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in brand new, who sings usually? I know jesse is like a lead singer but he sounds diffenert alot. if someone can tell me who else sings.

also if any chicago shows (i know they are playing 2 in march) are sold out?

I tried to do research and figure it out. I noticed that he sounds really different too.
It says on a website that Jesse was hospitalized for appendicitis and was really sick and had surgery. So maybe that's the reason.
Both of the Chicago shows are sold out. :\

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Hey. Well there's this old Disney Channel movie that's called I think "The Beverly Hillbillys" and it's about a woman who leads a group of young girls (1 including I think her daughter) in girl scouts through like obstacles for a competition against another girl scout group who cheat and are kiniving (well, alteast their leader). well I really love that movie so if anyone could tell me if they know what I'm talking about and if they have the movie available in like Block Buster or Target or whatever that would be great and I would really appreciate it. Much Love

Troop Beverly Hills!

It's available on the Target website, I'm not positive if it is in the store but it's worth a try.
http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/sr=8-1/qid=1171839580/ref=sr_8_1/601-4656765-8524164?ie=UTF8&asin=B0000897DW

or if you just want to get it off amazon :

http://www.amazon.com/Troop-Beverly-Hills-Shelley-Long/dp/6301465598

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Is there a site that i can go to, to get FREE music downloads and not have to give them a credit card num or whatever. One that downloads to windows and will alow me to put it on my mp3 player?
Please help

Limewire, Ares, Bearshare

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im 15 (almost 16)/f and my boyfriend is 18/m.

we've been dating almost 3 years now and are sexually active, but we do not use condoms. he usually either finishes in my mouth or on me, never in me. the thing is, i want to get pregnant, but he doesnt. i can understand why he doesnt though. what should i do? i really love him and i really want a baby.

I can see that you really do love your boyfriend - but having a baby is a BAD IDEA! Think about it, you won't have a social life, whatsoever. If you think you're going to have your friends hang around with you while you're nursing your 4 week old baby, chances are they won't. They'll probably be out at a party having fun while you're sitting home with your baby. Plus, your future would be in jeapordy. How would you go to school when you have to take care of a baby? Almost all jobs don't allow you to work without a highschool diploma. I see why your boyfriend doesn't want a baby either, he's 18 and I'm sure that he's either in college or going to college. He won't want to stay back and take care & support a child. Just rethink what you truley do want.

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i was just wondering. what is dry sex. if anyone could tell me that would be great

it's sex with clothes on.
basically you just hump eachother while you both have clothes still on.
hope i helped! :]

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does anybody know how n where i can buy a sony USB chord thing....[you know, the wire thing u plug in your computer to put the pics frm the cam] coz i lost mine and i dont know what to do..

Bring your camera into a store like Best Buy, and they'll show you which cord goes with it so you can buy a new one. It'd be a lot easier than getting it offline.

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How long does it normally take a guy to cum while your giving him a blow job? Thanks

It all depends on how the girls doing it, and how long it usually takes the guy to finish. Basically it varies from person to person.

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so i have no date to a dance coming friday
and ive gotten my ticket , and i do know what
its like to not have a date .. but it just makes
me so uncomfortablee knowing its kinda like a
valentines dance ):
haah any tippps to not sitting at a table
with friends while a slow song is going up?

Personally, I hate going to dancing with dates! It's so much more fun to be asked to dance by other people, vs. being bound to one person alll night! Being dateless is the best, and people with dates are losers :] But if you're waiting to be asked to dance, stand in a group with your friends that don't have anybody to dance with either. Just laugh and talk with them and try to get a guy to get a glance at you! Stand in the middle of the dancefloor, by a group of guys that aren't dancing with anybody. I'll bet you that you'll probably be asked to slow dance! It works like a charm. I do it at every single dance. :]Avoid sitting at a table or on the side, nobody will see you theree. Happy Valentines Day. :]

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what are some old one hit wonders from like the 60's and stuff
such as

build me up buttercup
do you believe in magic
ain't no mountain high enough

etc

help asp please :]

http://www.onehitwondercentral.com/60s.cfm

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_1960s_one-hit_wonders_in_the_United_States

:]

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if i were to go on a diet and eat only cellary and drink only water for a few weeks,[*and take daily vitamins] would there be any health problems?
thnx.

most likely. you're not getting any calories whatsoever, considering water has zero and celery is a negative calorie food. you aren't getting enough nutrients from a variety of foods. i definately don't recommend it. it's basically crash dieting/starving yourself-even if you are eating (barely).

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Today I was hangin' out at Taco Bell w/ a bunch of my friends, who were all guys. They claimed that men were better than women at pretty much everything. Then when I disagreed, they said to me, "Ok, name one thing that women are better at than men." I was stuck. Then they started laughing 'cause I didn't say anything. They were like, "Yeah, all these great geniuses and inventors, like Einstein and all, all men." It made me so mad, and embarassed. They said they were just messin' with me, but I somehow can't believe that. I feel like they meant what they were saying. Should I confront them again? Or should I just let it slide and hope it doesn't come up again(maybe they were just kidding after all).

Let it slide. I'm sure they were just kidding and it's nothing to sweat about.

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i havnt gotten my period in like 6 months im soo sure im not pregnant cuz i took the test like 3 times and i dont feel like i am and stuff whats wrong with me??

Try going to your doctor to figure it out. My sister stopped getting her period for awhile and they put her on birth control to regulate her period again. They might use another type of medication too. Maybe you're just irregular and it's normal. You're best off checking with your doctor to make sure that everything's working properly. :]

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a hole looks so small.. how does the guys "thing" fit in..?

It's a muscle that will stretch. It also helps to go in easier with lube.

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Is it more like when you go all red in the face and head over heels, or can it also be like... you feel happier than usual when you see the person... you feel strangely like you want to be around them a lot..?

I feel slightly different around this one guy friend than around the others. I'm not quite sure what to do about it.

(if it helps, I'm pretty sure he feels the same)

You probably like him. Whenever you see him, your stomache sort of flips, you want to talk to him, and you're just overall happier when you're around him .. you probably like him.

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okay so when guys kiss girls do guys like it better when there wearing lipgloss or no? do they like it better when there lips are wet(like after u like them) or dry. please answer fast!

I'm not a guy, but don't wear lipgloss. Lipgloss is greasy and slippery, and just yuckk. Like the person said below me, you're best off wearing chapstick, so that your lips aren't chapped, yet they're not soaked from lipgloss

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what should i take in 10th grade...french or spanish? whaterver i choose i want to take all 3 yrs cause its what a colleg will look for. so i want to have an impressive resame. what will look better 3 yrs of french or spanish? thanks

You're probably better off taking Spanish. In a lot of places, a lot of people only speak Spanish. Colleges look for that because jobs often interact with people that only know how to speak Spanish. I take German, and I regret it. It's my fourth year & I know that I'm probably not gonna use it anytime soon. I wish I took Spanish because I know that it'll come in more handy. If you take French, I guess it'd come in handy if you go to Canada or France, but in Cananda most people speak English anyway. But yea, Spanish will probably come in handy in the future more than French or other languages would.

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i don't know if this is the right category, but i'm 15 - and i have a boyfriend. we've been together for almost a year now, and in november - his mom asked if i would like to join them on their spring break in colorado. my parents have been going along with it for the past 4 months, they haven't exactly said yes .. but they haven't totally declined it either. today, my mom said that she was leaning more towards no because "i'm only 15 and she doesn't think it's sending the right message .. staying with my boyfriend for a week" i TOTALLY understand their concern, but WHY didn't she tell me this earlier? my boyfriend and i have been talking about this since i first found out in october! we were SO excited! my parents said that i had to get all a's and b's .. and progress reports just came out .. guess what - i have all a's and b's! what can i do to prove to them that i am responsible enough to go with him? PLEASE HELP!

Tell your mom that you totally understand her concern, but she can completely trust you. Tell her that you've never done anything to break her trust with her. You've gotten good grades and worked really hard to show that you're responsible. Tell her that your boyfriends parents will be with you guys the whole time, it's not like you're gonna have your own hotel room. Just remind her that you're trustworthy and reposible enough to not go around and be crazy. Tell her that you're going to be on your best behavior, you're not gonna be going crazy, because you're gonna be with your boyfriend's parents anyway. Just remind her that you're trustworthy and responsible enough to go on the trip. Good luck, and hopefully your parents will let you go! Have fun

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okay so my boyfriend is coming over next weekend
and were gonna be in my room.. alone
any fun stuff we can do.. like not sex though
because im not ready to go that far yet
were gonna like watch a movie and stuff
but whats some stuff that guys like you to do?
like were probably gonna end up like on my bed or something

You can watch a movie in your room, lay on your bed and 'cuddle'. Funny movies are probably the best, because you'll probably both end up laughing. If you just lay on your bed and watch the movie, hug, kiss, talk, or whatever I'm sure that'll be fine. If you wanna do more, then go ahead, but if you're not, then make sure you don't do anything you're not ready to.

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What's the best way to lose pant sizes? I'm 5'9". I started dieting and working out seriously about 2 weeks ago. Since I've started, I've lost about 7.5 lbs. My 13's fit much better now, but I want to get down to an 8/9.

Keep doing what you're doing! You're obviously showing great results, so keep it up & try not to slip.

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