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Well there are these two guys i am bff's with adn i liked the one but i think i am gettin gover him and liking the other, cause i always ditch him for the other one and i just got the other guy a gift as a joke and i think its gonn hurt the other ones feelings even though he doesnt like me i just dont know whta to do
Love Always! (link)
you think your getting over him.. or are you getting over him? aww. you ditch him.. thats not very nicee. so what.. you got one guy a friendly gift. if the other guy says something.. or acts sad.. just say "you and i can go shopping, and i will get you something too!" and then you and him can hang out.. and see if you really like him or not..lol. you need to find out.. do i like __ or ___. or do i like them both! but just make sure you know that.. before you do anything..
hih


I've got shoulderlength fine brown hair. I was stupid and my round bristle brush got rolled up in it and i can't get it out. How do i get it out

PLEASE HELP ME!! I rate 5's to EVERYONE who gives me a CONSTRUCTIVE answer ON SUBJECT!! (link)
just slowly pull each hair piece out.. if you have some spray de-tangeler.. that helps. but dont wet it.. what ever you do! that will make it ten times worse.. if it doesn't come out w. the de-tangeler. then put conditioner on your dry hairr. then it should slid out.
h-i-h


My sister has really bad cramps! Does any one know some quick fixes. She has already had motrain if that helps! Thanks!! (link)
cramps. like period?
cuz if soo.. drink warm water with limon. or heating packs


Okay well i have been best friends with these two guys forever we always joke around slapping eachothers asses and stuff just kidding though and we will like fight and beat eachother up just as play though, but i have always liked this one guy as more then a friend but he says he doesnt wanna ruin our friendship but i think i am in love with this guy but he just doesnt understand and i want someway to tell him that will get him to like me please help me!!! please!!!
Love Always
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well.you really cant make him like you.. maybe he will come around? but i think he made the better choice.. about not ruining your friend ship. cuz after the break up. ya'll might not be friends.. do you really wanna risk loosing that friend? think about it.. and if you really are sure you like him. just flirt.. and show him what he is missing.
hih


my parents drive me insane! they never listen to me or anything and are always mad at me and i can't stand it! HeLp? (link)
just tell them! clamly. just let them know.. mom dad it seems your always mad at me. and you never listen to me. and then just give them reason. well it would help if you gave me examples of this stuff happening.. so i could help you better. so tell me if you can..
h.i.h


I went from a Tom-boy to a regular girl, and i wanna be a prep.. but i don't know how to be a prep...my friends think preps are weird and stupid or whatever, and they think that "poping your collar" is really stupid, but i think it's cool..and i'm kinda shy to tell my friends something that i know they don't wanna hear, what should i do....?? (link)
in my oppinon poping your collar, looks stupid.
but anyways. to be a prep you have to. shop at abercrombie, hollister, american eagle, aero, and all of those stores. you have to be really perky, and nice. you have to wear a lot of pink, and bright colors. but you hsve to be careful because some people might think your a wanna bee. so maybe getting some prepy new friends would help too. and the thing about telling your friends. you should be shy.. you want to try something new, thats it. i mean.. you going prep, doesn't mean that ya'll cant be friends..
h.i.h


How do you tell your mom or dad if you like a guy or if you are going out with him? (link)
do you have rules in your house were your not alowed to date, or like a guy? cuz if you do, understand if they get madat you. but i would just wait one day when your fav. parents in a good mood, and your just talking about thing. and just bring up .. hey __ i think i might like, ____. or hey ___ im going out w. the guy named ____. then tell your parents how nice, sweet, and funny he is. and offer to let them meet him.
h.i.h


Help! I have a friend who thinks i like another friend better when i dont! I like them both the same, they're my bestest friends! She doesnt believe when i say i like them the same.
What can i do to make her believe?
signed-Frustrated Friend (link)
what grade are they in.. 1st? just let them both know, hey i like ya'll the same.. your equal. and thats that. and if they dont believe you. they aren't that great of a friend, they should believe you.


Well my bestfriend and i are fighting a lot. i am moving now and i don't want to leave on a bad notice. She said to me "i don't care if you are moving.' That really hurt my feelings what should i do
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just tell her how much she really means to you. tell her that you love her a lot. and tell her that she is your best friend. and if that doesn't crack her, she has no heart.. j.k . but dont expect her to say. i love you too. rite away. give her some time.. and sooner or later, you will hear from here. if you are best friends.. they always get back together in the end


so a few weeks ago i started a new diet. i'm just eating healthier; more fruit, vegetables and healthier alternatives to food i used to eat. but ever since i started i've been having to go to the bathroom alot more. is this normal? will my body eventually get used to this new food? (link)
if your eatting more veggies.. yes cuz those make you have gas, and have to go potty. there are these one pills... uhh they start w. a B. not to sure what tho.. well i wish you luck, go to your dr. if you get really concerned. i think just talkin w. a parent would help.
h.i.h


i`m a freshman in high school. ever since i was about 4 or 5, i've had an excessive bladder problem i guess you could say. when somebody makes me laugh, i start to piss myself. it's been happening lately at school and volleyball practice, and i have nothing to cover it up with! is there any type of medicine i could take, or anything that could help prevent this or something.. ? please help

if you're going to laugh or make fun of me, you'll be rated a one, and i'm gonna report you. =) (link)
i have o.a.b too! well i did, then i took pills. just go to your dr. hi/she will help you out a lot. and plus you might get a lolli-pop at the end =) i did!
-h.i.h-


i like this guy a lot, but when i had my friend ask him out he said no. what do i do? (link)
you shouldn't have you friend ask him out, only have your friends ask the guy if he likes you. maybe he doesn't like you at the time.. so just flirt..and get to be friends, then he will fall in love w. you. and live a fairy tail =)
-h.i.h-


my mom listens in on my fone cnfersentions and i dont like it. what do i do? (link)
tell her, mom your not giving me my pravacy. and she needs to respect it.


Im thirteen years old and i have a problem. The guy that i like is really nice to me but he has a gf. U no whats wierd is that when ever him and his gf are together and he sees me he seems to kind of egnore her and he never hugs her or holds hands with her. I no that he probably doesn`t like me and he does like his gf and i no that he does hug her and hold hands with her and does other things with her. I just want to no of its wierd that when ever he sees me he never does anything. Also i dont really believe in the ouja board but i asked when him and his gf where going to breakup in 3 days and on monday + tuesday were the days that they were seppose to break up and on tuesday his gf was going to dump him but my friend talked her out of it. I just thought u wanted to no that b/c its so creepy. (link)
soo let me get this straight. you like this guy, and he has a girlfriend. when ever him and his girlfriend are hanging out, they dont show PDA in front of you, and he ignores her? and you want to know if that is normal? haha . not itz not. maybe he is just imbarrased, because he does like you . and doesn't want to hurt you, but showing PDA infront of you? or maybe he just isn't feeling it from her, and he wants to be w. you. i would most deff. talk with him, and be like.. so how are you and ____ doing? cuz you dont seem to happy when i see ya'll. and then take it from there.
hope i helped ya.. and for the ouja board.. thats just f-en creepy!
.h.i.h. again!


13/female:
I like this guy who is my age and i've known him for a while. But all my friends think he is like gross and don't see him as a boyfriend. But i sorta like him. I'm not sure but i think he might like me too. But i don't wanna go out with anyone that my friends don't think are cool or cute/hott. What should i do?
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you shouldn't care if you friends dont think he is cool, cute or hot. but just make sure they dont hate eachother!. but i would just be like hey girls. i really like him, and i would like you to give him a chance. then go talk to the boy! and start flirting, and showing him signs that you like him. maybe even get one of your friends to talk to him for you. and ask if he likes you? well good luck!
-h.i.h-


Ok, 1st off I'm hoping I can get a few good answers fairly quickly. I'm going to kiss my boyfriend for the 1st time tomorrow (2 weeks weve been going out)Im just going to kiss him on the cheek tho. I was just wondering how u guys think i should do it. Please answer quickly (link)
well if you kiss on the cheeck.. there is only one way you can.. just a peck. dont slober all over his face (ew) so just give him a nice little kiss on the cheeck, then see were it goes from there. but relaxs! your gonna get all worried, and then not even do it. if you have to, practice on the back of your hand, thats what Jesse McCartney did.
h.i.h


i think my best friend is either bulemic or anorexic. she weighs about 119 pounds, wears a size 0 jeans and she constantly goes on about how shes fat. SHE IS NOT AT ALL. she graphs her weight on a chart (i saw it) and it's REALLY starting to scare me. what should i do? talk to somebody about it, talk to her...? please help!! (link)
i was there. were your friend was. i thought i was fat, i didn't like the way i looked, i always said i was fat, and then i went anorexic. eh. not a good idea on my half.. but anyways. i would just talk to your friend. dont bring anyparents into this.. or adults or w.e. that makes things SO much worse. i would tell your friend. "hey, are you okay. you are really starting to worrie me. you look great, and yet you still worrie about your weight!" and then if she says, yes. im anor, or bulem. then be like im here for you, i'll help you. because it is a really hard time. and it is really hard to get out of. offer to go tot he Dr's w. her, and to help her eat more. she will feel a lot better knowing that she has a friend that is 100 % w. her
-h.i.h-


whenever im talking to this guy i like on the phone or online i never know wht to say!! its soo annoying and awkward. i dont know him tht well so what would be some things to say that would start a conversation?? please help! i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off!!! (link)
ask what he likes to do in free time. what him and his friends do together. about his family. about what sports he plays. his fav. foods. his least fav foods. uhh. fav classes. lest fav classes. uhh. just simple things like that. but you shouldn't have to do all the work. cuz if he isn't trying.. maybe ya'll arent ment to be friends? but i donno. start w. those. and you will learn more about him, and then you will soon come up w. your own =)
-h,i,h-


13/feamle...
You know me...
Theres this one guy that i like. but my friend likes him too. and he likes both of us back... at least i think, he told my friend that.... anyways, is it not a good position to be in when the guy you like likes someone else and you? is it ok for him to like 2 people..... like, should i still like him if he feels this way? he is a really great guy and i really like him alot but i wish he only liked me.
Thanx justine
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first off, it is okay for him to like 2 people. yes you should still like him. i would first talk to your friend. and make a promise and if he asks you out. you will both stay friends. and if he asks your friend out you will both stay friends. have you talked to him, and told him you liked him? maybe that is the way to win over his heart. i would act fast before someone else takes this hottie =)
-h.i.h-


i had a boyfriend and we really like each other alot and this other guy started to like me and i was so caught up with two guys liking me and i dumped my boyfriend for him. and like a week later he dumped me and i wasn't upset at all. but i was upset that i let my bf go. and i told asked him out this year but he said no he doesn't want his heart broken again. and he's in almost all of my classes in school and i have to see him every day and i am so sad.i get more depressed every day. how can i get him back? (link)
well. you cant make him like you. but just talk to him. tell him why you broke up with him. why you didnt care when the other guy broke up w. you. and how much he means to you. and just hope that he will see that he still likes you. and if he doesn't then it is time to move on. dont hold on to him. because there is no point. just let him get you down. show him how great you are, and what he is missing!
h.i.h!




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