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For Homecoming, do you get a long dress or a shorter dress? Is it really fancy, like should I buy a facy dress? (link)
its formal attire. you can have a dress thats short or long. get something thats dressy and that you will feel comfortable in.


Alright, the reason why i think im depressed is because im sad and crying for no apparent reason, im extremely sensitive to what people say to me that are insults (even if its a joke), i do have some happy moments and days. The crying has last for almost a month, much longer than it was before, so im thinkin i need to see a doctor, but im not sure. Can you guys/girls help me out and tell me if im depressed or not? (link)
see a doctor. theres no shame if somethings wrong fix it


okay so i've been getting my period for almost a year. and so one of my boobs is like a 34a and the other one is flat across my chest. its been like that for 2 years now. is that normal??!! (link)
you probably just havnt developed fully.consult a doctor just in case.


okay so this guy thinks that i have kissed a guy before. i havent. he is much more experienced then i am sexually. will he know that i havent kissed someone before when we do kiss. should i let him make the first move and do the kissing. i want to be a good kisser. any tips would be great. and i know that i shouldnt lie to him. but. i already have. so any help would be greatly appreciated. thank you (link)
he more then likely wont know for sure that youve never been kissed.he might write it off as you just being nervous which isnt a bad thing. in case he does have a problem and it does come upits none of his business if you've kissed a boy or not in the past.


On July 24, I had a procedure where I was put to sleep for over 5 hours. Since then, I have not had my period. I am now about two weeks late. I am a virgin so there is no way I could be pregnant. Does anyone know if this could be a side effect of anesthesia?

Thanks in advance. (link)
consult a doctor


14/f
OK so my bf is my neighbor, wait scratch that we arent rly going out PUBLICLY, so its GOTTA BE A SECRET. We need a place to make out but whenever we r together it is at my house or his and his sis is my best friend... so when she spends the night i tell her to call him and say she forgot her toothbrush or something and then he walks over and we JUST talk... its kinda wierd like that... where is there a place where we can be truly alone w\ out like, being in public? *open to any suggestions (link)
i think you should explain why it has to be a secret before i answer


I've been dating a man and woman, I dont want the woman anymore, I have been honest and she won't leave me alone, im all she has, she has no mom or any family, she is so annoying what to do to get her out of my life. She says I owe her and she will kill herself if i leave. She makes me feel guilty but i started a family with my man and want to live right and drama free for my children. Please help! (link)
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you said they both know about eachother so you didnt betray anyone so thats a good sign. i think you should seriously consider taking out a restraing order.because theres obviously something wrong. she could get dangerous and cause harm to you,your kids,or your man. shes a big girl and you owe her nothing. if she is suicidal then she needs help. a restraining order seems harsh but you need to cut her off and restrain her for the good of your family and you. its better to be dissapoint with the truth then rejoice with a lie.


well me and my boyfriend have been dateing for 6 months im sure hes the one i want to spend forever with. But theres only one problem, i feel terrible all the time, i mean when we fight i always feel like its my fault,when he talks to other girls and i tell myself there just his friends it still makes me feel horrible,and even little things if like he doesnt say bye b4 hanging up the phone and i dont want this terrible feeling to go on. any advice on if this is normal, and how to fix it.
anything is apreciated (link)
think about the type of person he is. does he give you any reason to not trust him.when he talks is he just being friendly or is he flirting. if not then dont worry about it. your over thinking things wait until an actual problem arises to feel terrible. or you could turn into a control freak then youll really feel terrible because it will make people including him want to be around you a whole lot less.


Okay, there is this new guy at school. He just moved here. He isn't cute at all, and is weird. I talked to him once because he was just sitrting there, and I felt bad. Now, he always stares at me. How do I get him to stop? (link)
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read this this an adjustment and response to your commet.i dont know you so im just look ing at both sides im not assuming any thing. i have know idea what type of person you are. maybe he just likes to draw or is trying to impress you if you dont want his attention just pay him no mind and dont look at him then you wont know hes staring hell get the point if you brush him off enough. calling a person weird to other people is putting him down. but maybe you dont maybe thats a concern you keep to yourself i dont know.


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first of all, what makes him weird. are you sure hes not just nervous and wanting a friend? if you really do think theres something wrong or hes said something thats just not right.just stay away from him. you dont have to answer to him. just because you talked to him once doesnt mean youve commited yourself to him. just dont encourage him by looking at him or talking to him anymore.but dont put him down to other people or spread rumors because that could make matters worse. just leave him alone and he will get the message.


well school is comming around soon and ive been wanting to look more mature because i finally got my hair cut and i can wear it down and i look more mature but id like to wear makeup like a teen and not a 5 year old haha. well i have brown eyes and brown hair and beige/olive skin (my background is mexican/spainish)..any advice on colors or how to apply some things?? im pretty good with most i just am kinda bad with doing eyeliner on my top eye-lid and i dont know what colors would be good for mee. thanks! (link)
olive green would look good on your eyes so would golds and browns(light and dark). you might be able to were red lipstick as well.




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