*tasha*'s

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15 femaile....i've been a week and 1/2 late on my periode and i'm scared as crap that i might be...i went and talked to one of my teachers today and she told me the over counter isn't going to help n then i had to go to my guidce n i was talking to him and he said he gives me till thursday and if i haven't started by then, then i have to tell my mom...well i'm scared as crap...cuz if i am i lose my recent boyfriend that i care for more then anything...n also they "father" well lets jst say i have no way to get intouch w/ him...cuz i only now lil things bout him! but other then that i'm jst scared bout my mom and telling her...n also losing the best guy ever!!??i'm so cofused n i'm so scared!!!

I think you should definetely tell your mom...you'll be in more trouble if she finds out through someone else. Cuz then she'll know that other people know about it and moms get like kinda embarassed bout that stuff..So tell your mom. And for the boy you definetely need to get ahold of him and talk to him about this also.GOOD LUCK! tell me how things work out!

xOxO Tasha

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How do i overcome my shyness? Im like really shy around people i don’t know but once i get to know em im not what do i do? I don’t wanna be like this well at least this shy cuz people judge me.

Thats how I was like 2 years ago...I just stopped caring about what people thought. I used to be like the shyest person ever. Now everyone has to pay me to shut-up.lol and like everyone knows me as like the LOUD one..its fun tho.I have more fun NOT caring about what people think. So good luck!Don't be shy!!

xOxO tasha {any more probs just tell me :) }

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whats a good way to ask a someone to hang out? especially when they are extremely unpredictable, and you dont know what they would say. also im very shy. oh, and you have asked them before to hang out, but just could never a good time. lol thanks

Just be like "hey wanna hang out sometime?" and they'll say yes unless they're total jerks.lol. So just be brave and ask.But don't act all nervous either. Just be cool about it. GOOD LUCK! tell me how it works out.

xOxO tasha

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i rlly dont wanna go to school tomorrow...i get made fun of, but thats not the point. i just wanna make myself throw up one time. ill never do it again..is that really bad?

Hey!Yeahit is. Don't be a wimp..lol just go to school. You can't not go to school for the whole year. And missing the 1st day is THE WORST...so just go and make the best of it.GOOD LUCK!

xOxO tasha

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ok ill be 15 in like dayz.. an i swtiched skoolz this las past year (in a middle of 8th grade) an when i switched skools.. all these girlz like started hated on me 4 no reason.. an they all wanna like beat me up an jump me.. still an its a new year comin up. I dunno what ta do because they wont leave me alone.. help please?

lost an confused

Well then maybe you should tell a adult about it. Who cares if they cal you a "tattle tale" or w/e..they would be immature. so good luck!

xOxO tasha

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You all have helped me with answerin my questions.. but this one is kinda difficult.. All your advice has helped alot.. but I can't picture myself with out my EX kevin.. But when I think about it i'd be better off with someone else.. Kevin is a great guy and I still love him so much.. he tells me all the time that he still loves me but I don't no if i can believe it! I don't know what to do.. I don't know if I should just forget about Kevin and move on or If I should give kevin anonther chance..

HELP ME PLEASE!

*~SO LOST AND CONFUSED~*

Hey!I don't really know the whole story on kevin but if he cheated on you or hurt you in any way then i would forget about him. But if it was somethin small maybe you SHOULD give him another chance. Also if you REALLY love him then yea, stay w/him. Good luck!tell me how things work out..

xOxO tasha

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I have this boyfriend who is really tight with my best friend. My boyfriend also has a best friend who used to go out with my best friend. I know it's confusing, but all 4 of us used to be so tight and everything. Now it's only me and my boyfriend because my best friend & my boyfriends best friend broke up and everythings so messed up. I know they still have feelings for eachother. What can I do to get all 4 of us back together like old times?

invite both of them to hang out and just keep it cool. Like all of you go to see a movie or somethin or go play a sport like football or soemthin w/ them all.That would help.GOOD LUCK! Tell me how things work out..

xOxO-tasha

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Hey. Well I'm going into middle school and I practicually know no one there. I am scared that I will not make any friends, and I keep getting scared over and over again just thinking about it. My school starts Aug. 23, and my orientation is tomorrow Aug. 19, and there's going to be 7th graders and new students there and the bus is picking us up. I'm pretty scared about that too, but more scared of the first day of school. Can anyone tell me how to calm down about this and give me motivation so I won't be so scared anymore, and tell me how to make friends early and quick. Thanx!, and I would really appreciate it if you answered my questions.

Don't be scared...you'll make new friends. Just be yourself and be cool. Don't act like your scared. Act like its no big deal. Good luck!

xOxO-tasha-xOxO

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I have a "boyfriend" we met on the internet. At first all we did was talk on the internet. Then we moved to the phone. he sent me a pic and i sent him one... we saw each onther on cams(web cam) so hes not an icky old man or anything. we've been "together for a about 7 months and im just really confused.we talk about meeting each other but we never really can, we live about an hour from each other which kinda sucks. i mean i saw i love him.. but now im not really sure i do anymore. its just really confusing. i wanna be with him and meet him and do "couple" things and theres this side of me that wants to just be done with this. PLZ HELP!!

Well don't waste your time w/ him if you KNOW that you will never meet cuz that would be stupid.And if you really LOVE him adn think you will meet up soon then just make it happen!GOOD LUCK!

xOxO tasha

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i am going to this camp 4 older kids and i like this kid. he is going into 7th grade and im going into 8th. he is really nice and his friends and my friend all hang out together. i think he likes me 2
i have his sn and his number. but this is da last week i will c him. do u think i should tell him or wait till he tells me or forget bout him??

TELL HIM!definetely!dON'T BE shy just be like "hey i like you..i just had to tell ya that" guys like it when girls are brave.lol. So good luck and have fun on ur last week!!

xOxO Tasha

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my ex girlfriend is currently dating my best friend. I pretend i dont mind, but i really do because i still lik her and i know she still likes me, so wat should i do

Just tell her how you still like her and stuff.I'm sure she'd be flattered. And even if she doesn't take you back remember that they probaly wont be together forever and atleast she knows you like her still and stuf.GOOD LUCK!

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my moms boyfriend molested me.. and im really scarred for life!! i told my mom about it.. but she thinks its fine and that it happens to alot of girls.. she doesnt understand how freaked out i was and AM! i think we should go to therapy but i dont no how that would help.. what should i do?

I think you should tell another adult. Like a trusted teacher or somethin.ITS NOT OKAY!It does happen to a lot of girls but it should becuz its wrogn!good luck!

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OMG!! I really can't take this anymore! Ok well all my friends and all are like you changed blah blah!! ANd i dont get the bigg deal it not like they havent changed either! Just cuz im turnin a lil Skater !!! I dont get the big deal and im really sick and tired of it .. what should i do and i tried talkin 2 them but it doesnt work at all !! Please Help me !! I dont kno what i wanna do and i feel like ______
Signed
FED UP!

If they don't wanna accept you then i think you should just find new friends. If they wont accept you there not friends anyways. Try findin people you have more stuff in common with. GOOD LUCK! TELL ME HOW IT WORKS OUT!

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What are some good ways to get stronger so it's easier to do back-handsprings??? I can do them with a spotter but then when I try doing them by myself, I land on my head all the time. Help me please!!!
Signed,
Need More Strength

Hey!Do push ups it helps w/ your arm strenth which will lift you up faster! And make it a lot easier!Thats what I had to do..GOOD LUCK! (pull ups help too)

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What are some good topic starters for meeting a guy? I go to a girls school so I don't get to meet them that often. But if I see a guy in public, what should I do to get him to talk to me (Or what should I say to talk to him) Without looking like a fool? What are your strategies for meeting a guy you don't know? Also, what are some good tips on what NOT to do? Thanks!

Hey!I just go up and say whats up.I get there name and stuff and ask what there doin.There age,school. All that info. Just be really casual. Don't freak out tho while you talk to him. Act like ya already kno the guy. And when you have to leave get his number.Thats what i do. GOOD LUCK!
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In December my dad lost his job. But about a month later became self employed. By then my mom had been suspecting that hes cheating on her... now my mom has confroted him about it((about 3 months ago)) and he has admitted to having a "friendship" whith the lady.He tells my mom that hes nothin with her JUST friends. So my mom asked him to please tell her to stop callin and to just loose all contact.Thing is my mom tells me everything and my dad has always been a role model to me... well mom and i went to his work when he wasnt there and set up a caller id well we found out that shes still callin at like 1am and 2am when hes sopposly painting a car. Sometimes dad doesnt come home till 3 or so. I see how this effects my mom who literally does EVERYTHING in the house and it makes me ANGRY! She crys constantly only shes like me and shell hide before she crys. Well ive been catching her and it hurts me soo much soo then i get really mad at my dad and sometimes all i want to do is Scream in his face and kick him out of the house! I want to tell him to please leave the lady hes having an affair with but i dont know how i dont want him gettin mad at me. Thats when my whole "indenil" stage pops up! i start to think that hes not and when she brings it up i get fusturated and ignore her or justr say some rude comment. Which makes her cry more! I just wanna know what to do without making my dad mad and my mom cry... should i write him a letter telling him how i feel???? ALSO my mom says she doesnt want me talkin to him about it but its effect my relationship with him... WHAT THE HECK DO I DO?
Ps. i have a boifriend and hes really supportive about this he gives me a shoulder to cry on and a ear to listen to me with but i feel like i cant be happy with my mom goin through her problems cause i feel like im rubbing it in her face HELP ME.....

Backed up in a corner

Talk to your dad...or even that option up there. Write him a letter.Its so sad that your moms crying and by this time I would have definetely talked to my dad. Tell him that if he really loves your mom then he needs to stop talking to that lady and stop hiding things,because thats not what mirriage is about.Its about honesty,love,and loyalty. Tell him that.GOOD LUCK! i'll pray for your family.(not to sound preachy but im christian :) ANd I hope everything works out.Email me w/ the outcome k?i'd love to heard how everything turns out.

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Okay, well i really love show choir, it might sound dorky to some people but i LOVE it. So now im going to a HUGE high school, and theres not many freshman that make it into my schools show choir group, so at my audition i want to be able to sing REALLY good. I dont really need a private teacher right now, and i sing a whole bunch, but does any body know any good tips for me to make me become a better singer?

Yeah,before auditions and stuff you shouldn't drink anything but water atleast 3 days before. It helps a lot!Do voice exercises also. Sorry i dont have more tips. GOOD LUCK!Hope ya make the show choir!

:.Tasha.:

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I'm 16 and i know im pregnant. Im starting to gain weight, my family has a good reputation,like no pregnancies below 20 i dont know how to tell my mom what should i do

Just tell her..cuz when she finds out later she'll be even MORE pissed...theres no way gettin outta it.You probaly will get in trouble but that was your choice..ya kno?good luck.sry icouldn't help more!

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Hey Does anyone know how to get rid of dark circles under the eyes. I want to know about stuff that i can make at home. Or something that i can buy that doesnt cost too much

Hey!Sleep more!!lol...or buy concealer.Any type like I think neutrogena makes it and theres like jane and all that stuff. Good Luck! I hope I helped.

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ok now on advicnators y is like some of the words underlined and u can clik on them?

Because those are the links and if you click on them it takes you to the place where the link goes too..

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