lose weight before volleyball... i'm 5'8 and 125 and i wanna be around 115 or 110 so like how can i lose weight fast????

i know you might hear this a lot, but eating healthy will work. not just staying away from donuts and other things liket that ... i mean limit your serving and how much you consume. i don`t diet but a lot of my friends do and my closest friend > worked out - ate healthy - and kept an eye out for carbs and all. it worked like a charm, and quickly too. i hope you meet your goal!! =]

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I feel like I am ready to have sex with my boyfriend. My problem is that I was raped and thats how I really lost my virginity. This would be my real first time and I dont want to be nervous or bad at it sense my boyfriend is experianced.

first question: How can I stop my nerves

second question: How can I make it romantic and nice for him. making love not just sex.

and any other advice you have.

thank you

well if your ready to have sex with your boyfriend, then you guys should be able to talk. you an stop your nerves by at least feeling comfortable about it and not doing it untill you [know] you won`t regret it. somewhere where he would be welcome, maybe candles, movie or dinner before then; giving you guys a chance to get more sentual. that might be romantic for him, im not exactly sure because im a girl but i hope i helped. just be ->sure

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Just recently my girlfriend has left me to go back with her old boyfriend. I know that he abuses her phsyically and emotionally,and I treated her like gold. What should I do? and will she ever come back to me?

i think that your [x]girlfriend is just confused. maybe you should just give her some time, let her know that you are there for her. i am sure she knows that you treated her great, she prolly just needs some time to understand that. im pretty sure she`ll come back to you :) xx best of luck, tell me if i helped

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What does "meet the bottom of my Nikes" mean?

well it you connect it, then it is

1.the bottom of the shoe + 2.you

besically it is when your going to get your ass beat =]

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Im just checking if anything is wrong with me or anything. lol. Im not sure what it could be or if its nothing really. Well, lately i have been getting dizzy a lot. Sometimes when i first get up from sleeping. When Im watching T.V. ill get up and then ill get really dizzy when i get into my kitchen to the point when i know its coming now. I also get really dizzy when its hot outside. Its not hard for me to get dizzy, and i can feel it coming. When i do get dizzy it lasts a while and sometimes i loose my balance, well, most of the time i do. Im not sure what it is, or if i have to worry about it at all.. If anyone knows or has any ideas of what it could be or if you have any suggestions please let me know. Sorry its so long.

well there could be a couple of possible reasons you are dizzy. i usually get that way also, when you are sleeping; and then get right up ... your body could judt be trying to simply wake up. heat or tv/computer can disfunction your body slightly, [but not entirely scar] whenever you get up quickly; your head just needs a second to get used to standing after sitting for a while. maybe even walking into light after being in the dark *[entering the kitchen]* most of the time it is just how your body reacts. if it does get severe, then you might want to at least talk to mom about it; and see what she has to say. we don`t need you gettin hurt =]

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i was wondering is there a site i can go to get a email pal or something? i dont want a penpal to write to but i want to talk to them by email? i dont mean anything like a chat room. thanks

there are a couple of sites for that, i reccomend www.easypenpals.com or you can just sign up and get an e-mail... maybe www.hotmail.com even?

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is it okay to swim in a pool with contacts in? or will the chlorine mess them up?

oh and if it matters...i wear O2 Optix

well it would be alright, as long as you don`t open your eyes. a friend and i went swimming in the neiborhood pool and the contact in her right eye fell out...it would be better to take your contacts out while you are swimming but if not, then you should be okay =] ->-> remeber not to open your eyes !!

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I dont know how to bring up the issue of birth control to my doctor. She knows my mom somehow and I think its weird for my moms friend to know i want to go on birth control. I dont want my mom knowing that I want to go on birth control.. But theres no way that I can get it without getting a prescription, meaning my mom would have to know!?? right???
HELP!

well your doctor is a girl right?? well maybe you should just give it a shot. and if it does become a concern with your mother than maybe you could just explain to her that you would feel more comfortable on birth control. like i said they are both woman so they should understand, expecially a doctor...maybe you could talk to her about reasoning with mom. just be calm about it, let me know if i helped.

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Me and my girlfriend have just recently started having sex..and for some reason its been hard for me to come..i waited like a week without masterbating because i told her i would wait until we did it..the first night we had sex i drank a little and im pretty sure that the alcahol was the reason..well one day during the day we had sex and i came..it felt amazing and then like 2 days later i tryed to masterbate and it was difficult to come..it took forever..not like normal..what seems to be the problem?


Also the one time that i did come i went in her..shes on the pill so its fine..but that was on tuesday and we've had sex since then but i didnt come in her..she says that it still burns a little when she pees..is that normal?

thank you.

yes it is normal. also when you did cum you might have just had an outburst from letting it build up and then meeting up with your girlfriend. it could hace been just basically "off schedual" but if it becomes a problem, than you should catch up with a doctor; or see when your next check-up is. -> same for your girlfriend.

tell me if i helpes

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