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I'm Samantha, 17, and I love to help others. If I'm not sure about something, I will tell you, but I will tell you all that I do know. =D
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omg.
so me and my friend went with a couple of our guy friends about 2 weeks ago to hang out.
well we went to a friends and we started drinking a little.
we hung out fo a little bit then we went home.
we dropped everyone off and thats it. nothing else happened.
like 2 days later, my friend shawn IMed me and told me that he got kicked out like 5 minutes after we dropped him off.
well last monday, a week after, shawn started flipping out.
he couldnt remember what happened that night. at all.
he thought that we stopped at a gas station and that a kid put a gun to his head.
none of that happened.
he said he doesnt remember anything then that. he also said that he was driving home from a pap smear and he heard the kid that he thought did that say kid get out of the car im going to kill you.
but no one was around.
well hes like in a crazy hospital now cause he thinks that all really happened.
he said he didnt take anything but idk if i believe him.
well his mom is getting detectives to check all of this out and they are going to question us all.
one of our friends we were hanging out with is 22, so can he get in trouble for hangin out with me and my friend since were 16?
and also can they give us drug tests? cause i smoked some weed over the weekend and im freaking out about it.
nothing happened that night and we didnt do any drugs that night so idk what is wrong with shawn.
what do you think i should do? are they aloud to drug test me??
thanks in advance.
the 22 year old can get in trouble, bc he is over 21 and will get in trouble for letting you guys drink.. the weed im pretty sure will be in your system.. i think it stays there for about a week or so, i wouldnt know, i dont smoke.. and they are allowed to drug test you.. im not sure what you can do.. tell the truth..
I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated
to meet new people, start going to like a YMCA or something, and dont be scared to talk to someone. Join a sport, try to talk to people in your school you dont really talk too. or just start going on runs if your bored. clean, have some friends over.. hope i helped
does anyone play that game on lifetimetv.com?
if so can you give me some of the oufits youve done. i dont know what to do :)
thanks
i just played it.. its not that hard.. you have to sign up.. and read what your girl wants to wear.. then make an outfit according to what she wants.. and youll get a new idea everyday..
ok so i've had this pimple for about a week now. it's not a white head, but one of those humongo swollen ones that take over your face because its so big. after cleaning it everyday, twice to be exact, and putting medication on it, it finally started going away about a day ago. so now it's this HUGE DARK PURPLE spot thats mostly flat, but a little swollen. i've been putting neosporin (sp?) on it lately, but nothing seems to be happening, it's just getting darker. and the color is liek a purple color, not red or pink. what can i do? i've tried cover-up but it just makes the spot even darker. any home remedies out there so i can get out the purple and make it not swollen anymore?! thanks in advance :o]
i get those.. are you sure its not dryed blood?.. mine usally is that. and if you pick it, it just bleeds more.. but if its not that, try putting tooth paste on it.. and dont play with it anymore.. hope i hlped
you have to be 14 and 8 months to take it here in michigan.
and i asked my dad if i can take it when i was 15 and he wouldnt let me. so i havnt brought it up since then. and now im gonna turn 16 in june and iREally need to take it.
and my sister is 14 right now but she will be 15 in october and she said that my dad is gonna let her take it over the summer. thats is soo much bs. and she said that my dad wont let me take it but her. and im gonna be 16 for gods sake. ahh it makes me soo mad i just wanna cry.
ask him. sit both hima n your mom down, and talk about why you cant get it.
okay so here goes nothing:
there is this kid who i used to be friends with (im 13/f and hes 13/m) and all of a sudden he follows me to all of my classes and like stands really close to me. and i know this sounds bad but i CANNOT stand his voice. it is whispery and lisp and just really well...you know. its so embarassing to be seen with him because he makes it seem like he likes me and i hateeeee him. what should i do???? i hate how he follows me all the time and talks to me! i always stick with my friends and just try to stay away from him but he always finds me!
tell him... be like im sorry, but i dont like you, will you stop following me..
AHH i have never been sooo pissed off in my life.
ok so the thing is that im about to turn 16 in june and i have a younger sister who is 14 right now. ANd she said that our parents are gonna let her do Drivers ED this summer. AND They wont let me.
AND im GONNA be 16. SO not only they will let her Do it before me BUT she is YOUNGER too. HOW EFFIn unfair is that. I just like wanna KILL myself now. IM soo pissed off.
what can i do to stop this from happeing.
cuz there is NO way that she is gonna take drivers ed before me. THERE is no way.
how can i make my parents make her take it when shes also 16.
how old can you be to get your permit?.. cause im ohio you have to be 15 1/2 and i dont see the point in her taking it cause you have to be 15 1/2 to take drivers ed.. anyways.. ask them why
I was just wondering if any of you really like, celebrate a year and a half anniversary with your boyfriend/girlfriend? If so, what are some cute, little gifts you get your significant other? You don't have to know anything about my boyfriend, just general answers for anyone would be fine. Or, do you think just spending the day together is enough? Thank you. =)
i do.. lol.. well i will.. we've been together for 6 months, and we're going to celebrate that.. lol.. then a year yea and half and so on. but yea.. if you havent, make him a photo book, and then put lil love things and hearts all in it. or make him a really cute picture, like my b/f can do this on the computer, but you can go somewhere, and take a picture of you too, and then you can have any backround you want of it, and put like a poem on the side.. go out for dinner, or movies, or just have a movie night at your or his house. hope i helped
I really need help! our 6 month anniversary is coming up on the 9th of april and what to get him something!! ( it can't be too expensive i am only 13) I wrote him a poem on valentines day but I don't know if I should write him another one or not!!! I need to give him something very sentimental (if you reply by saying I should give him a kiss I will rate you very very low!)
get a picture of you and make it really pretty, like a pretty backround. with like on the side, a poem or a love thing. dont do just another poem, like if you do, put it on the picture, if you dont know how to do it on the computer, then youll have to pay to get it done. but my boyfriend got me that for our 1 month. and then x*ma.. and he;ll probably make one for our 6 months. its a very cute idea. or what i did, was i made him a photo book. i put pictures of dances, and just pictures of us in it, then put lil love things and hearts all out it. hope i helped!
yes u ave helped mi be confident but i dont think i can do this but i cnt give up on him
talk to him... try to be more open
im 13/f and i am in love with this boy i have bn for ages nd ages i cnt give up on him i like him soo soo much i want to tell him how i feel but im 2 shy and i think he wud say no :(
aw hun, dont be scared, the worst he said say is he doesnt like you in return.. hope i helped
I want to go to get myself measured for my bra size but Im embarrased of showing my breats to anyone! What can i do?
Oh and should your bra be very tight on you, a little loose, or fits just right but not tight?
you dont have to tkae off your shirt and bra if you dont want too. and you should get one that you can stick 2 or 3 fingers in the strap in the back with no problem.. hope i helped
Hi, I was really friendly with two girls from my class. I could do anything for them. I treated them like my sisters. But then one day because of a girl in opur class who was really close to my friends interfeared in our friendship and my friends broke up with me. I tried speaking to them but they just used abusive language and did not even talk. Then I avoided them and they too did the same. Soon I became friendly with all the popular girls of our class (which they wanted to so much when we were friends) and I made abvoyfriend who is one of the most popular guys in skool (he's the football team captain and everyone used to fantasize about him) and I also became the Art and Craft Club president. Now my Ex-best friends are so jealous they are tellin people stuff about me and i had a fight with three girls from school because of them. Talking is of no use because they are not ready to do so. I feel like murdering them but that's not possible. Am hurt. Help.
talk to your new friends.. tell them whats going on, and if your x friends say anything to her, its not true.. tell your guy this too, tell everyone that you can, before they can get to them. and tell the ppl that they already told that they are lying, and believe that they want.. && im glad to here that you moved on and got better friends && a boy!.. congrats on that... hope i helped!
I was sitting in the car after helping someone move and I noticed my finger hurt...
its my Ring finger on my left hand and at the Middle Knuckle the finger turns to the right and is a little Swollen!!!
Ils only a sharp pain when I touch the Knuckle.....I can abend it and theres A very Dull pain!
No Bruising!
What is wrong?!?!?!?!
Thanks
it might be broke, or you just pulled it out of its sockit((spelling)) get an xray to see whats wrong..
i have this question and i only have gotten one answer for it so far. i need way more responses im desprate! the subject was:
so theres this guy[s]
send me your question and ill answer it
Let's start this off by saying that I'm a gay, highschool aged girl. I started noticing this cute girl constantly taking glances at me in one of my classes. I mentioned this to a friend of mine who had known that said girl liked her and said girl had done the same thing to her. I am fairly certain she likes me because she's also made attempts to go out of her way to talk to me before that class. However, she's very shy.
I recently just told her that I knew she liked me, that I liked her, and that we should go out discreetly by whisper, and she replied with an indifferent, hard-to-read "ok". And it was sort of ignored after that because it made things awkward.
I have tried to make arrangements to hang out with her, but the one time I asked she said she didn't know what her arrangements would be. I gave her contact details, but she didn't try and reach me... again, I am still fairly certain she likes me because she gave me knowing glances after the incident. It's very hard to find a place to talk to her at, and I need a way of getting her out of her shell.
Any ideas? I'll be very willing to give more information if asked.
are you sure shes gay?..cause if she isnt, then she might be scared now.. lol.. i didnt understand your third sentance. but yea, she just might be shy, hmm.. maybe write her a note??.. and ask her and tell her to write back... hope i helped
theres this girl olivia i really like and idk how to get her to like me she is on and off and idk how to get her i want her so much
well, sweet talk her.. tell her she looks nice, and pretty!.. if you have her number, maybe try calling her?.. flirt with her, but just make sure you tell her see looks nice, you like her hair if its done a differnt way, and if it is, and she does it again, then that means, she likes you, cause she wouldnt of done it again if she didnt.. right?.. lol.. hope i helped!!
Okay, so on my right side of my body. I have had a serious pain there off and on for the past month or so. It's a sharp pain, that gets worse when I stretch, or am overly active. I am suppose to be going to the doctor, so do not say go to a doctor. I would like info, on if anyone has any idea what it could be. or how to help. if you need more info please message me.
try not sleeping on that side, get the pressure off it.. hope i helped && it gets better!
I have to give a speech in english class soon... i know what topic i'm doing it on, its just that I get super nervous for public speaking!
and also the guy i have a crush on is in that class and i don't want to look like a loser in front of him.
How do i get rid of this fear?
look over everyones heads, like not up up up, but just right over their heads, so it looks like your looking at them, but your really not.. or just look at the teacher, i have to give speeches in teen leadership, and i just look over everyone, and im fine!.. good luck, hope i helped
sometimes i feel like i get really bloated, and that sometimes after I eat, I get super bloated. Is there any way that I can help it? Because it hurts so much, and it's not as if I eat things that are unhealthy, because I usually like to eat salads and vegetables. So if one day I decide to have like a slice of pizza, I get really bloated and it takes a few days to go down, so is there anything I can do about this?
your body is use to eating healthy, and when you put pizza in there, its not really use to it.. hope i helped