Q: Hey, my best best best best best best x10000000 is having a birthday soon. She's turning 13. I want to do something special for her, and i want to buy her something special too. Ant ideas???? I need gift and activity ideas! Thanx

Q: yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?!

Q: Tomorrow night I'm having a friend over. We'll both be home alone, cuz my rents are gonna be at the neighbors. We're both 13/F. What should we do when the ball drops??? SOMETHING EXCITING AND WILD

Q: OK, I said yes to this guy when he asked me out. Now, I don't want to go out with him.. so I'm going to, well not exactly dump him cuz we didn't go out by tell him I don't want to go out with him. I still want to be really really good friends with him. How do I say that I don't want to go out with him?

Q: To get down to it, I'm a 15 year old girl and a 22 year old guy likes me. I've known this guy for a few months and have become really good friends with him. I didn't know he actually had a crush on me till a few weeks ago. This guy is really nice, very sweet, he always cares about me. He always wants to know how I feel and how he can make it any better. He calls me practically every night. He trusts me and I trust him. We've talked about our feelings for eachother... I used to not think of him as anything more than a friend, but now I think I am starting to like him more. We see eachother at least once a week, usually with groups of other friends but I have been alone with him a couple times, once to his house. He has never tried to pull anything on me... he respects my boundaries, yet he shows he still cares. My parents don't like that I even talk to a 22 year old guy on the phone. If they ever knew I wanted to go out with him, they'd freak. I'd like to give him a chance, but I don't know if it's worth hiding from my parents and the fact that he's so much older than me makes the possibility chances of it working slimmer. Any advice on what I should do?

Q: I was cleaning out my closet that I havn't cleaned for like a year and a half and I found the $125 gold necklace that my ex-boyfriend gave me last year. I remember throwing it in the closet when i broke up with him-----but now I found it. I don't have any jewelery that fine and I was thinking about wearing the necklace. Who's gonna know? My ex lives in N.Y.C. anyway and i'm like 2 hours north of the city, so I wont see him. Do you think its ok to wear it???

Q: Ok, well I asked the question: Ok, I was just wondering what kind of Abercrombie fragrance for women is the kind that smells like the store- if there is a kind that smells like that. There's three different types: NOW Fragrance, Signature Fragrance, and 8 Fragrance. I would think it would be Signature Fragrance, but I'm not sure. Does anybody know??

Well, most people answered Signature Fragrance, but has anybody actually tried it?? Everybody but a few people said that they thought it was Signature, and the rest said that is was a cologne for men called Fierce. Has anybody tried it?? Thanks and I rate.

Q: My boyfriend lives with me, and he's always here (I'm 14/f), that's not the problem though. I just feel like he never really pays attention to me. He's playing video games, or he's on the computer, and I do so much for him, all I want is attention. How do I talk to him, or make him want me more, not even in a sexual way, but I just want attention. How do I tell him this without him thinking I want sex and without him being mad and have it actually work? sorry it's confusing, but I really need advice. I'll rate.

Q: i have been going out with this guy brandon,brandon has an ex gf thats very jealous and wants him back shes made a huge deal about it she threatened me, my friends,shes been saspended.brandon said he would never go back out with her that shes stupid shes gotten so many people in trouble and upset.I kno the only reason why brandon ever went out with her in the first place is becuase he wanted sex,she did everything for him she did his hw,shed sleep with him whenever,just everything.he called me and told me things werent working out between us and he wanted to break up i agreed are relationship wasnt as good as i thought it was i wasnt upset about it i didnt really care until my friend karina called and told me he was hooking back up with his ex gf.I think thats so fucked up its really bothering me and i dont kno how to face it school starts agian monday and i have to see them both i kno someones going to mention something and ask me why he is with her i dont kno what to do help

Q: anybody know of good colors for braces

Q: okay the guy i liked just asked me 2 do somthing with him(go 2 the like the movies) and i am SO nervous!!!
HELP!!

Q: ive written to you before about 2 different guys but this is different! there is a boy who i like SOOOO MUCH lol. were in the same grade! in the same homeroom too and some classes! well yeah the other day he came over and put his hand on mine while i was at my locker and was like get away from my locker.. he always sits w me and he said my b day and his were the best 2 days ever! this may sounds corney but its so cute! =] lol. well we have all thesejokes and for the past 2 or 3 weeks weve like done everything together at school! we talk online and then the other day he was only gona go to school if i did. everyday he comes over at lunch and he bumps into me in the hall by accident. one of my bffe asked him who he liked lets say my name is lisa and then another girl is marcia he said marica and lisa!!! =] then she asked him like the next day or w\e and he said only marica(not me) well the days after that in school he was like flirting more then ever! he told me he was only going to schoool one day if i did but i didnt and he did.. whoops! he hasnt asked me out yet but the same friend asked when he would and hesaid i duno.. what should i do?

Q: i'm a total pimplehead and i have been for a long time.. like.. um.. since grade 5 i think.. i'm in grade8 now.. i've been using these cleanser things they're getting kinda better but i keep on breaking out.. any tips?? *omg i'm so embaressed asking this.. i need help!!*

Q: never had a really boyfrined and soon to be 14 is that bad.. i dated a boy who was 2 months younger and 1 that was 1 and 1 half years oolder but never a REAL BOYFRINED? what should I do if anything?

Q: hi i asked...
im always sad inside , but no body knows cosz i dont show it... how can i get the emptiness in my heart to go away... signed , confused and lonely.

well i no whats bothering me inside.. its that my X boyfriend has gone out with at least 4 of my best friends.. and now hes going out with my closest one .. lets call her shelly - i think hes just using shelly but i really really still like him and i think im crazy for dumping him =\ i dont no how to tell him this .. can you PLEASE give me as much advice as possible..

signed , lonely - again .

Q: ok this might sound kind of dumb but it means a lot to me: my mom won't let me buy a padded or underwire bra because she says i don't need one yet but i think i really do and i don't feel comfortable with the ones she gave me and my friends all have the normal kind and i get really embarassed about it so do you have any tips for how i could persuade her?
also: my mom recently agreed to allow me to go tanning and i just wanted to know how long it will take to get my natural tan back? because in the summer i usually wear 1-piece bathing suits because of swim team and diving team at the pool club (sher-le-mon) and i really messed up my natural tan. please tell me how many visits i will probably need?
and: i used to be "punkish" last year and i turned kind of "ghetto" or whatever over the summer..is there anything wrong with being a prep now? i don't really believe in labels but some people at my school made fun of me for doing this and it made me feel really bad and it hurt. i just want to know if i will get made fun of again?
lastly: i have some thongs that my mom told me not to get because my older sisters have them but i have like the same ones as my sisters and i don't want them to find them in my room and say i took theirs or my mom might find them so what is a good hiding spot or what can i do to hide them from everyone?
sorry if this is kind of long i just had to know!
thanks so much-i love your advice!

Q: sometimes i get forget to put deoderant on n i get mad bo so i just dont lift my arms.
any solutions?

Q: I'm am in the seventh grade and I'm not interested in guys. I am not the girly type of person but for some reson, guys are attracted to me. I want to turn them off but then again, I don't want to. What should I do???

Q: hey, I'm 13/f and i might have a four or five friends over for a slumber party soon. What are some things we can do?? We LOVE comedy and we aren't very into make-up. What are some good movies we could watch?? And what activities could we do??

Q: 13/M and i have liked this one girl for about a year now and her and her bf (my friend) of about 1 year and a half just broke up. How long should i wait before i do anything and should i just drop hints. i'm a really good friend of hers and i dont want to do something at the wrong time.
p.s- i was thinking of sending her flowers w/ a card in them or something any good ideas greatly appreciated.

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