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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

advice

when sould i hve sex

umm theres not a certain age
its whenever you are ready and want to...
and preferably with someone you really love and care about :)

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well prussian blue are they really bad and from the kkk becase well i heard a song that popped out and it was pretty good its called ill bleed for you has anyone heard it? and can you tell me background information on them and are they really racisit?

yes they are SO EXTREMELY RACIST. If I were you, I wouldnt listen to their music. If you live in an area where there is anyone that isnt white and Cristian they will get VERY offended. These two girls were brought up to be racist and their parents thought it was cute for them to sing hate songs when they were very young. The girls didnt even know what they were saying and that it was very wrong. Now they have grown up and that is what they believe because thier parents were racist people. If you have a soul then dont listen to their music!

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Well we have to do paper mache on monday so the teacher told us not to wear any valuble clothing cuz it's gonna get messy and dirty. But I have very little clothes (exactly 5 outfits for the school days). What can I do?

maybe wear a pair of pants
and then wear a pajama shirt
because you are more likely
to get paper mache on your shirt
if you are working with your hands

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i'm 15/f. my b/f and i have been goin out for a year and a half. we've only had sex once and then he used a condom. other than that he just 'sits in me' if you know what i mean. essentially it is sex but he doesn't cum in me. would there be any way i could get pregnant? from pre-ejaculation or anything?
thank you!

yes you can get pregnant from pre-ejaculation.
you can get pregnant anytime he puts it in you whether he comes or not. so please just be safe and wear a condom. its so much safer.

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15/f - 15/m

sorry in advance if this is a tad long...

Tonight my boyfriend and I has sex for the first time. I DO NOT regret it all, I really do love him no matter what anyone else.. you can't tell me how I feel about it. I understand alot of people are against intercourse at young ages, but please don't lecture me.. just help.

The Problem: We both had never has sex before this. We were comfortable with it, but still nervous at the same time. First time gitters I guess. Anyways, as he began to cum, he started to pull out. As he pulled out the comdon slipped off. Still half way in and half way out... as soon as we noticed, I pulled the condom out. We stopped and didnt continue at all. We are both scared. We are not sure, if anything accidently fell in or what. I think we are over thinking the negatives, and not focous on some of the positives. Anything that can help us. We CANT tell our parents, they would kill us.. and we are both the oldest so no older sibling to run to... If it helps anything, I just got off my peirod last week around Thursday. We need people who know what they are talking about. We're scared

I guess one the worst things that could have happened did.. Things go wrong, and I guess it just wanst our day.

Please anything..

Thanks so much !!

first get a pregnancy test
and then go from there
youre probably fine because if
the condom was still in you i
doubt anything got in you because
all of the cum was like in the little
pocket of the condom

next time, your boyfriend probably
needs to wear a smaller condom

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Theres this guy that im like really flirty with, were gonna hook up eventually

but i need something to call him
like, not personal or anyhting.
like, he calls me baby but i have no idea what i can say back to that cause hes a guy and all

heres some...

- babe
- baby
- cutie
- hottie
- sweetie
- sexy

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My aunt told me that the reason why guys never seem interested in me is not because I'm unattractive or anything, but because I'm "completely unapproachable" (even though I'm not aware of it) and people don't want to be around me because they're afraid that I'll make fun of them........even though I've never made fun of anyone before.


How can I be more "approachable"? Smile more, stop listening to my iPod in public, what should I do to make myself seem more open?




SMILE
i have that problem too
people might think youre a bitch
if you dont smile ever
and direct your smile at a certain
guy if you want him to come up
and talk to you
EYE CONTACT
pay attention to people when they
are talking to show your interest
BE NICE

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okay so i have a couple questions about discharge :]

1. about how long should you have it. like ive had mine since like..6th grade and im in 8th now.

2. okay so do you have to wear a pantyliner thing when you have discharge. like me i ussaully just wear my underwear because i have discharge EVERY SINGLE DAY. and like its kinda a waste to get pads and shioot. so yeah. i just thro it in the wash.

3. okay this kinda has to due with the question up there. like.. since i have discharge every day. is that like normal? i mean like i dont get it when i get my period obvouisly but like.. i have it any other time. just like always. so yeah. is that normal or what?


thankkkkkkkkkkkkkkyou. :]

nope you dont have to wear a pad when you get discharge. i dont know of any girls that do wear pads when they get discharge. but if you want to then thats totally fine. its completely normal to get it all the time. every girl gets it.

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Hey guys,
(14/f)
it is really important for me to lose weight in one week. I would like to drop like 10 pounds or around there. If anyone has any methods to help he do this, can you PLEASE tell me!! I will not eat seriosuly if that is what i takes me. Any advice is GREATLY appreactied!!
Thanks in advance:)

it is possible to lose 10 pounds in a week
my aunt went on the south beach diet and lost 9 pounds in three days.

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i need something to do with two friends tonight. anything. please

movies
sleepover
mall
shopping
mini golf (depending on where you live)
go to someones house
call some guys and hang out with them

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can vegetarians eat animal crackers? is that considered eating fiber, but thinking about meat? i just want to know... :]

lol yea they can..
theres no meat in animal crackers
so yeah they can

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okay, so when i am standing, i have a 4 pack, and my stomach is totally flat, which i like. but, when i sit down, it gets really big and i get love handles. does this happen to everyone? and, how can i get rid of it?

thx!!!

yes this is normal. it happens to everyone. theres this girl on my gymnastics team that is like teeny and short and she literally looks like a 3rd grader (shes a freshman) and she has the FLATTEST stomach ever but when she like sits down her stomach does the same thing. so dont worry. just do crunches and that will help

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my mom doesn't ever spend the night at my friend's house.. and she tells me that its because she doesn't know what kind of people her parents are. so yah what should i do?

have your mom talk to your friends parents when shes dropping you off or something. or have your friend sleepover and your house a few times first so your parents can meet and stuff.

good luck xoxo

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ok so at my school theres this girl thats like really mean and that why alot of people don't like her. i heard she had sex in 7th grade and then in 8th grade beat up some other girl and she thinks she's really tough and she isn't and she's like the biggest bitch ever and she's trouble and what i mean by that is that she goes to court alot or always is getting in trouble. and she does drugs to.. i don't understand why is she so mean and full of herself? and why don't her parents do nething abt her?

her parents either...

- dont care
- dont know just how many bad things she is doing
- are always working and dont have time to pay attention to her
- are the same way as their daughter
- care, but they cant find a way to stop her

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Ok so i wanted to get my hair perm staright should ii ge tit perminate or should i judt straigten it everyday
which one is better ??

i think its a better idea to just straighten it everyday. perming your hair straight sucks because then if one day you decide youre sick of it and you want to curl it or make it wavy it wont work. i also heard that when you get it permed straight you cant wash your hair for like a week! eww! it is also much less expensive to just straighten it everyday and if you get a good straighter, like a chi, it wont take very long. good luck!

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Ok, so I'm fourteen... The girl I like/likes me, is fifteen.. She also likes someother guys, but I dunno how many... But we talk A LOT over IM and texting, but I don't ever see her at school 'cause we don't have any classes together.. And I already tried asking her out but she said she still had to figure out what guy she liked, because she really wasn't sure on who she like the MOST.. I know that sounds bad but I REALLY like this girl.. Any ideas on what I should do??

well she might like you the most but she doesnt want to go out with you because she is worried about what people might think about her going out with a younger guy. all you can do is just keep flirting with her.. being nice to her.. try to figure out ways to see her at school. like maybe find out where her locker is and go try to say hi to her there. good luck!

xoxox

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I've had insomnia since I was twelve. Though when I slept over at my fiance's apartment (We just slep together, no sex or anything.) I slept through the whole night. Why?

maybe theres something in the back of your mind that you are scared of when you sleep alone.. or you just dont like sleeping alone. he probably makes you feel safer and protected.

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13/f

yeah your pictures are showing up
idk what the person 2 below me is talking about..
but anyways you have an amazing smile!!! i wish i had your smile =]
and you shouldnt be so insecure. it doesnt matter what you look like on the outside.. its the inside that counts!

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is it possible for a girl to get pregnant if a guy cums while hes in a pool, hot tub, or bath tub while hes with you?

no its not possible because the sperm dies as soon as it enters the water

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I am afraid that because of the story below that every time I wear a pair of pants she is thinking that I lost weight and the pants that I am wearing are big. However, today I tried on two pairs of summer pants and asked her what she thought as I tried each one on and she said the pants look fine. So what I am asking is am I overreacting and projecting what I think she will say. ORIGINAL STORY TO REFRESH YOUR MEMORY: I am thin and A FEW DAYS AGO when I came home from work I changed into a tee-shirt but wore the same pants I wore to work. She asked me as I sat down to eat if I lost weight, and I said no, but this upset me. I said to her that she always tells me I look beautiful. She said you do look beautiful but your pants look bigger. And she told me that I am skinny enough

okay not to be mean or anything, but you really need to stop posting this question. first of all, youre probably skinny. second of all, you shouldnt care what anyone thinks of you anyways. all you need to do is go to a BMI calculator and see if your weight is healthy or not.
stop being SO self concious!

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