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I'm Samantha, 17, and I love to help others. If I'm not sure about something, I will tell you, but I will tell you all that I do know. =D
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Ok this question is going to be kind of deep, so here goes. When I was 14 I lose my virginity to my first love. I'm 19 now and married to another man. My first love, Tim, and I have been on and off since I was 14. No matter what we always seem to find a way back to each other. The problem is, I have been married now almost 2 years to this other man. BUT I still find myself thinking (alot) about my first, Tim. I don't know if I am in love with him still, or what. I am so confused. Everytime we bump into one another it's like that spark never left. Please help asap.
friends loves will never be forgotten. youll always feel something when you bump into him. he was your first love, what can you say?
If I eat 2-3 apples a day, and some small piece of meat, and drank 3-4 bottles of water a day for 1 month, about how much weight could I lose? I probably wouldn't exercise that much.
the best way to lose weight is to exercise, and eat 3 times a day, and have snacks in between. believe it or not, eating more, but good healthy foods, are the best way to go. i found that out from my friend Bria. Shes eating 3 times a day and have like crackers or something, and then she exercises after school. and shes been doing this for about a month, and she lost about 5 lbs.
My boyfriend told me he loved me the other day.
And I froze because I don't love him back.
What should I have said, and what should I say in the future when I still don't love him and he says it again?
tell him you just need more time, and your not in that time of your guys relationship to say that without being 100% sure. make sure you tell him you care about him a lot. but not love... yet..
is there any good teeth whiteners? i'd like to know from past use or from a friend telling you. Also if you do know where to get it
i agree, im doing it now to get my teeth white for prom. iv only had them for 4 days, and i already can tell a differnce.. but i dont leave them on longer, and i can still tell a differnce. you can get them at wal mart. mine was only about 23 dollars.
Yesterday I let my boyfriend feel me up while we were making out, we don't want sex, I mean we're 15. But we want to have a little fun, does anyone have any cute things I can do just to excite him and have a little fun? You know, like nibbling on his ear, tickling him, letting his hand up my shirt. Thanks so much!
dry hump him...... =] hehe
I want to volunteer in Africa for 3 weeks this summer through a program called Cosmic Volunteers. My mom has looked at their site and is still unwilling to let me go. I told her I would raise the money myself and she wouldn't have to pay for any of it. She's worried that I'm going to get raped and she thinks there won't be any supervision. I've told her that they have supervision, it even says so on the site. What can I do to convince her to let me go? I want to volunteer in Kenya more than anything.
Also, are there any good ways to raise money? I've already thought about car washes and bake sales, but are there any other ideas? (And yes, I'm currently looking for a job).
have her call the company that is taking you. and have her talk to someone that will be with the kids. good luck!
Hey =) well for spirit week we have class color day on the last day of that week (that Friday) and my class color-freshmans 2010-is green, my fav color! well my friends and I are putting sayings on our shirts but I don't know what to say. I'm looking for a simple, clever, and good quote for my freshman '10 [green] class...thanks!
Fab. Fresh?..
Classy Freshy?..
2010 in like really awesome letters..
or freshman on the front.. then on the back 2010 with your last name on the top
haha mine might be a lil weird?.. lol, well i tryed!.. haha good luck!!
ok i have a bump on my boob is it bad should is a docter i had it for 2 years
you should see a doctor. not to scare you,but it might be cancer. but it might just be an inside pimple. i had that, but mine was just a pimple, i had for about a year. but its gone. go see a doctor, i did, and theyll see what it is!.. hope i helped!
well ok, where BEST FRIENDS, hee says we have a connectiion, and that im the only girl he can tlk to about anything. and shit. and he cares about me alot. but hes IN LOVE with this other girl. and like, she has a boiifriend. but she says shes gonna dump him for mii best friend. but now he likes mii friiend. we wiill call her R. and R likes hiim. but i dont want him and R to go out. bc i really love him.and he tells her tht he doesn't like me like tht, bc its striictly friend shiip, but hes the only guy i wanna be with. and i really love him. can you help me please!
well hun, you cant controll his emotions. Maybe he'll start falling, but if he sees it a friendship, then theres nothing right now you can do. maybe if you stop telling him everything, and start flirting?.. im not sure if itll help since he sees it a friendship. but good luck & hope i helped!
I'm not sure if this belongs here, but I want to give my friend a lap dance. What should I do, he's going to give me one, so what can I do to him? Please help
its like grinding but sitting.. dont stay in one spot tho.. while your grinding, move up and down. then before your donw.. go up on him one more time but real slow and press aginst him.. hope i helped!
okay so tomarrow im going to the mall with a friend. my dads ganna be there but he'll most likely let us walk aorund on our own. okay so i really need bras and underwear. like really badly. so i wanna get like some nice underwear andd thongss. and bras. ha. but like.. i know there victoria secrets.. and american eagle.. but where else has some nice stuff. and not to mention the fact that im really embarressed about getting the thongs and like underwear. and like i need to get measured for bras.. so like idk what to do.. its embaressing and but i really need this stuff done. its like the fact that i have never worn a thong before, shopping for that stuff is just awkward, asking someone who works there what size i am in the boobs and like underrwearr is also embarressing. (and like how would i ask her...). yeah so please advice. on like anything. i dont want my dad to know i got stuff like that at the mall too. thankss. =]
rue 21 for your underwear. if you have one. thir thongs and underwear are only 1.99.. and htye are super cute. for bra's i say stick to Victoria secrets. they get ppl going in there all the time asking for help with their bra's. and dont be embarressed. its no big deal!.. a girl needs to get her things!.. lol and just put your VS bag inside another bag so your dad wont see it. hope i helped!
I am 13/f all i think about is sex, when i see i guy im like i wanna have sex with him, for example chris brown. But is it normal i feel weird and when its time for me to do it im so scared, so why do i wanna have sex so badly but scared of having sex? is that normal? or good? or bad?
normal.. nothing is wrong with thinking about sex, but, hun, your 13, wait a couple more years. hope i helped!*
okay so im 15 yrs old, female, 5'3 and weigh almost 110 pounds. my family and friends tell me im perfect. but i really dont believe them.
for a while me and one of my bestt friends went belimic for a while. like a long couple of months. but then after mega results we stopped knowing it was WAYY wrong. then we just started exercizing regurally and eating better but then every now and then i get this HUGEE urge to puke up what i just ate. usually i overcum that urge by working out but sumtimes it just takes over.
i know its wrong. but it just feels so right after. it just really gets to me fast. i think i need to lose wieght again adn i dont know what to do. please jsut give me a few alternet things to do other then pursue this bad and VERYY nastyy habit. like tips or ideas to lose weitght fast but not wrong. thank you for caring. :]]
you dont need to lose weight.. thats crazy. if your 110 n need to lose weight then i for sure need to, im 140 and fine with it, im not fat or anything. i think u might need to get help..
do you think it's reasonable for a seventeen-year-old girl to be forbidden to get rides from her friends? i mean, my mom and dad don't let me drive around with my friends. it's not like they're fucking drug dealers or anything, they just don't like it. i try to be empathetic and see things from their point of view, but i don't. i don't argue with them unless i really disagree, and i just don't think it's fair. please tell me if i'm being totally uncooperative in feeling this way. and what can i do to get them to ease up a little? i hate not being able to go anywhere unless they pick me up and drop me off.
what are they going to do when your 18?..
not let you be an adult?.. but anyways, i understand. can you drive?.. if so, then just say your going to a friends house(if you have your own car) and leave from there with that friend.. lying is bad, but hey, if you wanna hang out with your friends, then you have to do something...
how about bringing up the 18 year old thing.
tell them you want more freedom.
hope i helped..
So I'm looking for a deoderant that doesn't leave white marks and really controls sweating because I sweat constantly! Even when I'm just sitting down! And I live in a cold/rainy environment! Any names?
i have that same problem. Drysol doesnt work for me. it helps maybe a little bit, but i still sweated like wow, i even sweat now, in the winter. Someone told me baby powder. Or this spray on stuff. But about Drysol, after you put it on, take a hair dryer and start it right after you put the Drysol on. if not, your armpits will be burning all night and day. like i said, it didnt work for me, but it works for my sister, so it might just be me. good luck
Hm well. My boyfriend & I have been going out for 8 months, and I love him more than anything. I know for sure I do. It's just sometimes I get really depressed, and when I'm listening to music alone or something like sad songs I just really upset with myself, and think I'm not good enough for him. He treats me amazing, and we're together constantly, everyday! It's just I don't know. I know he loves me, I do. I just have the lowest self asteem. I need it to be better. Hm. Is there anyway I can, cause like I don't really wanna tell him. Thanks.
i feel the same. what i like to do when im feeling down is tell my boyfriend, then he tells me im amazing, and that he loves me, and it really makes me feel good about myself!
Ok so i plan on getting my tounge peirced soon and i just wanted to know if those of you if any that have your tounge peirced or have gotten it peirced if it hurts? and if so how bad? and how long should it be swollen for?and also where i can buy a vibrating tounge ring also if possible can someone explain to me like how the prcess of getting peirced works please and thank you in advance
i never have got my done, but my friends say it doesnt hurt when you get it done, but after. it stays swollen for about a week or maybe more, and the vibrating rings, look at maybe a hot topic or some store like that in the mall. if you cant find one there, go on Ebay, the most likely will have them. just make sure it says never been open.. lol.. hope i helped!
hey i realy need advice my sister is always geting a boy friend (were twins)all the boys like her but when i asked a guy out he turned me down
ineed to know the steps of getting a boy friend
well one. you have to make sure they like you.. be flirty, look cute!, maybe watch your sister, and see what she does?.. iv been with my guy for about 6 months, we have so much in common. so look for a guy that share the same things with you. maybe sports?.. i love football, and my guy plays, he likes watching basketball & i play basketball.. just dont go right out and ask someone out, get to know them, have him come over to your house a few times, go to the movies together. double date with your sister and just watch what she does.. always smile at the guy you like, and dont be scared to touch him while you talk..!!
I've been overweight my entire life. This is something that makes me feel like a total loser and it makes me sad and gross. I'm 14 now and weigh close to 200 lbs. I'm actually a shapely person (meaning i'm close to a bottomheavy hourglass) so I feel liek I look "decent" most of the time... but overall i feel like a fatass and that's all I'll ever be. The thing is it's hard for me to stick to a diet and keep the weight off or even lower. I do a strenuous dance class every week for 2 hours. I really don't even eat that much at all. I don't eat fatening foods either like junk food, carbs, candy, etc.
why is it that I CANT loose weight? I want to be attractive and surprisingly i AM pretty. I've been told several times how gorgeous I am but I feel like I could be so much prettier without all this weight and it's like there is no getting rid of it.
well if you cant lose weight, you really have to get on a deit, i know that it will be hard, but you have too, i tore my ACL and couldnt run for close to 6 months, and i had to deit, it was hard, but i stayed about the same weight. cut out pop!!!.. if you cant diet, then forsure cut pop out!.. that will help!. try going to the ymca everyday, for 1 1/2.. or get into gymnastics, you might not be good at it at first, but it helps you lose weight like wow.. hope i helped..
Okay i have this major issue with this kid in my class (lets call him joe)... well joe and i are in eighth grade. everyone in our class knows that joe is a perv who is always looking up girls skirts, brushing up against us "accidently" , and stealing our clothes (my bra was stolen). Wellll our freakin school caught him stealing this one girl's clothes and did absoulitly NOTHING. And he has anger problems like were he gets so angry you actually have to get away from him in fear of your life!! And the thing all the girls was afraid of happening to them if the school didnt do anything happened to me!yesterday in class when i was sitting in my chair (he sits next to me)and i thought the bar on my chair was touching me the whole time but then like after the class was almost over i looked down and saw joes hand on my butt!! i was too shocked at the time to say anything and i told my homeroom teacher right after school and she told the principal. the principal doesnt really believe me and she knoowss joe is a liar and i never lie!!! he is not gonna get in any trouble at all!! this kid is so wacko like no joke he is crazy crazyy and me and my friends dont feel safe at school and we told the teachers but they dont do anything i really think the next step he is gonna do is raping!! i already heard him talkin about raping one tim!! what shoul i do??!!!!!
PS my parents know they did everyyyything they could with talking to the teachers so i am out of ideas.HELP ME!
so, im thinking, if one of your girlfriends, sit beside you, have them like watch him, and when they see him doing something that he shouldnt be, have them take a picture with either a GOOD camera phone, or just a camera.. make sure that the flash IS ON so it would get the teachers attention, plus youll be sure to get the picture, then take it to the principal, or maybe the cops if the principal wont do anything. but that way, you will have proof he is doing that to you girls, and he will get in trouble. or if not while you guys are in class but whenever he is doing that!!.. please let me know how things go!.. hope i helped!... && if you would like another idea, just let me know, and ill come up with something!!.. i love getting ppl cought! =-p