ok so at my school theres this girl thats like really mean and that why alot of people don't like her. i heard she had sex in 7th grade and then in 8th grade beat up some other girl and she thinks she's really tough and she isn't and she's like the biggest bitch ever and she's trouble and what i mean by that is that she goes to court alot or always is getting in trouble. and she does drugs to.. i don't understand why is she so mean and full of herself? and why don't her parents do nething abt her?
saxxman5 answered Saturday April 14 2007, 11:21 pm: this girl is like this only because her parents 1. spoiled her, 2. they dont care enough about her well being. i mean, yes kids do have sex in 7th grade, in my school kids did it in 7th grade, that will always be there as long as kids wanna get laid. girls beating girls up happens alot as you get older. my suggestion is that u stay away from her. she can end up in jail for all you can care. [ saxxman5's advice column | Ask saxxman5 A Question ]
solidadvice4teens answered Saturday April 14 2007, 8:00 pm: The girl is clearly troubled and the behavior is a cry for help or a call for attention from parents who don't give it to her. You really don't know her whole story or why she's in court or doing drugs other that hearsay.
While she may appear to be a total bitch or really tough inside she's crumbling and doesn't know how to deal with life. This has everything to do with her attitude, outlook and being snarly or full of herself. She needs attention and if she cannot get positive attention neagative attention suits her just the same.
Don't judge her like so many of your classmates may be doing but instead thhink about her misfortune and the fact that nobody including her parent's either care or know how to rescue her from herself if they do.
They may in fact be oblivious to her drug use too. We just don't know. The best thing you can do is stay clear of her and no matter what awful thing she does show her the power of love. Someone showing her a little love even when she's awful can help her as love and being a pacifist changes people's behavior around you or completely. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
XoXoXoXo77 answered Saturday April 14 2007, 7:51 pm: her parents either...
- dont care
- dont know just how many bad things she is doing
- are always working and dont have time to pay attention to her
- are the same way as their daughter
- care, but they cant find a way to stop her [ XoXoXoXo77's advice column | Ask XoXoXoXo77 A Question ]
notanotherdummblond answered Saturday April 14 2007, 7:38 pm: well most likely her parents don't care or have controll
its really sad but most kids take after their parents
"like mother like daughter"
it happens what can you do about it and remember you don't know the whole story so don't be so quick to judge [ notanotherdummblond's advice column | Ask notanotherdummblond A Question ]
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