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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

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13/f

when a guy says to you "what's up?" and you normally don't talk to him... are you supposed to say "good" or "hey"?

Like.. is the phrase "whats up" supposed to be asking the person how they are doing?? or is that phrase just saying Hi in a different way?

just be like
nothingg much.. you?
theyre asking like what are you up to?

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YEA WELL ITS TRUE BUT I DO WISH I CAN HOLD U MORE CLOSER LIKE MORE THAN A HUG OR FRIENDS U KNOW WAT I MEAN



what does this mean?

it means the person wants to be close to you. it sounds like they really like you.. like as more than a friend.

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where can i touch a girl to turn her on??

kiss her.. kiss her neck.. touch her boobs.. you can even use your mouth to like suck on her nipples... finger her.. touch her stomach.. her back.. her ass.. legs..

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Okay my guy friend wants to know what to get his girlfriend for her birthday ??
They have only been going out for 2 weeks but were good friends befor that.
So basicly whay should he get her ??
I know she likes soccer and is a pretty outgoing girl .
Thanks :]

maybe he could get her a teddy bear and her favorite candy. she would probably love the teddy bear because she obviously likes him and girls like cute little gifts that guys give them. and getting her favorite candy would show that her cares about her because he got her FAVORITE.


or he could get her a giftcard, itunes, cd.. etc.

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Hey i am a 13/f and i have a an ex boyfriend that i at least thought was a sweet guy untill he dumped me for no reason i mean we have never ever been in a fight and so tuesday i txted him and said " i LOVE you baby sooo much!!!" then he txts me back and says your a bitch and ur ugly we are over!! so i started to cry but all his friends say he still like's me and i still like him so what i wanna know is how can i make him jelous

flirt with other guys in front of him..
even better flirt with his best friends in front of him. tell his friends that theyre hot and stuff like that. that will make him jealous.

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im abouuuutt 5'6 and i weight like 147 i do lots of sports im nto really fat but i find myself veryy chubby haha. oh and im 13. lol okk so whats a healthy weight for me? and about how many calories a day is healthy?

im like 5'5 1/2 and i weigh like 113. thats a healthy weight. if you look on a bmi calculator you should be able to find if your weight is healthy. it sounds pretty healthy to me. if you play a lot of sports youre probably fine and its just a lot of muscle.

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ok how come degrassi the next generation isn't coming on the N tonite? i thought there was a
new episode every night.

i love that show!!
but no theres not a new episode every night.
the new episodes are on friday nights. they stopped making new ones for awhile though. i think they are starting again like a little before the summer or something.

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who won the American idol?

the season isnt over yet.

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16/f
ok so me and my boy friend are going to make out at the movies for the first time. he said he'll put his hands like a hug and then move them up to my face,
so my question is "where do i put my hands while we're making out?"
and what are some signs that i can do to give him the idea that we should start kissing?

your hands can be around his neck.. or touching his chest.. or touching wherever you feel comfortable. do whatever feels natural.
maybe grab his hand or something because he will probably look at you and then you can start kissing. he obviously already knows that you want to make out with him and maybe he will just make the first move. good luck!

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i have a dull pain in my whole chest like all the time, usually my inhaler helps it, but it doesnt seem to be an asthma attack? sometimes it does hurt so bad that its hard to breathh.. what could be wrong?

i dont know what could be wrong. maybe your asthma developed into a different type and you need a different kind of medicine.

all i do know is that you should:

TELL YOUR PARENTS
AND SEE A DOCTOR PRONTO!

feel better =]

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my birthday is coming up, and all i want for my birthday from my boyfriend, is a single red rose it will also be our 4 month anniversary. it's just something subtle yet romantic. do you think he'll get it for me? shouild i tell him what i want? what should i do?!?

well maybe you should hint it to him like.. you know what i think is really romantic? when a guy gets a girl a single rose for her birthday/anniversary. if hes not stupid he will get it. lol


but also.. it shouldnt matter what he gets you. because if youve been going out for that long.. he obviously loves you very much. presents are nice but its the love between you that is much more important

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Is it still weird that I play with Barbies? I'm 16 years old. But I just like to dress them and stuff...does any other girls my age still play with Barbies???? HELP!!

well its not weird if you like to dress them and stuff. you are probably just interested in fashion and maybe you should consider being a fashion designer for a career!

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Ok.. So this guy wants me to go to his house after school.. should i go or not!

it all depends on if you are comfortable or not. if you guys are just friends.. then go ahead! maybe he likes you as more than a friend though and hes expecting to hook up with you.. if you think thats the case then you need to decide if you want to do that or not. if you dont you can still go but if he trys to put a move on you then just say no. you dont have to do anything you dont want to. if you decide that you dont want to hang out with him at his house alone then tell him you would rather hang out with a bigger group because you arent comfortable with him alone and then invite some other guys and girls to come along. hope i helped!

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ok bottom line..
im hanging out with 2 guys that like me. i dont like one more than the other so i dont know which one to hook up with. and the other problem is that those guys are good friends, so i don't want to break their relationship.
help is appreciated!!

well maybe you shouldnt hook up with either one. because if you do you might loose the friendship of the other one.. which im assuming you dont want to do. or otherwise if you want to choose one then hang out with them a little more. then decide which one you like more. or hook up with both of them.. that always works ;)

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hey everyone!!! well, i'm 14/f and i need some very cute hair styles!!!! i already do the whole messy bun thing. but what are some uniqe(sp?) cute, attention getting hair styles. any ideas work!! if ya can, i would like websites (with pics if possible) or if you guys have some good understanding instructions!!! thanks so much!!!!!

straighten your hair
curl your hair
braids..
- one french braid
- two french braids
- one regular braid
- two regular braids
- a bunch of little braids
just put your hair up in a ponytail
put your hair in braids while its wet and sleep like that and when you take it out in the morning your hair will be really wavy

xo hope i helped

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i know sperm dies when it touches air right? well what if my b/f masterbates and then goes to the restroom, and then comes back and fingers me? what will happen?

there is like BARELY a chance that you can get pregnant from that. but if he washed his hands you should probably be fine. next time he should finger you FIRST and then masturbate after. that way is much safter. =]

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My boyfriend kissed another girl. What should I do?

It wasn't a french kiss and it was on the lips.

The thing is, my friend saw this. He was at karate with one of his classmates.

And I think my friend isn't lying because she told me the ADDRESS of the building and the time he was there. I know the karate place and I know what time he goes. And my friend doesn't go to his school so it's not like they talk about what time he goes there and where. We all hung out like 2 times [movies] so no conversation, basically.


My boyfriend didn't tell me anything though..

So i'm not sure how to go about this..

My friend isn't known to be a liar. But I don't know about my boyfriend. :/

confront him. then go from there. if he denies it then you should be mad at him. the least he can do is tell you the truth. if he apologizes.. maybe you should give him one more chance but you need to have a serious discussion with him about why he would kiss another girl.

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I'm going shopping with some of my peps and I want to know some good stores thanks

abercrombie
hollister
abercrombie & fitch
delias
victorias secret
wet seal
macys

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me and my boyfriend play this game on the phone where we ask each other questions like "have you ever been in love?" and stuff like that. i need a list of questions i can ask him. thanks :]

haha oh my goshh i play that game too!! and i asked this same question but i got the worst answers lol

yaa okay sorry. umm well i dont kno if you get this personal but heres some..

1. have you ever made out?
2. how far have you gone?
3. how far would you go with me?
4. what is something you want me to do to you?
5. would you ever cheat on me?
6. do you masturbate?
7. what is one thing you really want me to do to you?
8. what is something i do that really turns you on?
9. who did you like before me?
10. did you have another girlfriend before me?

umm i cant think of anymore right now

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Well I'am happily married man.Our lovemaking is awesome.the question im asking to any woman out there is that when my wife has an orgasim with me. why does she get emotional while having the orgasim? and sometimes it scares me to the point that i stop to make sure shes ok; am i doing right with pilling out to see if shes ok because i dont know much about orgasims?

well i can answer this.. but what do you mean by emotional? like sad.. happy.. what?

it probably just feels really good and she is just like bursting with emotion.

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