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I'm 18 and about to enter my sophomore year of college. Feel free to ask me questions about anything- I'll try to help in the best way possible! :)

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what is lube?

It's usually used during sex. It's short for lubricant, and it makes things I guess, 'slipperier' .. if that's even a word haha. It makes having sex easier basically so that it's not dry and doesn't hurt.

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15/f
ive had my period for about a year and a half and normally i just get cramps but for about 3 days now my boobs have been hurting alot. everytime i move or walk they hurt. i still havent gotten my period either and it should have been here around 3 to 5 days ago. im not sexually active but i masturbated the other day and i havent in a while so could that have affected it, and sore boobs a sign of pms or is it something else?

It's perfectly normal, sore breasts probably mean you're PMSing. :]

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well my bff asked me 2 make-out w/her man so i did the next time at skool me and my bff"s man were in a library and he made out w/me he cam on 2 me and now my Bff is PISSED at me and now we r in a BIG fight wat do i do?o i forgot the night b4 she presured me into fucking her man but i didn't.

Why would she ask you to hook up with her man? No offense, but that's super strange. Maybe she realized that she was pressuring you to do something extremely retarded, and are you sure that she was serious about it? You're best off asking her about it.

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13/f. I study in an exclusive girls school and i'm thinking of getting my classmates little gifts. First of all, I'm wondering if i should get ALL my classmates gifts. Second, i'm not sure of WHAT to get them: should i give chocolates or something else? And there's this special friend of mine, I also want to give her something nice. Any suggestions? Help appreciated.

Advanced Happy Valentines!

mwah,

If there's a lot of girls in your class, then you shouldn't .. maybe just stick to a few close friends? If you're willing to give every girl in your class something, a good idea might be to make cookies or cupcakes and put a heart in frosting, or decorate them for Valentines Day with pink and red frosting.(I'm guessing that's why you want to give out gifts) I'm sure that they'd love that. :] You can give your best friend a box of chocolates? .. that's what my best friend and I usually do. There's not really a need to go over the top. :]

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i just went out and purchased photoshop
i've had other editing programs and been really good at figuring tem out, and being able to use them.
but photoshop is either a major letdown, or I haven't figured it out yet.
Can someone help me figure stuff out? or find some tutorials? guide sites?

http://www.createblog.com/tutorials/index.php?tag=&type_id=21

if you google it, you'll find a ton of sites .. i'd send them individually but it'd probably be easier if you did it

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=adobe+photoshop+elements+5.0+tutorials

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umm i have to read a newberry honor book. which one do you think is the best read for a 13 year old girl who likes like a little romance, humor, adventure, emotions, etc in a book? like just a good book basically, or i'll lose interest easy. i have to get it at the library tomorrow, for a literacy assignment. thankyou lots! it doesnt even have to be on this list. it just has to be a newberry honor book or a newberry award book.

these are some i found that i may like:

On the banks of Plum Creek
Ella Enchanted
The Cricket In Times Square
The Giver
Maniac Magee: A novel
Island Of the Blue Dolphins
Little house on the prairie
the view from saturday
the great gilly hopkins
joey pigza loses control
bud, not buddy
Holes
Charlotte's Web
The Summer of the Swans
The Westing Game

THANKYOU FOR YOUR TIME!


The Watsons Go To Bermingham - 1963
Bud, Not Buddy is by the same author, so it must be good.. I think I read it before but I honestly don't remember :x
Maniac Magee

The Outsiders (No Newberry award, but still a good book)
Rumblefish (No award either)

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Currently, I'm 16. When (if I can) I go to prom, I'll be 17.

Let me start off with saying I have VERY strict parents. To give you an idea of how strict my parents are on me, I'll give you a few rules that they have on me:
-I can't spend the night at ANYONE'S (besides family) house. I never have.
-I can't let anyone besides family ride in my car.
-I can't go to any friends' house.
-I can't ride in anyone else's car besides family.

I want to go to prom with my boyfriend this year (it's his senior prom, I'm just a junior). Nothing mischievous is going to happen between us that night. No drinking, drugs, sex, etc.

Regardless, my parents don't seem to be very trusting of he and I. I'm not sure why since we've never done anything to break their trust. NOTHING. I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year, so they've been able to get to know him.

Now you can imagine how strict they are on me. How would I ask them about going to prom? I prefer to approach my mom first and then let her talk to my dad about it. I need to find out if I can very soon so I can start dress shopping.

You should try talking to your mom first. I can see that prom is really important to you, and you really want to go. Let your mom know that. Tell her that you'll be home right after, you won't be out partying, no drinking, drugs, sex, etc. Tell her that you've never done anything before that should break her trust, you've always followed their rules.. and you just want to go out with your boyfriend for one night. Tell her that it's your boyfriends senior prom, there's never going to be another one, and it would be really special if she lets you go. Good luck. :]

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Heyy, if anyone can help me with this that'd be great: Myspace has always worked fine on my computer until recently. My myspace hasn't been letting me sign on. Actually, myspace isnt even showing up on my computer. Whenever i try to go on it it says page cannot be displayed. It's been doing this for about four or five days now. So, I tried to sign into my account on my friends computer. Now myspace isn't working on her computer. In other words, any time someone trys to sign into my username on my account on myspace on their computer, myspace will no longer work on their computer at all either. Does this mean my account has been hacked or what?? and is there anything i can do about it. Thanks alot.

I think there's some kind of bug with myspace right now. This happened to me a couple of days ago, but it started to work a little while after. You're probably best off just waiting.

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Alright well on myspace, you know how whenever you choose a song you want for your profile, it plays on a little box underneath your contact table that shows the name of the artist and song title and everything?

Well I've noticed on some people's pages, they've gotten rid of that, yet the song still plays, and there's no other kinds of boxes or anythign that play the song. It just plays out of nowhere. Sorry if it's hard to understand, I'm not that good at describing things.


But if you understand what I mean, do you know the code for this?

http://www.createblog.com/scripts/download.php?id=513

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this is weird but what does getting took mean???? cuz lk i no what head means bt whats took? i no its wierd...

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=took

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what is a dirty sanchez or something like that??
thanks in advance =)

After anal, the guys basically make a mustache on the girl's face from the poo. Yes, gross, but true.

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is it ok to put contacts in water instead of solution over night?

Sure, but it KILLS when you try to put them in afterwards. :]

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whats the myspace code to make your page/layout appear smaller. it shrinks everything down. thanks

http://www.createblog.com/scripts/download.php?id=234

http://www.createblog.com/scripts/download.php?id=374

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ok so im gonna get my cartilage pierced at Claires tomorro for my birthday..They pierces it with a gun and i heard that bad..but how bad is it what will happen if its done with a gun??

Guns are bad to get pierced with, especially at a place like Claires. I've gotten my cartilige pierced twice with a gun without problems, but I guess that it is risky, you're more prone to infections. You should go to a piercing parlor where they use a needle.

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I just recently got a new ipod and i want some new songs, i dislike rap, but i like bands like sugarcult, afi, boys like girls, underoath. so can you name some good songs like this? i need some
please. & thank you.

Hopefully you'll like these!

Any songs by Red Jumpsuit Apparatus are good.
My Heroine - Silverstein
Smile In Your Sleep - Silverstein
My Sword Vs. Your Dagger - Silverstein
Call It Karma - Silverstein
The Bright Side Of Suffering - Scary Kids Scaring Kids
The City Sleeps In Flames - Scary Kids Scaring Kids
Death Over Danger - Mozart Season
Streetlight Contagions - Mozard Season
Someone Else's Arms - Mae
Anna Molly - Incubus
Nice To Know You - Incubus
The Theft - Atreyu
A Lesson In Charades - Asteria
Jesus Christ - Brand New
Millstone - Brand New
Glycerine - Bush
Baby, You Wouldn't Last A Minute On The Creek - Chiodos
I've Been Dying To Reach You - Circa Survive

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on alot of people's name tags on Myspace it says [fxc] or [nxc]

what does this mean?

hxc means hardcore, and a lot of people make up new things. i've heard that fxc is fashionxcore, but i'm not sure if that's what they mean. you're best off asking them. :]

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does brown match well with black?

no. :)

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are all advcicenators in here under the age of 19 ?

No.

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does ANYONE. know any good websites that have like love .. friendship. heartbreak quotes. like good ones. not like roses are red violets are blue crap.. please help.. i cant find anything. and its driving me crazy

if you go to www.xanga.com ; click on blogrings ; type in quotes ; then click on a group - there's TONS of sites you can chose from. that's where i get all of my quotes! i also have a quotes site if you want to check it out ; www.myspace.com/hollywoodxquotes - you just have to add me =]

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What is the difference between anal and oral sex??

anal is when you have sex up your butt, aha. and oral is like using your mouth, like giving head.

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